What are threesome couples hoping for? (From an online article)

What do real (male-female-male) 3P couples expect? (Those interested in participating in a 3P should definitely read this first.)
As one of the few genuine 3P couples on the website, we feel it's necessary to tell everyone what kind of handsome men we want, to avoid those who lack self-awareness constantly being curious, harassed, and asked questions, and also to allow those truly excellent men who can make our relationship more harmonious to join us as soon as possible. First, we should understand what the starting point of a 3P couple is. Here, we need to start with the woman's perspective in a threesome : 1. Due to prolonged intimacy, she may experience sexual fatigue and easily fall into sexual fantasies during intercourse, imagining her husband as another object of her affection; 2. Her husband's request for a threesome conveniently fulfills her sexual fantasies; 3. She hopes to see her body desired in the eyes of another outstanding man and to personally experience and indulge in it; 4. She hopes to try having sex with different types of men and enjoy the differences; 5. She hopes to satisfy her husband's desire for a threesome and truly stimulate him, making him even more infatuated with her; 6. She wants to experience the sensory stimulation of being possessed, violated, and having an affair with another outstanding man in front of her husband; 7. She enjoys the thrill of being played with by two men simultaneously and can feel the atmosphere of being raped.
The motivations of the man in a threesome are generally as follows: 1. After many years of marriage, he may experience sexual fatigue; 2. He may feel a strong desire to provide his wife with intense stimulation and satisfaction due to his deep love for her; 3. He may feel a strong sensual stimulation after witnessing his wife being possessed by a man superior to himself.
Men and women involved in threesomes share the same psychological motivations as those mentioned above, which is why they are very selective and cautious in choosing their partners. Secondly, what kind of threesome partner do couples truly want ? Based on the above, the threesome partner we choose should meet the following conditions : He must be handsome. "Handsome" here can refer to any type of handsome man—gentle and refined, muscular, or sunny and dashing. These vary depending on the couple's preferences, but a crucial point is that your appearance must be outstanding, at least surpassing that of the husband in the couple. This is what will make the wife sexually interested in you. Here we'd like to share our experience. As husband and wife, we consider ourselves to be fairly attractive and have good physiques; we're the sunny type. Therefore, I've repeatedly stated