Husband and wife sharing QQ account

There are quite a few couples sharing the same QQ account on the website. I have personally encountered some of them and have many thoughts about it.
Why use a shared QQ account? I think the sole purpose is to demonstrate that there is complete transparency and 100% trust between the couple.
However, sharing a QQ account between spouses is not always beneficial for communication. Here are a few stories to illustrate the problem:
First, I felt deeply ashamed for expressing the wrong feelings or misunderstanding the meaning.
I met a man once, and during a meal, I stumbled and received a light embrace from him, which I found quite pleasant. Back home, I casually chatted with him, and before long, he warmly invited me out, mentioning how much his wife admired me… About half an hour later, he spoke to me politely, which puzzled me. He explained that he had just finished exercising and that I had been chatting with his wife… I was so embarrassed… I felt like I'd been spied on, because my tone seemed to carry a touch of girlish coquettishness… which another woman had clearly witnessed… Haha. After that, I never dared to speak to him so easily again.
II. A one-person show where gender is blurred.
Seeing that a friend had added me, I greeted them politely. This friend first identified themselves as a woman, perhaps assuming I would be more friendly towards women, and naturally, I would chat more with them. Then, they suddenly transformed into a man, mysteriously asking what their partner had been saying… Haha, the man's attentiveness was being delivered by a woman, seemingly increasing its credibility… I felt helpless, because the style of conversation is very easy to detect. Therefore, I especially dislike this kind of gender-blurring chat; I feel like a monkey being played, and although there's no malice intended, it still makes me uncomfortable.
Third, the objective is vague, and it is difficult to grasp the appropriateness of one's speech.
If you don't know whether you're talking to a man or a woman, it's really hard to have a conversation. Women have their own way of talking and direction, and women and men naturally have different tones and styles of speaking... If you're facing someone you can't figure out, I think it's no wonder you don't want to have a conversation.
For example, I feel very comfortable chatting with Green Sunshine, talking about women's topics in a very intimate way; while I always have very little to say to her husband, but because we know each other's gender, we can talk very easily without much restraint.
Therefore, even if couples are completely transparent with each other, they don't necessarily have to make a fuss about sharing QQ. In fact, it's better to have separate platforms for deeper communication. There are always some things that can't be said in front of both of you, and there are always some atmospheres that need to be created separately.

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