In today's society, it's common for wives to have affairs; it just depends on whether you can accept it.

If a husband is in poor health or is too busy with work to come home often and cannot satisfy his wife, can he accept his wife having a lover?

Let's see what netizens are saying:

1. We have to accept it! What era are we living in? We need to liberate our thinking. If we can't do it ourselves, we have to find external help so that our wives can have sexual happiness and joy, which will promote family harmony and happiness.

2. Find someone stable, preferably a married man whose family agrees. Be firm on principles, pay attention to hygiene, avoid contracting diseases, protect yourself, and keep a low profile.

3. Absolutely, provided the family is protected. If she can't have a lover herself, she should be allowed to. My wife encountered a very sexually aggressive man at work. Initially, she was forced, but after her resistance proved futile, she submitted to him after he roughly penetrated her vagina. During his pounding, violent penetration, my wife experienced a wonderful orgasm, feeling extremely stimulated and comfortable. Afterward, she willingly became his lover. Now they meet a few times a month, and otherwise, they are busy with their own lives, so it hasn't affected their work or family.

4. This situation is common now... but it's best to find a reliable partner, and prioritize safety, hygiene, and confidentiality, ensuring it doesn't affect your family! Don't just go for anything!

5. It should be possible, provided you don't despise your husband. Even if he can't satisfy you, you must satisfy him. Otherwise, he'll feel unbalanced. That's how I am. I'm not capable, but I still have needs, and my wife always tries to satisfy me, giving me oral sex and licking my testicles. I feel very excited and satisfied. She goes out to find lovers, and I acquiesce. If someone isn't satisfied, they can't stay hungry forever, right?

6. These kinds of things happen too often in today's society. Forget about loyalty or infidelity; life is hard enough as it is, and women shouldn't be too hard on themselves. As the saying goes, "Thirty is like a wolf, forty is like a tiger." A woman who is constantly hungry will be restless, unable to eat or sleep, and completely unable to do anything productive. (The phrase "山爱武山剥湿妻溜湿衣" is a Chinese idiom meaning "a woman loves her husband, but her clothes are wet.") If I can't satisfy my wife's needs, I'll definitely allow her to go out and find other men to satisfy them, but it must be a stable partner; it can't be too promiscuous.

7. It's necessary to accept that women need men's nourishment to stay youthful and beautiful, have a happy sex life, good skin, good complexion, a good mood, and good health.

8. This isn't a matter of acceptance or non-acceptance; if it were my wife, she would have to have a lover.

9. Which woman doesn't have a lover these days? Whether you like it or not, you have to accept it. It's an unspoken understanding. As long as both are happy, that's all that matters. A wife having a lover is both exciting and harmonious.

10. Acceptable. As long as she's happy and willing, it's good for her to have someone to love her; a wife is happy. But please take precautions.

11. Yes, it's okay for a wife to have a lover. It satisfies her physical needs, maintains family harmony, and also relieves some of the husband's burdens. As long as the couple communicates well, it's fine.

12. If a husband supports his wife having a lover, that's probably true love. But if he only supports his wife having a lover for financial gain, that's a different story.

13. My wife also has several regular lovers, all of whom I introduced to her. I often encourage her to go out and meet them, so that she can enjoy herself while she's young and experience the pleasures of being a woman.
He loved to undress his wife while she was soaking wet. His wife enjoyed it immensely, and they lived a very comfortable life. Every day she was radiant and full of charm. Their life was harmonious and filled with happiness.

14. If her lover also has a family and they've been together for several years, in my opinion, they only have occasional sexual relations, and it's likely that the relationship will fade over time. Since you haven't discovered their relationship after several years and she still frequently has sex with your wife, it means she still prioritizes you and your family. So, since it's been several years, don't worry about it. Also, the fact that your wife has a lover suggests she's beautiful and attractive. I wish my wife could have a lover too, but that's impossible because she's already old.

15. My wife has two lovers. Sometimes, coincidentally, both lovers will ask her for sex in one day. They both come home saying they're tired and sore all over, but even so, she still satisfies me that night. Now, my relationship with my wife is getting better and better!

16. Of course! If they have been dating for several years, it is fine to maintain the status quo. As long as it does not affect their families, they can continue to see each other.

17. Yes, as long as her heart is at home, I can help her find someone else, as long as she's happy.

18. Of course I allow it! I have never interfered with her interactions with that person from the beginning until now.

19. Since you haven't broken up the family and it's been so many years, just let her be! You can talk about having fun together! Anyway, one man can't satisfy one woman! If she likes excitement, then go for it, let her enjoy it from both ends!