on the website that we are a well-off couple and hope to find someone who meets our criteria. However, most of the responses have been disappointing. Some are so insecure they won't even show us photos; others insist on QQ video calls, but then become shy and hesitant, ultimately just out of curiosity to see what we look like; some send photos to my email, but their appearance is truly unappealing, yet they claim to be handsome in their emails; some even insist on video calls, and after the video call, my wife was disgusted by their appearance. Here, I believe that men like these should please have some self-respect. Threesome couples seek handsome or charming men who can bring them excitement and enjoyment. Our goal is to satisfy ourselves. If your criteria are far from ours, we will only laugh at your ignorance. Therefore, please carefully consider your own circumstances before making a decision ; you must be of a healthy type. Regardless of your physique (muscular or not), your body must be healthy. This means you must be free of any diseases or ailments, and your sexual function must be strong. Generally speaking, in a threesome , both partners should have relatively strong sexual function and be quite open-minded in their sexual techniques. The reason is: if the wife has a low libido, she won't agree to participate in a threesome ; if the husband is impotent, he will never allow his wife to try other excellent men, and men absolutely cannot tolerate ridicule in this regard.一对性欲强劲的夫妻，肯定不会喜欢一个阳痿患者站在一边的。而且阳痿的患者，也不会激起妻子的任何欲望的3、必须是温和、听话型。这就是为什么所有的3P夫妻都希望寻找素质高的男人3P。原因很简单，就是因为3P夫妻希望找到的是一个能够激起他们的性欲，但是又不会对他们造成威胁的人。3P夫妻之所以3P，是因为他们希望能够满足自己的欲望，而不是组织一次3P活动，来满足别人的欲望，因此，作为参与者，必须调整好自己的位置和心态，也就是说，无论您平时的性格如何，在参与活动的时候，务必是温和的，由此夫妻双方才不会产生威胁感。而且在参与活动的时候，您必须要照顾到夫妻双方的情绪，尤其是妻子的情绪，她才是3P活动的中心和焦点，她的满足、快乐与否，是决定3P是否成功的关键，所以参与者必须是一个懂得听话的人。不要担心您会碰不到别人的妻子，只要外型、健康、性格均符合条件，耐心的伺候别人的妻子就是参与者唯一需要做的事情。如果参与者只是一味的想发泄自己的性欲，那么你还是出去到美容院去吧，不要参与3P了！我们就曾经碰到过这样的一个帅气男孩子，他的过分过分粗鲁最后导致被我的妻子拒绝，，不明白自己的角色，最后只能是尴尬。4、卫生习惯必须良好。任何有体味的人，都是被拒绝的，因为这是干扰气氛的毒素。而且作为一个有经验的3P参与者，切记以下事情不要做：不要不洗澡就卤莽从事，即使你在家里已经洗的很香，作事情前也要在夫妻面前洗澡，给夫妻二人一个卫生干净的直觉；不要擅自不带避孕套；不要在擅自做决定要给人家的妻子***；不要从人家妻子的阴道里刚拔出来，未洗干净就往妻子的嘴里塞；在未经丈夫或妻子的同意下，不要擅自插入；不要将你的精液喷洒在丈夫的身上。这些都是可能影响夫妻情绪的不卫生的事情，一定要与人家夫妻交流清楚后再做。5、懂得性爱的技巧作为一个称职的参与者，必须有一定的性经验，而且知道技巧。否则你是不会满足女人的欲望的。至少您应该清楚，阴蒂在?什么地方，如何使阴蒂感到舒适，如何抚摩乳房，如何运用你的舌头，如何给女人口交，***以前应注意什么等等。这些基本的常识如果您都不知道的话，那么，请您最好不要参与。
三、一般什么样的夫妻会产生3P的需求<;这里我想告诉大家，根据我参与过的3P（我也偶尔单独参与3P的）和我们夫妻总结的经验，3P夫妻一般是属于下列类型的人：1、中等资产家庭，这样的家庭生活富足，没有衣食忧愁，但是又不是名声显赫，社会关注对象，所以可以随意的追求自己的生活刺激；2、夫妻性欲旺盛，理由上面已经讲过；3、夫妻性技巧比较放开，懂得交流性的经验；4、男方自信甚至自负，不怕面对优秀者的威胁
四、参与时应注意什么、给人以安全感，富裕家庭的夫妻最注重的就是安全，任何威胁或潜在威胁都是不允许存在的；2、注意以妻子的快乐为中心，您的任务就是如何配合好丈夫，使他的老婆感到无比的刺激与高潮，自己的感受为次要；3、注意交流，多和夫妻双方交流自己的想法，听从妻子的意见，甘心做妻子的奴隶，不要做让妻子不高兴或不允许的事情；4、注重技巧，当丈夫在与妻子交欢的时候，不是你无所事事的时候，注意运用技巧，舒适的刺激妻子的乳房、阴蒂、肛门；5、注意与丈夫配合良好，给人一种和谐的感觉。
