How to give your partner oral sex and lick their genitals

Oral sex and licking the genitals are an indispensable part of sex, and can play a finishing touch role.
How should one lick the vulva?
Preparations before licking the vulva:
Making love is a wonderful thing. If you're not just doing it for release, you should create some conditions and atmosphere for it, such as at night and dimming the lights.
Both parties should take a shower first, especially the woman, because the female genital area has a more complex structure with many folds, making it easy for dirt to accumulate. Therefore, when showering, be sure to open the labia majora and minora and clean them thoroughly.
Men should play some music and wait for her in bed; women should get into the habit of applying perfume to their genitals after showering, but never use too much or too strong perfume, because when a man is licking your genitals, his nose is closest to your genitals, and if the perfume is too strong, it can easily choke him; also, don't apply perfume to your labia, because the scent of your so-called vaginal fluid is not created by perfume, just spray perfume on your palms and apply it to your pubic hair and inner thighs; it's also good to lightly apply a little to the anus.
Prepare two towels, one large and one small. Place the large towel on the bed for the woman to lie on, and use the small towel to wipe away sweat and water. Keep a glass of water by the bedside so that the woman can easily reach it if she is thirsty, without having to go outside to get water and thus avoiding prolonged interruption of her pleasure.
Several sensitive areas for women:
Men shouldn't think that licking a woman's clitoris means you should pounce on her and kiss her clitoris as soon as you get into bed. Don't be so aggressive. You need to know that a woman's body reacts very slowly. Give her some time to adjust. The clitoris is an extremely sensitive part. Stimulating it right away will not be as effective.
Personally, I think the order should be like this: You can first hug her and say a few sweet words to her, such as "You are so beautiful, you are so sexy," to make her feel comfortable and relaxed psychologically. Then you can start kissing her lips, earlobes, behind her ears, neck, breasts, lower abdomen, and waist. Be careful to spend more time on her breasts, because a woman's breasts are also a very important erogenous zone.
At this point, the woman should feel a slight tingling sensation throughout her body, and you should begin to approach her genitals. Start by kissing her inner thighs, gently separating her legs. Usually, women are quite shy at this point because they feel somewhat "resistant" to exposing their genitals to you. Therefore, when separating her legs, don't be too hasty or forceful; be gentle and separate them little by little.
Start by gently licking her thighs with your tongue, from the outer side of her labia majora to the cleft between her thighs, from bottom to top, down to her hip bones (on both sides of her lower abdomen). Repeat this about ten times. The woman will feel a ticklish, tingling sensation, and a slight soreness near the vaginal opening. Next, gently sweep your tongue down her thighs to the Zusanli acupoint below her knees. Zusanli is also a sensitive point for women. If her skin is delicate, you can kiss this area several times. If her skin is rough, it will feel like rubbing sandpaper with your tongue, so skip it and kiss back down. Hehe.
Return the kiss to the inner thigh and repeat the actions taught above. This tactic is called "assistance" in military terms. In bed, you should treat the woman as an "enemy, opponent." First, distract the "enemy's" attention, take the initiative, and guide the "enemy's" senses to follow your tongue. Engage in guerrilla warfare on any of her body's mountains (breasts), hills (lower abdomen), valleys (inner thighs), and forests (pubic hair area). Gradually, you will feel the woman begin to curl up, her legs will move involuntarily, and she will moan. More sensitive women will begin to become wet around the vaginal opening.
After assisting (around ten minutes), it's time to switch to the main attack!
By providing assistance, the man has essentially overcome the woman's shyness and destroyed her psychological defenses. At this point, she will be in a state of wanting to accept but not wanting to accept, and the man can then enter the main offensive position and begin a direct attack.
At this time, women should take the initiative, spreading their legs into a V-shape, preferably with their legs arched backward, exposing their entire genitals to the man. There's nothing to be ashamed of; in fact, being a little proactive at this time can provide the man with greater motivation and engagement.
Once the woman raises and spreads her legs, the man should first target several key areas: the perineum, labia, and vaginal opening. The perineum is located at the junction of the vagina and anus. Although the skin in this area is taut, it is extremely sensitive. Use a moist tongue to gently lick this area. When kissing the woman's groin, she will feel a tingling or numb sensation from top to bottom around the vaginal opening. When kissing the perineum, she will experience a comfortable, expanding sensation from bottom to top. When kissing the perineum, if you can overcome your psychological barrier, you can surprise her by licking and touching her anus with your tongue. This will guarantee that the woman will scream with excitement.
If you have psychological reservations, then lick upwards from the perineum to the woman's labia. At this point, most women will be very wet. The vaginal fluid is usually clear and thin. If you like, you can drink it (I'm not kidding). It's freshly secreted by the woman's body and won't be dirty.
How should you kiss the labia? Don't use your hands yet. Use your tongue to gently pry open the woman's labia majora (some women have smaller labia majora, or their labia may separate on their own when they are more aroused). Take one labia into your mouth and use your tongue to sweep across it, paying attention to both the inside and outside of the labia. Then switch to the other labia and repeat the process. Finally, turn your body slightly to the side, so that your lips are parallel to the woman's labia. Gently take both labia into your mouth simultaneously and suck on them. Use your tongue to make insertion, withdrawal, and sweeping motions between the labia. This will feel incredibly pleasurable for the woman.
