How to be a good single man

1. One of the two men should be someone you know and like. You can choose your boyfriend, lover, or husband (I'll refer to him as your husband for now). This not only provides a sense of security, but more importantly, your husband understands you, knows your personality and preferences, which facilitates a lively atmosphere, tacit cooperation, and perfect coordination. The other man should ideally be a healthy stranger. This arrangement avoids unexpected complications, allowing everyone to go their separate ways afterward, protecting privacy and preventing unnecessary emotional entanglements.
2. Don't deliberately pursue a threesome; otherwise, it will backfire and be counterproductive. With the support and cooperation of your husband, the most important first step is to jointly overcome psychological and mental pressure, choosing a relaxed, natural, and gradual approach, letting things unfold naturally. For example, before actually doing it, the three of you could have a meal together, chat at a bar, play a fun sport together, or go on an outdoor trip together to get to know each other better. More importantly, your husband can convey your needs and preferences to the stranger.
3. Choose a safe, comfortable, and cozy environment for your threesome. Having your own independent apartment is ideal, followed by borrowing a friend's place. A third option is a quiet hotel in a secluded tourist area, preferably a family-run independent shop or a farmhouse. Avoid unfamiliar and noisy public places such as nightclub rooms, sauna centers, or ordinary hotels.
4. Alcohol can enhance the experience. Even if you never drink, choose a light and smooth champagne or red wine. A slight flush on your cheeks is fine, but don't get drunk. Enjoying drinks and conversation while watching good music or movies is one of the best preludes. A good atmosphere is key to enhancing the enjoyment of your threesome.
5. After drinking and chatting for two or three hours, the effects of the alcohol will begin to wear off. When you feel your cheeks slightly flushed, it's best to snuggle in your husband's arms and use your eyes and gentle touch to signal to him that you need his caresses.
6. The key to the initial preparations lies in the husband's ability and performance. Creating this atmosphere is not easy, so seize the opportunity. The woman can suggest that her husband go to the bathroom together to shower. Note that it should be the two of them, not all three of them. This naturally lays the groundwork for the preparations before sex. Avoid going straight to the point when having sex with a strange man for the first time, and especially avoid showering with a third party without foreplay. Try to avoid any awkward or unnatural situations.
7. First, arouse your own and your husband's desire. This is best done with just the two of you. After showering, the woman should look radiant, and if she wears revealing clothing, coupled with some caresses and teasing from the bathroom, the two of you should continue this intimate behavior when you return to the living room. This is a signal, and also a way of publicly arousing passion. The other man sitting next to you should be prepared. He should get up and leave, preferably taking a shower alone.
8. Women must wash their hair while showering, but don't blow-dry it completely; drying it to about 70% is more attractive. Use a plant-scented shampoo instead of regular shampoo. Use a special body wash with a natural fragrance to wash your body as well, leaving your skin clean and smooth. Before showering, urinate and defecate, and ideally use a special vaginal wash to thoroughly cleanse the vagina and eliminate any possible odors. Many women neglect to clean their anus; a simple method is to apply soap to your ring finger and repeatedly rotate and thrust it inside the anus (or you can use a smooth, clean, thin cotton ball soaked in soap wrapped around your finger and inserted as far as possible). Cleanse your face until your fingers are odorless, then apply a lubricating cream or lotion to the inside of your anus. This will not only clean and lubricate but also leave a pleasant fragrance. If a woman has thick pubic hair, it should be trimmed. It is best to shave the pubic hair around the labia majora, perineum, and anus. Do not spray too much perfume on the vulva, and never spray perfume inside the vagina, as some men are particularly sensitive to the smell of perfume, and some people will vomit if they lick or smell too strong perfume. In addition, the strong perfume smell mixed with the smell of vaginal fluid will produce an even more unpleasant odor and may cause vaginal discharge. Therefore, when applying perfume, you can use your fingers to dab a little perfume on the pubic hair and perineum.
9. When a woman's desire is aroused, her psychological defenses are most vulnerable. When embracing and kissing each other, in addition to deep kisses where the tongue penetrates each other's mouths, most women like men to lick and kiss their necks, earlobes, and breasts. There are also several other sensitive areas on a woman's upper body that are most suitable for caressing during a threesome: the ears, armpits, collarbone, inner thighs, toes, and lower abdomen. Threesome sex should always start with the woman's upper body.
10. Among the methods of caressing a woman's upper body, three are most arousing to her: First, the woman lies on the bed with her upper body exposed and her eyes closed. Two men lie on either side of her, one on each side, and gently lick her earlobes and the base of her ears. Then, the two men slowly take her entire ear into their mouths and begin to lick her ear canals and the grooves of her earlobes with the tips of their tongues, trying to push their tongues as far into her ear canals as possible. When licking, they should roll gently, and both sides should be done simultaneously. When holding the ear in their mouths, they should not hold it for too long, and occasionally they should release their mouths and slide their tongues to the sides or the back of the ears to lick.
