Discussing threesomes with my husband

Yesterday, my husband excitedly told me, like a big boy, that his blog post was successfully published. He specifically asked me to read it. I had read his post and felt inspired to share my own experience, so tonight I'm sharing our story to wish all couples a loving and happy life together. I'm a 90s kid, and my husband is seven years older than me. I remember meeting him when I was 21. I hadn't graduated yet, but he had already been working for several years. When we first met, he worked in media, which required frequent business trips. Now, my husband works in finance, and I'm a tour guide. We have mutual friends here. My husband seems mature and stable, giving off a very energetic vibe, while I seem a bit naive because at that time I was facing graduation and job hunting, feeling lost. My only joy was visiting my friends from my hometown. After he returned to Shijiazhuang, we kept in touch. Gradually, our relationship solidified, and eventually, I truly couldn't live without him. I'm a very obedient woman, and I've always strived to be a good wife, wholeheartedly devoted to him. My husband treats me very well. Before meeting him, I had a boyfriend in college, and we ended up having sex without really understanding what was going on. After meeting my husband, I found that he treated me much better than my college boyfriend. He was considerate, attentive, and took good care of me. I told him then that I had a boyfriend before, and even casually mentioned that we had already made love. But I didn't know that my husband had a virginity complex back then. During that period, he was in great pain, but he didn't show it. I only heard about it later from him. He told me how much he suffered after finding out I wasn't a virgin. Fortunately, his thinking changed later, to a degree that surprised me. I thought he might have suffered some kind of trauma. Before, he would get very angry whenever I mentioned my college boyfriend. But later, during sex, he even asked me how I made love with my boyfriend before. He told me that a website called 69 Paradise educated him, and since then, our sex life has been much happier. My husband is no longer affected by my not being a virgin. He said that it's better to live in the sunshine of a cuckold's complex than to live in the shadow of a virginity complex.Our married life was very harmonious afterward, but as time went on, I always felt something was missing. However, as a woman, I couldn't actively ask for anything. Later, my husband got a lot of pornographic movies for us to watch together. We had watched them before, but now my husband and I discuss them together. He has also become more considerate and understanding. When we make love, he is completely uninhibited, and I am very content. My husband usually tries different styles to enjoy the pleasure with me. I have always been faithful to my husband, and of course, I expect him to be faithful to me as well. I know that my husband has other women around him, but at least I have seen him do things that are out of line. Maybe he did them without my knowledge, but I would rather he didn't. Later, at work, I also had a man I really liked. He was my colleague, and we worked together. He also had a wife, but I only liked him secretly in my heart. I never expressed or revealed my feelings, and I would never let my husband know what I was thinking. Later, my husband became more outgoing with me, and we often joked around. He said that beautiful women have many suitors, and I told him that I only have eyes for him. He smiled and said that he would be happy even if others pursued him, which shows he has a very generous attitude. At first, I thought he didn't care about me. Because I'm a very conservative woman, especially when it comes to relationships, once I've made up my mind, it's for life. My husband trusts me completely in this regard. He loves and cherishes me, and later even encouraged me to find more fun and enrich my life. Of course, I know that life can't revolve solely around eating, working, and sleeping, especially for women. Sometimes, a woman may indeed feel loved, even by someone other than her husband, but that's just a fleeting fantasy. She feels guilty for thinking too much about it, as if she's betraying her husband. So she continues with a mundane existence. That night, after making love with my husband, we were chatting and laughing when I asked him, "Have you ever thought about cheating?" His answer was yes. I was immediately upset. I know I'm not a virgin, and that's fine, especially since we've been together for a long time. But that doesn't mean he can't care about me. My husband chuckled and said that cheating was just a thought, but the fact that I had those thoughts still infuriated me. That night, I ignored him and went to sleep alone. He noticed my unhappiness and kept apologizing. I know that men's words are becoming increasingly... The temptations in society are becoming increasingly overwhelming, but I know that my husband and I only have a few minor disagreements. He won't leave me, and I certainly won't leave him. Later, I became more proactive in our sex life. We tried all sorts of positions, and I became increasingly seductive in my words and actions. My husband loved it. I loved kissing his entire body, and he would do the same for me. Eventually, I got used to it, and seeing his satisfied expression gave me a sense of accomplishment. This change allowed me to experience a woman's true joy. My husband did a great job, and I became much more cheerful than before. Then one time, we were watching porn, and we saw two men having sex with one woman. I used to find it unbelievable, but after watching it so many times, I didn't think much of it anymore. Suddenly, my husband asked me if I liked being done that to him. I... I casually mentioned liking someone because I was already aroused. Also, my husband and I often joke around, especially during sex, and we often say very lewd things. After I said that, my husband became serious and said he'd been wanting to find a handsome guy to have sex with me