The above text discussed how to kiss a woman's labia. Remember, when kissing the labia, you should suck the woman's labia as much as possible into your mouth and gently sweep and lick them with your tongue. The woman will feel a special itch in the labia area, and she will want you to kiss more places and more widely. Ignore them and just kiss as you like, because very few women will say, "Darling, kiss me there, kiss me there..."
While they're enjoying themselves, you can gently bite her labia. With the flesh in your mouth, whether to bite and how to bite is entirely up to you. But don't bite too hard; just the right amount. You can make her suddenly scream, which will basically ruin the sensation she's been building up.
Why would you want to ruin a woman's experience? Male sexual arousal is achieved through the friction between the eyes and genitals; this direct stimulation allows men to reach orgasm quickly, which can be represented graphically as Mount Everest, rising and falling vertically. Female sexual arousal, on the other hand, is built up through the ears (sweet words) and the mind (imagination and feelings); reaching orgasm requires repeated stimulation and accumulation. This can be represented graphically as the Yunnan-Guizhou Plateau, a trapezoidal shape.
After the previous round of kissing, the woman has reached a certain level of arousal and is a little dazed. Being too dazed isn't good either, because when a woman is dazed, she won't know who's kissing her, haha! Just kidding. A light bite can wake her from her dazed state, allowing her to accept your continued stimulation in a semi-conscious state, making her next sexual arousal come faster and accumulate more. This technique should be used repeatedly when licking a woman's genitals, but don't do it too frequently, or you might get kicked off the bed. Hey! Be careful when biting; the labia are very delicate.
If you gently bite a woman's labia, she'll definitely let out a startled "Ah!" and her body will twitch. Before she can speak, quickly press your lips to the entrance of her vagina. This will make her feel a warm and comfortable sensation throughout her genitals, turning her initial "Ah" into a soft "Oh." This creates a feeling of wanting to curse but not being able to, wanting to scream but not daring to—it's quite fun!
Once you've "conquered" a woman's "outer strongholds" (perineum, labia, anus, etc.), you can begin the "Xuzhou-Bengbu Campaign." In bedroom terminology, a woman's vagina is sometimes referred to as a "clam (labia)," which is quite descriptive. Moreover, there is indeed a "pearl (clitoris)" inside the "clam."
Now you can focus on getting the "pearl." Move your tongue up to the woman's clitoris and concentrate. Many men may think that simply licking a woman's clitoris vigorously with their tongue is enough to bring her to orgasm, but this is a misconception. A woman's clitoris is very sensitive. If you lick too hard, she will feel more pain than pleasure, and that won't be fun.
There are a few things to keep in mind when kissing the clitoris: the tongue must be wet, light, and pointed, and the tongue must be kept moist (the water prepared in Chapter 1 will come in handy now). When licking the clitoris, be gentle and use the tip of your tongue.
To penetrate the clitoris, use the five-word technique: "point, flick, pluck, press, stir." Point refers to lightly touching the tip of the clitoris with the tip of your tongue; flick refers to flicking the clitoris upwards from below with your tongue; pluck refers to plucking the clitoris from side to side with your tongue; press refers to pressing the clitoris with your tongue from time to time, just enough to slightly reduce its pressure; stir refers to stirring around the clitoris with your tongue while it is in your mouth.
At this point, you need to be aware of the woman's reactions, because she is already very engaged and excited. You can feel a throbbing sensation under her clitoris, which is very noticeable when you are holding her clitoris in your mouth. Don't interrupt her sensations abruptly; keep your movements even, because sudden, fast-paced movements can easily bring her to orgasm.
During sex, men often want it to last longer and ejaculate later for greater comfort. Women, like men, also want this pleasurable sensation to last longer. Therefore, it's essential to understand this feeling in women. Only resort to a faster pace to help them reach orgasm if they strongly insist on giving in or if your tongue becomes numb from prolonged kissing.
Here's a very useful technique: Don't imitate the way male protagonists in pornographic films lick clitoris indiscriminately, and don't always kiss a woman's clitoris using the methods described above. When you've done these actions well enough to give her an orgasm, you should use your entire lip to enclose the woman's clitoris, with your upper lip pressing against the base of the pubic hair above the clitoris, and your lower lip parting the woman's labia to the sides, trying to get as close to the vaginal opening as possible (depending on how big your lips are, hehe). Enclose the woman's clitoris in your mouth (leaving some space), making her feel like her clitoris is floating in your mouth.
Using the five-word technique to launch an attack, this is the most meaningful moment for a man to lick a woman's clitoris. Because you can control her level of arousal and orgasm through your lips and tongue. Usually, I lick for a while, causing her to convulse violently. Just as she's about to climax, I gently release her, pulling away from her clitoris, making her scream in frustration. Or, just as I pull away and see her about to scream, I immediately put it back in her mouth, and she's so comfortable she can't scream anymore. How proud you feel when you see yourself controlling a woman's emotions! But don't go too far, or she'll kick you off the bed.
When licking a woman's clitoris, you can lick it while simultaneously scratching her pubic hair, which feels very comfortable; you can also gently tease her anus with your fingers; or gently insert your fingers into her vagina and stir; you can also reach up and grab her breasts with both hands. These are all actions that can make a woman feel even more comfortable, and in military terms, they are called "encircling the point and attacking the reinforcements".
A skillful technique of licking the genitals can surely drive your partner to ecstasy.
Let's all work together to help our partners achieve true sexual happiness.

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