11. Another way to caress a woman is to place her arms flat on her head, with each man holding one of her arms. This creates a sense of control and aggression, while the woman feels controlled and violated. At this time, the two men begin to lick and kiss her armpits, with their tongues sliding from the armpits to her arms and ribs. This rough posture is filled with tenderness, and the intention of violation is filled with warmth.
12. The third way to caress a woman: Two men, one on each side, caress and kiss her breasts. It's foolish to immediately suck on her nipples; you need to tease her slowly to arouse her stronger desire. A simple method is to "besiege and attack the reinforcements." Gently slide your fingers along the edge of her breasts while your tongue starts licking from her cleavage. When she starts to caress the men's heads with one hand on each side, that's when she desperately needs to kiss her nipples. At this moment, the woman suddenly feels a desire to conquer the men. When she sees two men kneeling on her breasts like children, licking her nipples, this visual impact is more intoxicating than simply enjoying breast stimulation with her eyes closed.
13. The above double tongue and lip techniques can also be applied to a woman's inner thighs and feet. Don't neglect her feet; licking and kissing her feet is equally stimulating and arousing. The methods are: first, lick the soles of her feet with the tip of your tongue; second, lick the spaces between her toes with the tip of your tongue; third, take all five toes into your mouth and lick them with your tongue; fourth, suck on each toe individually. Unlike licking and kissing her upper body, you can use a different method: two men can simultaneously lick and kiss one foot, such as sucking on the big toe and little toe at the same time. Most women who have experienced this find it more stimulating than simply stroking and kissing her thighs.
14. Remove her underwear, spread her legs, and attack her clitoris; first, let her mysterious little vagina be naturally presented to the strange man to arouse his sexual desire; this step should be arranged by her husband. After this step is done calmly, then let the strange man do the rest of the woman's work. In order to eliminate the woman's shyness and nervousness, the husband should lie on the woman's upper body and hold her tightly in his arms, stroking her hair with one hand and her breasts with the other, kissing her lips and whispering words of care for her. This will make her feel safe and her body will naturally relax, opening the door for the strange man's attack.
15. Appreciating a woman's vulva is an art, and many enthusiasts have offered insightful discussions on this topic. However, appreciating a woman's vulva in a threesome is different from ordinary appreciation. The key here lies in evaluating the vulva. Evaluating a vulva is not the same as tasting it. When a strange man is on top of a woman, the husband should act as the commander, spreading her vulva open so that the stranger can admire it from below. At the same time, both men can freely comment on the beauty before them. For example, the husband can ask the stranger about his girlfriend's pubic hair (sparse or curly), the thickness and color of her labia, the width and location of her urethra, the distribution and shape of her hymen, the size and shine of her clitoris, the depth and tightness of her vagina, the smoothness and roundness of her cervix, and the beauty of her anus wrinkles. He can also ask if she wants to touch her labia, lick her clitoris, or have sex with her. At this point, the commentator is burning with desire, and the listener is aroused. Then, ask him if he wants to taste her vaginal fluids. At this point, the stranger will likely be rubbing his hard penis, drooling, and nodding in agreement. At this moment, the woman will know what to do, right? But remember, when you dip your fingers in your vaginal fluid and feed it to him, don't forget that there are two mouths open waiting to be eaten. Listening to two men comment on the taste of your vaginal fluid must be another kind of soul-stirring enjoyment...
16. The most soul-stirring and exciting way to lick a vagina is for two men to lick it together. When two people lick at the same time, they not only need to master the angle, but also need to cooperate tacitly. The method of alternating is to have one person cooperate by spreading the legs and opening the vagina; the method of nibbling and dividing the cake is to have one person lick the clitoris and the other lick the anus at the same time. The position is as follows: The woman is lying flat with her legs apart and her buttocks lifted, forming an arch shape. One man sits on her buttocks, and the two men sit below, their positions crossed and parallel. It's not just about licking with the tip of your tongue, but also sucking with your mouth. You need to suck not only on her clitoris and vaginal opening, but also on her anus. The more intensely you suck, the louder the sound, and the more you try to extract something, the more excited she will become. If the woman has hemorrhoids, don't be shy; this is a rare stimulating point. If she has internal hemorrhoids, try to gently suck them out, and then lick the hemorrhoids with a soft, moist tongue. This is also a great source of pleasure for the woman.
17. The best position for a woman to perform oral sex on men: One man assumes a 69 position under the woman, with his head and buttocks elevated by placing pillows or blankets under them. This position is quite common and will not be elaborated upon here. The other man should lie flat in front of the man opposite him, with his legs spread apart and resting on the legs of the man below him, his penis pressed tightly against the other man's penis. The closer the two penises are, the better. This creates a strong visual impact on the woman, and she will be compelled to grasp both penises. It is worth mentioning that the husband should ideally be positioned below the woman, while the other man lies supine in front of her. Since the woman's back is to her husband, he cannot see her face, reducing psychological pressure for both of them. The woman's body also blocks the view of both men, naturally reducing the awkwardness of them facing each other.