for a while, asking what I thought. I was furious. I thought it was one thing to joke around, but I never expected him to actually think and do that. I firmly refused, saying I wouldn't do that, not even if it killed me. But my husband kept repeating it in my ear, saying he loved me and cherished me. I said, "How can your woman be shared with someone else?" My husband said, "Because we love each other, married life needs adjustment, we need to seek novelty. He said women should enjoy themselves too." I firmly denied his words. In my heart, I've always wanted to be a good wife, and I don't want to be ruined by this. But my husband kept saying things like, "..." I saw a website with a lot of couples chatting online, but I didn't know he was secretly looking at those things. I had read that there were indeed many couples chatting online, but many of them were scams. This was my first time encountering a website for couples to connect, and I was a little incredulous and curious. But to avoid upsetting my husband, I didn't continue looking and went to sleep so he wouldn't think about those things. My husband wasn't home for a few days, so I reopened the website and saw a lot of couples chatting. I was shocked by how open it was and thought it was so perverted. But seeing some of their sex pictures still made me feel aroused, and I even became aroused. I felt ashamed. I looked at those things every night my husband wasn't home. Later, when my husband came home, we made love that night. I fantasized about the feeling of two men touching and kissing me, which made me very passionate that night. However, my husband ejaculated soon after, leaving me somewhat unsatisfied. Afterwards, I chatted with my husband, and he said he didn't mind me interacting with other men and encouraged me to take the initiative in meeting them. It sounded like he didn't care about me, but I knew he did. He later added that it was precisely because he loved and cherished me that he could openly and selflessly share his happiness with me. It sounded like he was doing it for my sake, but I still felt a little uneasy. However, my husband remained very sincere, saying that this way we would be more loving and maintain a happier marriage. Life is short. For now, my mindset needs to change. My husband wants me to genuinely experience the joy of being a woman. During that time, he was very good to me, and I felt he definitely didn't not love or cherish me. He kept urging me to agree to his advances. Although I wasn't entirely against it, I was always afraid, though I didn't know what I was afraid of. Thinking about the scenarios he described, I felt a little excited; it certainly seemed thrilling. Considering how secretive infidelity and crushes exist in society today, if my husband truly wanted more pleasure and excitement in our marriage, it would indeed make us more loving. Later, my husband and I frequently discussed those topics. I didn't explicitly agree on the surface, but... I silently agreed in my heart, and my husband had already noticed my change. I told him that I wouldn't date men I didn't like. He chuckled and said he'd slowly find someone suitable and would only act if I was satisfied. Gradually, I started talking to him about what kind of man I was looking for, what I should be careful about, and what I shouldn't do. My husband cares about my feelings. I noticed he mostly dates men, or couples, and never women. I don't want him to date other women. Call me selfish if you want, but I just want my husband to only date me. So I told him I couldn't accept other women, but if he really wanted another man, I wouldn't object. My husband was very happy and listened to everything I said. It's clear my husband wasn't just seeking pleasure for himself. The idea of his woman being possessed by other men sounds unacceptable, but it actually provides him with a greater sense of excitement. It makes him feel the allure of his woman being intimately touched by others. If a woman is always only enjoyed by her husband and never receives affection from other men, life becomes too dull. A beautiful woman should have the experience of being flirted with by other men; that makes her husband cherish and pamper her more. If a woman only has one man in her life, it's a tragedy. Besides, under my husband's guidance, it's just experiencing a different kind of pleasurable sex, and it doesn't affect our lives—it's safe and feasible. So, I gradually accepted it. Later, with my husband's encouragement, I coincidentally met a lover while watching a movie. After a few days, we had sex. I did hide it from my husband at the time, as he mentioned in his previous blog post. After being caught red-handed, I felt incredibly guilty. However, my husband not only forgave me but also insisted on having sex with my lover. The result was that my lover was scared away. Now, I completely agree to my husband's arrangement and even fantasize about a threesome soon. My husband loves and cherishes me even more, and I've become more cheerful. I know this makes him treat me even better and prevents him from cheating. He says there's no point or interest in cheating now; he feels guilty about it, like he'd be doing me a disservice. I feel the same way. Before, I might have had crushes on other men, but now I'm open about everything. I don't keep secret thoughts about my husband or other men. I feel the joy of open communication and love. I love my husband, and he's even sweeter and more loving than before. Writing this, I hope that couples can approach dating with a positive mindset, truly connecting and enjoying each other's happiness. I'm so glad my husband saw this; otherwise, he wouldn't be happy, and I wouldn't experience joy or our love wouldn't be stronger. After this experience, I believe that couples who date become more loving. Thank you for reading my blog! It's getting late, so I'll stop here. Looking forward to single men adding us as friends. I'm fantasizing about my husband and a handsome guy spoiling me. Thinking about it makes me sleepy. Time for bed!

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