A compilation of tongue techniques (drawing on the strengths of many)

In mutual pleasure between men and women, the tongue plays a crucial role.
Utilizing your lips, teeth, and tongue effectively can bring your partner to orgasm in a way that rivals orgasms achieved through other means. Mastering these three tools requires long-term experience and training.
Just as conquering a woman's genitals with your penis is an even more challenging task, mastering techniques is essential. While innate advantages can make things easier, consistent effort and experience are equally important. Regardless of penis size or tongue length, with a learning mindset, nothing is impossible. Meeting a
woman who enjoys being conquered by the tongue inspired me to enroll in a tongue technique course. The textbook is available on our forum, hence this post. It's
a simple matter; let's start putting in the effort now.
First: Hygiene.
Maintaining good hygiene is paramount. Oral hygiene and odor control are issues you must address before starting. The methods are common knowledge, so I won't elaborate here.
Second: Technique.
Tongues vary in length, and a natural advantage can make your partner incredibly aroused the instant you stick out your tongue. That's okay. I once had an example: one of my subordinates was incredibly resourceful, but his natural tongue wasn't particularly long.
Fortunately, he honed his skills through a simple method to become an unbeatable tongue for licking. The training process is quite simple: an empty water bottle and a glass bead. Continuously flick the bead with your tongue, repeating this process. Over time, your tongue control and strength will reach a considerably high level. Of course, safety is paramount during training to avoid accidental ingestion, as the bead represents a woman's clitoris. When your soft lips, strong teeth, and a powerful tongue all converge on this point, few women can resist. After all, the clitoris is the most sensitive area for most women.
Therefore, training the fundamental strength of your tongue through various methods is crucial, including tongue curling. Tongue curling is a very important component. The method is to try curling your tongue around peanuts while eating. Again, safety is paramount. This is a necessary skill to master when attacking the breasts.
Licking techniques are also relatively difficult to master. A small clitoris, your tongue tip licking up and down with both speed and force, like when we're boxing. The flexibility of the tongue is demonstrated here.
Sucking is a crucial word. Have you ever tried the feeling of a woman holding both your testicles in her mouth? Have you ever tried sucking a woman's labia and clitoris in your mouth at the same time? Actually, it's the same feeling. For sucking, the strength is very important; weak or too strong suction won't work. As for how to master it, observe your woman's expression.
Lips are quite warm; if you have thick lips, congratulations, women who enjoy kissing will be reluctant to let you go. Of course, use your tongue to attack other parts of the woman's body.
Teeth are a less frequently used tool, but when you gently scrape a woman's clitoris with your teeth, you'll discover that teeth have this function besides eating.
Three: Positions.
I've read many articles on the forum, and there are quite a few positions. Actually, there's a real-life example that I can offer for reference.
A 50-year-old teacher, obsessed with cunts, still has dozens cunts lining up for him to have sex with. Why? Because his skills are famous locally. He
once taught me a cunt-licking technique, actually very simple, just the common 69 position.
He uses this position to make women's legs go weak, panting on his penis, and the key point is the continuous attack on the clitoris. Simple, right? Very simple! When your tongue is invincible, any position is secondary.
I like a position that drives women crazy. Let her lie down, with a pillow under her buttocks, and let her watch you lick her cunt. When she can't take it anymore, you can clearly see her contorted expression. So this is what an orgasm is.
I've written over a thousand words already. I really wanted to write more, but I feel it's unnecessary. Below is a summary of articles from the forum; everyone can choose the best.
The road ahead is long and arduous, the land of China is full of cunts, I will search high and low...
