A considerate and good wife

During the May Day holiday, I had sex with my wife for the first time. I had heard before that girls should wait at least a week after their first time before having sex again, otherwise they are prone to infection. So, I didn't have sex with her for the next few days!
My girlfriend is a very traditional girl with a literary temperament. In her eyes, sex seems to be just an obligation. As her wife, she has to have sex with me, her husband; it's her responsibility, not something she should enjoy.

I remember the second time, I bought condoms. She was lying on the bed, and as I sat on the edge of the bed putting on the condom, she leaned on my back, resting her chin on my shoulder to watch. It was also my first time putting on a condom myself, and I couldn't get it right after a few tries. She said, "Isn't there an instruction manual? There should be instructions on how to put it on, right?" I got the condom box. The instructions said to hold the top where the semen would be collected and to be careful not to get any pubic hair caught in it. I asked her to hold the top for me while I slowly rolled it down myself. I could see her expression; she was very serious and careful, but her face was flushed, even her neck was red. After putting it on, she lay down with her legs together, her eyes wide open, looking at me just like the first time. I pressed myself against her, and she spread her legs apart. I used my legs to spread her legs a little wider and pushed hard against her genitals. I didn't get in. I don't know if my wife's vagina is small or what, but as soon as I tried to insert it, the flesh around the vaginal opening would concave, especially when it was dry and not stimulated. At that point, it wasn't actually inside; I had to keep pushing to get my penis in. This time, she wasn't stimulated much, so it was a bit dry, but I was too impatient and just wanted to get it in. So I straightened up, held my penis, and tried to insert it, watching it slowly disappear between her legs. It was really stimulating!
As I penetrated her, I watched her take a deep breath, close her eyes, and pull my arms, indicating that she wanted me to lie on top of her, not upright. I gently pressed down on her, but lying on top of her wasn't as easy to penetrate as being upright. However, she liked me lying on top of her, so I had no choice but to do so. I supported my upper body with my arms and gently thrust. At first, she was expressionless. Later, I thought of the "nine shallow thrusts followed by one deep thrust" technique. I tried it, quickly thrusting in and out about eight or nine times, then suddenly thrusting very deeply. She frowned, and I asked her if it hurt. She said, "No!" I continued like that. Later, she started to lightly bite her lip, wrapped her arms around my neck, and held me tightly. I couldn't move. I said, "Let go a little, I can't move." She loosened her grip a little. I was about to ejaculate at that point, so I thrust for a while and then came. Since I was wearing a condom, I quickly pulled it out. Before I even took the condom off, I sat on the edge of the bed and called to her, "Jing, look." I meant to make a joke, but she glanced at it and said, "Throw it away, throw it away!" She seemed really disgusted. I took it off and threw it in the toilet bin, wiped myself, and went back to find her sitting on the edge of the bed, wiping her genitals with tissue. After she finished, she put on her underwear and put two sheets of toilet paper inside. As soon as I lay down, she leaned against me and whispered in my ear, "Don't wear it next time, okay?" I said, "Does it feel the same?" She said, "Nothing's different, but I don't want you to wear it, it's so annoying!" I was really puzzled at the time, wondering if showing it to her had aroused her! I had no choice but to agree!

From then on, I planned to slowly change her mindset and teach her to enjoy sex!

Later, I thought that to let her know that sex is a pleasure, she had to experience an orgasm, that's what I thought at the time!

Two days later, that evening after we had dinner and came back from a walk, it was incredibly hot, and I said, "Let's take a shower." She said, "Hurry up and shower, I need to shower after you're done." I said, "We're an old married couple now, why don't we shower together?" She said, "You stink! Go wash yourself! Hurry up!!" I grabbed her and pulled her into the bathroom. She resisted for a while but couldn't get out. I quickly undressed her. The bathtub was still filled with water; I knew she liked bubbles. I held her, feeling her body heat, and my penis slowly became erect. She felt it, frowning at me. I said, "Never mind!" The water was ready, and I carried her into the tub, pouring in shower gel. She smiled, her face and neck turning red as usual. I sat in the tub, but she didn't want me to sit on her side. We sat facing each other. As soon as I approached, she kicked around. I used a shampoo bottle to spray water on her, and she splashed water back at me. After a while of playful fighting, I said, "Okay, okay, I won't mess with you anymore." I got up and rinsed off the soap with the shower. At that moment, I suddenly remembered to give her oral sex to see how she felt. So I said, "Are you done washing?" "Get up quickly," she said, standing up with bubbles on her body. I rinsed her off with the showerhead and told her to sit down. I helped her sit on the edge of the bathtub. She said, "What are you doing?" I squatted down and tried to separate her legs, but she kept them tightly together. I said, "It's to make you feel good, spread your legs." She seemed helpless. I gently parted her legs, and this time I could see very clearly. It was the first time I'd seen her genitals under such bright light. Her labia majora were very light in color, only slightly darker than the surrounding skin, and her labia minora were just a little bit showing. As soon as I touched them, she reached out, as if to stop me. She said, "What are you doing?" I said, "It'll make you feel good." She placed her hands on her lower abdomen. I parted her labia and looked at her expression. Her eyes were wide open, staring at me. I laughed. She said, "It's so embarrassing, and you're still laughing?" I ignored her, leaned over and smelled her, then lightly licked her clitoris with my tongue. She said, "Don't do that, it's unhygienic!" I said, "How could it be?" Unexpectedly, she pushed me away, saying, "Don't do this, I can't accept it," and then grabbed a towel and went back to the bedroom! I was very upset!