20. My wife lived with another man before we got married, and even after we got married, she often went back to live with him. I work in another city and can only go back a few times a year. In the two years of our marriage, I've had sex with her more than ten times, always with condoms. She never uses condoms with that other man, and he told me he felt like throwing up from having sex with her. Now my wife is pregnant, but we're worried that an abortion would affect her future fertility, so we have to give birth.

21. If you truly love your wife, you should allow her to have a lover and tolerate everything about her.

22. My wife's lover invited my wife over, and the four of us swapped partners for fun.

23. Men can allow their wives to have lovers! More and more women are having affairs these days; it's an inevitable trend, and a small number of men can only silently face reality!

24. My wife lived with her high school boyfriend for four years before college. We've been married for six years now. Three years ago, at their high school reunion, she didn't come home that night and was slept with by her ex-boyfriend. She's been addicted ever since, and it's been out of control. Of course, my wife confessed to me. At first, I couldn't accept it, until later, I discovered that my wife has two moles on her buttocks. Women with that feature have a very high sex drive. I realized that I also bore some responsibility for my wife's infidelity. So, I forgave her! Now, my wife has been cheating for three years. She still loves me, and that's enough for me!

25. As long as the child is yours, it's fine. It's okay for a woman to have an affair, as long as she takes care of the family.

26. In today's society, it's very normal for women to have affairs! A woman's infidelity isn't because the man is poor or incompetent! A woman's infidelity has only two purposes: First, for money! Second, to have a good time!

27. Actually, many men nowadays can accept their wives cheating on them, it's just a matter of saving face. Anyway, my wife cheated on me with her high school boyfriend, and I didn't say anything. As long as she takes care of the family, it's fine; she can manage the balance. Note: Women either cheat zero times or countless times. My wife was at a high school reunion, and in a semi-drunk state, her ex-boyfriend penetrated her. She enjoyed the long-lost feeling, so she didn't resist. Afterwards, she confessed that she wanted to enjoy the stimulation and pleasure her boyfriend gave her, but it wouldn't affect the family, and she hoped I would agree. I agreed.

28. I can accept it. I love her. As long as my wife doesn't completely betray the family, a little indulgence is acceptable. Loving her means tolerating her. My wife often cheats on me, and sometimes I even arrange and encourage it. As long as my wife is happy, that's all that matters.

29. My wife is timid but also longs for it. With my encouragement, she finally took that step and now she's very outgoing. Sometimes she invites two or three men over to play with me. We've been married for twenty years and I estimate we've played with about two hundred men. We have five regular partners. We love each other very much and both enjoy this feeling.

30. Not bad, not bad. That's how a man should be. As long as his wife is happy and satisfied, that's all that matters. Besides, you don't even need to use that thing; it will only get more and more moisturizing.

31. I accept it. I love her very much and hope she is satisfied.

32. Most men wouldn't accept this, after all, being cuckolded would be a laughing stock. But if a man truly loves his wife, he might be able to accept it.

33、现在已经有很多，很多的男人能接受自己的老婆出轨了！女人出轨也不再是什么稀奇，古怪或是下流的事情了！现在出轨的女人"比比皆是"，男人工作忙，无暇顾及自己的老婆，还有就是有的男人患有某种慢性疾病如前列腺炎，慢性肾炎等等，所以，就有很多男人无法像自己的老婆交公粮！山爱武山扒湿妻溜湿衣。这样就导致老婆天天在家"守活寡"！到了晚上，老婆辗转反侧，更是寂莫难奈！所以老婆出轨就是很自然的事情了。

34、其实老婆出轨还是有她自己的收获的！首先，满足了她自己的生理需要，其次，还能湿润，光滑和细腻自己的皮肤，常言道："女人要想皮肤好，三个男人少不了"！只要某个女人与两三个或者三，四个男人相处一段时间，女人最明显的变化就是全身的皮肤变好了，脸上的黄褐斑消失了，皱纹也显著减少了，如果女人还想进一步的"浪"下去，她还有更多的收获，那就是："脸面嫩白又透红，六个男人真美容"！女人只要交上六，七个男人作为好朋友，那她自己就彻底"改头换面"了，红光满面，白里透红，皮肤嫩白而细腻，重返第二春，再次十八岁，这就是女人出轨的收获，男人们你们能接受就是好的，老婆不会吃亏的。

35、我老公就坚持我出轨，我情人是农村人家里条件不好，是低保户。有次不小心怀了他的孩子，老公让我生下来，为此老公还给我们在乡下盖了房子，我现在是两头住，有时候也会带情人回家过夜，老公就会自觉的睡客房。还会为我俩准备夜宵。

