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: Women, Do You Really Understand Orgasm?

Fifty percent of married women say they have never experienced a real orgasm—this is just from a survey. If we were to talk face-to-face with women who claim to have experienced orgasm, we would find that what they perceive as orgasm is far from real. The truth is, many women in our society don't understand what a real orgasm is like.

A woman married for seven years said she could achieve two or even three orgasms during each sexual encounter. However, further conversation revealed that this woman, so confident in the quality of her sex life, considered the man's ejaculation as her "orgasm." The man's subsequent erection was considered another "orgasm experience" for her.

The greatest tragedy is that women become accustomed to sex without orgasm and take it for granted. Men who rarely care about women's feelings during intercourse are not expected to do so, and they don't consciously examine their own attitude during sex.

Along with this ignorance and lack of desire for orgasm often comes a dull and unfulfilling experience of sex. If a man is also "lacking in the woman's satisfaction," then aversion to sex will take hold of her, leading to frigidity, and a harmonious and pleasurable sex life becomes a pipe dream.

Men, do you care about a woman's feelings?

If achieving orgasm relies entirely on sexual skill and technique, we will stray from the ultimate experience. While a man's orgasm can be achieved solely through physical pleasure, women often need psychological support. A warm and romantic man can evoke all of a woman's feelings. A relaxed woman, enveloped in warmth, intoxicated by romance—all her sensory cells are in a state of optimal acceptance and experience. Therefore, it's easy to understand why, sometimes, a deep, tender kiss accompanied by caresses can bring a woman to orgasm.

A man who rushes into penetration is destined to fail because he only cares about his own localized pleasure, neglecting the woman's feelings. A successful sex life should first and foremost be one where the woman experiences a full and enjoyable orgasm.

Do everything you can to bring a woman to the point of unbearable arousal before penetration. Kiss, caress, and even don't shy away from "erotic" conversation. Men should understand that what interests them is not the vagina itself, as the nerve endings there are very thin. It is precisely the labia, which many men find visually and psychologically unattractive, that embodies a woman's entire hope for sexual pleasure. A friend in his thirties understands this well, but during our conversation, I discovered he had never considered using his fingers to caress his wife's labia. Knowing this but not doing it isn't a matter of inability, but of unwillingness! A woman's ability to achieve a true orgasm largely depends on the man; some even believe it depends entirely on whether the man cares about the woman. Men's organs, men's love—what surprises me is how many men are insecure about their small penises! Listening to a heart-to-heart hotline, almost every man who called in that night complained about his penis being too small to satisfy his wife. I believe that the "size" of a man's genitals is more psychologically important to a woman. The shape itself can provide a strong visual stimulus, arousing active sexual excitement, and on this basis, the pleasure is naturally stronger. There are no pleasure nerves at the end of the vagina, but women often experience extreme excitement when the penis touches the edge of the uterus; this is also a psychological factor at play. Instead of avoiding the importance of the "size" of a man's genitals in a woman's sexual pleasure, we should consider how to satisfy a woman even with "congenital deficiencies." We cannot decide what we look like, but we can decide what we love, and love can make up for everything. A psychological consultant in Tianjin once recommended a dildo to a couple, but they still couldn't reach orgasm after using it. After talking with them, I was almost certain that the problem lay in their psychology. If they couldn't face the legitimacy of using a dildo and the fact that their genitals were small, how could they enter into sexual life easily and romantically, and how could they experience orgasm? How

long does it take for a woman to be satisfied　 ?

Men often call psychologists, confused: How long does it take for a woman to reach orgasm? I always ejaculate in seven or eight minutes, what should I do?

There's no single standard for how long a woman needs to last, and the same woman won't always reach orgasm at the same time. The experience of orgasm is fickle; the sufficiency of foreplay and the peak of arousal all determine when it arrives. A man who cares about a woman's feelings should first and foremost hold his ground before she reaches orgasm. Men might say, "Easier said than done."

In reality, every man has the ability to control his time; the question is whether he wants to, or whether he can rationally step back when that wonderful experience is almost within reach. Again, it all depends on whether you truly care about a woman's feelings. Recently, some articles have discussed the harms of "holding back ejaculation." Actually, for a man skilled in self-control, what he's doing isn't holding back ejaculation, but rather how to delay the impending moment of collapse. How can you hold back ejaculation if the bow isn't fully drawn? Men should learn to experience pleasure during the process, rather than always focusing on the moment of ejaculation. A man who learns to experience pleasure during the process will find that the pleasure of the process far surpasses the pleasure of ejaculation.

Women who truly understand the pleasure of sex will ultimately surprise men with their wonderful performances, giving them far greater pleasure than when they are only focused on their own activities. Letting the woman reach orgasm first is a wise man's decision at the beginning of intercourse; he understands that a woman who has experienced orgasm often rewards him many times over.

Letting the woman be happy first is destined to be the most pleasurable way for a man.

Man, Woman, Who Bears the Responsibility?

A friend complained that his wife was frigid. This friend told me very confidently that he was excellent, top-notch in terms of both physical attributes and duration, and very romantic. However, he said that she always wanted to finish quickly, refused to kiss, and refused to change positions.

I initially thought the problem lay with my friend's wife, until I spoke with an excellent sex therapist.

Sexual intercourse is a matter for both men and women, so failed sexual relationships should be shared by both. However, this therapist believed that men should bear more responsibility, if not all of it. Because of the physiological characteristics of men and women, men are destined to often be in an active and guiding position in sexual life.

Romance doesn't always lead to tenderness, and strength can sometimes result in rudeness. That friend definitely has a problem, perhaps simply a lack of care for his wife. A moment of haste, a moment of reluctance, a moment of recklessness—all can accumulate into a shadow of frigidity. I believe that friend never asked his wife how to make her happier during his actions. Lack of communication is the greatest danger. And this lack of communication may stem from ignorance, from shyness, but at its deepest level, it stems from a lack of care for his wife.

When we talk about men's responsibilities, women cannot ignore their own. Since women are men's natural mentors in many ways, they shouldn't relinquish their right to guide men for their own pleasure.

As a woman, you should openly discuss your feelings during sex with your husband, directly stating your desires, telling him what you need and what you dislike. An ideal husband will absolutely and unconditionally avoid methods you dislike and try his best to meet your needs. If some of your special requests are truly unacceptable to him, you shouldn't force it, otherwise it may very well foster frigidity in the other person.

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