How to make a woman ecstatic with your tongue:
The contact between a man's lips and tongue and a woman's genitals is called clitoral licking. In ancient China, it was vividly compared to playing the sheng (a type of reed pipe instrument). From a physiological and anatomical perspective, this behavior has its rationale. A woman's erogenous zones include the clitoris and labia. The clitoris can be both a source of arousal and a site of final orgasm. The clitoris is delicate, and without lubrication, rough finger stimulation can easily cause pain. The mouth, with its lubricating saliva, and the soft, flexible tongue, can provide extreme comfort and pleasure to the clitoris. When stimulation reaches a certain level, it can induce a clitoral orgasm in women, which is highly beneficial and allows them to be more engaged in subsequent sexual intercourse. If we exclude the influence of sexual morality and traditional concepts, the vast majority of women would readily accept clitoral licking. Clitoral licking can stimulate male libido, fully arousing him, and the direct visual stimulation of the female genitals provides optimal sexual stimulation. The pleasurable sensation from the contact between the lips and tongue and the female genitals further enhances the intensity of sexual stimulation. A woman's experience and reaction to licking her vulva can also sexually stimulate a man. For some men with premature ejaculation or weak ejaculation control, licking can prolong intercourse. By allowing the woman to reach clitoral orgasm before intercourse, even if ejaculation occurs before vaginal orgasm, the woman won't mind. Some men consider the vagina dirty and refuse licking, which is understandable, as there's no inherent right or wrong in this behavior. Some individuals may find the smell of vaginal secretions offensive and therefore won't accept licking. Whether this sexual activity is acceptable between couples depends on both partners' acceptance and enjoyment.
Entering the world of couples: "Tongue skills."
"Nothing moves me more than a lover's lips. A sensual French kiss, just thinking about it electrifies me." An extraordinary kiss is a wonderful balance; from the intertwining and curling of the tongues to pressure control and moisture management, it's a complete art. How can one train to become a kissing expert? Here are some tips from experienced kissers:
(I) Use plenty of body language. First, use body language to arouse his desire. No matter how much you admire him, don't rush to offer your lips. You should first feel his body temperature with your fingertips, sense his emotions, and convey romantic messages with your eyes before starting to kiss. "Teasing is the most effective foreplay, and this is also true for kissing," says William Cane, author of *Kissing is an Art, Questions and Answers*. Don't forget to cleverly use your eyes and hands: under a deep gaze, gently glide your fingertips across his face, secretly breathe into his ear, and whisper how much you look forward to an alluring kiss, thereby arousing his desire and setting the stage for the next steps. If you prefer a wild French kiss, use food to ignite his fantasies! "Whenever I see my girlfriend devouring food, I can't help but want to give her a passionate kiss," says Samkilmore, a public relations professional from New York and other cities. Is your lover a clueless, unromantic goose? Next time, try munching on a chicken leg with relish! The glistening, roasted chicken leg looks so delicious as you tear into it with gusto, and while you're enjoying it, don't forget to tease him with your eyes. Lick your lips and silently tell him: you think his kiss is even more delicious than the food in front of you! Even the most clueless guy will understand.
(II) Synchronized Techniques: To experience the beauty of first contact simultaneously, matching the frequency is crucial. What kind of kiss does he prefer? What warm-up actions are needed beforehand? What are the taboos regarding kissing? (For example, some men appreciate a woman's fragrant breath, while others crave spicy food and find garlicky breath arousing.) Do these details align with your preferences? According to an informal survey, most men dream of a bold and passionate French kiss, while women prefer a feather-light, romantic kiss rather than a passionate one. What if your partner doesn't perform as expected? It's recommended that you subtly demonstrate this through your actions, thus helping to improve your partner's behavior. Since people have a tendency to imitate, over time, your partner will sense your intentions and respond in a way that meets your expectations.
(III) Excellent Imagination: Besides excellent technique, imagination is also essential. Who cares how long or what angle your kiss is at? What you need is complete immersion. Be creative and make the most of your lips. Don't just mindlessly lock the kiss into a mouth-to-mouth exchange. Gentle, raindrop-like kisses can fall on the forehead, chin, cheeks, and even the eyes and eyebrows. A passionate, sucking kiss, besides savoring the deliciousness of his tongue, why not taste his earlobe? A kiss that can extend in depth or shallowness, and by finding ways to expand it horizontally, can surely uncover different kinds of fun. Take a look at the kissing diagram provided by Los Angeles sex therapist Dr. Avacadell; even a novice can follow the diagram to perform well:
1. First, gently kiss your lover's face. Start from the eyebrows, explore downwards to the chin and cheeks, and finally settle on the lips.
2. Next, the playful interaction of lips begins. Extend the tip of your tongue to gently open your partner's lips, circle them, and taste their breath. Most people will be eager to suck on their partner's tongue at this point, but it's advisable not to be too hasty. Imagine yourself doing a tango with your tongue—moving in and out freely, as if playing a back-and-forth game with your partner's tongue, or like a mischievous child using alluring charm to whet his appetite and deepen your mystery!