36、我情人是我邻居也是同事，他单身，我和我老公有一个女儿，读小学三年级。我老公在外打工，一年偶尔回家几次。我常年和情人一起生活，情人的爸妈也知道我们关系，我也管他们叫爸爸妈妈，他们一直让我给他生个孙子。山爱武山扒湿妻溜湿衣。我说我老公同意我外面有人也不和我离婚，他们说没事，让我先怀上再说，我该咋办？

37、绅士，开明，各取所需，各得其所，才是最好的夫妻关系，才是是人性的生活状态，才是最科学的养生之道。

38、其实夫妻俩想开了玩玩也不错，只是接受不了。玩归玩，玩够了再顾家，就是好老婆。

39、我老婆也有情人，现在越来越漂亮，皮肤也白嫩了，支持！

40、女人靠睡！只要是自愿的，睡的越多，身体、皮肤、容貌都会越来越好！只要不伤害双方家庭，出去开心一下又有什么不可以呢，我也支持老婆找情人的。

41、我是支持老婆出轨，我和妻子从相亲到婚后都平平淡淡，没激情，自从发现老婆和别的男人有关系后我对她更有激情了，只有夫妻关系不受影响，放开点没什么不好。

42、老婆闲着也是闲着，别人用起来她还能得到享受，只要老婆还爱你，爱你们共同的小家庭，老婆就没有错！

43、要有耐心，慢慢开导。我老婆差不多花了十年时间才同意的。最好是平时多给她看些那方面的小说和视频。在她高潮的时候提出找个帅哥来干她。这时候她肯定不会拒绝，时间长了慢慢就会转变观念的。

44、我可以接受老婆出轨，只要她开心就好。老婆偷人的那几年，确实气色很好，看起来也妩媚。

45、看你自己能力了！你不行还让人家压抑天性，凭什么？所以，这些事儿就是两个人商量办，真的不算啥事儿！

46、知道老婆出轨了，才懂得了老婆的优秀和娇媚！

47、婚后我也出轨了好多个女人，我赞成妻子出轨，个人感觉这样反而可以增进夫妻感情。

48、我也支持，其实这样感情更好的，她出轨的人后来我们一起吃饭聊天，感觉不错，而且自己的性生活也很好。

49、别人能否接受我不清楚，我自己是可以接受的，老婆要出轨我是允许的！因为这跟我的工作有关系，我长期在外面工作，几年难得回家一次，看见老婆寂寞难耐，我只能松手了，想叫老婆过我那边去，可是家里还有一堆人要她照顾，爸爸妈妈年纪大了，要她照顾，两个小孩还太小，也要她照顾，一家人的辛苦压得老婆喘不过气来，可我却帮不上忙，心里也不是滋味，为了解除老婆的寂寞，我默认了老婆的行动。

50、男人都想多拥有几个女人，为什么不让老婆也多享受几个男人呢，这样她会更爱我，因为她开心了。

51、老婆有情人很正常的，只要老婆喜欢就好，顾家就行了。老婆有情人说明她长得好，喜欢她的人多，她才会更加美丽性感有情趣。

52、我老婆也有情人，是长期的，也没有金钱交易，就是情人那种关系，我老婆找情人就是我让找的，我觉得女人没有情人是不是活的太失败了？

53、老婆有情人我不反对，因为我常年在外工作，家里的事顾不上，老婆就找情人了，女人也需要性爱的，只要她喜欢，我不反对。

54、我常年在外打工，只要她把家顾好，同意她找情人，老婆也的确做到了，家已照顾好，情人与老公都有了。

55、老婆在我的纵容和支持下，拥有好几个情人，在情人的滋润下老婆过得特开心，对我也更加恩爱。

56、能允许啊！这又不是什么大事，更不是什么坏事，和谐社会，和谐生活，怎么样舒适就怎么样过吧！山爱武山扒湿妻溜湿衣。不拘一格，生活才有起色，几个人或多个人一起过过夫妻生活，岂不是更加增添了生活的情趣吗？

57、能允许，我老婆这几十年来情人至少也一有三十多人吧，都是自愿的，从来没有过金钱交往，只要开心就好！

58、现在已经有很多，很多的男人能接受老婆出轨的！老婆出轨了那是她的事情，也可以说那是她的需要或者那是她的幸福！你做好自己该做的事情就行了，没必要对你老婆"耿耿于怀"的！

59、现在已经有好多，好多，好多的男人都允许自己的老婆出轨了！女人出轨已成现代生活的常态！就像上街购物一样的普遍了！如果你是一个女人，再不出轨，就是一个落伍分子了。

