I agreed to go to a 3P with my husband.

My husband has been away these past few days, and I've been thinking a lot. I've told him I wanted to write down my feelings, and he's willing to let me express them, since we only get to be together on weekends. It's quieter being alone, so I'm sharing our story tonight, wishing all couples a loving and happy life. I'm 28 years old and a mother of a three-year-old son. My husband is three years older than me; we're both from the post-80s generation. I remember meeting him at a gathering with fellow villagers during the Dragon Boat Festival holiday when I was 23. He was working in Hangzhou then, and we were from the same hometown. I worked in Suzhou, where we had mutual friends. I'd heard about him from my girlfriends before, but we only truly met on the Dragon Boat Festival. At that time, I felt a bit distant from him. He seemed mature and stable, and as my girlfriends said, he was quite handsome, giving off a very energetic vibe. I, on the other hand, felt a bit naive and insecure because my job was unstable and I was constantly feeling lost. My only joy was visiting my fellow villagers when I had free time. After he returned to Hangzhou, we stayed in touch. Gradually, our relationship solidified, and eventually, I truly couldn't live without him. At the end of the year, we got engaged and married together. After marriage, we both worked in Hangzhou. Like most couples, our life was ordinary. After having a child, I continued working, always striving to be a good wife and devoted to him. My husband was generally good to me, but men are men, and occasionally they're disobedient or pleasure-seeking. However, after a small argument, we quickly made up. In terms of our sex life, after a while, I always felt something was missing, but as a woman, I couldn't actively demand anything. My husband is naturally careless. Later, he got a lot of pornographic films for us to watch together. We had watched them before, but now he discusses them with me, and he's become increasingly considerate. I understand myself; I'm completely open and relaxed during intimacy with my husband, and I'm content. He always tries different things to make our time together. I've always been devoted to him, and of course, I expect the same from him. I know he's involved with other women, but I've seen him do things that are inappropriate, or perhaps he did things I don't know about. I'd rather he didn't. Later, at work, I met a man I really liked—a colleague who was also married. I only harbored this secret crush; I never expressed it, and I certainly wouldn't let my husband know my feelings. Later, my husband became more outgoing, and we often joked around. He said beautiful women have many suitors. I told him I only had eyes for him, and he smiled and said he'd be happy even if others pursued him. He's very magnanimous in this respect. At first, I thought he didn't care about me. Because I'm a very conservative woman, especially when it comes to relationships—once I've committed, it's for life. My husband trusts me completely in this regard. He loves and cherishes me, and later even encouraged me to find more enjoyment in life.
Of course, I know that life can't revolve solely around eating, working, and sleeping, especially for women. Sometimes, a woman may indeed feel loved, even by someone other than her husband, but that's just a fleeting fantasy. She feels guilty for thinking about it too much, as it might make her feel bad for her husband. So she continues with a mundane life. That night, after making love with my husband, we were chatting and laughing when I asked him, "Have you ever thought about cheating?" His answer was yes. I was immediately upset. I know that after having a child, things aren't as good as before, and we've been together for a long time, but that doesn't mean he doesn't care about me. My husband just laughed and said that cheating was just a thought, but having those thoughts in my heart still made me angry. Outraged, I ignored him and went to sleep alone that night. He noticed my unhappiness and kept apologizing. I know men's words are increasingly unreliable these days, and the temptations in society are ever-growing, but I know my husband and I only have a minor disagreement. He won't leave me, and I certainly won't leave him. Later, I became more proactive in our sex life. We tried all sorts of positions, and I became increasingly seductive in my words and actions. My husband loved it. I enjoyed giving him oral sex and the feeling of kissing his penis, and he did the same for me. He always liked to ejaculate in my mouth during sex, and I got used to it. Seeing my husband's satisfied expression gave me a sense of accomplishment. This change made me experience a greater sense of joy that women should have. My husband did a great job, and I became much more cheerful than before. Then one time, we were watching porn, and we saw two men having sex with one woman. I used to find it unbelievable, but after watching it so many times, I didn't think much of it anymore. Suddenly, my husband asked me if I liked being done that to him. I casually said yes, because I was aroused at the time. Also, my husband and I often joke around, especially during sex, and I often say very lewd things. After I said that, my husband became serious and said he'd wanted to find a handsome guy to have sex with me for a long time, asking what I thought. I was furious. I thought it was fine to joke around, but I never expected him to actually think and do that. I firmly... I refused him, saying I wouldn't do that, not even if it meant death. But my husband kept repeating in my ear that he loved me and cherished me. I said, "How can your woman be shared with someone else?" He said, "Because we love each other, our married life needs adjustment, we need to seek novelty. He said women should enjoy themselves too." I firmly denied his words. In my heart, I've always wanted to be a good wife, and I don't want to be ruined by this. But my husband said, "It's just about finding a man who won't bother you and having some fun. There are many people doing this in society these days." I questioned him about how he knew, and he showed me a lot of information and pictures about pornography and threesomes. I had no idea he was secretly looking at these things. I saw online that many couples were indeed exchanging information, but many of these were scams. It was my first time encountering a website for couples to connect, and I was a little incredulous and curious. However, to avoid upsetting my husband, I didn't continue looking and instead went to sleep to prevent him from thinking about it. During those few days when my husband was away, I reopened the website and saw a large number of couples connecting online. I was shocked by how open it was; I thought it was so perverted. How could they do this? But seeing some of their erotic pictures still aroused me, and I even became aroused, which made me feel ashamed. I spent those nights looking at the website while my husband was away. Later, when my husband came home, we made love that night, and I fantasized about two men touching me. The feeling of him kissing me that night was very passionate, but my husband ejaculated quickly, leaving me somewhat unsatisfied. Afterwards, I chatted with him, and he said he didn't mind me interacting with other men and encouraged me to take the initiative. It sounded like he didn't care about me, but I knew he did. He later added that it was precisely because he loved and cherished me that he could openly and selflessly share his happiness with me. It sounded like he was doing it for my sake, but I still felt a little uneasy. However, my husband remained very sincere. He said that this way we would be more loving and maintain a happier marriage. Life is short, and perspectives need to change.
My husband wanted me to genuinely experience the feeling of a woman's happiness. During that time, my husband was very good to me, and I felt he would never... He doesn't love me or cherish me, and he keeps urging me to agree to his advances. While I'm not entirely averse to it, I'm always afraid, though I don't know what I'm afraid of. Thinking about the scenarios my husband described, I feel a little excited; it certainly seems thrilling. Considering how many people secretly cheat or have crushes on other men in society these days, if my husband really just wants more pleasure and excitement in our marriage, it might actually make us more loving. Later, my husband and I often discussed those topics. I didn't explicitly agree on the surface, but I tacitly consented. My husband noticed my change, and I told him I wouldn't associate with men I didn't like. He chuckled and said he'd slowly find someone who would satisfy me. Gradually, I started talking to my husband about it, discussing what kind of women he should date, what he should be careful about, and what he shouldn't do. He cares about my feelings. I noticed he mostly dates men, or couples, and never women. I don't want him to date other women. Call me selfish if you want, but I just want my husband to only date me. So I told him I couldn't accept having another woman, but if he really wanted another man, I wouldn't object. My husband was very happy and listened to me completely. This shows that he's not just looking for his own pleasure. The idea of his woman not being possessed by other men sounds unrealistic, but it actually gives him a greater sense of excitement, making him feel the greater allure of his woman being intimately touched by someone else.

