[Repost] Sharing my experiences and insights about having an affair with my wife.

Sharing my cuckolding experiences and insights—May Ruoxiang and her lover experience different kinds of sex and enjoy a perfect life.

After getting involved with 91, I was influenced by many people and became increasingly obsessed with cuckolding. From initially being completely unable to accept it, I gradually became assimilated, fantasizing about my wife having affairs with others, and now I even expect my lover to have real sex and love affairs with someone else. This transformation wasn't instantaneous; it was a long process. I welcome sincere discussions from fellow cuckolds who haven't yet fallen into this trap. My communication method is below.

First, 91 is inhabited by several types of rogue couples, loser single men, and scumbags. I sincerely advise everyone to stay away from these people. How do you distinguish these people?

A depraved couple: "I'll put a price tag on having sex with my wife once..." This is a typical depraved couple. They can't even guarantee a certain level of financial stability, yet the man still dreams of cuckolding his wife. This is a classic example of a couple whose sole purpose is sex, not using this activity to enrich their mundane life. Having relations with such a couple will never provide the true pleasure of cuckoldry; besides the subsequent physical and mental anguish and regret, you won't experience any enjoyment, let alone appreciate the beauty of life.
PS: Of course, some people enjoy this kind of activity, fantasizing that their wife is a prostitute. I've had such thoughts myself, even actually wanting to date a prostitute. Of course, you can tell during the conversation whether he's after money, sex, or both. You can judge for yourself. This kind of activity is quite fun, but simply asking for money is depraved behavior. Please be discerning.

A typical loser single man says, "I'm ****... I last a long time... I really want to fuck your wife..." In my eyes, this kind of man is a true loser. Whether you're a rich second-generation or have excellent conditions, you'll always be a loser in my eyes. They're better suited to sex parties than to your married life. Your wife won't feel any pleasure from his big penis, long duration, or desire to fuck her. Afterwards, besides the feeling of satisfaction from having sex with someone else's wife, you'll be left with endless emptiness, embarrassment, regret, and physical and mental pain. You'll only understand that feeling if you experience it yourself. Neither of you will gain any pleasure from this process, let alone any benefit to your life or strengthening your marital relationship.
PS: Unless you're just using your wife as a sex toy, letting her be fucked by others only to satisfy your lust, from a certain perspective, it might be exciting. But if there's even a little love between you, you won't feel any joy, not even pleasure. There are many people who play like this on 91, but real couples... are too few.

For the "scumbag" type: This goes without saying. If you really take this step, and your wife agrees to start by chatting with people she likes, she'll naturally know what kind of man she likes and who she'll block after a few chats.
PS: Many single men are frustrated that high-quality couples don't choose them, while husbands in marriages are frustrated that their wives have relationships with others with their knowledge. Actually, all of this seems complicated, but it's not impossible.
For the "couple" type: You need to let her know that you not only won't object, but actually support and encourage her to do this, and let her know that you genuinely want this, that you won't blame her, and that you're grateful for her doing so, and will cherish her even more. When conflicts arise in life, you won't use this as an excuse; instead, you'll be tolerant and forgiving towards her because of it. When she fully understands your thoughts and intentions, you've succeeded halfway. Next, you need to guide her and actively help her do these things. For example, you always suggest going out for sex in the wild. She finds it exciting but is shy and afraid of being seen and feeling ashamed, so she disagrees. But you only talk about it; you've never chosen a location, never taken her there to hear her opinions, never discussed what clothes to wear for convenience, safety, and excitement. How can you avoid embarrassment? You haven't even communicated your ideas to her. Do you think it will work? Therefore, you need to actively guide her. Like sex, once you've completed the first time despite her resistance and "no," and she genuinely felt pleasure, would she refuse you a second time? The principle of cuckoldry is the same, only more difficult.
Single men: When a husband finally convinces his wife to take photos and show them to you, and you immediately boast about your big penis and long duration, wanting to have sex with her intensely, and most importantly, you don't care about pleasing her at all, but rather act as if it's your fault, asking for a few begging words before expecting to have sex with her for free, what do you think your success rate is? It's not about spending a lot of money, sending a 5.21 yuan red envelope, buying a QQ membership, or getting special reminders for your messages. With her husband's help and support, you could send her a set of lingerie and stockings to wear for you to see, and receive your high praise. That would make her like you. It doesn't need to cost tens or hundreds of yuan, yet you can't even spend a few dollars on something like that, and you feel cheated. For those middle-class couples whose daily living expenses are several hundred yuan or more, who occasionally go out for meals and entertainment, and who earn over ten thousand yuan a month without financial burdens, all I can say to a single man like that is, "Heh heh heh."

