January 1st! Good news!

January 1st, the beginning of the new year, marked exactly one week since I officially entered this circle. Actually, I've been following 69 (a type of online dating platform) for almost two years. After initial curiosity and hesitation, I ultimately chose to stop and follow my heart... To show my sincerity, I directly upgraded to a King-level membership, partly to demonstrate my commitment and partly to connect with more friends. Over the past week, I've gradually met some couples, and I'd like to share some insights from our conversations
. Everyone has their own perspective, so just take it as it comes. 1. Don't forget your initial intention, maintain a calm mind. For me, I enjoy caring for a woman with another man. Seeing her reach multiple orgasms through my efforts excites me and gives me a great sense of accomplishment. But achieving this goal alone is indeed a bit difficult for me... Also, watching another man's penis going in and out of a woman's vagina is a sensory stimulation I enjoy. This kind of sex, which might seem taboo to most people, doesn't harm anyone in my eyes, so why can't I pursue this kind of sex that is unrelated to love but equally beautiful? Yes! This is what I want: threesomes! As for skating sex, BDSM, and dominatrix, everyone has the right to choose. We don't need to impose our ideas on others, but we also don't need to blindly cater to them. For example, I once met a couple who, after learning I was a single man through QQ, their first words were simply, "One thousand yuan!" Not a word more, not a word less. I asked, "Didn't you try to understand my situation first?" He replied, "There's no such thing as a free lunch. Why should I let you sleep with my wife without paying?" I had a million things to say, but I only managed to say, "Maybe we're not compatible." Unexpectedly, he immediately sent me uncensored photos of my wife. I admit, she is indeed beautiful, but I truly felt sorry for her. I can imagine how arrogant he would be even if we did have sex. I'm here to find different kinds of sex, not to satisfy my lust. My ideal sex must be equal, mutually respectful, and mutually pleasurable. I think it's perfectly acceptable to bring a thoughtful little gift to the couple on the first meeting, pay for the meal, and pay for the hotel room. This reflects a person's character and upbringing. But directly discussing money—what does that mean to the three people involved? Therefore, I think single men in this circle must have this mindset: if it works out, great; if not, just make a few more friends you get along with. If that's not even possible, then looking at success stories and fantasizing in members' photo albums isn't bad either, haha!
2. Treat others with sincerity and reciprocate with heart. Brother Fang was the first person I met on 69, and also the first person to proactively add me. I was so excited at the time; it felt like closing my first deal. They were somewhere else and didn't have many opportunities to come to Chongqing, but based on the principle of sincerity, as long as it didn't involve confidentiality or privacy, I answered all my questions without exaggeration or deception. Perhaps he sensed my sincerity, so the more we talked, the more comfortable we became. He not only told me a lot about things to pay attention to in Chongqing, which I learned a lot from, but we also talked about many hobbies, food, past experiences, and many other miscellaneous things. It was really comforting. Unfortunately, a rift developed later, which I still regret to this day. However, it wasn't his fault, but mine, which I'll explain later. In short, I'm still grateful to him. Besides Fang Ge, I also met several nice couples. My overall impression was that everyone wanted to find a suitable partner and was quite sincere, but they were all very wary. However, I understand this feeling because my situation is actually similar to theirs. I'm worried about making the wrong friends and bringing harm into reality. In a sense, my situation is probably more specific than most couples'. I think patience is very important at this time. Don't get impatient just because the other person asks detailed questions. It's normal for them to be wary. I think you should stay calm and say what you can say without lying (for example, if it's only 8 centimeters, don't say it's 18 centimeters, it's really unnecessary). Couples who are looking for single men are more concerned with their emotional needs than their physical needs,
and their physical needs are often stronger. Based on the principle of limits, it might be more inclined towards group sex, of course, this is just a wild guess... If you can't say it, be frank and don't hide anything. If the other person understands, continue communicating; if not, part ways amicably. After all, there are many practical considerations. However, at least most couples I've encountered understand this. If the other person senses your sincerity, they will naturally lower their defenses. After all, no one is that much dumber than anyone else. After a period of getting to know each other, you can generally tell whether someone is good or bad. When everyone shares common interests and similar values, things will naturally become more harmonious and trusting of each other. For example, I sometimes send uncensored photos because, based on my experience, I consider myself fairly accurate in judging people. So, when I feel someone is trustworthy, I dare to send them. But at this time, it's crucial not to get carried away. Trust at this stage is actually fragile. Take my own experience, for example. Because I felt I was quite familiar with Fang Ge, already considered a good friend, I asked if his wife had seen my photos. Then I could clearly sense his displeasure. After a while, he replied with a series of short sentences: "What? We didn't even agree to meet, and we just met. What's the point of saying it?" I tactfully apologized and stopped initiating conversation. Later, although he said I was overthinking it, the relaxed and pleasant feeling was gone. I really didn't want to continue. However, I still sincerely want to say sorry, Brother Fang. I really didn't mean it. After this incident, I reflected that things are different in this circle compared to real life. Trust is real, but also fragile. It's not that people here are hypocritical, but rather that there are indeed more concerns. I think the best approach is that, since couples often have the man handling the initial screening and selection of single men, you should give the initiative to your partner. You can initiate conversations, but don't actively try to take the relationship to the next level. Again, just maintain a normal attitude. However, I also want to say something for single men: wanting to take the relationship to the next level is actually quite normal. While there might be some scum with impure motives, a significant portion genuinely want to open their hearts to the other person. After all, some people are impatient, some are patient; it's not good to generalize. 3.
Divider, this is the important part! It's almost 2 AM. Actually, while everyone else is resting these past few days due to the holiday, I've been very busy. I even worked overtime until 4 AM last night. The initial reason for writing this was when I was looking at the member recommendation ID photos around 6 or 7 AM. I saw an ID photo posted by a single man that was obviously photoshopped, and it was even using someone else's wife's picture. The couple allowed you to take the photo because they trusted you. Although the picture doesn't show their faces, I don't believe the couple would willingly use your photo for advertising. I think there should be a strong sense of contract in this circle. Mutual privacy protection should always be the top priority. If you can't do that, please leave. If one day, someone only posts your scumbag's photo on 69.com, would you be happy? Do not do to others what you would not have them do to you! If someone did that to me, I would rather die than let them suffer! My principle in life is to treat people sincerely, but never repay kindness with evil!
PS: The first two points are just my own insights, you could say they're just theoretical. Just take them with a grain of salt, because I haven't succeeded in doing it myself yet, haha! Finally, I'm using this blog post to commemorate the first day of the new year, and at the same time, to cheer myself up. I'm sure I'll encounter a first time that will leave me with wonderful memories at age 69!

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