Reflections from an Observer

First, I'd like to extend my greetings to all the couples, uncles, aunts, brothers, sisters, and single people on this website. Let me
start by saying that all my articles are original and plagiarized. My writing may not be the best, but they are all my own personal journeys, and I wonder if anyone else has resonated with them. I've written several blog posts before—some about making friends, some about recording my feelings, and some about telling my own story—but I felt they weren't quite right and deleted them. Today, I want to briefly talk about my gains and insights over this period.
I'm currently just an ordinary student, having spent thirteen years immersed in books, going through junior and senior high school, winning city-level awards, and even getting into the second-best high school in the province. Now, unfortunately, I've fallen into the pit of clinical medicine, a pit I'll be in for another ten years, and now I can only continue to drift along. (There's not a single lie in the above; if there were, I'd be single forever.)
From the first time I encountered this way of making friends until today, it's been about five months. During this time, whether it was my spirit, mind, body, or soul, to sum it up in a few words, I benefited immensely from the guidance
and support. I feel like a lucky one here; almost all the uncles, aunts, brothers, and sisters I met were genuine and reliable, with happy families and stable jobs. They treated me with great respect and generosity. I even met a couple of brothers and sisters. Because I have very little experience and have never considered messing around outside (because it's really unsafe and pointless), I didn't reach the "level" described by many experts who claim they can use their sexual prowess to make someone's partner infatuated. However, I felt the entire interaction was very pleasant and enjoyable. Everyone maintained cleanliness, privacy, and mutual respect, enjoying the process and finding unique joy amidst their busy lives and studies. We've now become good friends, occasionally catching up on our recent lives and studies. I want to thank this brother and sister-in-law again, wishing them good health, a harmonious family, and thriving careers. Hope we meet again someday.
Next, I'd like to share my thoughts on some recent comments and phenomena. First, in my personal opinion, this "Couple's Paradise" is a form of interaction: interaction, remember, not a transaction, nor is it aggression or insult. Interpersonal interactions, regardless of type, must be sincere, gradual, and heartfelt. It's about getting to know each other through small things, seeing if you're the right person for each other, not simply matching and mating.
Honestly, are any of the real couples, uncles and aunts here in this "paradise," there really who are there simply for mating? I feel most are looking for enjoyment, a touch of romance, and some spice in their already stable lives. Whether they're looking for a partner or a single man, who's there simply for sex and release? We are humans with highly developed central nervous systems and cerebral cortexes; we are not machines or animals. This is something we need to fully grasp internally.
Many older brothers and sisters are now firmly against accepting single men. Although I am also a single man, an outsider and observer, after observing for a long time, I can truly understand their feelings and decisions. Perhaps they weren't initially opposed to single men, but after getting to know them, many single men are just... well, I can't stand it anymore... So, it's understandable.
Furthermore, I feel that everyone is here to make different, sincere, and interesting friends, so there should be some agreements and principles.
1. Ensure mutual health and hygiene. Unless a full medical check-up and thorough familiarity are achieved, strictly adhere to safety measures. From a clinical infectious disease perspective, over 70% of infectious diseases are currently incurable. Remember, even after treatment and your symptoms disappear, it's only a clinical cure, not a cure. This means that although you no longer have symptoms, the pathogen may still remain in your body. If you are stimulated in the future, or if your immunity is low, it may recur. Moreover, a single disease can trigger a chain reaction in multiple organs. Therefore, for the sake of your health and life, please do not engage in unprotected sex or frequently change sexual partners.
2. Strictly respect privacy. No matter what, this kind of thing should only be a niche form of entertainment, and no one should make it public. So please protect each other's privacy. Of course, I have also noticed that many people like to post photos of other people's wives or girlfriends, and some even take photos secretly. Such behavior is varied, and I won't say more, just chuckle.
3. Respect each other and communicate your feelings sincerely. Sometimes, some single men here really treat other people's precious lovers like... well, I'll omit the rest and you all understand, I won't say it directly. If I were a husband, seeing such comments, I would probably turn you into a specimen and keep you as a sex object. Moreover, from acquaintance to meeting, it takes at least five or six months to a year. It's impossible to be impatient after just a few days. After all, this is not a transaction. If you are impatient, you can go find part-time jobs. They are young and of high quality, as long as you are willing to pay.
4. The necessary confidence and strength, which includes many things, such as sufficient financial resources, personal talent and cultivation, a respectable and stable job, personal eloquence and life experience, and much more. Because in a relationship, sex is only one aspect; the emotional connection and fusion are more important. Wouldn't it be disgusting to expect a woman to have sex without any feelings or emotions? Could there be any pleasure in that? Moreover, generally, loving couples wouldn't deliberately involve single men in financial matters. It's only natural for a single man to book a nice, safe room and treat them to a meal; if he can't even do that, it becomes somewhat awkward.
In short, good looks, a youthful appearance, a strong physique (not fat or obese, but muscular), generosity and straightforwardness, financial strength, a fit body, eloquent speech, extensive knowledge, and a successful career—one doesn't need to possess all of these, but they should at least have a few. Otherwise… well, if you're just here to vent, then I can only wish you good luck.
5. Don't pester or bother each other too much. Part ways amicably. Entertainment is only a small part; career and family are still the main priorities. Everyone has their own things to do every day and their own lives. So, get together when you have time to relax. Don't bother each other too much on weekdays, otherwise it's really exhausting. I'm now stressed out by piles of WeChat messages every day.
Finally, a friendly reminder: gentlemen, don't worry too much about the size of your penis. From a clinical anatomical perspective, a length of 13 to 16 centimeters and a girth of 4 centimeters is more than enough. This measurement is taken from the side of the genitals, not from the pubic symphysis, because the side length is the effective length. There aren't that many 17 or 18-centimeter penises in China. Being too large usually causes women pain rather than pleasure, so men don't need to worry too much. Besides size, technique, and physical condition, the woman's psychological feelings are equally important. So, exercise more, read more, sleep more, rest more, and focus on your career to improve yourself; that's more important than worrying about size.
I'm not targeting anyone personally; this is just my personal opinion. I'm just an ordinary person, so please don't be rude or attack me. Otherwise, I promise I can give you a piece of my mind, so please don't go looking for trouble.
Finally, if any of you brothers and sisters in Lanzhou or Tianjin are interested in chatting, please leave a message and I will contact you. Best wishes.

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