3. Finally, be bold and go all in! Tease your partner's senses, let your wet tongues meet, and reach the highest point of pleasure!
(IV) Find the right erogenous zones According to statistics, the most effective kissing routes for men are "from top to bottom" and "from front to back"—try using kisses with different pressures and humidity levels to test his passion level, and pay attention to his reactions to find his erogenous zones. "If a certain part of his body stiffens from a kiss, don't give up, keep teasing him—that's probably his erogenous zone," says sex therapist Cohengreene. "I find belly button kisses particularly effective."
[Repost] How to use your tongue to give her sweeter sex
From a sexual psychology perspective, the feeling of watching a woman struggle and moan between your tongues is very enjoyable.
I. Preparations before genital licking:
Sex is a wonderful thing. If you're not just looking for release, you should create some conditions and atmosphere for it, such as at night with the lights dimmed.
Both partners should take a shower first, especially the woman, because the female genital area has a more complex structure with many folds, making it easy for dirt to accumulate. So, when showering, make sure to open the labia majora and minora and clean them thoroughly.
The man should turn on some music and wait for her in bed. After showering, the woman should get into the habit of applying perfume to her genitals, but don't use too much or too strong perfume, because when the man is licking your genitals, his nose is closest to your genitals, and strong perfume can easily choke him. Don't apply perfume to the labia, because the scent of your vaginal fluids isn't created by perfume. Spray perfume on your palms and apply it to the pubic hair and inner thighs; it's also good to lightly apply a little to the anus.
Prepare two towels, one large and one small. Place the large towel on the bed for the woman to lie on, and use the small towel to wipe away sweat and moisture. Keep a glass of water by the bedside so she can easily reach it when thirsty, avoiding the need to run outside to get water and interrupting her pleasure for too long.
Secondly, several sensitive areas for women:
I personally think the order should be like this: First, hold her close and say a few sweet words, such as "You're so beautiful," or "You're so sexy," to make her feel comfortable and relaxed. Then, start kissing her lips, earlobes, behind her ears, neck, breasts, lower abdomen, and waist. Pay attention to spending more time on her breasts, as they are a very important sensitive area.
At this point, she should feel a slight tingling sensation throughout her body, and you can begin to approach her genitals. Start kissing from the inner thighs, gently parting her legs. Usually, women are quite shy at this point because they feel somewhat "resistant" to exposing their genitals to you. So, don't be too hasty or forceful when parting her legs; do it gently, little by little.
Begin by gently licking her thighs with your tongue, starting from the outer labia majora and moving upwards along the cleft of her thighs towards her hip bones (on both sides of her lower abdomen). Repeat this about ten times. The woman will feel a ticklish, tingling sensation, and a slight soreness near the vaginal opening. Next, gently sweep your tongue down her thighs to the Zusanli acupoint below the knee. Zusanli is a sensitive point for women. If her skin is delicate, you can kiss this area more often. If her skin is rough, it will feel like rubbing sandpaper with your tongue, so skip this step and move back
to the inner thighs. Repeat the above steps. This tactic is called "assistance" in military terms. In bed, you should treat the woman as an "enemy, opponent," first distracting her attention, taking the initiative, and guiding her senses to follow your tongue. Engage in guerrilla warfare across her entire body—the "mountains" (breasts), "hills" (lower abdomen), "valleys" (inner thighs), and "forests" (pubic hair area). Gradually, you'll notice the woman starting to curl up, her legs moving involuntarily, and she'll moan. More sensitive women will begin to become moist around their vaginal opening.
After this initial assistance (about ten minutes), begin the main attack!
Once the woman raises and spreads her legs, the man should first conquer several key points in the main attack direction: the perineum, labia, and vaginal opening. The perineum is the connection between the vagina and anus. Although the skin in this area is taut, it is extremely sensitive. Use a moist tongue to gently lick this area. When kissing the woman's inner thighs, she will feel a tingling and numb sensation from top to bottom around the vaginal opening; when kissing the perineum, she will experience a comfortable, expanding sensation from bottom to top. When kissing a woman's vulva, if you can overcome your psychological barriers, you can surprise her by licking and touching her anus with your tongue. This will guarantee she screams with excitement.