当前社会上除了夫妻或男女朋友间的性交外，还存在多种令人兴奋莫名的性活动，例如偷窥、交换、群交等，当然，每一个人的爱好都有所不同，这次我们就说说群交吧！在群交这种性活动之中，３Ｐ是许多男人最爱，３Ｐ会给女性带来更大的快乐吗？文所要探讨的３Ｐ性活动，并不包含与娼妓应召女或牛郎这种人进行，或有任何金钱上的交易，我们并不是对娼妓存在偏见，也不会看低这种性行为。其实，娼妓也是服务业的一种，*着自身有利条件，谋取个人利益，也对一般妇女同胞人身安全提供某种程度的保护与缓冲作用，没有她们的奉献，社会上强奸案怕会多得多。
首先说到３Ｐ的分类，我们从参与者的性别，很自然地分为一男二女和两男一女两种，不过一男两女那种，男的会因太刺激而容易射精，而一般男人射精后，都必须隔一段时间才会恢复，但这时女人们的欲火已被挑起，而可能还没有达到高潮，故对妻子是很不公平的。而医学研究表明，性生活要双方都能达到高潮才是最快乐的，所以无论是３Ｐ或是群交，大多数人都会考虑男多女少的组合。
两男一女的那种，也因此会比上一种更加刺激。其实两男一女这种，就可避免许多上面所提到的缺点。妻子获得高潮可以是连续性的，而高潮射精之后的男人看着另一出现场演出的春宫戏，特别是丈夫看着妻子的阴道内流出了其他男人的精液，欲火会很快地再被挑起而又能提枪上阵，而男性经过高潮射精后再次上阵，会因为敏感度下降而能更加持久。许多资料研究出来，一般的女性在一次性爱中，至少要得到三到五次高潮才能获得满足，而且女性在获得满足后，仍可继续进行性活动。若３Ｐ活动中有一对已婚夫妻参与，情况则大不相同，这种性爱行为除表现出上面所提的之外，还包含着窥视、婚外性行为与偷情的成份在，有着挑战社会、家庭道德责任的越轨行为，也体现着夫妻双方的性观念与夫妻之间的性开放等等。如果另一位参与者是男性，在观看妻子与其他男人作爱的过程中，可让丈夫对妻子的性体验更加了解，也检验着妻子对丈夫、对性、对获得婚外性高潮的感受，凡此种种，都让很多包括我在内的已婚夫妻钟爱着它，所以真正的３Ｐ性活动就是这一种。事实上，对结婚多年的夫妻来说，在一起时间长了，亲情浓了，激情却淡了，虽然十分恩爱，但彼此间的激情却不复当年。所以一部分夫妻会选择3P的方式进行性爱。What do real (male-female-male) 3P couples expect? (Those interested in participating in a 3P should definitely read this first.)
As one of the few genuine 3P couples on the website, we feel it's necessary to tell everyone what kind of handsome men we want, to avoid those who lack self-awareness constantly being curious, harassed, and asked questions, and also to allow those truly excellent men who can make our relationship more harmonious to join us as soon as possible. First, we should understand what the starting point of a 3P couple is. Here, we need to start with the woman's perspective in a threesome : 1. Due to prolonged intimacy, she may experience sexual fatigue and easily fall into sexual fantasies during intercourse, imagining her husband as another object of her affection; 2. Her husband's request for a threesome conveniently fulfills her sexual fantasies; 3. She hopes to see her body desired in the eyes of another outstanding man and to personally experience and indulge in it; 4. She hopes to try having sex with different types of men and enjoy the differences; 5. She hopes to satisfy her husband's desire for a threesome and truly stimulate him, making him even more infatuated with her; 6. She wants to experience the sensory stimulation of being possessed, violated, and having an affair with another outstanding man in front of her husband; 7. She enjoys the thrill of being played with by two men simultaneously and can feel the atmosphere of being raped.
The motivations of the man in a threesome are generally as follows: 1. After many years of marriage, he may experience sexual fatigue; 2. He may feel a strong desire to provide his wife with intense stimulation and satisfaction due to his deep love for her; 3. He may feel a strong sensual stimulation after witnessing his wife being possessed by a man superior to himself.
