Information to appease your wife

A few days ago, my neighbor got drunk and told his friend about my hint that he and my wife had a relationship. My friend then told my wife. My wife is extremely ashamed and angry, and she still hasn't spoken to me. I sent her many messages to coax her, and here's one of the longer ones. I'm asking for advice on whether this will work. [Wife, stop arguing. We only have sexual fantasies right now; we haven't done anything inappropriate. Is it really necessary for you to be like this? Aren't you just afraid of losing face? Let me tell you, what's wrong with a loving and normal couple having sexual fantasies? Is it immoral? Go online and check if I'm the abnormal one or you? At our age, we don't have the energy to argue. We're like our left and right hands, like family. Why do you have so much energy to argue? I consider you the person I love most, you might not understand. Please read all the messages I send you carefully. Don't think that me making you fantasize about others means I don't like you; it means I like you even more, a love that surpasses everything. The reason for this is this: I worked in another city for so many years, and when I first came back, no matter how perfectly you behaved, you couldn't avoid gossip. You should understand that.] During that time, I saw Brother Li hug you and you didn't push him away. I also saw xxx hug you and you didn't seem to care. I learned about xx's advances towards you, and I also learned that you often came home before dawn! How could I not overthink things? For those few months, we argued and fought every day. But this wasn't what I wanted, and it felt like I was letting you down after all you'd done for this family. But I'm a human, not an animal. I couldn't stop thinking about it; I couldn't control myself. I was angry and sad, almost going crazy. To avoid remembering the past, xx tried to find me through his friends, but I wouldn't let him find me. I couldn't bear to recall the details he described of having sex with you. Back then, I was naive enough to think he was talking about someone else. Later, I went to see a psychologist to ask how to change my mindset. Because we didn't know each other, I told them everything. The doctor asked me if I loved you. I said I loved her very much. The doctor asked me if I wanted a divorce. I said I didn't. The doctor said to think it over before answering, and asked if I would love her forever. I said definitely. Then she took me to a room where she played music and we chatted. The doctor asked me, "If you love her, would you accept her using sex toys to masturbate?" I said I'd be very willing, and I'd even look forward to seeing it. The doctor asked why, and I said it's just a tool; it brings her pleasure, and that makes me feel good. The doctor then asked, "If you're away from home for years and she has a relationship with her pet dog, could you accept that?" Because many lonely socialites do that. I thought for a long time and said I could accept it. The doctor asked why. I told the doctor that she wouldn't develop feelings for him; she just uses him as a tool, so her feelings would still be with me. The doctor asked me, "So what you really care about is the relationship, right?" I couldn't explain it clearly; my mind was a mess, so I just said, "I guess so." The doctor said, "That's it. If you love her, you should love her unconditionally. As long as she has you in her heart, why worry so much? You see those men as tools, tools to make your lover feel good. Your focus is on your lover, not those men. If you love her and your relationship is good, wouldn't you be happy if she's comfortable?" The doctor even mysteriously told me that her husband was finding men for her. I don't know if she was lying to comfort me or if it was true, but I was shocked. After that, we went to the doctor several more times. Each time, the doctor kept pressing me for details about your relationships with other men. When I couldn't answer, she would guide me, letting me imagine things. At first, I almost couldn't take it and got furious, but I gradually accepted it. The last time we went, the doctor guided me through happy scenarios, having me close my eyes. It felt so warm and joyful; the more I thought about it, the more I loved you. Slowly, I stopped arguing with you about other men. But gradually, I realized I was going too far, losing control. My only thought was to make you feel good, to see others caressing you, but it was just a fantasy. I thought about what I could accept: young, clean, gentle men. I imagined scenarios where we would caress and cherish each other. I found that after having this thought, I wouldn't argue with you anymore, and I wouldn't fight with you about other men. I even felt quite happy. I even hoped that others would admire you, be captivated by you, or hold you. But if you actually had a relationship with another man, I don't know how I would feel. I would definitely forgive you, but I'd probably be sad. In short, I feel I can't live without you for the rest of my life. Those two times you cried out in ecstasy, I felt it was so much more exciting than when we were alone at home. I know this isn't what most people consider normal, but it happens quite often in real life. I don't understand why, after having been with so many men, you can't accept this. Why couldn't you let me know? Is it just for the sake of saving face? How can I reiterate things to convince you that I will never distance myself from you because of this, but instead will love you even more?

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