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How to determine what constitutes a high-quality single man? 

I'll tell you from a few aspects what you should pay attention to when choosing a single man. 1. First, you need to determine if he is an honest person. From a couple's perspective, if you want to enter this circle, you should be fully prepared mentally. This first step in choosing a single man is especially important. I believe the single man group in this community is the largest, numbering in the tens of thousands. I divide them into three types. One type is just there to watch the fun. They come to read posts every day, sometimes replying, hoping to find someone willing to "eat meat" (i.e., find a partner). The second type is those who specifically wait and observe. They have plenty of time, a very strong sense of smell, and excellent communication skills. The third type is those who lurk. These single men are either those who want to have fun but can't afford it, or they are regulars. Those who want to have fun but can't afford it might be college students, high school students, 9-to-5 office workers, or unemployed people. They enjoy reading and commenting on posts, adding various couples online, and curiously exploring other people's secrets. Some are simply there for chatting and never consider taking any real action. They don't have the time to cultivate a relationship; they just use their phones to flirt. Another type, the more established type, has their own small, stable circle of friends that they generally don't abandon. However, these single men are very low-key and usually don't proactively contact others. Getting back to the main point, a trustworthy single man is the primary criterion for selection. A single man should have a carefully prepared set of photos, language, and thought processes to package himself. And all of this should be genuine; there's no need to boast about his size or abilities. He'll prove himself eventually. When choosing a couple, honesty is paramount. Secondly, during the dating process, carefully observe the single man. Many single men struggle to communicate effectively with couples. Their carefully prepared words often fail to find the right opportunity to be expressed. As the saying goes, the greater the hope, the greater the disappointment. Many single men fail before the relationship even begins, not because they aren't good enough, but because they fail to cater to the couple's tastes. If we compare this to a job interview, single men must be prepared for a thorough interview. The interviewer is the husband in a married couple, so you need to find a way to impress him and prepare your own plan. Interviewers don't like nitpicking; humility and prudence are what they value. The husband in a married couple needs to put in more effort to assess the single man; this is crucial. I think there's no need to use your past experiences as leverage, and certainly don't boast about your past. Those are just the past. If you truly lack experience, it's better to learn more and communicate more. Couples with less experience might need this kind of person; people who start from the same point are more likely to come together. If the husband thinks you're a good person and you get along well, he will quickly arrange for you to meet his wife. Whether it's chatting or video chatting, a high-quality single man must be clear about his position. Remember not to usurp their position. Before you've reached that stage with them, don't flirt excessively with others or try to manipulate their thoughts. Every action you take is facing the test of impending success. Remember to avoid arrogance and impatience. Many single men reach this stage but don't take the next step. High-quality single men also need to be able to endure the ordeal. I believe everyone has encountered this type of person: they chat enthusiastically with you on the first day, become silent on the second, and start lurking in the shadows on the third. When a couple chooses you, you need to be proactive, yet also passive at the right time. You might want to explain your usual schedule and when you're free beforehand. Choose a good moment to initiate contact during the conversation. Some couples are hesitant at first; they're indecisive, wanting success but afraid of failure. Therefore, the best way to harmonize the relationship between the three of you is for single men to take the initiative to meet up if you truly run out of things to talk about online. Have a meal, a movie, karaoke—anything is fine. If you don't take the initiative, they won't either. If you can boldly take this step, you're not far from success. 3. The scenario design for single men is especially important for couples. Once you're in real life, don't think about how to get immediate gratification. I think this is the real test of a high-quality single man. Your time is limited; it might only be a short meal or a movie. How you make the most of this time and create more opportunities for yourself depends on your performance. A friendly smile, a graceful and gentle gesture will subtly earn you points in the woman's heart, playing a seemingly insignificant but crucial role in your subsequent physical intimacy. The more harmonious you are, the easier it is to get into the mood. The woman needs guidance—guidance from a stranger, guidance from a familiar person, guidance from a trusted person, guidance from someone she's looking forward to; her feelings will be different each time. I hope single men can be the last type. 4. Husbands need to be interactive. An excellent single man always knows when to stop. Being an excellent single man isn't enjoyable; it's actually very tiring. The pressure is immense, stemming from the internal test of oneself and the evaluation of the other couple. Don't put in effort for nothing. When you do put in effort, do your best to perfectly cater to the other person's feelings. If they don't like your flirtatious or provocative language, say less. At appropriate times, take the camera from your husband and, as an appreciator, capture the wonderful moments for others as well. Don't monopolize someone else's wife. This activity isn't for you alone; it's a three-person game. If you quit too early, it will make others feel awkward. 5. Observe whether the single man is playful and quick-witted. Being playful isn't just about knowing how to play with women and understanding their bodies; it's also about knowing how to play various games. After taking the first step and completing it, there will always be awkward moments. If the husband isn't prepared, the single men should have something prepared in advance. A quick-witted person will always say the right thing at the right time, whether it's praising the other person, easing the atmosphere, or guiding actions. Be sure to seize every opportunity to continuously improve your performance in this activity. 6. Observe whether the single man can strictly control himself. It's actually difficult to describe in words how to perform better in front of different people. If the other person treats you as a regular playmate, then you are excellent in the future, whether it's a three-person game or you are allowed to have a solo date. Always treat yourself as a guest, don't interfere in other people's family affairs, don't pry into other people's privacy, and don't invest your own feelings. It's important that you can strictly control yourself both when they need you and when they don't. 7. Couples, don't always be afraid of not meeting good people. Good people not only need to be discovered, but also require personal change. Cultivating a good single man will enrich your life. Why search so hard? Isn't it better to create your own? Single men, don't always observe. Sincerely adapt to others and improve yourself; you will become a better person.

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