The reasons behind the development of cuckoldry---excerpt

Causes:
Husband:
1. Family trauma (Having witnessed parents having sex or having extramarital affairs during childhood. Children are often ignorant and unaware of these things, but as adults they understand but cannot express it. The more they suppress their feelings, the greater the pressure becomes, leading many to lose faith in love and marriage. However, some develop distorted fetishes due to visual stimulation and psychological pressure. This group often enters the SM/Cuckoldry community, with cuckoldry being a common fetish.)
2. Internet stimulation (After understanding sex, prolonged viewing of pornography, cuckoldry novels, and videos. Initially, it was because the plots were exciting and entertaining, but later, unconsciously, they became cuckoldry enthusiasts. Many, due to frequent viewing, develop the misconception that cuckoldry is a common sexual practice, easily accepted by most people.)
3. Marital Stimulation (The husband, who is typically conservative and adheres to traditional marital ethics, suddenly catches his wife in bed with her lover. During divorce or a period of marital discord, many men, lacking sexual partners, resort to masturbation or casual sex. At this time, some will frequently have images of their wife having sex with her lover in their minds. Despite pain and anger, their bodies exhibit extreme excitement. Over time, this can lead to cuckoldry and sexual escapism. I have witnessed this transformation in more than one person, and therefore, after careful consideration, I have decided to include it here.)
4. Inferiority Complex (These husbands often have average sexual ability, or even erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation. In normal life, they wouldn't normally become cuckold enthusiasts, but in the current online environment, after frequently watching videos and seeing others boast about their large penises, or even witnessing such acts firsthand, they unconsciously connect these experiences with their wives, with whom they often see each other naked. Gradually, they begin to imagine what it would be like if their wives were with such men, and the more they think about it, the stronger their desire becomes. This group is mostly cuckolded or wife-cuckolding, representing a potential cuckolding population. Because after prolonged wife-cuckolding, they develop a worship of large penises and immerse themselves in the excitement and humiliation of experiencing wife-cuckolding.)
5. Overly Loving Wives (These husbands often believe that their wives shouldn't only experience the sexual pleasure they provide, but should also experience the different sensations offered by other women. Note that this isn't about sharing ideas or their wives; rather, in their eyes, their wives' happiness is paramount. Just as men rack their brains to create romance during courtship to move and please their wives, they simply want their wives to be happy and joyful, not just live a monotonous, repetitive life after marriage, where sex is merely a passive, uninspiring act.)
6. Genetics (While not strictly genetic, this group often exhibits some degree of this tendency from the time they develop sexual awareness. This tendency is largely influenced by their living environment, exposure to different environments, and a certain degree of sexual addiction. This is a direction I haven't fully explored, but it certainly exists.)
7. Having too many sexual relationships with different women before marriage (these men have said goodbye to the stimulation of normal sex; that is, normal sexual relationships no longer arouse their excitement, increase their libido, or even cause them to get an erection like most men do. At this point, they need other sexual methods to stimulate their sexual needs, which leads to thoughts of sex or BDSM).
8. Simply to have sex with other men's wives (these men are often self-centered, and the feelings of others are not within their scope of consideration. They exchange their own wives for sex with other men's wives).
Wife:
The wife is special because she may have not only ordinary desires for sex or cuckoldry, but also the urge to see her husband have sex with other women; let's call this the wife's cuckoldry.
First, let's analyze why wives might be cuckolded:
1. Family pressure (These wives often experience long-term psychological and mental stress due to the excellence of other family members during their upbringing. This stress can lead to distortions and changes in their behavior, with some entering the BDSM community, others becoming cuckolds themselves, or fantasizing or desiring to see their loved ones being sexually assaulted. These loved ones could be sisters, mothers, sisters, fathers, brothers, or even husbands.)
2. Childhood trauma (These women often experienced molestation or rape in childhood or witnessed weak family members (parents). Many of these women become distrustful of marriage and love, reject men, become lesbians, enter the BDSM community, engage in promiscuity, or cuckold themselves or their loved ones.)
3. Childhood education and repression: After being severely repressed, these women may appear obedient in front of others or elders and friends, but some develop distorted views on sex, and a significant portion enter the BDSM community as submissives.
4. An interest developed from excessive masturbation: watching their husbands have sex with other women.
This type of wife is probably quite familiar with this kind of hobby within the community, but even so, she represents a very small minority.
Unlike the above, most wives only engage in male-dominated cuckoldry; they are only responsible for the experience and enjoyment. (I know many wives are the ones communicating with the other party; those who nitpick this statement are being silly, haha, everyone knows what I mean.)

Many wives who engage in cuckoldry do so
for several reasons: 1. They have a high sex drive and have fantasized about trying promiscuity or sexual experiences with other men.
2. When their husbands first brought it up, they strongly resisted, but after repeated requests, they found it quite exciting, and their husbands were very excited afterward, without any negative emotions, so they simply continued.
3. There is another type of wife who engages in cuckoldry for a very tragic reason: they are mostly threatened by their husbands with divorce or suicide. Helpless, they have no choice but to sacrifice for their young children and their families. Moreover, the more they love their husbands, the greater the harm they suffer during the act.
Besides, there are other examples, such as after repeated requests and discussions from the husband, trying it once, feeling great during sex, but afterwards crying uncontrollably, feeling unclean, unfaithful, and despicable, etc.
Therefore, husbands, after recognizing this tendency, please calmly consider whether your wife can accept it, or if you disregard her feelings and insist on your own way.
Finally! I want to save this last sentence for single men who are constantly caught up in this cycle! Please think carefully! You've been trying to take advantage of others, to have sex with their wives, without realizing it! You're already being subtly influenced by this cycle! In your married life, you'll start to have cuckolding thoughts! And it will become uncontrollable!
Don't think this is nonsense; just think carefully about your past memories. Has a question ever crossed your mind: "What if my wife slept with someone else?" What
? What?! Unfortunately, I'm telling you, as long as you've thought about it, or are thinking about it now, even if you haven't continued thinking about it, this has already formed a subconscious seed that will slowly take root and sprout in the future!

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