Wife's Choice

I've browsed 69.net a few times, and occasionally felt a thrill, but I never considered taking any action. However, my thoughts are changing. My wife and I are both stable working people, and we're both almost 40. My wife married me after graduating from university; she's definitely a virtuous wife and loving mother. She's petite, 160cm tall, weighs less than 50kg, has a small frame, big eyes, and fair skin. Because my sister-in-law owns a beauty salon, my wife benefits greatly from her beauty regimen and looks very young, like she's under 30. My wife works in a government office, which is quite relaxed. She spends a lot of time chatting online during work hours. I know a man from Guangxi who has been chatting with her for over 10 years. He works in a similar position in the education department of a county-level government office in Guangxi. He also spends a lot of time chatting during work hours. What's the point of being on duty if there's nothing else to do…?

Back then, I was very strict with my wife. After we got married, I felt there was no chance she would cheat on me. Later, I accidentally found her chat history at her workplace. I discovered that she and her boyfriend were having an online relationship. They didn't use very explicit language, but it was quite ambiguous. They occasionally talked about sex, and they called each other "dearest" and sometimes "husband" and "wife." But my wife didn't notice anything amiss when we were at home. Later, my wife and I argued many times because of her online relationship. Then my wife told me to give her some space. She said the guy lived too far away from us. We lived in Northeast China, and there was no way they could have anything real. She said the guy was a stable person with a good relationship with his wife, but she was very strict and only gave him 200 yuan a month for spending money. She said he didn't smoke or drink and had no bad habits. She said he was a good person. My wife assured me that they were just emotional support, otherwise, work would be too boring. She also said that she had never done anything to betray me in all these years. I thought about how she had suffered so much with me all these years, so I let it go. I gave her that space. Anyway, that guy wouldn't come because of his financial situation and the distance, so I felt at ease. That guy had even helped my sister-in-law's child get textbooks and mailed them over, so my impression of him improved more and more. My wife consulted him on many things at work, and he even gave me a lot of advice on work. I was promoted thanks to his guidance. I started to like him a little, and my wife assured me that she loved me the most and that her love for him was just a virtual connection, so I was completely at ease. What I didn't expect was that the two of them had been chatting for 10 years, which is really amazing. They sent each other photos every day and only chatted on the computer, never video, because they only chatted at work. The guy even knew my wife's internet and email passwords. They never called each other, only communicated by text. My wife sometimes told me about the funny things they chatted about, but after a while I got used to it and stopped caring.
Coincidentally, this guy recently came to our provincial capital for a 10-day business trip with many colleagues. My wife and I live in a small city a few hours away from the provincial capital. My wife knew he was coming and told me about it. I didn't say much, just asked what their relationship was, whether they were online friends or something else. My wife said they had been chatting for over 10 years, that he was a very close person, that he loved her very much, but loved me even more. I asked my wife what she wanted to do, and she said that he had already taken a bus from the provincial capital to see me. He had no other intentions. After all, we had been in love for 10 years, and he didn't want to miss the opportunity to see me since we were so close. He said he would arrive at 6 p.m. and asked me to come along for dinner so we could get to know each other. That same night, he had to take a night bus back to his hotel in the provincial capital because he had a lot of study and inspection activities planned and had to go back. He had sneaked out of the city. I agreed without much thought. We met him around 6 PM. I was actually quite curious about him; I'd only seen photos before. He was a bit older than us, about 173cm tall, and looked just like in the photos—not handsome, but not bad either. He wore glasses and had a cultured air. There was no awkwardness when we met, but it wasn't like meeting old friends. He didn't call my wife any nicknames, and his southern accent was a bit hard to understand. Unfortunately, it was raining and snowing heavily that day, and my wife slipped and fell, getting her clothes completely dirty. We couldn't go to a restaurant, so I suggested we go to my place. Our child was with her maternal grandmother that day, and since the man didn't have much time and had to catch the train back later, we ate dinner, chatted for a little while, and then he had to go back to the provincial capital. So we went to my house

. My wife took off her coat and dirty pants, wearing only a sweater and long johns to entertain the guests. I quickly prepared a few dishes. My husband and wife sat separately in the living room, exchanging pleasantries like "I'm so glad to see you!" dozens of times. Just as we were about to eat, my wife's colleague called. She had just bought a manual car and, being a new driver, was too scared to drive it home after practicing in the snow. She asked for my help because fewer and fewer people in the city can drive manual cars these days. My wife asked if I would go, as she couldn't find anyone else to ask. I don't know why, but I immediately agreed and went right away. As I was leaving, the man told me, "Brother, don't worry, I'm not that kind of person. Your wife and I are just good friends." He assured me this. Because I knew him well—my wife often talked about him—and he seemed like a good person, I left with peace of mind. I figured the round trip would take at least an hour. I took a taxi to the location my wife's colleague had sent me. I didn't say a word to the taxi driver, my mind racing with thoughts of what might happen. They'd been in an online relationship for over ten years; was meeting really just for a cup of coffee? Was that even possible? Then I actually called my wife and told her I'd be back in an hour, and that she should take good care of the guests. I told her I wouldn't be angry no matter what happened, that I understood her completely. Honestly, I meant it. My wife replied, "Oh, what are you talking about?" and hung up, still feeling conflicted. Picking up my wife's colleague went smoothly. I helped her drive her car back, and she kept praising my driving skills, but I barely listened. My mind was getting more and more complicated. I called her again, but she didn't answer. I kept feeling like something was going to happen. That hour was agonizing for me, but I gradually came to terms with it. Even if something did happen, I should understand my wife; she has indeed contributed the most to the family and the elders. An hour and a half later, I went upstairs without telling anyone beforehand. I opened the door and went inside, finding my wife and that man still watching TV in the living room. After a brief greeting, I went to the bathroom and noticed the smell of shampoo. When I came out, the man's hair was slightly damp, but otherwise, nothing seemed amiss. My wife said it was almost time, and that I was just in time to take the man to the station. We drove to the station together, and time was really tight. We had to get on the train as soon as we arrived. The man got on and left, turning back to look at us a few steps later, like a casual friend saying goodbye. There was no physical contact between him and my wife on the way

