How should couples navigate the seven-year itch?

When facing relationship problems, I used to think that married couples could handle things more calmly and maturely than dating couples. However, reality is often different. Many couples only discover their incompatibility long after marriage, which is undoubtedly painful. This is why the seven-year itch exists. So, how should couples overcome the seven-year itch?
How can couples overcome the seven-year itch?
1. The Philosophy of Giving: Don't criticize your partner, and don't try to reshape them. Instead, ask yourself often: "What can I offer them—a worry-free material life? Rich spiritual nourishment? A sense of security and happiness?" Do things for them sincerely in daily life, even the smallest things, like a hug, a smile, or a kiss, to let them feel warmth.
2. Leave Space: Many marriages perish in the struggle between constraint and resistance, leading many to suggest giving each other space. However, it's crucial to first give yourself space. Maintain a normal social circle outside of marriage and don't make marriage your sole emotional support. Continuously improve your life wisdom through social interactions, adjust yourself, and adapt to the marriage.
3. Adjust expectations: Overly high expectations can create a gap between expectations and reality, putting pressure on both parties. Your spouse may not be the best or most outstanding person you meet, but they may be the most suitable for you, and that's enough.
4. Choosing Divorce: Divorce isn't as terrible as you might imagine. If both parties agree that the marriage was a mistake, divorce might be the wisest choice. What's truly terrible is failing to reflect on oneself after a divorce and remaining unclear about one's own needs. We often see people who, after their first divorce, no longer take marriage and divorce seriously, leading to unstable marriages and significant distortions in their entire lives.
In my opinion, divorce may be the worst outcome for a couple, but it's not the worst way to get through the seven-year itch. Some couples do have personality clashes, and their marriage may have been a mistake from the start. So, divorce might be the wisest choice, allowing them to free themselves and seriously reflect on their marriage.

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