How do we view married couples and single men?

Lately, while browsing the forums, I've frequently seen posts from single men, mostly expressing complaints, demands for more understanding from couples, or speculation about the existence of real couples on the forum. In response to these complaints, misunderstandings, and even questions, as a registered couple on this forum, I'd like to share some of our experiences, actions, and thoughts to represent our perspective on certain issues. This might help single men understand the mindset of couples, reducing misunderstandings and fostering understanding and tolerance.
My husband and I haven't been registered on the forum for very long, but through QQ chat we've met quite a few couples and single men, and we've learned about many people's thoughts and explanations for this behavior. Generally speaking, I divide the couples on the forum into three categories, mainly based on age. One category is couples aged 20-30. To be honest, I don't really understand why couples in this age group (if they are real couples) would have thoughts of swapping partners or having a threesome. Generally, couples with such thoughts are from families that have been married for a certain period, have relatively stable family environments, and relatively good economic conditions. It's just that as the marriage has progressed, much of the initial passion has faded, and the lack of emotional fulfillment has led to a desire for such behavior. And for couples in their 20s... Couples in their 30s are typically in a phase of relatively rich emotions, with passion outweighing affection. This is also a prime age for them to focus on their careers and work hard for their families. Therefore, when my spouse and I meet couples in their 20s, we usually only get to know them via QQ and don't engage in deeper conversations. This is partly for safety reasons, but more importantly, we haven't established a level of trust and don't understand their true intentions. Single men in this age group likely have a low success rate when trying to connect with such couples. Imagine expecting too much respect or understanding from a young person in their 20s? The second category is couples aged 30-42, which is where my spouse and I fall. We communicate more with couples in this age group because of our similar ages and perspectives. Couples in this age group often share many commonalities: their families and careers are relatively stable, they have a solid material foundation, and due to the passage of time and the development of their careers, they are more mature in their thinking. They generally have mature viewpoints and opinions on things and are open to new ideas. Couples with a certain capacity for acceptance and discernment regarding new things, and who act decisively once a decision is made, are more likely to be accepting of single men. Based on my understanding of these couples, their need for single men often outweighs their need for swapping partners. This is because the man in these couples tends to prioritize providing his wife with more enjoyment and expressions of love. Therefore, communication between single men and these couples is generally smoother, with a higher success rate. The third type of couple consists of those over 42. These couples are generally stable in their careers and families, financially secure, and some even hold certain positions. Because they are familiar with each other's needs and can empathize with one another, focusing on mutual care and giving, their desires are more often expressed through swapping. They are less concerned with the needs of single men. Furthermore, these couples have high standards for intellectual compatibility when making choices. Therefore, single men often find it difficult to enter the circle of these couples due to age, ideological differences, or, more importantly, differences in needs.
We've also met some single men, and we've had some real-life interactions with some of them—it felt great. Overall, most of the single men on the forum are of decent quality. However, single men should pay attention to a few details. First, couples have many things to deal with in real life and certainly don't have as much time to communicate as you might think. Also, once you're online, many single men will try to chat with you. Of course, we understand the behavior of single men, but as a single man, we believe you have more space to manage your time. Also, it's understandable for couples to ask single men to send photos; we don't want to abruptly ask them to video chat. We only communicate after we've seen the photos and felt a certain connection. Single men should rest assured that your photos are completely unnecessary for couples to keep, so we usually delete them after viewing them. We only request to see a video after some communication; it's a process. As for single men complaining that they received photos but then nothing happened, I can explain that it's possible the other person felt you weren't suitable for them and chose to remain silent to avoid embarrassing you. Since we met online, is it really necessary to give you a perfect explanation for this? As a single man, you chose this path, so you must be prepared to accept the consequences. Is it pressure? Otherwise, try changing your mindset and environment; maybe this place isn't right for you. Since choices are mutual, single men can absolutely say no to couples who aren't a good match. If a single man sees a couple and immediately wants to... well, I doubt your true intentions. What do you think of yourself? Although we often say we should separate sex from real feelings, there should still be some basic connection. Let me address the single man's question. Actually, there are many couples in the forum, but many don't speak out much for safety reasons, haha. And there are too many high-level lurking couples. I think... I have a suggestion for the forum moderators: if we held a diving champion competition, we'd definitely find a lot of couples, haha. But that's just a side note. More importantly, I want single men and couples to get to know each other better. Everyone has different communication styles, ways of thinking and expressing themselves. Choose the type that suits you best to communicate with; I believe everyone has one that works for them. I hope that all the couples and single men in forum 123 can find what they need and find the happiness they desire. I hope that through communication, both single men and couples can achieve their desired growth. We, as a couple, wish everyone the best! Thank you everyone!

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