A record of a couple

This happened two years ago. Recently, I happened to reconnect with the person involved and we discussed what happened back then. He wanted me to record it, as a way for him to remember. To protect his privacy, it's mostly true, with some fictional elements.
After I posted the article about my wife and her classmate, I received many friend requests from all over the country, mostly from single men who immediately asked if I would accept it. I mostly ignored them. A few were couples, some successful, some not. A few I chatted with well; the successful ones shared their wives' stories. Most of the unsuccessful ones asked me for advice, and I gave them some bad suggestions. Actually, I feel my wife didn't have it that difficult; it happened naturally, almost without us realizing it. For those who didn't succeed, I suggest not forcing it. Not every man can accept his wife sleeping with someone else. Let things take their natural course. If your wife really meets someone she likes and has the desire to cheat, you probably can't stop her.
During this time, I met a female colleague, and we gradually developed feelings for each other, chatting frequently on WeChat. Later, we held hands, hugged, and kissed, but never took the final step. She always felt she couldn't bring herself to do it. She felt she was letting her husband down and betraying her family. I didn't force her, because we chatted too much on WeChat and often ate together, and her husband became suspicious. Unfortunately, her husband wasn't on our side. Gradually, we forced ourselves to stop contacting each other. After all, we both had families and children. At that time, I just couldn't understand why, with so many like-minded people on 69.com, I couldn't find anyone like them in real life.
Among the friends I added on the 69.com forum, there was one I chatted with for a long time, and we lived in relatively close cities. Let's call him Xiao Zhang. He told me how he tried to persuade his wife to go out and find someone, but she wasn't interested in anyone suitable. I told him how I felt when my wife met up with other men. We both got really excited talking about it; I guess every night after chatting, we'd go to our wives to release our pent-up emotions. My wife had her own lover, and every time she went out to meet someone, I would text Zhang at the same time to tell him how I felt. Xiao Zhang was particularly envious of this day, which probably really aroused his interest. One day, while we were chatting enthusiastically, Zhang sent me a QQ number, saying it was his wife's alternate account, used specifically for chatting. He suggested I add it. Actually, it was just a group of like-minded people getting together, chatting and reminiscing; no one was interested in being single, and Zhang probably didn't expect me to be the one either. It was just a casual chat with his wife. The awkward thing was, after adding her, I didn't know what to talk about. A token greeting was all we got, and then we were speechless. This continued for a long time. Sometimes, Xiao Zhang would ask me if I'd been chatting lately, and that'd remind me to message her, but it would only be a few words before nothing more came of it. After all, I could talk to Xiao Zhang about sex, being cheated on, and even trying to persuade my wife to have an affair, but I couldn't talk about those kinds of topics with Xiao Zhang's wife. We mostly talked about work, family, and children. Later, I learned that Zhang was a few months younger than me, and his wife was a year younger. We were basically the same age. Our jobs, incomes, and family situations were quite similar. This might be the key to our success. After all, it's about being well-matched. We both felt relaxed and pressure-free, and we got along well. The other person didn't seem as dominant as we were. Everything was comfortable when we were together, like old friends we hadn't seen in a long time. Moreover, I realized that both Xiao Zhang and I, when looking for partners for our wives, were choosing based on our own standards. We wanted the thrill, the humiliation, the heart-pounding feeling of being cheated on, but we also wanted the man to respect us and our wives, not to act like we were being taken advantage of or superior. At least respect for us and our wives was crucial. After all, it was our consent that allowed our wives to go out and meet single men; it wasn't entirely based on the single man's personal charm. Knowing one's place was key.
One night, Xiao Zhang's wife suddenly asked me, "What are you men thinking? Why do you insist on letting your women sleep with other men? Are you just making excuses for your infidelity?" I told her it wasn't entirely that. Generally, one reason is that he wants his wife to experience more sex. Another reason is that when women go out and meet other men, the husband experiences a lot of heartache, excitement, and arousal – feelings only those who have experienced it can understand. Furthermore, many couples find their previously mundane sex life revitalized and become more loving after this. Xiao Zhang's wife didn't believe me; she said she absolutely couldn't accept her husband with other women. Later, I recommended she read some of my previous articles. Xiao Zhang excitedly told me the next day that after reading them, his wife actively sought him out for sex. And that night, during orgasm, she verbally agreed to Xiao Zhang having sex with other men. Later, Xiao Zhang and I seized the opportunity and found many articles that seemed good for his wife to read. From then on, our conversations with Xiao Zhang's wife suddenly shifted from everyday family matters to matters of the bedroom, and we talked much more frequently than before. Xiao Zhang also constantly fed his wife his thoughts during sex every night.
One day, Xiao Zhang suddenly invited me to dinner. I asked him what we'd do after dinner, and he said he didn't know what to do next; he felt his hormones were raging, and his wife had verbally agreed. But every time after ejaculation, he felt it was all rather unexciting, and the same thought would return the next day. Later, I consulted my wife, because she has her own lover, and she had long said she wouldn't get involved in my affairs. But unexpectedly, she strongly supported me, almost as if she was going to stand up for me now that I had. She even told me not to be shy or hesitant, and that when the time is right, a man must act decisively. If you back down, a woman won't have the idea anymore; when indecisive, you must be decisive and proactive. I was speechless.
Later, I arranged a date with Xiao Zhang, carrying all my wife's instructions, and went, almost as if possessed. Before going, just like my wife had asked me years ago, I asked, "Wife, do you really agree to me going?" It was purely a matter of the situation; we had switched roles.

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