Passionately taking the first step

I met my wife online. Before we officially met in person, her family did extensive research offline, including asking my superiors and colleagues at several companies, and even my superiors in higher-level organizations. They were very satisfied with the results. As the saying goes, "A man fears choosing the wrong career, a woman fears marrying the wrong man." I understand why they went to such lengths to thoroughly investigate me. After we met, we became a couple.
Perhaps it was youthful impetuosity and high blood pressure, haha, after dating for a month, I started making advances towards my wife. She was hesitant and uncooperative. Summer had just arrived, and you know how it is—hot weather often makes people restless. Criminologists say that crime rates are much higher in summer. This is why some tropical countries, like India and South Africa, have high rates of rape. One evening, while everyone in her family was out for a walk, I aggressively aroused my wife, making her sexually aroused, and we had our first sexual encounter. Because we didn't use protection, my wife, who is studying medicine, was terrified of pregnancy and ran to the bathroom to wash herself vigorously. Now, my wife regrets it. She says that if she had gotten pregnant then, she would have a child now, instead of waiting so long, and I wouldn't be a 69-year-old single man. We're both 30 years old, and our families are pressuring us to get pregnant. My somewhat superstitious mother-in-law made my wife go out to pray to Buddha at 7 am this morning.
My wife isn't a virgin. At first, I asked her about her ex-boyfriends, but she wouldn't say, only that my penis was big. Frustrated, I asked her about her first time, and she only said it hurt a lot. I'm not a virgin either; I've had several girlfriends before. Although she wouldn't talk about her past, seeing her interest in mine, I told her about mine.
Once, my workplace organized a farm stay, and I invited my wife to join us. She stayed with me one night. The next day, when we got back, one of my wife's aunts asked her if she had already... My wife is a conservative person and seemed quite shy. Well, it's good that her family knows; it'll make us more comfortable together. However, we still have to be sneaky. I can't openly sleep in the same bed with her at her house. I can only wait until everyone in her family is asleep before tiptoeing from the living room into her room, trying to keep my voice down and slowly making our "great union."
I believe most people feel the same way: before marriage, when the woman visits the man's home, sharing a bed seems fine, but at the woman's home, it's strictly controlled. If the two young people want to come over, it's treated like an affair. Actually, affairs are the most exciting. As someone once said, "A wife is not as good as a concubine, and a concubine is not as good as a stolen affair."
Absence makes the heart grow fonder, a saying that shows that although the honeymoon period is different from a short separation, it is still full of passion and excitement. My wife and I dated for over half a year before getting married, finally having our own home. Because it was the end of the year, I was busy with work and couldn't take time off, so our honeymoon was canceled. The affair phase is over; now we have sex every day. When my wife is close to orgasm, her most prominent expression is that she likes to shout, "Husband's big cock, come fuck my cunt!" Perfect sex is the best medicine to improve the quality of life and the best lubricant to enhance the relationship between husband and wife. Although this is tough for me—if my wife doesn't shout, I can't ejaculate—I only feel a sense of accomplishment and pride in front of my wife when she reaches orgasm. A real man should have this responsibility and obligation: to make the woman he loves happy.
Like Rousseau, who wrote *Confessions*, my sexual awakening was relatively early. In fifth grade, I developed a rudimentary attraction to a female classmate, but at that time I lacked a concept or awareness of sex. I felt a liking for her because she was pretty, and I wanted to hug her. According to Freud's theory of sexual instinct, this meant there was psychological sexual attraction, but not yet physiological sexual attraction. This attraction didn't involve sex. As a friend of mine mentioned, he had a threesome with a boy and a girl of similar age when he was seven, during a game of house. In junior high, I encountered the classic novel *The Second Sex*, and also saw pornography brought by a classmate—his brother worked in Guangdong, and according to my classmate, his brother brought back a bag of pornography every time he came home. This classmate liked a girl in our class, who lived in the same village as me. She helped him deliver messages, and in return, she lent me pornography. It was around this time that I learned to masturbate. By high school, video arcades had appeared, but they only showed videos late at night. Every night after lights out, when we heard the dorm supervisors had gone into the break room, a few of us would climb over the school wall and head straight to the video arcades in the back alleys. After watching a Hong Kong movie, it would be around midnight. The owner would first open the door and look out onto the street before daring to come in and show us his treasured possessions. Later, in university, the internet appeared, and we could freely access pictures, novels, and videos. Back then, I especially liked renting compressed discs to watch in the dorm, because they often contained pornographic films.
I've rambled on about elementary, middle, high school, and university, which might seem off-topic, but it's purposeful, so please don't think I'm being long-winded. It's precisely because of these experiences, coupled with my study of some academic books on sex, that I've achieved a perfect connection between my rudimentary practices (reading pornography and engaging in sexual fantasies—I call it rudimentary because it only involved reading, fantasizing, and masturbation; I hadn't had any sexual relations before graduating from university; this might be somewhat sad) and sexological theory, giving me a comprehensive understanding of sex. Therefore, in the 2008 controversy surrounding nude swimming in Sanya, Hainan, I was able to publish an article supporting this from a theoretical perspective.
Let's return to our married life. My wife is very beautiful, only a little plump around the waist, but it doesn't affect her figure, and besides, she's very particular about her clothing. In short, I wouldn't say she gets 100% attention, but maybe 70%, because apart from black stockings, I don't think her clothes are particularly sexy. Of course, this might be related to the fact that we live together every day.
Walking down the street, I like to glance at the beautiful women passing by. At first, I was afraid my wife would notice and get jealous, so I walked behind her. I believe many men in their late 30s have had similar experiences. To lighten the mood, when we go for a walk at night, I'll reach out and pinch my wife's butt in the dark. Sometimes I've even done this in stairwells. A word of caution: if you have a habit of touching or pinching your partner's butt or engaging in other inappropriate behavior, please be careful. Cameras are everywhere these days. Be mindful of your actions. Don't be rude or inappropriate. Don't be afraid to touch or pinch your partner's butt or engage in other inappropriate behavior. Otherwise, you'll be in trouble.
Flirting isn't just about touching and caressing; otherwise, you can't properly educate your wife about sex. A wife becomes a true woman after marriage because her husband knows how to "train" her. If he's not careful or doesn't know how, she might quickly become a haggard housewife after 34. This is the essence of "nurturing" a wife. If she becomes a haggard housewife, the husband will naturally neglect her or even cheat. Take the TV drama "Dwelling Narrowness" as an example. Why did Song Siming take the risk of having a mistress and ultimately end up in prison? I believe it's mainly related to his family and marital views, and the era he grew up in. He didn't know how to properly "train" his wife, letting her become a haggard housewife. He also didn't know about marital intimacy, so he sought a mistress to fill the emptiness and physical void left by his wife's aversion and distance. Maintaining a mistress is expensive, and Song Siming was just a salaried worker; blinded by greed, he gradually walked towards prison. Therefore, from the moment I got married, I was determined to train my wife well and achieve a harmonious and happy family.
Fortunately, after multiple communications, and following the same process as my friend 69—watching AV and imitating the actions and postures in AV films—my wife finally changed her mindset and came to be in sync with me.

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