Another step forward in training my wife

After being married for a long time, we've truly hit the seven-year itch. My wife and I feel like we've lost our passion for each other. We're too familiar with each other; maybe love has turned into familial affection. The day before yesterday, when we were about to have sex, my wife told me to hurry up and finish so she could go to sleep quickly and not miss her nap. Hearing this was a huge blow to me; I instantly lost all passion. I even stopped touching her breasts. I silently went out for a cigarette, hugged the blanket, and slept alone in the second bedroom. The next day, which was yesterday, I had no motivation to do anything. I felt like a failure and barely spoke a few words to my wife.
I guess my wife sensed something was wrong. Perhaps out of consideration for my feelings, she brought up the topic of sex when she got home from work today. We talked a lot, about the passion we had when we got married, and all the little things from when we started dating until now. She told me that now she focuses all her energy on taking care of the kids, and because she's so familiar with me, the passion has slowly faded. I ended by asking my wife if she wanted to hear my honest thoughts, what I was really thinking, but I promised she couldn't get angry. She said, "Go ahead, I won't get angry." So I started talking. I said, "Honey, I've been feeling really bad these past few days. I'm afraid of losing you." My wife asked, "How could you lose me?" Well, we're not doing well. I continued, "Sex is a bridge for communication between husband and wife. Without passionate sex, a marriage slowly heads into a dead end. I've lost all motivation in life; without passion, life feels like stagnant water. I want you to be a little more wanton. Men like women who are a bit sexy. You can't be too conservative in bed. I said I've always wanted to find you a male spa because I wanted you to meet other men. You're usually too reserved and a bit too conservative. I can't just tell you to go out and have sex with other men, because I'm worried you won't be able to accept that your husband might have such thoughts. You just..." I've been a man before, but I was always hesitant in bed, and the passion gradually faded. I continued, "Wife, I love you very much, but I crave a passionate life. I feel guilty that we lack passion now. Actually, the responsibility lies with your husband. If you don't have feelings for me, I'll allow you to go out and find handsome men of your type, even date them, as long as you can't leave me. I won't mind, as long as you have feelings for me. Maybe if you go out and indulge yourself a little, you'll become a bit more promiscuous, and I'll like that even more because I love you so much. You can go out and indulge yourself in this life because I love you, but I won't go out and find other women, also because I love you." We chatted yesterday. My wife was very passionate, and we made love very passionately. At our most exciting moment, I kissed her while we were making love, telling her I loved her and that if one day she felt I couldn't perform or we lost our passion, she could go out and hook up with other men, and I wouldn't blame her. I added that if she was worried about safety, she could tell me, and I would find her a reliable, handsome guy with a big dick. My wife seemed to enjoy it and told me she would listen to me. Then, as I thrust, I said that so many people had their eyes on my beautiful wife, and so many big dicks wanted to fuck her. Today we had a high-quality lovemaking session, and my wife was unusually cooperative throughout. In the end, she didn't blame me.

My writing isn't very good, and it's a bit wordy, but please bear with it. Even though we haven't taken the first step yet, there's hope in moving forward.

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