Men and women involved in threesomes share the same psychological motivations as those mentioned above, which is why they are very selective and cautious in choosing their partners. Secondly, what kind of threesome partner do couples truly want ? Based on the above, the threesome partner we choose should meet the following conditions : He must be handsome. "Handsome" here can refer to any type of handsome man—gentle and refined, muscular, or sunny and dashing. These vary depending on the couple's preferences, but a crucial point is that your appearance must be outstanding, at least surpassing that of the husband in the couple. This is what will make the wife sexually interested in you. Here we'd like to share our experience. As husband and wife, we consider ourselves to be fairly attractive and have good physiques; we're the sunny type. Therefore, I've repeatedly stated on the website that we are a well-off couple and hope to find someone who meets our criteria. However, most of the responses have been disappointing. Some are so insecure they won't even show us photos; others insist on QQ video calls, but then become shy and hesitant, ultimately just out of curiosity to see what we look like; some send photos to my email, but their appearance is truly unappealing, yet they claim to be handsome in their emails; some even insist on video calls, and after the video call, my wife was disgusted by their appearance. Here, I believe that men like these should please have some self-respect. Threesome couples seek handsome or charming men who can bring them excitement and enjoyment. Our goal is to satisfy ourselves. If your criteria are far from ours, we will only laugh at your ignorance. Therefore, please carefully consider your own circumstances before making a decision ; you must be of a healthy type. Regardless of your physique (muscular or not), your body must be healthy. This means you must be free of any diseases or ailments, and your sexual function must be strong. Generally speaking, in a threesome , both partners should have relatively strong sexual function and be quite open-minded in their sexual techniques. The reason is: if the wife has a low libido, she won't agree to participate in a threesome ; if the husband is impotent, he will never allow his wife to try other excellent men, and men absolutely cannot tolerate ridicule in this regard.