Some thoughts on couples' dating and cuckoldry.

This post has been published elsewhere, but I recently saw it in this forum's section on adult content, so I'm posting it here for discussion and learning.
I've seen some posts on this forum about couples engaging in sexual activity and cuckoldry. Some people may have seen many videos and articles on these topics and become particularly interested, gradually feeling the thrill and wanting to try it.

I first encountered information about couples engaging in sexual activity around 2020, I think I learned about it from a video of a program featuring a female celebrity. At the time, I came across her forum, which I won't mention here for the sake of propriety. Back then, there was a lot of information about these things there, and most of the forums were very active, but now they're practically dead. As a single man, I've been involved for a long time, and I'd like to share a few of my thoughts.

First, couples engaging in sexual activity and cuckoldry are two different concepts. They may seem similar in meaning and activity, but their essence is different.
Couples engaging in sexual activity is a communication activity between couples for the purpose of shared sex and a happy sex life. Its essence is to improve the quality of their sex life and thus their overall quality of life. Its basic starting point is female-centric, with both partners achieving spiritual connection.
Cuckoldry, on the other hand, involves a man using his wife's unique psychological role to engage in a series of sexual acts and other special activities to satisfy his own psychological pleasure. Its basic purpose is to fulfill the man's specific psychological needs.
In my experience with cuckoldry, I've encountered two scenarios. One is where the wife is completely voluntary and wholeheartedly enjoys the process. The other is where the wife reluctantly accepts the behavior, solely to satisfy her husband's personal psychological needs. I'm not sure whether these two scenarios are good or bad, but the fully voluntary scenario is clearly more effective than the second.

Secondly, the methods of couples engaging in casual sex and cuckoldry are similar.
The procedures for couples engaging in casual sex and cuckoldry are basically the same. Initially, it usually starts with the husband, because most Chinese women are reserved and introverted, and won't openly express their thoughts, although there are very few exceptions. Generally, the husband first develops the idea and then guides his wife in this direction. The methods of guidance are varied, such as watching videos or reading novels together, encouraging the wife to expose herself, etc. The most important point is to open the wife's mind, and the methods vary from person to person.
If the husband successfully guides his wife and they maintain a unified mindset, they begin selecting partners for the activity. Couples engaging in "friendship" or "cuckoldry" typically start with a single man, making it easier for the wife to accept. Later, couples engaging in "friendship" may develop into relationships between couples, while cuckoldry may progress to group activities. Partner selection is crucial because these activities involve strong privacy concerns and social ethical debates; choosing the wrong person can negatively impact their lives and outweigh the benefits. Safety is paramount.

Once partners are chosen, the initial content of the activity varies depending on the individual's needs and level of acceptance.
For example, I met Mr. L and his wife, both around 40 years old, from a city in central China. Mr. L had a moderate cuckoldry mentality. Our first meeting consisted of just the two of us having dinner and chatting. He said that initially, after realizing his feelings, he didn't dare tell his wife, but he gradually guided her, though initially with limited success. His wife enjoyed foot massages for relaxation, the proper kind. Eventually, Mr. L carefully found a male massage therapist for her online. Mr. L's intention was cuckoldry, and I suspect they discussed this during their conversations.
They booked a hotel room. While the young man was giving the massage, Brother L pretended to go out but actually hid in the hotel bathroom. The young man started with a normal spa treatment, but later he massaged her completely naked, and slowly he slept with Sister-in-law L. Brother L got very excited when he talked about this, saying that he saw Sister-
in-law L lying on the bed being penetrated from behind by the young man with his big penis, and he excitedly masturbated a couple of times before ejaculating. This is his exact words. This is a true story, and I won't go into what happened afterward. The point of all this is to illustrate that the starting point of any activity varies from person to person and depends on individual circumstances.

Third,
both marital friendships and cuckoldry require a deep emotional foundation. No matter how stimulating these two activities are, they need a deep emotional foundation to proceed. Marital friendships, needless to say, are meant to provide a spice to the quality of a couple's sex life. If both parties don't communicate openly and completely, and accept each other emotionally, such activities won't happen. Friendships without a deep emotional foundation will make your life worse, not better. The same applies to cuckoldry. Without a wife who fully loves you, a husband won't have the opportunity to satisfy his special desires. Even if he does, and the wife consents, be careful not to lose sight of the bigger picture when she fully opens up later.

Fourth, marital friendships and cuckoldry activities should be grounded in a normal life.
We are all members of society and need to contribute to society through our own lives and work. Friendships can enhance enjoyment, but they should be based on a normal life.

Fifth, friends, take note that you
haven't participated in such activities for a long time. In today's rapidly changing society, with soaring housing prices and depreciating currency, managing your own life well is paramount. Desires need to be satisfied, but they also need to be controlled. Falling into the abyss of desire will only lead to more losses. Of course, those who stay home and count money every day are an exception.

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