The first successful 3P

Today, I posted a blog entry on the forum, intending only to commemorate officially entering this circle, so I didn't describe the specific process. After posting, many experienced couples sent private messages through the forum to congratulate us on our first successful step. Many others, who had reached an agreement but hadn't yet found their ideal single partners or swap partners, added me as a friend to ask about the feeling of taking that first step.

First, I want to thank the couples who sent messages. I also want to offer some advice to some single men on the forum with biased views. Actually, there are many genuine couples on the forum; at least I think those who simply sent messages to congratulate us are genuine. Don't assume all the couples on the forum are scammers just because you haven't met them yet, saying things like they have high standards or something. I want to say that as long as you are sincere and show your good manners during communication, you will gain something. Below, I'll briefly talk about our first experience, to provide some reference for those couples and single men who haven't found their partners yet.

Actually, I don't know where to begin. To truly write down everything from initial contact to understanding, guiding my wife, reaching a consensus, and finally putting it into practice, a single blog post wouldn't be enough. I'll just give a rough outline; please bear with me.

My wife and I reached a consensus before the new year. The moment my wife agreed, I believe many husbands can understand my feelings—that anticipation and eagerness were completely beyond my control. So, like most husbands, I embarked on a search for single men. I spent almost all my free time on forums. However, the search was filled with disappointment after disappointment. Most of the single men who added me were too abnormal, even lacking basic social skills (I've mentioned this in previous posts). It was also... Fearing my wife might change her mind as time went on, I was quite anxious. Just as my passion was fading, I received two friend requests on QQ, as usual. I accepted them without much expectation. After a brief greeting, they both sent me four or five photos of themselves and brief introductions. I was immediately struck by their sincerity; none of my previous friends had ever proactively sent photos of themselves. Humans are emotional beings; when you sense someone's sincerity, you naturally reciprocate with genuine sincerity. So, we began to get to know each other and communicate. After two days of communication (mostly about work, life, and our understanding of 69), I felt that both men were well-mannered, experienced, and had good interpersonal skills. Their appearance also matched my wife's aesthetic preferences. So, I gave them my wife's QQ number so they could communicate with her further.

For about two weeks, because one of the men was relatively busy with work, my wife communicated more with the other man, whom I'll refer to as A. I usually communicate with my wife about every three days. She told me she felt okay about it. In less than half a month, I read through all of A's chat history with my wife and confirmed that A's philosophy on dating was not the same as mine. During this long period of communication with my wife, he didn't show any impatience, nor did he take the initiative to talk to her about any explicit topics. On the contrary, my wife would occasionally talk to him about those topics, haha. But it was also because I wanted to understand him better that I encouraged my wife to take the initiative to talk to him. Actually, single boyfriends don't need to be so nervous about this. Occasionally having in-depth conversations can even be beneficial (my wife's opinion).

After reading the chat content, we were basically certain about him, but since it was our first time, we were still conflicted. We didn't know where we could go and didn't dare to ask him out easily. Until last Thursday, I don't know what came over me, I talked to my wife about this topic. My lust got the better of me, and I said to my wife, "Why don't we ask him out?" It's no fun just fantasizing all the time. My wife agreed (the process wasn't so direct, so I won't describe it completely). So I contacted A, arranged a time, place, and process. A readily agreed, and after discussing the basics, booked his train tickets for the next day that very evening. We then began the wait.

Around 6 PM on Friday, the single man arrived. My wife and I picked him up at the station. It was our first meeting, and we were quite nervous. However, after meeting him, we felt much more at ease knowing he looked much like his photos and videos. We then went to dinner. During dinner, basic conversation went smoothly; he seemed like the single man we had in mind, at least in terms of manners. Afterwards, we went to the karaoke bar we had arranged to visit, sang some songs, had some drinks, and got to know each other better beforehand to avoid any awkwardness later. (Here's a suggestion for couples having their first time: try some intimate games at the karaoke bar; it can be quite enjoyable.) After the karaoke, we naturally went to a hotel room. (Because it was our first time, we had communicated with A beforehand that my wife could end the activity at any time, so we didn't book in advance.) Once in the room, we all sat together, chatted, drank tea, and rested for a while. Then, I let the single man go take a shower first. While he was showering, my wife told me she was very nervous, mainly because she was worried that if we actually did it, I might have reservations. After I reassured her, she relaxed and went to shower. After they all finished showering… The single man started giving his wife a spa treatment (as previously agreed upon; this is also a suggestion for inexperienced couples to start with a spa for their first time – it doesn't require advanced skills, it's mainly for relaxation). While he was giving his wife the spa treatment, I also took a shower. It took a while to give them some space and avoid awkwardness. When I came out, seeing my wife lying naked in front of A, her body being caressed by A's hands, I felt a surge of bittersweet emotions. However, the visual stimulation overcame the bitterness, and I got an erection almost instantly.

After the spa, the single man and his wife went to the bathroom to shower together (also previously agreed upon, but to my surprise, his wife was willing to go with him. Initially, we said we might not shower together on the first time, but the spa probably really relaxed her a lot). After showering, the real threesome began (I won't describe the process in detail; there are a few photos in the album, you can use the photos to imagine it yourself).

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let's talk about the specific feelings. Perhaps because it was my first time, I was nervous, and the activity didn't meet my expectations. We only did it once. My wife and I were both satisfied with the threesome format, but she wasn't particularly satisfied with the sexual experience. First, A's penis was a bit small, and the duration was a bit short. This might be because we didn't communicate well with her beforehand, and his foreplay wasn't as experienced. Here, I want to remind all single men to learn more about their swap partners, especially their wives' preferences, beforehand. Some like it more intense, some like it gentler; you must understand that everyone's preference for intensity is different. However, we were quite satisfied with A's character and manners. For couples who haven't tried this yet, I want to give the husband some advice: before deciding to do it, you must have a deep understanding of yourself and not act impulsively. When your wife is truly exposed to a stranger and you have sex with her, there will be a contrast in your mindset. You must have a strong emotional foundation. If you can overcome this problem, your relationship will undoubtedly undergo a qualitative leap. Through this activity, my wife and I have clearly reached a new level; her dependence on me and my love for her have genuinely increased.

Honestly, I believe that for husbands who participate in couples-based dating, their wives mostly agree to participate because they love them and because they appreciate their preferences. Regardless of success or failure, you should treat your wives even better. To wives, I thank you for your love and sacrifices, which allow us men to satisfy our desires to the fullest. To single men, I say: more sincerity, less prejudice, more self-cultivation, less cynicism—all will bring rewards.

Finally, I wish all those who sincerely seek friendship will find their ideal partner. This is a bit rambling, but please bear with it; these are all my genuine thoughts!

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