A truly good ex should be like these 5 things.

If ex-lovers frequently meet up, it indicates that they still have feelings for each other. When they meet, they often recall each other's good qualities and virtues. From the day a couple breaks up, it signifies that neither of them wants to go through life together again, hence the decision to become independent individuals. However, humans are not plants or trees; how can they be without feelings? After a breakup, each other still holds a place in their hearts. Even if the love is gone, the memories cannot be erased from their minds. To move forward gracefully, it's best to remain familiar strangers.
1. Don't call me unnecessarily after breaking up.
Emotional matters are often complicated and difficult to unravel. Even after a formal breakup, the other person's image will always remain in your heart. After all, they have left a deep mark on your life. To completely forget them is simply self-deception. Therefore, the best way is to stop thinking about them too often after the breakup and stop calling them unnecessarily. Doing so will not only prevent you from getting over the breakup but will also cause trouble for the other person's life.
2. Don't ask your ex to dinner after breaking up.
Having a meal with a friend of the opposite sex is fine, and occasionally inviting your ex-girlfriend or ex-wife out for a meal is also fine. However, if you frequently invite them out for meals, it will affect their normal lives. Especially spending money to sit together and reminisce about the good old days, bragging and lamenting the fleeting years, is really not worth the money, unless you want to rekindle the relationship or regret your hasty divorce and are trying to mend the broken relationship.
3. Stop having any financial dealings with the other party.
Money is a sensitive topic. So, once you've broken up, don't have any financial dealings with the other person. Even if you care about them, don't engage in any financial transactions unless you never intended to get the money back, or unless they desperately need your money to save their life. Otherwise, you'll feel awkward asking for it back out of consideration for your past relationship. Besides, everyone's having a tough time these days, and there's no need for you to pretend to be a millionaire with a beer belly.
4. Don't date or see each other frequently after breaking up.
If ex-lovers frequently meet up, it indicates that they still have feelings for each other. When they meet, they often recall each other's good qualities and virtues, and may even regret their hasty decision. Therefore, ex-lovers often rekindle their romance after several dates. So, you must understand the potential consequences of dating. If you can't change the reasons for the breakup, it's best not to repeat the same mistake due to temporary emotional weakness.
5. Don't sleep with your ex after a breakup.
If you don't want to reconcile with your ex, don't try to trick them into bed. Doing so is immoral, despicable, and base, unless you genuinely want to rekindle the relationship and mend the broken bond. Otherwise, any good impression you have of them will be completely shattered. If both of you have remarried, this will also leave you with a stigma of infidelity, causing your respective spouses pain and heartbreak.
6. Do not act as the other person's emotional advisor.
If you can't even handle your own relationship problems, what right do you have to act as someone else's relationship counselor? Especially after you dumped her, your advice will seem malicious and sinister to her. Similarly, when you act as her relationship counselor, it actually shows that you haven't let go of her at all, or that you're too proud to bring up getting back together. Therefore, such a relationship counselor is truly hypocritical.
7. Don't pry into your ex's privacy after a breakup.
Some couples, after breaking up, maintain a high level of interest in their ex, constantly inquiring about whether their ex has a new partner or who that new partner is. They might even succumb to their curiosity and try to meet them, causing minor disruptions, not wanting someone else to have them even if they couldn't have them themselves. Actually, this is bad for both parties. Life is already tiring enough; don't add to your own stress. Sometimes, cherishing the memories is worse than dwelling on the past!
When couples divorce, the children are always inseparable. It's best for the couple not to argue about the children. Although the children are young, they know and remember everything. Therefore, it's best not to take out your grievances on them. Moreover, most issues involving children involve money. Money can bring happiness, but it can also cause emotional damage. So, talk things out calmly and don't add to your troubles by worrying about money. It's only natural to have money to spend on your children.

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