If you have psychological barriers, lick upwards from the vulva to the labia. At this point, most women will be very wet. The vaginal fluid will be clear and thin; if you like, you can drink it (not a joke). It's freshly secreted and not dirty.
How should you kiss the labia? Don't touch them yet. Use your tongue to gently pry open the labia majora (some women have smaller labia majora, or the labia may separate on their own when they are more aroused). Take one labia into your mouth and sweep your tongue over it, paying attention to both the inside and outside. Then repeat the process with the other labia. Finally, turn your body slightly to the side, so that your lips are parallel to the woman's labia. Gently take both labia into your mouth at the same time, sucking them in. Use your tongue to make a sweeping motion between the labia, inserting and withdrawing it. The woman will feel incredibly good.
Remember, when kissing the labia, try to suck them as much as possible into your mouth, gently sweeping and licking them with your tongue. The woman will feel a slight itch in that area, and she'll want you to kiss more areas and a wider area. Ignore her; just keep kissing. Few women will say, "Darling, kiss me there, kiss me there..."
You can gently bite her labia while she's enjoying herself. The flesh is in your mouth; whether you bite, and how you bite, is entirely up to you. But don't bite too hard; it should be just right, enough to make her suddenly scream, essentially ruining the sensation she's built up.
Why ruin a woman's sensations for no reason? Male sexual arousal is achieved through the friction between the eyes and genitals. This direct stimulation allows men to reach orgasm quickly, which can be represented graphically as Mount Everest, rising and falling vertically. Female sexual arousal, on the other hand, is built up through the ears (hearing your sweet words) and the mind (imagination and feeling). Reaching orgasm requires repeated stimulation and accumulation. This can be represented graphically as the Yunnan-Guizhou Plateau, a trapezoid.
When you gently bite a woman's labia, she'll definitely let out a startled "Ah!" and her body will twitch. Before she can speak, quickly press your lips to her vaginal opening. This will make her feel a warm and comfortable sensation throughout her genitals, turning her initial "Ah" into a soft "Oh." This creates a feeling of wanting to curse but being unable to, wanting to scream but not daring to—it's quite fun.
After you've "conquered" the woman's "outer strongholds" (perineum, labia, anus, etc.), you can begin the "Xuzhou-Bengbu Campaign." In sexual terminology, the vagina is sometimes referred to as a "clam (labia)," which is quite descriptive, and indeed, there is a "pearl" (clitoris) inside.
As mentioned above, gently biting a woman's labia and then quickly sealing her vaginal opening with your lips will give her a warm and comfortable sensation. Now it's time to get started. Gently use your thumb to separate her labia, exposing the vaginal opening. Use your tongue to circle around the opening, sometimes lightly, sometimes firmly, and sometimes with your entire lips pressed against it. Remember, don't blow air into the vagina; it's not fun and can easily lead to problems.
At this point, the woman's attention is entirely focused on her vagina, and her clitoris will begin to swell and become visible (some women have very small clitoriss that are not easily visible; if you encounter such a woman, don't bother trying). If you haven't kissed her clitoris yet, she'll only feel a swelling and probably won't feel much sensation. At this point, you can pause briefly from kissing the vaginal opening and instead gently tease her clitoris a few times with the tip of your wet tongue, arousing her sensation from within. The woman will let out a few soft moans. Then you can return to kissing her vaginal opening and labia. At this point, the woman's clitoris has just been stimulated and will be eager for you to kiss it again.
Remember, under no circumstances should you kiss her clitoris at this point. Keep her half-suspended in that feeling. The man should begin by gently licking upwards from the vulva towards the clitoris, slowly and carefully. When the tongue reaches the vaginal opening, move it from side to side, parting the labia while continuing to lick upwards, gradually approaching the clitoris.
At this point, the woman should be telling herself, "Almost there, almost there, hurry, hurry and take it in." No matter what she cries or pulls at you, just avoid kissing the clitoris. When you're almost there, gently, as lightly as possible, just lightly brush and touch her clitoris with the tip of your tongue (your tongue should have a little saliva on it). Then, lick in the opposite direction towards the vaginal opening. This will drive her crazy with anticipation, and her anticipation will naturally arouse her.
