69. The psychological resilience to take the first step

After writing my honest feelings in my journal, many friends added me and shared their thoughts, mostly their own confusion. Mr. A and his wife felt psychologically prepared before taking the first step, their thinking as open as most men, hoping their wives would be sexually happy. However, after the swapping, he felt unhappy, feeling his wife had slept with another man, leaving him with psychological trauma and feeling extremely painful. I didn't know what to say at the time, but I told him that caring for someone isn't selfish, but about being tolerant. When you have psychological trauma, have you considered your wife's feelings? When you repeatedly asked your wife to take the first step, why did she repeatedly refuse? Regardless of the reason, she agreed, so you shouldn't have such thoughts, because you love her, right? I told him not to hurt someone who loves you with your selfish mindset. Actually, our wives have the same feelings as us, but they are women, carrying a heavier burden of ethics and morality than we men. Do you know how your wife feels seeing you like this? Pain and helplessness. Although the first step might have brought her some stimulation, this stimulation is far from enough to alleviate the psychological damage you've caused her. I told Mr. A that he is a hypocritical and petty man. I told him that for his wife's sake and for his own, he needed to adjust his mindset. Life is full of twists and turns; it's how you face it that matters. The path you walk is yours to take, and happiness and pain are separated by a thin sheet of paper, entirely dependent on your mindset. The day after our conversation, he said he felt relieved and relaxed. Some other men, both 69 and 69, talked to me about wanting to take the first step, but their wives disagreed. They told me their wives initially agreed during passionate sex, but later they disagreed and even felt disgusted. They asked me how their wives had gotten them to agree and hoped I could teach them. I sensed their urgency during our conversations. Today, I'm summarizing my thoughts from these past few days in my journal. Actually, every wife is the same; they all have the same desire for passion but also worries. Chinese ethics and morality are deeply ingrained in every woman's mind. They fear that after the first time, their husbands won't love them anymore, they fear safety issues, they fear their husbands won't be able to extricate themselves... More often than not, women, like men, have a selfish side and cannot accept their husbands being with other women. If you have such a wife, and you truly want her to be sexually happy, you have to satisfy your wife's desire for a threesome. Here's what I want to tell every man: to take that first step, you must be sincere. Let your wife feel your sincerity, your good intentions, and your openness. No woman doesn't want to enjoy passion; it's just that women won't readily accept you unless they feel your sincerity and are completely certain of your true feelings. Because they are women, women who love you and whom you love. Only when they feel your sincerity and your efforts can they fully enjoy the passion of life. Sincerity is needed at any time, even when communicating with friends, let alone with your loved one, don't you agree? A special reminder to my fellow men: if your wife agrees to take that first step, don't be indiscriminate. Women are emotional creatures; they need feelings. Although it's not what we understand as romantic love, their feelings are at least a lack of aversion, dislike, a sense of romance, good taste, experience, and the ability to enjoy conversations without any barriers. For your wife's sake, you should carefully screen her. [Also, since you want your wife to take the first step, you should communicate with her and look at your chat history with 69.com together. You can also read 69.com's articles. Don't do it alone in secret; you should share it together. Otherwise, your wife won't feel your sincerity.] I hope all couples are happy and joyful. If you agree with my thoughts, please leave a message and tell me your feelings. I will add you as a friend. As long as you are sincere, happiness will surely be yours.

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