Let me share my insights on that membrane.

I'm speaking from personal experience, so let me analyze for you whether that hymen is really that important. You asked if I was a virgin, and I'll honestly tell you I wasn't. You asked if I regret it, and I'll tell you, I regret it immensely. If God gave me the chance to relive my youth, I wouldn't let any man possess me. I would definitely save my most precious thing for the husband I marry.
Let me tell you about my experience.
Like most women, my first love began in college. Honestly, looking back, I really resented my friends and classmates. Because in my second year, I was the only one in my dorm without a boyfriend, and the only one still a virgin. They spent all their time mocking and ridiculing me, and trying to find me a boyfriend, as if I were an anomaly for not having one. Finally, out of politeness and curiosity, I was pressured into a relationship. To be honest, I didn't really like him. But I wasn't disgusted either. It was just a formulaic feeling that we should be in a relationship. And in the end, it was also a formulaic feeling that we should have sex. You ask if it hurt the first time? I'll tell you, I was numb. Because I was like a robot, doing what my friends and classmates said I should and had to do. In the end, all eight of my dorm sisters broke up with their boyfriends. And none of us were virgins anymore. Of course, some had been with multiple partners, some had experienced trauma and were prone to one-night stands, and some had abortions several times. I should say that all eight of us except me had abortions. Because my relationship was out of necessity, I knew how to protect myself. This continued until graduation. We went our separate ways. Chatting with my former girlfriends, we reminisced about our university days. Perhaps they'd had too much to drink, because they revealed their true feelings: the real reason they so desperately wanted me to date and lose my virginity was because they were envious and jealous. They regretted not being virgins themselves and were afraid I would find far more happiness than they did. So they constantly boasted about societal trends and how non-virgins could still find happiness. Only after I lost my virginity did they finally feel relieved, knowing that I, like them, would never find true happiness. Although my heart ached from being betrayed by my own friends, I've come to terms with it. Many women have been deceived in the same way. Even now, I still hold onto a sliver of hope, wishing to find a man who truly loves me and doesn't look down on me. But dreams are just dreams.
Entering the workforce, it truly felt like marriage was on the horizon. Relatives and friends started introducing potential partners. I also tried to genuinely date and find my husband. But each beautiful beginning was always followed by a tragic ending. The root cause was that I wasn't a virgin. When men first started dating and were pursuing you, they didn't care whether you were a virgin or not. Anyone who asked that question before sleeping with you was definitely a huge idiot. Actually, I only now realize that such men are good men. Ninety-nine percent of men just trick you into bed, have their fun, and then glare at you indignantly, yelling: "Why aren't you a virgin?!" The direct result is a breakup and never contacting you again. A slightly more merciful one won't say anything at first, but the more they go, the worse they become. They bring this up during every argument to provoke you. You feel guilty, always feeling bullied and wronged. The final result is still a breakup.
I'm so tired. I really regret it, but there's no going back, and I don't expect to find happiness anymore. Men are so hypocritical. The more someone says they don't care, the worse they are. It's impossible for them not to care. I just want to find a man who's even slightly kind to me and doesn't keep reopening old wounds; that would be enough for me.
Dear sisters, especially those who are still virgins, you must hold on! Tighten your belts. Don't be swayed by those non-virgins who envy and resent you. They're all wicked. Decades of reform and opening up can never erase the deep-rooted feudal culture of thousands of years. Listen to me, you won't go wrong.
The reason why virginity is more important than male virginity is that women are meant to give birth, and if they are exposed to virginity, they are more likely to develop gynecological diseases. In particular, miscarriage is very bad for the next generation and can even cause infertility. This issue does not exist for male virginity. Although I am not considering things from a woman's perspective, I am telling the truth. Sisters, please don't scold me. Even though male virginity is also precious, it cannot be a reason for you not to be a virgin.

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