渣女：渣女就不说了，哪个女人没遇到几个渣男，男人也一样，如果你总能遇到渣女或是渣男，只能说大家可能都比较渣，自身也有问题，因为只要有一个不渣的你们也不会继续渣下去。
PS：没啥可说的，有时遇到就遇到了，多留个心还是有必要的，被渣男渣女搞坏的夫妻不是个别。

接下来，在你的火眼金睛下，能留下来的人?已经实在不多，还是不要着急，要多一些耐心，没有夫妻能每天沉沦在性爱而不顾家庭，只有把生活经营的非常好的夫妻，才有时间和精力去做这些。我认为，真正的淫妻行为，应该是属于夫妻间的共同兴趣爱好，就好比你们都喜欢跳舞，并且不介意老婆跟她自己喜欢的人一起跳，当看你到她们一起跳的很唯美很陶醉的时候，你和老婆都觉得那是一种享受。就像你们都喜欢打羽毛球，看老婆跟她自己有默契的人一起打时，从她们沟通的眼神里，就能看到她们内心中对彼此的期盼和渴望。我们喜欢淫妻，实际上是一样的道理，只不过我们是喜欢看老婆跟她喜欢的人在一起做爱，从这种性爱中，你能看到老婆的另一面，在这样的性爱中，你能看到另一个妩媚，性感，妖娆，美丽至极的爱妻，她身上会突然冒出让曾经看不到，但却现实存在的另一种妖娆的美，他有能让你为她再次疯狂的魔力。合理的性爱是一种健康的锻炼运动，它更让人感到美好的存在，更容易获得身心的愉悦，更能陶冶人的情操。让生活变的更加美好。

收起你的骄傲，褪去你的虚伪，敞开你的心扉，解开心中的束缚，去体验这种完全不一同感观的销魂刺激的性爱吧。

性和爱都是需要肾上腺的，上床是一种冲动，但请不要完全被性一时的冲动冲昏了头脑，一定要选好合适的人选，合适的方式，每个家庭情况不同，夫妻的脾气秉性价值观都不同，想在茫茫人海中找到那个合适的人，犹如大海捞针。
PS：我个人的建议是——
第一，不论是男单还是夫妻，对方必须要经济独立，那种红包都只抢不发的，我建议真心不要考虑，没有一定的经济基础，就不要玩这样的游戏，该过日子过日子，该挣钱挣钱，不能摆脱经济压力，没有自我修养，对价值没有自己的观点的人，不建议玩这种游戏，想偶尔找点刺激没必要费这么大的心思，你去找个小姐玩一下，怎么玩都行。比这样省钱省时省力，如果你是因为没有钱才这么百般周折的闹这套，我求你请放过那些真诚的夫妻和男单，多为家庭和社会做些贡献，也算是一种积德行为！
第二，上学的时候，考试的分数决定你在班级中是好学生还是坏学生，社会也是一样，女人靠的是长相，男人靠的是实力。你老婆外号天蓬元帅，别人不会开宝马带她洗温泉。。。。。男人也一样，人家老婆如花似玉，皮肤细腻的家务都做不来，不可能让你一顿街边麻辣烫爽她一整天。。。。。所以，虽然只是玩玩，也要门当户对，我想谁也不想看到自己家庭被小人破坏，遭遇折磨。跟不希望看到自己老婆宁可给她当小三，也不想和你过下去了。。。所以对象一定要慎重斟酌。