When kissing the vaginal opening, men with long tongues can try inserting their tongues into the woman's vagina and stirring them around—stirring them however you like, as long as you can get it moving. Women really enjoy this technique, but men should be careful with their tongues; sticking them out too far can cause injury. Men with thick tongues (like me, poor thing!) can only insert a small portion, but they can curl their tongues to insert it. Even though it's not much, it can make a woman feel very full. The sensation of a thick tongue sweeping upwards from the vaginal opening is something men with thin tongues can't provide. Men with thin tongues can use the tip to gently tease the cleft of the labia, which is also very pleasurable; each has its own merits.
Now you can focus on getting the "pearl" (clitoris). Move your tongue up to the clitoris and concentrate. Many men might think that simply licking the clitoris vigorously is enough to bring a woman to orgasm, but this is a misconception. The clitoris is very sensitive; if you lick too hard, she'll feel more pain than pleasure, which is pointless.

At this point, you need to be aware of the woman's reactions, because she is already very engaged and excited. You can feel a throbbing sensation under her clitoris, which is very noticeable when you are holding her clitoris in your mouth. Don't interrupt her sensations abruptly; keep your movements even, because sudden, fast-paced movements can easily bring her to orgasm.
Men always want sex to last longer and for longer ejaculation, as this makes it more pleasurable. Women at this stage are the same as men; they also want this exceptionally pleasurable feeling to last longer. So, be understanding of this feeling. Only use a fast pace to bring her to orgasm if she strongly insists that you "give" her orgasm, or if your tongue becomes numb from kissing for too long.
Here's a very effective technique: Don't imitate the random licking of clitoris like in adult films, and don't always kiss the clitoris using the methods described above. Once you've done those actions well enough to give her an orgasm, use your entire lip to enclose the clitoris. Press your upper lip against the base of the pubic hair above the clitoris, and use your lower lip to separate the labia, getting as close to the vaginal opening as possible (depending on the size of your lips, hehe). Hold the clitoris in your mouth (leaving some space), making her feel like it's floating inside.
Use the five-word technique to launch your attack. This is the most meaningful moment for a man licking a woman's clitoris because you can control her arousal and orgasm through your lips and tongue. Usually, I lick for a while until she has a sudden spasm, and just as she's about to climax, I gently release her clitoris, making her scream in frustration. Or, just as she's about to scream, I immediately put it back in her mouth, and she's so comfortable she can't scream anymore. How proud you feel when you can control a woman's emotions! However, don't go too far, or she might kick you off the bed.
When licking a woman's clitoris, you can simultaneously stroke her pubic hair, which feels very good; you can also gently tease her anus with your fingers; or gently insert your fingers into her vagina and stir; you can also reach up and grab her breasts with both hands. These are all actions that can make a woman feel even better, what's called "encircling the enemy to attack their reinforcements" in military terms.
At this point, whatever you ask of a woman, she will agree. If she doesn't agree, stop these actions, and she'll definitely agree in her haste, depending on how unreasonable your request is. I usually ask her to "go to my back door," but she never agrees:
female orgasms can last a long time, from ten to several tens of seconds, and they will lie motionless on the bed or even have full-body convulsions. At this time, you should just go do whatever you need to do, like wiping sweat or drinking water, because at this point, the woman is an orgasm idiot; her mind is filled with nothing but extreme excitement, and there's no room for you to exist. By the time you come back after your "go," she'll have just recovered.
After a woman experiences an orgasm from genital masturbation, she often craves the immediate insertion of an eggplant-like object into her vagina—this goes without saying, right? But these days, eggplants are unreliable; you'll have to rely on yourself. If you become "soft" from focusing too much on genital masturbation, ask her to perform oral sex on you briefly. Once you've regained your erection, move on to another activity.
While genital masturbating, play some music and kiss her in rhythm with it. Subtly suggest that the rhythm of your genital masturbation is inspired by the music, allowing her to feel your kisses while listening to the music. This will create a romantic and comfortable experience. Try different pieces with a strong rhythm to see which suits your kissing frequency. I personally recommend the guzheng piece "Wild Geese Descending on the Sandbank," the pipa piece "Ambush from Ten Sides," and the guitar piece "Hotel California." Definitely avoid "Moon Reflected in the Second Spring"—that melancholic music will ruin the atmosphere.
