What do I do if I'm only halfway there?

My wife and I have a very good relationship. We dated for seven years (I got married early), and we still have a decent amount of interest in each other after marriage, but I'm usually the one who takes the initiative. Now I think my wife was probably just fulfilling her responsibilities at first.
Recently, I've noticed a change in my wife's attitude towards sex. She used to be very reserved, but now she's completely different (and I feel great). However, sometimes during sex, I don't know when she'll reach her climax (her needs can be very high). Afterwards, we share our feelings. When I ask her if she's done, she doesn't say anything. Sometimes I wonder if she's unsatisfied, but she doesn't want to talk about it. After reading many posts on 69 (a Chinese sex education platform), I feel like I should try it. Recently, when my wife and I are having sex, I've been imagining things. I remember once during sex, I told my wife I wanted to find someone to help her, and she immediately said no. I continued to fuck her hard, then suddenly stopped and asked her, "How about I fuck you, and someone kisses your pussy?" I continued to fuck her hard, asking if a kiss was okay. My wife replied, "Aren't you worried about someone else kissing you?" I directly told her that as long as she's comfortable, anything is fine, and I'm not jealous. My wife was enjoying my thrusting, moaning, "What if he kisses me and then wants to touch my genitals?" Honestly, that was incredibly arousing (I didn't dare tell her). Should I tell her he touched me? I wouldn't let him do anything. After a few more frenzied thrusts, I ejaculated. That was the first time, and it felt amazing. I thought at the time, finding someone to give my wife complete physical pleasure shouldn't be a problem for me (it's not worth it to be over 40 while I'm still young). Afterwards, I didn't dare discuss my thoughts with her. We'll see.
Later, during another time we were making love, I saw my wife was really into it, so I asked her if she could find someone to serve her. I suggested we kiss her breasts first, and said, "I'll kiss one of them each to give you some pleasure." At first, she didn't react, so I described how it would start, which one I would kiss and which one she would kiss. Seeing that my wife was quite enthusiastic, I asked her how it would feel. She said something that excited me: "Kissing two of them must feel really good, right?" So I suggested we do it together, so she could experience the feeling of another man. I was very excited, and I felt my wife was okay with it, but she just wouldn't agree to have sex with me. Then she said, "What's wrong with me? What kind of husband is this? Supporting your wife putting an LV hat on you?" That's how it ended. I guess I failed, but deep down I feel my wife is still accepting. Does anyone have any good suggestions?My wife and I have a very good relationship. We dated for seven years (I got married early), and we still have a decent amount of interest in each other after marriage, but I'm usually the one who takes the initiative. Now I think my wife was probably just fulfilling her responsibilities at first.
Recently, I've noticed a change in my wife's attitude towards sex. She used to be very reserved, but now she's completely different (and I feel great). However, sometimes during sex, I don't know when she'll reach her climax (her needs can be very high). Afterwards, we share our feelings. When I ask her if she's done, she doesn't say anything. Sometimes I wonder if she's unsatisfied, but she doesn't want to talk about it. After reading many posts on 69 (a Chinese sex education platform), I feel like I should try it. Recently, when my wife and I are having sex, I've been imagining things. I remember once during sex, I told my wife I wanted to find someone to help her, and she immediately said no. I continued to fuck her hard, then suddenly stopped and asked her, "How about I fuck you, and someone kisses your pussy?" I continued to fuck her hard, asking if a kiss was okay. My wife replied, "Aren't you worried about someone else kissing you?" I directly told her that as long as she's comfortable, anything is fine, and I'm not jealous. My wife was enjoying my thrusting, moaning, "What if he kisses me and then wants to touch my genitals?" Honestly, that was incredibly arousing (I didn't dare tell her). Should I tell her he touched me? I wouldn't let him do anything. After a few more frenzied thrusts, I ejaculated. That was the first time, and it felt amazing. I thought at the time, finding someone to give my wife complete physical pleasure shouldn't be a problem for me (it's not worth it to be over 40 while I'm still young). Afterwards, I didn't dare discuss my thoughts with her. We'll see.
Later, during another time we were making love, I saw my wife was really into it, so I asked her if she could find someone to serve her. I suggested we kiss her breasts first, and said, "I'll kiss one of them each to give you some pleasure." At first, she didn't react, so I described how it would start, which one I would kiss and which one she would kiss. Seeing that my wife was quite enthusiastic, I asked her how it would feel. She said something that excited me: "Kissing two of them must feel really good, right?" So I suggested we do it together, so she could experience the feeling of another man. I was very excited, and I felt my wife was okay with it, but she just wouldn't agree to have sex with me. Then she said, "What's wrong with me? What kind of husband is this? Supporting your wife putting an LV hat on you?" That's how it ended. I guess I failed, but deep down I feel my wife is still accepting. Does anyone have any good suggestions?

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