What factors influence the lifespan of a marriage during the "seven-year itch"?

Sexual activity can sometimes be a great way to relieve stress, but many women fail to utilize it effectively. It's normal for men to have thoughts of infidelity around three, seven, or ten years into their marriage, whether actively or passively. The saying "the three-year itch" and "the seven-year itch" still holds some truth. If a man doesn't cheat after ten years of marriage, he's basically unlikely to do so. This problem is very annoying and frustrating.
Too much work pressure
Modern society has spawned many "modern ailments," with high work pressure and a hectic pace of life. Men easily bring their work stress home, resulting in them still thinking about work when they go to bed, naturally lacking energy and unable to sleep well. Modern women are mostly no longer housewives; they have their own careers, and their self-esteem and confidence are pushed to the limit by work. They often force themselves to work, returning home exhausted. It is at this time that conflicts are most likely to arise between men and women, and emotions are more volatile than usual. Sexual activity, sometimes a good way to relieve stress, is often overlooked by many women.
Just because I'm too lonely
Most divorces occur because couples live apart and lack a normal sex life. Men often face hardship and sacrifice for work and family, no matter how difficult. Women shouldn't expect their men to remain celibate. Celibacy is unrealistic for men who frequently travel for work and social engagements; it's detrimental to their work and relationships. Men already work hard, so relaxation and enjoyment are understandable. Expecting a man to remain celibate is worse than castration. Women should understand and empathize with men's sacrifices for their families.
Lack of understanding and care
Most men, due to their social roles, are sometimes less willing to express their pain and stress, often keeping it to themselves. At these times, men need more understanding and care. Women, too, have their own families and a multitude of responsibilities, making oversights inevitable. Daily life is filled with countless琐事 (trivial matters), often leading to neglect of one thing for another. Constantly occupied with computers, televisions, and phone calls, life becomes a monotonous spectacle.
Enjoying a high-quality life is fine, but it's best not to become a slave to it. I suggest that the couple turn off their devices frequently, experience a life without electricity, go out and have some fun, and then go back to the days when they were dating.
My wife is so capable
The progress of modern society is due to the fact that it has given women more opportunities. Women are becoming more and more capable, and a number of outstanding representatives have emerged. The emergence of strong women has disrupted the original Chinese tradition of women staying at home and men working outside, resulting in a situation where women are dominant and men are subservient. Capable women have made men subordinates, so men have no choice but to find their sense of being men with other women.
Generally, women tend to manage the money men earn. Women believe that this money is meant to support the family, so controlling the household finances means controlling the man's lifeline; without money, how can he go out and fool around? Men, on the other hand, have to fight for their rights and often keep some money hidden away, but they'd better hide it well, because getting caught is no good.
It's not a bad thing for a woman to be stingy with money, but she must be careful to find the right balance. If she doesn't handle it well, she might keep the money, but her man's heart will wander further away. So, for strong, independent women who truly don't want their men to cheat, it's best to leave their strong, independent lives to the outside world and instead be a domestic, caring woman at home. A woman who is elegant in public and good at the kitchen is the one who can truly keep her man's heart. A man's confidence needs to be cultivated, and his self-esteem needs to be respected.

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