On the other hand, men need a sense of conquest, and so do women. This allows them to be more engaged, proactive, and cooperative during sex. Isn't a man's sense of conquest enough? Licking a woman's genitals demonstrates a man's chivalry and gives her satisfaction and a sense of conquest—why not?
If you want to show your girlfriend more love, respect, and equality, and you can overcome any chauvinistic tendencies, you can change the position—the "enhanced version." Start by having the woman lie on the bed and perform the basic genital licking. After stimulating various areas, the man lies on the bed, using a pillow to elevate his head, allowing the woman to "ride" on his head (hehe, this is truly riding on his head and dominating him!). The man licks the woman's genitals with his face upwards. This way, the woman can more actively adjust the stimulated areas, while the man gets more tired, often having to look up to kiss her, which can cause neck pain.
However, this method of licking genitals is definitely several times more stimulating and satisfying for the woman than lying on the bed. Imagine yourself from a woman's perspective: a man you love is lying beneath you, or more broadly, a man is riding you and licking your genitals. How stimulating, satisfying, and conquest-inducing that would be!
How can you use your tongue to bring her to ecstasy
? Sex is a passionate act involving all the senses, and the skillful tongue should certainly join this feast of love. The tongue, with its warmth, moisture, and flexibility, is a vital sexual organ. It not only excels during foreplay but also provides pleasure comparable to direct contact with the genitals. Oral sex, a variation of intercourse involving the mouth and penis, was called "jade appreciation" or "flute playing" in ancient China. For those with various sexual dysfunctions, oral sex is a blessing. Physiologically speaking, oral sex is the closest to, or in some aspects even surpasses, sexual intercourse.
The oral mucosa is soft and smooth, rich in tactile nerve cells, and the tongue is soft, flexible, and has a sense of taste. The oral muscles are powerful, all of which not only provide pleasurable stimulation to the penis but also generate sexual arousal and pleasure in women.
There's no need to specifically explain the positions and techniques of oral sex; any position, any method, as long as it's possible and the partner is aroused, is worth trying. Individual differences are significant, and it all depends on the couple's mutual exploration, discussion, and practice. In any case, oral sex provides the most intense, effective, and exciting sexual stimulation. Moreover, any sexual behavior that occurs between spouses and is acceptable to both is considered normal.
There are various folk beliefs about oral sex. Three are most representative: The first is the "collecting semen to nourish yin" theory. There's a saying that "keeping it closed and not ejaculating replenishes the brain." Some even misinterpret oral sex, claiming that women who receive this precious essence can prolong life and maintain youth, thus encouraging women to swallow semen during oral sex. In fact, besides sperm, semen is mainly composed of protein, with only a small amount of fructose and water. Ingesting it doesn't provide any nutritional value. Of course, it won't harm your health.
However, it's undeniable that because the sexual organs are very close to the excretory organs (the male semen outlet is the urethra), many people have a psychological barrier to oral sex, even refusing it altogether. But in reality, oral sex is a natural human behavior. During estrus, all female animals secrete pheromones near their genitals to attract males, allowing them to use their mouths to touch the female's genitals for a while before mating.
Essential oral sex techniques for men:
Proceed step by step, create an atmosphere first, don't start directly. You can begin by gently massaging from the navel to the pubic hair and caressing the inner thighs.
Find the most comfortable position. Two commonly used positions are: one is for the woman to lie on the bed with her legs bent outwards; the man can lie prone or kneel between the woman's legs, stimulating the clitoris and labia. The other is for the man to lie on his back, with the woman kneeling between his legs or above his face. Regardless of the position, comfort and pleasure should be the primary consideration for both partners.
Utilize basic tongue movements—caressing, teasing, licking, and attracting; for example, lightly sweep the tip of the tongue across the labia minora, then lick the clitoris in a circular motion, tease up and down along the clitoris, and then suck on both sides of the clitoris. Remember to use different pressures and speeds, and adjust the intensity or speed according to her reaction. Do not bite the genitals with your teeth, and do not blow air into the vagina. Accidentally biting can easily cause infection because there are many bacteria in the mouth; do not blow air because air bubbles entering the bloodstream can easily cause embolism. You can also add hand movements, such as caressing other parts of the body or stimulating the vagina.
