Wife meets her lover (Part 1)

I've been registered on 69 for almost a month now. I found the website by accident online. After logging in, I realized I couldn't see anything; I needed to be a member. I told my wife I wanted to take some IB photos. She initially refused. I said things were too bland for us, and I wanted to add some excitement to improve the situation. I suggested finding her a different man so she could experience the feeling of a different kind of man. She said she didn't want anyone else, or she needed to agree to meet her ex-lover. I said okay, explaining that I had agreed before, but the man didn't believe me and wouldn't let her meet him. She said she had talked to him this time, and if I agreed, she would meet him. I said okay.
A couple of days later, we had sex again, and I asked her to let me take IB photos again. She said, "Go ahead and take them. If you want three or four people, go find them yourself." Then she asked if I really agreed to let her meet her ex-lover, and if we wouldn't argue when she got back. I said, "Have you two agreed?" She said it was settled, and agreed to go on April 19th and come back the next day. I said okay, send me some photos or short videos, or I can video chat with them that night. She said that person doesn't approve of three people and probably wouldn't agree to filming, so if she goes, don't make things difficult for her. I said it depends on the situation; it's fine if she doesn't let him know. She said okay. That's how I got the IB photos and access to see everything everyone did.
Speaking of sex, I mentioned it to my wife a few years ago. At first, she didn't approve, but later she said she could find someone she liked. I said okay, but it can't be emotional; it's just for excitement, to enjoy different kinds of sex, and it can't affect the family. These are the rules of sex and threesomes; otherwise, it changes the nature of the relationship and becomes equivalent to infidelity, which will cause a lot of conflicts.
She actually found someone online and they chatted all the time, just like an online romance. She told me about the situation, and I knew the man had a bad family relationship and wanted a divorce. I told her he wasn't suitable and that there would be future conflicts that would affect our family. She said I suggested she find him, but after finding him, she disagreed, saying she wanted to enjoy herself before going abroad. I agreed to let them meet, but they didn't have sex; they just met briefly, sat in a teahouse for a while. That's what my wife said. After meeting, they still chatted constantly, which led to arguments. She promised not to chat anymore, but a few days later she started chatting again using another account, which led to a big fight. I also called the man, and it wasn't until after she went abroad that things ended.
At that time, I realized this didn't follow the rules of the game; there would inevitably be conflicts, and it wouldn't work. What do you, the readers, think? When feelings develop, meeting becomes a romantic relationship, unrelated to sex or a threesome. Sex doesn't require feelings, only trust and safety, and mutual satisfaction. The couple participates together, without suspicion or conflict; it's just to stimulate and increase their relationship and trust. It's fair to say that my impulsive act last time backfired and somewhat damaged our relationship, leaving a scar.
My wife said she'd sell her photos to become a member, and I felt a pang of sadness. Is it really about satisfying my lustful desires without caring about my wife? Would I really let her go to a threesome? Would I really see her being penetrated by a stranger in front of me? Am I truly prepared for this?
My wife's lover is someone she met abroad, a three-hour drive from our home. She hasn't seen him for almost three years since returning to China, and she's been longing to see him. I've seen husbands on 69.com (a Chinese adult entertainment website) finding lovers for their wives, trying to get them to take the first step, wanting their wives to experience different kinds of sex. I know these are all acts of love, and my wife has already taken that first step, but that person doesn't approve of casual sex or threesomes. We could never do a threesome; he probably wouldn't dare. About two months ago, I agreed to let her meet him, but he didn't believe it and was afraid my wife would argue with him, so he refused to let her meet him. After all, they were lovers first, and my wife doesn't want to mention threesomes in front of him, probably for the sake of their relationship. She said she'd agree to me finding someone else for casual sex or a threesome, just not to tell him, but that goes against the rules… This is what I'm worried about—whether it will affect our family. Please leave a comment and give me your analysis; I'm very confused right now.
This trip made me feel like my wife and I were exchanging conditions. She wanted me to agree to let her see her lover in exchange for me finding someone to have sex or a threesome—it was a mutually agreeable deal… This kind of transaction is unfair emotionally, and there are no rules in the game. It's not a genuine search for excitement and sexual enjoyment to revitalize our marital relationship. My understanding of sex and threesomes is that they are meant to spice up a mundane married life, add new sensory stimulation, and revitalize a dull and unchanging sex life. Different sex can keep the fantasy of passion alive, different people can help us rediscover sex, and different orgasmic experiences can motivate couples to seek new orgasms.

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