60、现在真不是个事儿了啊，我媳妇那个时候每次出去约会，回来我们聊，都很开心刺激。只是现在她不喜欢这样了。

61、我是支持老婆出轨，我和妻子从相亲到婚后都平平淡淡，没激情，自从发现老婆和别的男人有关系后我对她更有激情了，只有夫妻关系不受影响，放开点没什么不好。

62、如果自己身体不行了，可以对老婆"放婆归山"的！不然老婆就得守生寡了！

63、为什么喜欢妻子出轨，老婆出轨感觉非常刺激，觉得老婆特有魅力，老婆出轨后身心都得到愉悦，全身充满活力对生活充满激情，使身体更加丰润，经过更多男人的耕耘后气质更加迷人。山爱武山扒湿妻溜湿衣。
我特别喜欢这样的老婆，因为我们夫妻非常恩爱，老婆并没有因为外面的男人而影响到家庭，反而因为我的放纵而更加爱我，我从不介意老婆在外面的性生活，爱老婆就要让她性福。

64. How many people did men and women cohabit with before marriage? How many maintained contact with exes after marriage? How many raised children who weren't their own? Classmates sleep with classmates, colleagues sleep with colleagues, fellow villagers sleep with fellow villagers—cheating and infidelity are rampant. Unmarried girls become mistresses, married women seek thrills, and there are too many temporary couples in factories. Many girls lose their virginity in college, some even in middle school, and by the time they get married, they've already had several boyfriends. Women are increasingly restless and out partying. 30 years ago, cohabitation before marriage was rare, and women cheating was uncommon; now, premarital pregnancy is common, and few women remain faithful. People are becoming more independent, pursuing freedom and pleasure, and more and more young people are unwilling to marry, but sexual needs remain, leading to the emergence of casual sex partners. As society develops, this phenomenon will only intensify; it depends on whether you can accept it. In today's society, there are more men than women. Women of average looks are highly sought after, while beautiful women, even if they've been with many men, can still get married, and have a very high chance of marrying a man with decent conditions. After all, a woman's beauty is an asset. Dai Lu, Zhang Jinghua, and others have been exposed; how many so-called unmarried girls have been used by many men for years and are still in high demand? The world has changed. Now, even elementary school girls can't be guaranteed to be virgins, and more and more junior and senior high school girls have been sexually exploited. Once they enter university, as long as they have some looks and aren't particularly conservative or ugly, they've basically all been sexually exploited. Very few of them get married after graduation. As for those girls who don't go to university and go out to work at seventeen or eighteen, far from their parents, lonely and isolated, the chances of them being seduced and sexually exploited are almost 100%. Very few remain virgins after working away from home for years. By the time they get married at twenty-five or twenty-six, they've accumulated five or six years of sexual experience. The so-called "leftover women" of today are actually no different from divorced women, and some even have more colorful sexual experiences. In the future, it will be the norm for women to have multiple sexual partners, regardless of whether they are married or not.

There are many reasons why married women in modern times commit adultery:

Reason 1: Lack of love and care from her husband. Men may cheat for sex, but women often cheat not for sex, but for love.
The biggest reason for this is the lack of basic care from the husband. Many men neglect their wives after marriage, and their deeper emotional needs are not met, which leads them to have affairs and seek out men who care for and cherish them.

Reason Two: The temptations of society are too great. Women are more approachable and alluring than men, making them more likely to find partners for infidelity. In the broader social environment, women face far greater and more numerous temptations than men: money, fame, status, beauty, and so on. Any woman with even a little bit of attractiveness and charm can easily attract all sorts of men.

Reason Three: Relieving Life's Pressures. Society today places increasingly high demands on women, expecting them to be both successful in the workplace and capable and virtuous at home. This is especially true in China, where most women work to support their families, then return home to countless household chores, childcare, and caring for their in-laws, often bearing more pressure than men. Without an understanding and supportive husband to share the burden, women may be driven to seek release through infidelity.

Reason Four: A Desire for Attentive Care. Most women play the role of giver in marriage, constantly contributing to the family. While caring for others, they also hope to receive care and tenderness from their loved ones. Women need to be cared for both emotionally and physically. Therefore, seeking the feeling of being meticulously cared for could be a reason for a wife's infidelity.

Reason Five: Alleviating Inner Emptiness. Many women, once married, tie themselves to their husbands and families, completely losing their own lives. Marriage becomes their entire world, and due to the pressures of work and life, their leisure time becomes a luxury. The narrowing of a woman's social circle and scope of life after marriage makes her particularly prone to emptiness and loneliness within the marriage. Therefore, an unavoidable reason is the need for stimulating and novel ways to alleviate this inner loneliness and emptiness.

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