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The Art of Taming Women 

Licking a woman's genitals is a wonderful thing. From a sexual psychology perspective, the feeling of watching a woman struggle and moan in your mouth is very enjoyable.
The following guide to licking a woman's vulva is based on my personal experience. The descriptions of the woman's sensations are from my observations and feedback from my girlfriend, which I have slightly edited together.
I. Preparations before licking the vulva:
Making love is a wonderful thing. If you're not just doing it for release, you should create some conditions and atmosphere for it, such as at night and dimming the lights.
Both parties should take a shower first, especially the woman, because the female genital structure is more complex with more folds, making it easier for dirt to accumulate. Therefore, when showering, be sure to open the labia majora and minora and clean them thoroughly.
Men should play some music and wait for her in bed; women should get into the habit of applying perfume to their genitals after showering, but never use too much or too strong perfume, because when a man is licking your genitals, his nose is closest to your genitals, and if the perfume is too strong, it can easily choke him; also, don't apply perfume to your labia, because the scent of your so-called vaginal fluid is not created by perfume, just spray perfume on your palms and apply it to your pubic hair and inner thighs; it's also good to lightly apply a little to the anus.
Prepare two towels, one large and one small. Place the large towel on the bed for the woman to lie on, and use the small towel to wipe away sweat and water. Keep a glass of water by the bedside so that the woman can easily reach it if she is thirsty, without having to go outside to get water and thus avoiding prolonged interruption of her pleasure.
II. Several sensitive areas for women:
Men shouldn't think that licking a woman's clitoris means you should pounce on her and kiss her clitoris as soon as you get into bed. Don't be so aggressive. You need to know that a woman's body reacts very slowly. Give her some time to adjust. The clitoris is an extremely sensitive part. Stimulating it right away will not be as effective.
Personally, I think the order should be like this: You can first hug her and say a few sweet words to her, such as "You are so beautiful, you are so sexy," to make her feel comfortable and relaxed psychologically. Then you can start kissing her lips, earlobes, behind her ears, neck, breasts, lower abdomen, and waist. Be careful to spend more time on her breasts, because a woman's breasts are also a very important erogenous zone.
At this point, the woman should feel a slight tingling sensation throughout her body, and you should begin to approach her genitals. Start by kissing her inner thighs, gently separating her legs. Usually, women are quite shy at this stage because they feel somewhat "resistant" to exposing their genitals to you. Therefore, when separating her legs, don't be too hasty or forceful; be gentle and separate them little by little.
Start by gently licking her thighs with your tongue, from the outer edge of her labia majora—the crease between her thighs—upwards to her hip bones (on both sides of her lower abdomen), repeating this about ten times. The woman will feel a ticklish, tingling sensation, and a slight soreness near the vaginal opening. Next, gently sweep your tongue down her thighs to the Zusanli acupoint below her knees. Zusanli is also a sensitive point for women. If her skin is delicate, you can kiss this area several times. If her skin is rough, it will feel like rubbing sandpaper with your tongue, so skip it and kiss back towards her groin. Hehe.
Return the kiss to the inner thigh and repeat the actions taught above. This tactic is called "assistance" in military terms. In bed, you should treat the woman as an "enemy, opponent." First, distract the "enemy's" attention, take the initiative, and guide the "enemy's" senses to follow your tongue. Engage in guerrilla warfare on any of her body's mountains (breasts), hills (lower abdomen), valleys (inner thighs), and forests (pubic hair area). Gradually, you will feel the woman begin to curl up, her legs will move involuntarily, and she will moan. More sensitive women will begin to become wet around the vaginal opening.
After assisting (around ten minutes), it's time to switch to the main attack!
By providing assistance, the man has essentially overcome the woman's shyness and destroyed her psychological defenses. At this point, she will be in a state of wanting to accept but not wanting to accept, and the man can then enter the main offensive position and begin a direct attack.
At this point, the woman should take the initiative, spreading her legs into a V-shape, ideally arching them backward to expose her entire genitals to the man. There's nothing to be ashamed of; in fact, this slight initiative can provide the man with greater motivation and engagement.
