Your body may wander... but your heart belongs only to me!

In this dazzling world, the seven-year itch sets in. Can we remain faithful to one person forever? From love to the body.
We have a couple who have been in a long-term relationship. Recently, the husband proposed, "Let's try an open relationship! We still love each other, but let's experience different kinds of sex. Let's remove the constraints and live freely together."
From zero to many years, their love has gone through passion and indifference, and they began to discuss humanity and longevity. An "open" relationship was put on the agenda as a solution to the equation of "freedom" and "intimacy."
Sexual promiscuity or a beautiful initial intention
? In Baidu Encyclopedia, "open" is defined as: both parties are honest with each other and, with the other's knowledge and permission, can freely have intimate relationships with a third party.
This is different from cheating or having a mistress. An open relationship is: two people who love each other voluntarily give each other physical freedom.
From the outside, we might think this is just another interpretation of "sexual promiscuity," such as: how many people have you been with? Come on! Let's do it together! Anyway, there's plenty of time. You're so loyal, but she's so open. "
Extremely bold" and "without boundaries" are the evaluations we're reluctant to give. However, in reality, they understand life far better than we imagine. Their choice of open relationships is largely driven by these beautiful initial intentions:
"She wanted to experience different kinds of sex, and I agreed. Should loving someone mean restricting them? Life is only once; we should openly experience the world!"
"Some people feel that sharing a partner makes life incomplete. I, on the contrary, feel like I've gained more than one friend."
"We feel a sense of freedom to be ourselves. This is especially important for us, who are not young anymore; we can enjoy and explore life again."
From their optimistic attitudes towards life, we read "loyalty to their hearts" and "a unique understanding of love":
they understand the fickleness of human nature so readily. Because of love, they are unwilling to restrict each other. Compared to ultimately deceiving and hiding from each other, this approach is indeed much wiser, discussing openly from the beginning: how can we achieve harmony in our intimate relationship?
The secret to achieving both freedom and intimacy:
The coexistence of freedom and intimacy requires rules to maintain it.
In traditional marriage, monogamy is the rule; in open relationships, staying together is also a rule—
"In an open relationship, the only rule we must abide by is absolute honesty, and getting a sexually transmitted disease test before sexual intercourse."
"In principle, you can flirt with other women or men, but the other person must have the right to know, and you can't pretend to be single or give others false expectations."
"Actual interactions and even meetings must be decided jointly, and the person you date should ideally be someone who practices open relationships and can accept the rule of sex without interference."
Seemingly free, the kite string is still in the other person's hand: your body can wander, but your heart belongs only to the other person.
Adhering to this principle is the biggest difference between them and "sexually promiscuous" individuals.
YES or NO:
Shared sex, exclusive love. To accept this kind of relationship, simply ask yourself two questions:
1. When I like someone, would I be willing for her to have sex with someone else?
2. When I like someone, do I have the desire to have sex with "another" person?
If your answer to both is "NO," it means that in your view, sex and love are inseparable. You love him/her and want both psychological and physical intimacy.
So, no matter who tries to persuade you to start an open relationship, don't agree. Being open or not is entirely a personal lifestyle choice; there's no inherent superiority or inferiority, or advancement or backwardness. Following your heart is the right thing to do!
And those who say "YES" must genuinely acknowledge: you are the person I love most, but my body is worthy of many others.
We sincerely hope they can support each other while experiencing other wonderful partners, ultimately growing old together.
What kind of "long-term relationship" do you all want?

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