I went back to the bedroom and saw her lying on the bed, her back to me, but she wasn't wearing any clothes. I went over and lay down next to her, hugging her from behind and saying, "What's wrong? Are you angry? Actually, this kind of thing is very normal in couples." She said, "I just can't accept it." I said, "Then I won't do it again. Actually, I just wanted you to feel good, I've never made you orgasm." She said, "What orgasm? You being good is enough for me, really!" I said, "But I don't think that's true. For men, only when their woman orgasms, otherwise they feel useless!" She said, "I don't need that, you being good is enough!" After saying that, she turned around and looked at me. I hugged her, and after a while, we just had normal sex, the same as before, because her reaction the night before made me afraid to do anything more.

The next few times we had sex, it was all very proper. She lay down, I was on top of her, thrusting, and it was over when I ejaculated! She didn't seem to have any complaints!

But I still want to change her. I've reflected on it. She's only done it a few times, and I'm already giving her oral sex. If I were her, I probably wouldn't accept it either! I should avoid making inappropriate moves with her and communicate with her more verbally!

That evening, when we got home, I went into the bathroom to shower. After showering, I lay in bed watching TV while she was online. I said, "Go take a shower, hurry up!" She said, "Wait a minute." I went over, turned off the computer, and she suddenly stood up and hit me, saying, "I haven't finished playing yet!! And you turned it off!!" I said, "Go take a shower." As I said this, I pushed her towards the bathroom. She said, "I haven't gotten my clothes yet." I said, "I'll get them for you." After a while, she poked her head out and asked me to get her clothes. I pretended to be asleep and ignored her. She came over herself, wrapped in a bath towel, and said, "What kind of person are you? You said you'd get me clothes, and you fell asleep." After saying that, she went to the wardrobe to get dressed. I hugged her from behind and pushed her onto the bed. She hit me, laughing, and said, "You're joking again!" I said, "Why are you getting dressed? I want you!" She said, "I knew it! What's the point of rushing me to take a shower!" I lifted the towel off her body. She had just showered; some parts were still damp, others dry. The damp parts were soft, the dry parts slippery, especially her breasts—snow-white! I almost felt a nosebleed. I gently kissed her, and when I sucked on her nipple, she said, "It tickles!" I licked it lightly. After a while, I pressed down on her, kissing her neck and gently biting her earlobe (I later learned that my wife's earlobes are extremely sensitive and can't tolerate stimulation). She actually took a deep breath. I spread her legs with my legs and tried to insert myself, but couldn't. I touched her face and said, "Help me!" She looked at me suspiciously. I said, "Where? I can't get in." She laughed, and I felt her hand reach over and touch my testicles! I said, "Why are you touching my balls?" "Just put my penis there," she said, closing her eyes and gently adjusting my penis's position. Following her "instructions," I inserted it, then pushed harder, all the way in. I felt her vagina contract slightly; she always did this. I held her shoulders, almost supporting my upper body on my elbows. I didn't thrust, but gently bit her earlobe. After a while, I looked at her face; she was biting her lip and frowning. I asked, "What's wrong?" She put one arm under my armpit around my back and touched my head with the other, whispering in my ear, "It feels so intense, so uncomfortable!" I thought she was definitely suppressing the pleasure, no wonder she said it was uncomfortable. I said, "Don't suppress that feeling. Let it be, just let it be, listen to me!" She hummed in agreement. I straightened my arm to make it easier to thrust, so I used a nine-shallow-one-deep method. When I thrust very deep, she let out a soft "Ah!" as if she'd been hit. I asked, "Is it good?" She said, "Continue!" I knew she was starting to enjoy the feeling, so I kept thrusting in and out. She was panting with her mouth open, and her vagina would occasionally contract. I felt so good and happy at that moment!
Haha!!

After a while, I suddenly wanted to see what her genitals looked like. I straightened up, pulled out, and her labia seemed to have thickened a bit, feeling swollen. Her labia minora were everted, and there was white foam at the vaginal opening. She said, "What are you doing?" I thought, if I touch her now, will she have an orgasm later? I knew I couldn't hold on for much longer, so I held her in my arms and said, "Don't worry about it, just feel me." I gently touched her hard clitoris, then, like in porn movies, I inserted my middle finger and gently stroked her clitoris with my thumb. I continued, "Don't be nervous, don't suppress that feeling, just let it be! You'll feel great soon." She moaned softly, "Mmm! Mmm!" but the sound was very faint. That's when I believed it; women really do moan when they're having sex. After a while, she squeezed her legs together. I asked, "What's wrong?" She didn't answer, so I laid her down, spread her legs, and started thrusting. This time she seemed to cooperate with my movements. After about three minutes, she let out an "Ah!" and suddenly hugged me, her legs clamping around me, her vagina contracting rhythmically, unlike before when it was only occasional. I had to stop thrusting. After a while, she let go of me. I asked her, "Was it really good?" She didn't answer, so I continued thrusting. She started moaning again, and after a few thrusts, I ejaculated! After ejaculating, I suddenly felt very tired and collapsed on top of her!

After a long while, I realized she was kissing me. I propped myself up and looked at her. She shyly turned her face away. I asked, "How did it feel? You weren't paying attention to me!" She said, "I don't know, my whole body felt warm, in waves! I couldn't take it!" I said, "You had an orgasm, didn't you?" She just smiled. I said, "You have to be good next time, otherwise you won't feel so good. I was completely captivated by you today!"

After that, our relationship became even better, and we were much closer than before! I finally understood that sex isn't about the frequency, but the quality!! One good sexual experience is worth more than ten bad ones!!

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