69 Paradise Nationwide Dating: (VI) How to establish and maintain a long-term marital/romantic relationship (person traveling between Hefei and Shenzhen)

69 Paradise Nationwide Dating: (VI) How to Establish and Maintain a Long-Term Couple/Romantic Relationship (Traveling Between Hefei and Shenzhen)

I haven't been on the forum for half a year, nor have I met any new friends in person. On the one hand, projects that were stalled in the previous two years have been fully launched this year, and my time and energy are all focused on work. More importantly, this circle has become increasingly fast-paced and complex, filled with various unstable factors, and I would like to seek some relatively long-term and stable relationships.

There are three reasons:

First, sex is not the release of primal animalistic desires. I've always believed that sex should at least be based on mutual attraction, which in turn is built on a certain amount of time spent together and getting to know each other. How long can a quick, casual encounter last, and how much pleasure can it bring?
Secondly, there's the issue of safety, primarily concerning personal and professional safety. Without a certain level of understanding, can either partner truly know what kind of person the other is? Whether it's a married couple, a single man, or just a casual encounter, the end result might be constant anxiety. There are quite a few people in the sex industry who pretend to be married or in a relationship, or even hire prostitutes to do so.
Thirdly, there's the health issue. For most men and some women, using a condom can affect pleasure. Many men in couples look forward to their wives/girlfriends being penetrated and marked. However, too frequent changes of partners force one to take various precautions, and even then, there can be psychological burdens. PS. Personally, whether or not to use a condom depends first on blood testing, and secondly on the partner's opinion. My main concern is that I have a larger size, and it's difficult to find ultra-thin condoms like the Okamoto 001 online in large or one-size-fits-all sizes.

However, long-term, stable partners are becoming increasingly difficult to find. Issues include distance, time constraints, and most importantly, shared values. It's not about how long you can chat, but about whether someone will simply disappear after a while, or just be fantasizing about your experiences or stories. Personally, I've had relationships that lasted a year without any physical intimacy.

So, maintain a balanced perspective and don't be too goal-oriented, or you'll exhaust yourself. Shared values and decent personal qualities are essential for a stable relationship. Maintaining such a relationship requires effort from both parties. The best way is through regular activities, even if it's a long-distance relationship. Like a couple near Shenzhen, I regularly visit them (it's a two-hour high-speed train ride), and they also come to Shenzhen when both have time. For those further away, due to work and time constraints, we might only see each other a few times a year, mainly maintaining contact via QQ or WeChat. Of course, not every contact is about sex; we talk more about life and hobbies. Every meeting doesn't have to be sexual; sometimes it's just a simple meal and drinks. Therefore, long-term, stable relationships still require maintenance.

The above only represents my personal state and views. I don't deny the fast-paced lifestyle within the industry, but I just feel it's not suitable for me. It's like the attitude towards prostitution; I've never sought it out and would never, but I don't object to others doing so, and I even often arrange things for clients.

In the second half of the year, I hope my work can be easier, allowing me more personal time and the opportunity to meet like-minded friends. Time might be an issue, but distance isn't.

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