Thirdly, here are three methods I personally prefer:
1. Like meeting people nearby, chat, meet up, and if things go well, book a room and have sex. Simple and straightforward, without any inhibitions, but not very fun. This method isn't suitable for development, let alone any kind of "training"; it's purely animalistic behavior. The advantages are speed, safety, and convenience. Suitable for couples just starting out, a small trial. As long as you don't interfere too much, it's her first time, her own choice, her own decision, and it's definitely what she wants.
2. Couples with similar backgrounds and who get along well. After getting to know each other well, you can plan a trip together. The first day is for getting to know each other, and drink less alcohol in the evening. Stay in the same room the first night to experience each other. If both are satisfied, the second day can be a date. The guy should take the initiative, holding hands while crossing the street, and occasionally saying sweet nothings. Girls should also boldly strike some sexy poses for photos. Separation for a short while is acceptable, but absolutely not too long, and definitely not a complete separation. Guys, plan a small surprise that will easily move the girl. Find an opportunity, and make sure she's not around, to propose to her wife. Make sure you get her approval and are touched, letting her know you genuinely like her and want to experience lovemaking with her. Don't worry about her rejecting you, because if she rejected you, she wouldn't have come on the trip with you in the first place. The second night, you can drink a little more, but don't get too drunk; the main thing is for the woman to drink. But absolutely no more than that—you don't want to commit necrophilia, do you? Next, when the time is right, you can proceed immediately. (Your wife can know when you're proposing, but you absolutely cannot let her see you doing this unless it's already agreed upon and she has consented. This process is the most complicated, and your wife will be the most anxious. Even if both wives tacitly agree, they won't say it aloud, because what truly troubles them is seeing their husbands pursue someone else and abandon them, leaving them feeling empty. In short, you must move the other wife without hurting your own. Only after overcoming this hurdle can you truly enjoy the subsequent pleasure; otherwise, it will only end badly, and your life afterward will be very difficult...) Next, you'll still have sex, but the husband should suggest switching beds. Since you've already produced each other, there shouldn't be any problems. Go ahead and boldly carry his wife to the bathroom or your bed! (My suggestion is that one couple goes to the bathroom to shower first, while the other couple watches the other couple flirting in the bathroom. Then they switch. Remember, no sex while showering, and no sex while flirting! Otherwise, both couples will shower and then go to sleep...that would be awkward...) Then, on the first night, turn off the lights and enjoy watching someone else's wife while listening to how she enjoys it... Don't expect a peaceful night's sleep... It's a contest of endurance, the number of times... ! ! ! =酉吕矗谌欤舜艘桓鲂⌒∫降目占洹J裁炊纪该髁耍兔挥幸馑剂耍舜艘恍┬⌒〉囊娇占洌酉吕矗拖穸让墼履茄茨忝切那椋趺创炭ぴ趺蠢纯?缓蠹堑冒颜庑┚窒砀愕睦瞎茨忝撬軥#￥%……& is fine. On the last day, don't forget the big orgy, haha. My suggestion is to go to a KTV at night, in a brightly lit atmosphere, and have a big orgy. ...Make sure she experiences the pleasure of being cared for by two men, and don't forget to let her experience the thrill of being played by two women. When you're exhausted and going to sleep, cherish each other for one last night, releasing everything you want to do, can do, and even those things you want to do but dare not! Because tomorrow life will return to peace, enjoy a tranquil life, part amicably, respect each other, and look forward to the next exciting chapter.
3. The cheating husband is the most insecure, but also the most exciting, because sometimes it's hard to control the situation. She might speak in your presence in favor of that other man, and even do things for him that you absolutely cannot accept. Because she's embarrassed to talk about it, she might lie to you. At this point, your relationship with your wife is like fine sand in your hand; the tighter you grasp, the more slips away, and it's forever irretrievable. The only thing you can do is trust her, trust her, and trust her again. But in this process, you have no idea if she's deceiving you, hiding things, or doing anything behind your back... If you and your spouse don't have enough foundation, depth, love, and trust, don't play this game. Cheating isn't casual sex. You can't treat a man like a toy, much less your wife as a sex toy. Since they've developed this relationship, you must respect it. Since you want these things, don't destroy it. Perhaps you find it painful, but in their world, it might be incredibly wonderful; otherwise, why would they do it? If you don't have enough confidence and leverage to bring your wife back, I suggest you don't do this.
PS: If your wife truly meets someone who captivates her, and if she experiences something wonderful in the process, it's undoubtedly a deeply unforgettable love experience. This isn't as simple as casual sex. They'll experience joy, emotion, and beautiful memories together; they'll develop feelings, love, and dependence; they might even miss each other terribly and be inseparable—experiencing it like true love. If you step in to stop everything at this point, your wife will undoubtedly be heartbroken... and you will be heartbroken too... and that person might do something foolish. And you, who tolerated all of this in the first place, will be her deepest and most unforgivable pain! If that man is charming enough to make your wife infatuated with him, you can't stop her from sleeping with him no matter what you try. What you really need isn't to force her to do anything with him, but to see your wife stay out all night to meet him; to see him take her home and force her to give him oral sex in the hallway before he's satisfied; to see her bring him into your bedroom and have sex with him in front of your wedding photo—and that's not all, what if you find out he got her pregnant, and even took her to a threesome, had sex, and gang-raped? Can you still be as calm as you were when you encouraged her to cheat? Once a woman's emotions explode, many things are beyond your control. When that man gradually takes a place in your wife's heart, how much patience will you have left to love her? Are you really prepared for this?

Finally, I hope that those who haven't yet embarked on this path will carefully consider which type of activity suits them best. Don't simply pursue thrills for the sake of thrills; in the end, you'll be the one who gets hurt.

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