一对性欲强劲的夫妻，肯定不会喜欢一个阳痿患者站在一边的。而且阳痿的患者，也不会激起妻子的任何欲望的3、必须是温和、听话型。这就是为什么所有的3P夫妻都希望寻找素质高的男人3P。原因很简单，就是因为3P夫妻希望找到的是一个能够激起他们的性欲，但是又不会对他们造成威胁的人。3P夫妻之所以3P，是因为他们希望能够满足自己的欲望，而不是组织一次3P活动，来满足别人的欲望，因此，作为参与者，必须调整好自己的位置和心态，也就是说，无论您平时的性格如何，在参与活动的时候，务必是温和的，由此夫妻双方才不会产生威胁感。而且在参与活动的时候，您必须要照顾到夫妻双方的情绪，尤其是妻子的情绪，她才是3P活动的中心和焦点，她的满足、快乐与否，是决定3P是否成功的关键，所以参与者必须是一个懂得听话的人。不要担心您会碰不到别人的妻子，只要外型、健康、性格均符合条件，耐心的伺候别人的妻子就是参与者唯一需要做的事情。如果参与者只是一味的想发泄自己的性欲，那么你还是出去到美容院去吧，不要参与3P了！我们就曾经碰到过这样的一个帅气男孩子，他的过分过分粗鲁最后导致被我的妻子拒绝，，不明白自己的角色，最后只能是尴尬。4、卫生习惯必须良好。任何有体味的人，都是被拒绝的，因为这是干扰气氛的毒素。而且作为一个有经验的3P参与者，切记以下事情不要做：不要不洗澡就卤莽从事，即使你在家里已经洗的很香，作事情前也要在夫妻面前洗澡，给夫妻二人一个卫生干净的直觉；不要擅自不带避孕套；不要在擅自做决定要给人家的妻子***；不要从人家妻子的阴道里刚拔出来，未洗干净就往妻子的嘴里塞；在未经丈夫或妻子的同意下，不要擅自插入；不要将你的精液喷洒在丈夫的身上。这些都是可能影响夫妻情绪的不卫生的事情，一定要与人家夫妻交流清楚后再做。5、懂得性爱的技巧作为一个称职的参与者，必须有一定的性经验，而且知道技巧。否则你是不会满足女人的欲望的。至少您应该清楚，阴蒂在?什么地方，如何使阴蒂感到舒适，如何抚摩乳房，如何运用你的舌头，如何给女人口交，***以前应注意什么等等。这些基本的常识如果您都不知道的话，那么，请您最好不要参与。
三、一般什么样的夫妻会产生3P的需求<;这里我想告诉大家，根据我参与过的3P（我也偶尔单独参与3P的）和我们夫妻总结的经验，3P夫妻一般是属于下列类型的人：1、中等资产家庭，这样的家庭生活富足，没有衣食忧愁，但是又不是名声显赫，社会关注对象，所以可以随意的追求自己的生活刺激；2、夫妻性欲旺盛，理由上面已经讲过；3、夫妻性技巧比较放开，懂得交流性的经验；4、男方自信甚至自负，不怕面对优秀者的威胁
四、参与时应注意什么、给人以安全感，富裕家庭的夫妻最注重的就是安全，任何威胁或潜在威胁都是不允许存在的；2、注意以妻子的快乐为中心，您的任务就是如何配合好丈夫，使他的老婆感到无比的刺激与高潮，自己的感受为次要；3、注意交流，多和夫妻双方交流自己的想法，听从妻子的意见，甘心做妻子的奴隶，不要做让妻子不高兴或不允许的事情；4、注重技巧，当丈夫在与妻子交欢的时候，不是你无所事事的时候，注意运用技巧，舒适的刺激妻子的乳房、阴蒂、肛门；5、注意与丈夫配合良好，给人一种和谐的感觉。
当前社会上除了夫妻或男女朋友间的性交外，还存在多种令人兴奋莫名的性活动，例如偷窥、交换、群交等，当然，每一个人的爱好都有所不同，这次我们就说说群交吧！在群交这种性活动之中，３Ｐ是许多男人最爱，３Ｐ会给女性带来更大的快乐吗？文所要探讨的３Ｐ性活动，并不包含与娼妓应召女或牛郎这种人进行，或有任何金钱上的交易，我们并不是对娼妓存在偏见，也不会看低这种性行为。其实，娼妓也是服务业的一种，*着自身有利条件，谋取个人利益，也对一般妇女同胞人身安全提供某种程度的保护与缓冲作用，没有她们的奉献，社会上强奸案怕会多得多。
首先说到３Ｐ的分类，我们从参与者的性别，很自然地分为一男二女和两男一女两种，不过一男两女那种，男的会因太刺激而容易射精，而一般男人射精后，都必须隔一段时间才会恢复，但这时女人们的欲火已被挑起，而可能还没有达到高潮，故对妻子是很不公平的。而医学研究表明，性生活要双方都能达到高潮才是最快乐的，所以无论是３Ｐ或是群交，大多数人都会考虑男多女少的组合。
两男一女的那种，也因此会比上一种更加刺激。其实两男一女这种，就可避免许多上面所提到的缺点。妻子获得高潮可以是连续性的，而高潮射精之后的男人看着另一出现场演出的春宫戏，特别是丈夫看着妻子的阴道内流出了其他男人的精液，欲火会很快地再被挑起而又能提枪上阵，而男性经过高潮射精后再次上阵，会因为敏感度下降而能更加持久。许多资料研究出来，一般的女性在一次性爱中，至少要得到三到五次高潮才能获得满足，而且女性在获得满足后，仍可继续进行性活动。若３Ｐ活动中有一对已婚夫妻参与，情况则大不相同，这种性爱行为除表现出上面所提的之外，还包含着窥视、婚外性行为与偷情的成份在，有着挑战社会、家庭道德责任的越轨行为，也体现着夫妻双方的性观念与夫妻之间的性开放等等。如果另一位参与者是男性，在观看妻子与其他男人作爱的过程中，可让丈夫对妻子的性体验更加了解，也检验着妻子对丈夫、对性、对获得婚外性高潮的感受，凡此种种，都让很多包括我在内的已婚夫妻钟爱着它，所以真正的３Ｐ性活动就是这一种。事实上，对结婚多年的夫妻来说，在一起时间长了，亲情浓了，激情却淡了，虽然十分恩爱，但彼此间的激情却不复当年。所以一部分夫妻会选择3P的方式进行性爱。

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