Insights and experiences in guiding your wife in making friends

Many confused guys often ask how to "develop" their wives, and some even seek out so-called "gurus" who can help them (in reality, these self-proclaimed "gurus" probably don't even have a wife themselves). I want to advise you guys that developing and guiding your wives is not something to be rushed. It's a long process and a memory worth cherishing forever. It requires a lot of patience, love, and genuine affection. (To be honest, if someone else "develops" her, is she still your wife?)
After reading many experienced guys' sharing and combining it with my own experience, I want to share my insights from the past few years, hoping to help those of you who are currently confused.
First, if you want to "develop" your wife, the prerequisite is that your relationship must be good enough. She needs to be in the right mood, feel loved, and have a stable family relationship. You must make her understand that you just want some excitement.
The first step is to broaden her awareness and eliminate traditional feudal ideas, making her realize that society is becoming increasingly open, and the binding force of traditional thinking is weakening. The prevailing ideas of not wasting youth, enjoying youth, and the fear of growing old before it's too late, coupled with the high pressure of modern life and work, have led more and more people to join this movement. However, traditional thinking still dominates, claiming it's the right path, causing no one to admit to having these thoughts. Some even feel pain because their ideas contradict mainstream thought, feeling rebellious, abnormal, or mentally ill. This is similar to our past attitude towards homosexuality. There's really no need to be so distressed. Life is short... However, given that this activity has only lasted a few decades, one should follow their own heart and not pay too much attention to outside opinions. One should try to guide their wife to browse some couples' dating forums, looking at other people's successful videos and pictures, and their desires and thoughts about their wives being penetrated by others. They should also look at posts about 3P or similar activities. The goal is to help her find a balance within herself: to make her understand that many people outside appear glamorous and have loving marriages, but in reality, they are all quite promiscuous and vulgar. It's not that her husband is perverted or that she herself is depraved and promiscuous. She needs to know that many people who engage in this activity have the same thoughts, helping her find a balance point in accepting these ideas as normal.
Occasionally, one can share some nude photos or videos of their wife on the forum, allowing her to interact with other users. This way, people who engage in this activity can easily find common ground, sharing similar worries and anxieties, gradually forming their own small circle. This circle could have been simple and pure, but every circle has its share of scumbags. Try to avoid those scumbags who want free sex, those who simply want to sleep with other men's wives, and those who force their own wives into swapping. These kinds of scumbags muddy the waters, making those who are tempted to join in think the circle is chaotic and perverted. Therefore, before your wife accepts it, you must communicate more and try to avoid these kinds of people.
Given that many women are respectable and traditional Chinese values, it's recommended to find a single man for a threesome the first time. If your idea is to have your wife fucked, then someone who is very concerned about their own gains and losses will not succeed! Trying to swap your wife for someone else's wife on the first try is unrealistic, because your wife will immediately feel that you are using her as a transaction. So, from beginning to end, your only goal should be to let her experience more comfortable sex, not to sleep with other women for your own benefit! At least your wife will need to go through several threesomes before gradually accepting foursomes and swapping, because if you make her feel satisfied, she will feel indebted to you, and you will have leverage over her before she agrees to foursomes and swapping.
Here I'll share my experience of how I gradually got my wife to accept dating. A few years ago, I spent a lot of time browsing couples' dating forums and gradually discovered that I also had a primal desire for cuckoldry. I often fantasized about my wife having sex with other men. To satisfy my strong desires, I didn't know how to persuade my conservative wife to accept dating. I saw various methods for developing and guiding my wife on the forums, and I concluded that having a male masseur massage her was the most natural way. At first, I took her to a large foot massage parlor for a few professional foot massages, the purpose of which was to let her get used to male masseurs. After a few foot massages, and with my occasional gentle persuasion, she finally gave in and agreed to have a male masseur come to her home for a professional aromatherapy back massage. Before each massage, I communicated my ideas in detail with the masseur. With the masseur's gradual guidance, I finally succeeded in having a threesome with her on the fourth time he massaged her. Actually, there's a little secret I never dared to tell my wife about the key to her success in finding a partner: before each massage session, I secretly added a specially formulated aphrodisiac from a traditional Chinese medicine doctor to her water. The massage itself arouses desire, and with the aphrodisiac, her desire becomes incredibly strong. After taking the aphrodisiac and stimulating her intense desire, combined with the aphrodisiac's teasing massage techniques, even a very conservative woman would find it almost impossible to resist. (This is not an aphrodisiac, nor is it pornography. You can search online to learn that there are no aphrodisiacs. The so-called aphrodisiacs sold in the market are all fake. Only prescription hormone medications prescribed by doctors can stimulate libido. These medications have the same effect on both men and women, making the desire for sex extremely strong. I have personally experienced
this many times.) Over the years, my wife and I have had about a dozen 3P sessions with male masseuses. Although my conservative wife has basically fully accepted these activities, she is still very reserved and reserved during each session. We even had a private photoshoot with two photographers at a hot spring resort, experiencing a four-person session with three men and one woman. Although we have had over ten 3P sessions, we have never experienced a full-blown sex session, and we really want to try that kind of passion. The main problem is that it's really hard to find a suitable couple with similar interests; it's much easier to find a masseuse or a single man than that.
From the initial guidance of my wife's first time to every activity since then, I've been there, filming the entire process as a keepsake. If you're interested in real videos of our activities, you can add me and I'll share several clips free of charge. Complete videos are not shared for free. (Contact: 妻儿要叁妻舅舅溜寺) (Contact: 伞
儿酒扒漆零叁溜寺儿)) The videos I share are absolutely genuine, no doubt about them.
Many people are also curious about our relationship after taking this step. Believe it or not, our relationship is more harmonious than before. Since we started this, there's no suspicion, no secrets, and complete trust between us. We don't need to hide anything or deceive each other. These are the biggest points of suspicion and conflict between men and women; perhaps this is what it means to have both gains and losses.
Finally, let me share some experience as advice. If you want to get involved in this, you must first determine whether you truly have this interest or are simply looking for excitement and something new. These are two completely different concepts. If you just want to try something new, I suggest you give up the idea because the pain and conflicts that will follow will only increase. Also, the most basic point is that you must separate sex from emotions. Treat sex simply as a form of entertainment, like playing cards, chess, mahjong, or singing. If you can't do this, I suggest you give up or wait until you can before considering it. Don't rush things because different mindsets lead to different perspectives. Just like you wouldn't expect someone to only play chess or cards with you for the rest of their life.

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