Once the woman has raised and spread her legs, the man should first target several key areas: the perineum, labia, and vaginal opening. The perineum is located at the junction of the vagina and anus. Although the skin in this area is taut, it is extremely sensitive. Use a moist tongue to gently lick this area. When kissing the woman's inner thighs, she will feel a tingling or numb sensation from top to bottom around the vaginal opening; when kissing the perineum, she will experience a comfortable, expanding sensation from bottom to top. When kissing the woman's perineum, if you can overcome your psychological barriers, you can use a surprise attack by licking and touching her anus with your tongue. This will guarantee that the woman will scream with excitement.
If you have any psychological barriers, then lick upwards from the perineum to the woman's labia. At this point, most women will be very wet. The vaginal fluid at this time is mostly clear and thin. If you like, you can drink it (I'm not kidding). It's freshly secreted by the woman's body and won't be dirty.
How should you kiss the labia majora? Don't use your hands yet. Use your tongue to gently pry the labia majora apart (some women have smaller labia majora, or their labia may separate on their own when they are more aroused). Gently pry them apart with your tongue, then gently press your tongue against the sides of the vulva. Then, gently press your tongue against the sides of the vulva, then ... 蒙嗤反佣醮街屑沃霾迦氤锤龊嵘ǘ鳎桥曰崾娒赖摹?/P>
The above text discussed how to kiss a woman's labia. Remember, when kissing the labia, you should suck the woman's labia as much as possible into your mouth and gently sweep and lick them with your tongue. The woman will feel a special itch in the labia area, and she will want you to kiss more places and more widely. Ignore her and just kiss as you like, because very few women will say, "Darling, kiss me there, kiss me there..."
While they're enjoying themselves, you can gently bite her labia. With the flesh in your mouth, whether to bite and how to bite is entirely up to you. But don't bite too hard; just the right amount. You can make her suddenly scream, which will basically ruin the sensation she's been building up.
Why would you want to ruin a woman's experience? Male sexual arousal is achieved through the friction between the eyes and genitals; this direct stimulation allows men to reach orgasm quickly, which can be represented graphically as Mount Everest, rising and falling vertically. Female sexual arousal, on the other hand, is built up through the ears (sweet words) and the mind (imagination and feelings); reaching orgasm requires repeated stimulation and accumulation. This can be represented graphically as the Yunnan-Guizhou Plateau, a trapezoidal shape.
After the previous round of kissing, the woman has reached a certain level of arousal and is a little dazed. Being too dazed isn't good either, because when a woman is dazed, she won't know who's kissing her, haha! Just kidding. A light bite can wake her from her dazed state, allowing her to accept your continued stimulation in a semi-conscious state, which will make her sexual arousal come faster and accumulate more fully next time. This technique should be used repeatedly when licking a woman's vulva, but don't do it too frequently, or you might get kicked off the bed. Hey! Be careful when biting, the labia are very delicate.
If you gently bite a woman's labia, she'll definitely let out a startled "Ah!" and her body will twitch. Before she can speak, quickly press your lips to the entrance of her vagina. This will make her feel a warm and comfortable sensation throughout her genitals, turning her initial "Ah!" into a soft "Oh." This creates a feeling of wanting to curse but being unable to, wanting to scream but not daring to—it's quite fun!
Once you've "conquered" a woman's "outer strongholds" (perineum, labia, anus, etc.), you can begin the "Xuzhou-Bengbu Campaign." In bedroom terminology, the female vagina is sometimes referred to as a "clam (labia)," which is quite descriptive. Moreover, there is indeed a "pearl (clitoris)" inside the "clam."
As mentioned above, after gently biting a woman's labia, quickly block her vaginal opening with your lips; this can give her a feeling of warmth and comfort. Now it's time to get started. You should gently separate her labia with your thumbs to expose her vaginal opening, and use your tongue to circle around the opening, sometimes lightly, sometimes firmly, and sometimes pressing your entire lip against it. Remember, never blow air into the woman's vagina; this is not fun and can easily lead to problems.
At this point, the woman's attention is entirely focused on her vagina, and her clitoris begins to swell and become visible (some women have very small clitoriss that are not easily visible; if you encounter such a woman, don't bother trying). If you haven't kissed her clitoris yet, she will only feel a swelling and probably won't feel much sensation. At this point, you can pause briefly from kissing the vaginal opening and instead gently tease her clitoris a few times with the tip of your wet tongue, arousing her sensation from within the clitoris. The woman will let out a few soft moans. Then you can go back to kissing her vaginal opening and labia. At this time, the woman's clitoris has just been stimulated and she will be in a state of eagerness for you to kiss her clitoris again.
