My Second Account of Suspecting My Wife of Cheating

After the previous investigation and some understanding of my wife, I'll give you an explanation of this matter. Here's the outcome; I'm telling the truth, without any embellishment.
Last time, I mentioned that after I looked at my wife's phone, etc., she went on a business trip the next day. She was away for three days, and I was really looking forward to her return. My purpose was to continue investigating her affairs, or rather, to gather evidence. However, during her trip, I called her more than I usually do in a month, and I hinted at something. But things didn't go as planned; my wife lost her phone on her way back. This made me very angry, extremely angry. When she returned, I picked her up. She looked exhausted and unhappy. We argued as soon as we got home. But I reminded her that if I wasn't good to her and didn't want to be with her anymore, she could tell me, but please don't embarrass me. I'll marry you off properly, after all, we have no grudges against each other. But she kept denying it, so I chose to remain silent. However, my investigation didn't stop. I'll omit some details. When she got home, I took her to get her credit card replaced... and then we went on a shopping spree, buying everything for her and the child. I only let her pick out a pair of shoes for me because my purpose was simple: I wanted a pair of wedding shoes to be worn on the bed at our wedding, symbolizing our coming together, and now I should also have a pair of shoes to symbolize our separation, though she didn't understand the meaning. The next day, I obtained information through technical means. I was furious, extremely furious. Faced with all the evidence, my wife confessed. My wife is a very simple, naive, and kind woman. Even now, she still thinks she hasn't done anything wrong; she just wanted to communicate and talk with that person, listened to everything he said, and was very dependent on him. They only watched... We went to two movies and had dinner once. During that time, the man touched her inappropriately. My wife was cautious; she refused, but also acquiesced. Her reason for acquiescing was that he did this to everyone. My wife still believes she can control herself and doesn't think she's gone too far because she's very innocent and kind. But I have to admit that the man's methods were truly sophisticated. Even a seasoned woman of the night, let alone someone as innocent and kind as my wife, would probably be fooled by him. Then he found a girlfriend, and my wife felt deceived and became very depressed. That's when she realized she had feelings for him and became jealous. She confessed everything: he put his arm around her waist, kissed her forehead once, touched her hand, and showed excessive concern. Nothing happened during that time, and I believed him. Then I contacted him, but he ran away. Then I took him... My wife's brother went to the company and put pressure on them. During this time, I impulsively smashed the boss's desk with a knife and also slashed and chased away some people who wanted to show off. Before doing this, I stabbed myself in the chest in front of them, to make them see blood and tell them not to court death. I didn't want to hurt innocent people. Later, I went to the police station, gave a statement, and had my fingerprints taken. Then, they suggested mediation, but I never compromised. I told the company that if they wanted me to go to jail, I would; if they didn't, I would leave. But my demand remained the same: I wanted to see that person. There was nothing wrong before, but he ran away. How could my wife face anyone? So, the day after I left the police station, that person came back to see me. I did what a man should do: I didn't do anything to him. I publicly apologized to my wife and the company, and even knelt down to apologize to me. My attitude was very sincere. I accepted him and understood his situation. Of course, he recounted the whole story to me again, without a single flaw, it was very truthful. My wife loves me and our family even more now. For the sake of the children, I chose to accept it. Now I've also realized my past shortcomings. We're giving each other time. We have a clear division of labor: I'll handle the impact and pain this has caused at home, and her job is simply to reflect on this emotional episode and not ask about the family's feelings, just process her own issues. At first, she wouldn't eat or drink. But after I told her that her emotional state now depended solely on the two of them, she started to cheer up. I just wanted to break things down, separating the emotions, so she could have a clear head. Emotional infidelity requires emotional and familial support to mend things. Through this experience, my wife has also come to understand some people and things, and more importantly, she understands what a reliable man is. The current plan is for my wife and him to resume their previous work, hoping to quell the rumors. To be fair and impartial, my wife also made mistakes; flies don't land on eggs without cracks. But my wife is truly kind and naive; she was simply misled. I chose to be forgiving because I feel that sometimes forgiveness is more powerful than punishment.

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