home. We didn't speak on the way home. When we got home, I wanted to ask but didn't dare. I secretly checked the number of condoms, and they hadn't changed, but my gut feeling was that something had happened. That night, my wife cried. I asked her what was wrong, if she was excited to see her friend. She said yes, and I said I wouldn't blame you for what happened between you two. Online relationships can also be real feelings, and I understand if you can't extricate yourself from them. How many times will you meet him in your life? He's also a benefactor to us, having given us guidance. My wife nestled in my arms and said, "I felt I should tell you, and I thought you could guess. I also believe you. After you left, it was me who initiated the kiss with that guy, and then everything that was going to happen between us happened. We didn't even have dinner. It was a rush, and we didn't use a condom." My heart was pounding, but after controlling my emotions, I hugged her and said, "I understand you. I love you no matter what." That night, I had a deep conversation with my wife, and I also admitted that I had been with many women. My wife said she didn't blame me and understood because I've always been good to her. She added, "Don't you know me? You go to work every day and come home. Since we got married, it's always been just you. Sometimes you go out with friends at night, and life gets too mundane, which is why you had an online relationship with that guy." She said she couldn't control herself when she slept with him. She felt she shouldn't have, but she couldn't control herself. She felt guilty for not giving him what he had, especially since it was at home and she knew I could come back at any time. I still wanted it to happen. I still said I understood. I said you two have real feelings for each other, but I hope you can control yourself. As we talked, things became more relaxed. Suddenly, we both almost simultaneously realized, "Wow, I was raped! It wasn't my safe period!" I immediately got up and bought emergency contraception. I don't know why, but while buying it, I felt happy, yet conflicted.
During the 10 days that man was on a business trip to the provincial capital, he came almost every night at 6 pm and took the night train back to the provincial capital. My wife also spent the nights alone with him. I didn't ask about the hotel rooms they booked. My wife would see him off and then go home. Today, I asked my wife about some details of their relationship. After listening, I found it very exciting and wonderful, but I also felt conflicted. My wife said that she was very satisfied with him in that aspect, and it was a different kind of wonderful feeling from her relationship with me. He is in good health, has served in the army, and has a large penis. You can't tell if he has much sexual experience just by looking at him, but if he does one move well, it's enough. I feel my wife has changed so much in just a few days. I had a serious talk with her, telling her that she and he still have feelings for each other. Before, she thought the distance meant no danger, but now it's all real, and she's a little worried. Her answer surprised me; she said she doesn't love him as much anymore. I asked why, and she said she just can't get used to his southern accent, it creates a distance, and hearing his voice makes her love for him less and less. They're only good at texting; when they meet, they hardly have anything to talk about. After sex, he just pulls up his pants and leaves. When they meet, it's all about sex, and they never use condoms. Beforehand, he secretly removed the condom when he was supposed to ejaculate, and my wife had to take birth control pills for several days. Yesterday, that man returned to Guangxi after his business trip, without buying my wife any gifts. I feel his character isn't as good as described in his online posts. Maybe my wife just idealized him. She's decided not to contact him anymore. That's the rule for online relationships ending in a meeting – it's all over by the time they meet in person. My wife also revealed a secret: her older sister has been urging her to divorce me for many years. She said there's a guy who's a friend of hers who's taken a liking to my wife, and that he could greatly help her sister's business in the future. When I heard that, I thought, "A businessman, huh?" Sigh. Most importantly, that Guangxi man actually saw my wife for the last time. During their lovemaking, he encouraged my wife to divorce him, saying he'd have another chance to come back. He said a lot of things that sounded like true love, but my wife thought they were lies. Maybe it's because of the accent. This time, my wife has almost no good feelings towards him. She came back without even showering after making love. In previous encounters, the guy always ejaculated twice, probably after two rounds. It seems he's been taking aphrodisiacs lately. My wife has decided to cut off contact with him; online dating feels too unreal, and she feels foolish, perhaps she's been scammed this time.
My wife says that after this experience, she realized that being with me was the right decision. This incident has made us trust each other more, there are no more secrets, and our lives will change a lot. We can gradually open up more in the future…
This isn't well-written, it's all just rambling. Thank you for reading.

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