Remember, under no circumstances should you kiss her clitoris at this time. Let the woman be half-suspended in that feeling, and the man should start by gently licking upwards from the woman's perineum toward the clitoris, slowly. When the tongue reaches the vaginal opening, move it from side to side, parting the labia while continuing to lick upwards, gradually approaching the clitoris.
At this point, the woman should be telling herself, "We're almost there, almost there, hurry, hurry and take it in your mouth." No matter what she says or pulls at you, just don't kiss her clitoris. When you're almost there, gently use the tip of your tongue, the lighter the better, just lightly sweep and touch her clitoris (your tongue should have a little saliva in it). Then, in the opposite direction, lick towards the vaginal opening using the same method. This will drive the woman crazy with anticipation, and when she's anxious, she'll naturally become excited.
When kissing the vaginal opening, men with long tongues can try inserting their tongues into the woman's vagina and stirring them around. They can stir however they want, as long as they can get it moving. Women often enjoy this, but men should be careful with the base of their tongues; sticking it out too far can cause injury. Men with thick tongues (like me, poor thing!) can only insert a small portion, but they can curl their tongues and insert them. Even though it's not much, it can make the woman feel very full. The sensation of a thick tongue sweeping upwards from the vaginal opening is something men with thin, long tongues can't provide. Men with thin, long tongues can use the tip of their tongue to gently tease the cleft of the woman's labia, which is also very pleasurable. Each method has its own merits.
Now you can focus on getting the "pearl." Move your tongue up to the woman's clitoris and concentrate. Many men may think that simply licking a woman's clitoris vigorously will bring her to orgasm, but this is a misconception. The clitoris is very sensitive; if you lick it too hard, she will feel more pain than pleasure, which is pointless.
When kissing the clitoris, keep a few things in mind: your tongue must be wet, light, and pointed; it's essential to keep your tongue moist (the water prepared in Chapter 1 will come in handy now). When licking the clitoris, be gentle and use only the tip of your tongue. To penetrate the clitoris, use the five-word technique: "point, flick, poke, press, stir." Point refers to lightly touching the tip of the clitoris with the tip of your tongue; flick refers to flicking the clitoris upwards from below; poke refers to gently poke the clitoris from side to side with your tongue; press refers to occasionally pressing the clitoris down slightly with your tongue; and stir refers to swirling your tongue around the clitoris while it's in your mouth.
At this point, you need to be aware of the woman's reactions, because she is already very engaged and excited. You can feel a throbbing sensation under her clitoris, which is very noticeable when you are holding her clitoris in your mouth. Don't interrupt her sensations abruptly; keep your movements even, because sudden, fast-paced movements can easily bring her to orgasm.
During sex, men often want it to last longer and ejaculate later for greater comfort. Women, like men, also crave this pleasurable sensation to last longer. Therefore, it's essential to understand this feeling in women. Only resort to a faster pace to help them reach orgasm if they strongly insist on giving in, or if your tongue becomes numb from prolonged kissing.
Here's a very useful technique: Don't imitate the way male protagonists in pornographic films lick clitoris randomly, and don't always kiss a woman's clitoris using the methods described above. When you've done these actions well enough to give her an orgasm, you should use your entire lip to enclose the woman's clitoris. Press your upper lip against the base of the pubic hair above the clitoris, and use your lower lip to separate the woman's labia, getting as close to the vaginal opening as possible (depending on how big your lips are, hehe). Enclose the woman's clitoris in your mouth (leaving some space), making her feel like her clitoris is floating in your mouth.
Using the five-word technique to launch an attack, this is the most meaningful moment for a man to lick a woman's clitoris. Because you can control her level of arousal and orgasm through your lips and tongue. Usually, I lick for a while, causing her to convulse violently. Just as she's about to climax, I gently release her, pulling away from her clitoris, making her scream in frustration. Or, just as I pull away and see her about to scream, I immediately put it back in her mouth, and she's so comfortable she can't scream anymore. How proud you feel when you see yourself controlling a woman's emotions! But don't go too far, or she'll kick you off the bed.

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