18. When a woman is performing oral sex on two men, she should avoid spending too much time on one and neglecting the other. Men have strong self-esteem during sex, but can also be quite vulnerable. It's important to share fairly and treat both men equally. Even when kissing one penis, don't forget to use your other hand to stimulate the other man's penis. A woman can hold one penis in each hand for close comparison and appreciation, or press both erect penises together and lick them simultaneously with her tongue. She can also press both glans together and hold them in her mouth, rotating her tongue around them. Alternatively, she can rub both penises while sliding her tongue between them. Men don't like it when a woman intentionally spits out saliva during oral sex. Even if she doesn't like the taste of the man's vaginal fluid, she can let the saliva in her mouth flow naturally onto the man's penis. Since the woman is above both penises, her saliva will naturally flow down when her mouth is slightly open, which is both elegant and pleasing to both.
19. In threesomes, one person penetrates the vagina while the other penetrates the mouth. For true threesome enthusiasts, the husband can find immense satisfaction in stroking his wife's hair, watching her excited expression as she is penetrated by another man, and listening to her moans and groans. If she is a woman who dislikes the taste of semen and never accepts her husband ejaculating in her mouth, this is the perfect opportunity. He can ride on her chest, masturbating with his penis in her mouth. As she approaches orgasm, he can command her to open her mouth and stick out her tongue, ejaculating freely, even ordering her to drink it. Rest assured, at this moment, she will be exceptionally cooperative. Even the gentlest, most virtuous, and conservative woman loses her willpower and becomes mentally confused once her vagina is penetrated and stimulated. Her mind goes blank. Normally, when a wife performs oral sex on her husband, her mind is clearer and more rational because her vagina doesn't receive strong stimulation, allowing her to control herself. Unless she also enjoys oral sex and doesn't mind the taste of semen, it's very difficult for a wife to accept ejaculation in her mouth. If you enjoy watching strange men ejaculate in her mouth, simply switch roles. If two men ejaculate in her mouth separately, remember that they should coordinate well. Regardless of who ejaculates first, the woman's vagina should ideally be under intense impact.
20. Another common form of intercourse in threesomes involves simultaneous intercourse and anal sex. The position is that one man lies on his back, the woman climbs on top of him and inserts his penis into her vagina, while another man inserts his penis into her anus from behind. It's important to note that if the woman isn't a fan of masturbation, even if she's never had any experience, her anus, like her vagina, is very elastic and can easily accommodate a normal penis. The key is to use scientific methods and techniques. First, before intercourse, you should use your mouth, tongue, and fingers to stimulate and expand her anus for a long time. This serves two purposes: first, to alleviate her fear, and second, because prolonged stimulation of the anus by fingers will numb the nerve endings and relax the anal sphincter muscles, making it easier for a larger penis to enter. Secondly, you should lubricate the anus with saliva or vaginal fluid (using a special lubricant is even better), especially immersing the inside of the anus in these fluids to reduce friction and pain during insertion, creating all the necessary conditions for penetration. The most difficult first step during intercourse is penile insertion. Even after the glans is inside, avoid forcefully inserting it all at once. Pull the glans out, apply lubricant again, and simultaneously insert some more lubricant into the anus before reinserting. Repeat this 3-5 times before gradually inserting deeper into the anus. Before truly penetrating deep into the anus, the penis inserted vaginally should stop thrusting and be pulled outwards. It's easier to wed the glans at the hymen. At this point, one glans is wedged at the vaginal opening and the other at the anus. The woman will suddenly experience a strong sense of emptiness and an urgent desire to be penetrated. At this moment, the penis inserted vaginally should yield to the penis inserted anally. Once the penis is fully inserted, begin vaginal thrusting. Remember that the piston-like thrusting rhythm of both penises must be coordinated and synchronized. Ideally, it should be a brisk, alternating thrusting motion. Otherwise, improper coordination can cause swelling and pain in the woman's lower abdomen, which may persist for a long time. In this type of intercourse, it's best for the woman to decide who penetrates which part. After the previous sexual practices, the woman should be very clear about the length and girth of both penises. Assigning the larger penis to the anus is not a wise move. Actually, the solution is simple: which man you choose to lie on top of determines the division of labor between the two penises.
21. Two penises on one vagina is one of the most popular positions for women. The position is the same as above, or you can lie on your side. The man attacks from different directions, but both penises penetrate the same spot. This method usually allows the woman to achieve multiple orgasms. There are several methods, one of which is alternating penetration; the woman takes the initiative.

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