If a woman only receives love from her husband and no other men, her life becomes too dull. A beautiful woman should have the feeling of being flirted with by other men, which will make her husband cherish and pamper her more. If a woman only has one man in her life, it is a tragedy. Besides, under the guidance of her husband, she can only experience a different kind of more pleasurable sex. It does not affect their respective lives and is safe and feasible, so I slowly accepted it. After three months, my husband finally found two nice guys, one 25 and the other 32. I met them a few times via video. Later, for some reason, I chose the 25-year-old. I thought he was young, looked clean, and wasn't married. After setting a time and place, the three of us ate together first, then strolled around West Lake, and then checked into a hotel. I was still very uneasy and shy the first time, but with my husband there, I went along with his arrangements. In the room, the young man was very cheerful and clean, which made me feel like I was getting a good deal. Overall, I felt very good about him. We had chatted for a long time beforehand, and he kept calling me "sister-in-law." Later, after my husband and I took a shower together, the young man went to shower by himself. During this time, my husband had already hugged me and started kissing and caressing me. Skipping over the rest, the young man joined in after he finished showering. Facing two men constantly caressing and kissing my body, I truly felt a different kind of pleasure. After the first time, I became even more uninhibited the second time, and I had three or four orgasms. It really made me feel like I was flying. After that experience,

we met up again a month and a half later. We didn't create any negative impact; my husband loves and cherishes me even more, and I've become more cheerful. I know that this will make my husband treat me even better and prevent him from cheating. He says there's no point or interest in cheating now; he feels guilty for secretly seeing me. I feel the same way. Before, I might have had crushes on other men, but now I'm open about everything. I don't secretly harbor thoughts about my husband or other men. I feel the joy of transparent communication and love. I love my husband, and he's even sweeter and more loving than before. Writing this, I hope that couples can approach dating with a positive mindset, truly getting to know each other and enjoying happiness together. I'm so glad I didn't push things too far back; otherwise, my husband would be unhappy, I wouldn't experience happiness, and our love wouldn't have deepened. After this experience, everyone says that couples become more loving, and now I believe it. Thank you to all the friends who advised and suggested things to me before. Please forgive me if I said anything wrong; now I'm the same as you, haha! It's too late, I'll stop here! Time for bed...

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