The woman's cooperation during oral sex:
touch the man's body with your hands, such as placing both hands or one hand on his head, to guide his pressure and position, and slowly move your hips. When your partner performs well, don't forget to praise him and don't hesitate to express pleasurable moans, which can increase the passion for both of you.
Basic Tongue Movements During Oral Sex:
1. Understand Your Partner's Reasons for Refusal:
Is it because they feel it's dirty, or are there religious or other taboos? Try to discuss it openly with your partner.
2. Pay Attention to Bedtime Etiquette:
Cleaning your body—especially the genital area—before going to bed shows consideration for your partner.
3. Patience, Encouragement, and Praise:
Give your partner some time to adjust psychologically. When your partner agrees, remember to encourage and praise them.
4. Find Positions You Both Prefer:
Some oral sex positions differ from intercourse. Let the partner with objections choose. Of course, both partners can also communicate and decide.
5. Refer to Books or Videos
: You can learn a lot of knowledge and skills through appropriate books or videos.
Oral Sex Techniques Step by Step:
Mastering oral sex techniques step by step will make both partners feel more aroused and better immersed in the intimate atmosphere!
Create an atmosphere first, don't start directly. You can start by gently massaging from the navel to the pubic hair and caressing the inner thighs.
Finding the Most Comfortable Position
: There are generally two common positions: one is for the woman to lie on the bed with her legs bent outwards; the man can lie face down or kneel between the woman's legs, stimulating the clitoris and labia. The other is for the man to lie on his back, with the woman kneeling between his legs or above his face. Regardless of the position, both partners should prioritize comfort and pleasure.
Basic Tongue Techniques:
Caressing, teasing, licking, and attracting; for example, lightly sweeping the tip of the tongue across the labia minora, then licking the clitoris in a circular motion, teasing it up and down, and then sucking on both sides of the clitoris. Remember to use different pressures and speeds, and adjust the intensity or speed according to her reaction.
Do not bite the genitals with your teeth, and do not blow air into the vagina. Accidentally biting can easily cause infection because the mouth contains many bacteria; do not blow air because air bubbles entering the bloodstream can easily cause embolism.
Using Hands as well:
The man can add hand gestures, such as caressing other parts of the body or stimulating the vagina.
Women's cooperation during oral sex:
Touch the man's body with your hands, such as placing both hands or one hand on his head, to guide his pressure and position.
Coordinate with his movements, moving your hips.
When he performs well, don't forget to praise him and don't hesitate to express pleasure and moan; this will increase the heat for both of you.
FAQ
:
My girlfriend and I really enjoy oral sex, but sometimes I accidentally swallow vaginal secretions. Will this affect my health? Will my excessive use of oral sex make my girlfriend less interested in genital intercourse?
A:
Under normal circumstances, the vagina may have fewer bacteria than the mouth, but some sexually transmitted infections (STIs) can be transmitted through bodily fluids or secretions, including vaginal secretions. Therefore, if your partner has genital warts, gonorrhea, herpes, or even HIV, these secretions can become a medium for transmission. Even if you don't swallow them, spitting them out after they're in your mouth still carries a risk of infection. From a safe sex perspective, unless you're absolutely certain that both of you are your only sexual partner and neither of you has an STI, it's best to be cautious.
The pleasure and orgasm from oral sex and genital intercourse are fundamentally different; alternating between them can actually create variations. If you're worried, you can combine oral sex and genital intercourse, or avoid oral sex during every sexual encounter.
Skilled oral sex performers can easily arouse women during foreplay; however, if you're unsure about your partner's health, it's best to avoid oral sex altogether!
Conquering a woman with your tongue:
From a sexual psychology perspective, the feeling of watching a woman struggle and moan between your tongue and lips is extremely pleasurable.

The following guide to licking the vulva refers to a man licking a woman's vulva, based on my personal experience. The sensations experienced by women are from my observations and feedback from my girlfriend, which I have slightly edited.

I. Preparations before licking the vulva:

Sex is a wonderful thing. If you're not just looking for release, you should create some conditions and an atmosphere for it, such as doing it at night and dimming the lights.

Both partners should take a shower first, especially the woman, because the female vulva has a more complex structure with many folds, making it easy for dirt to accumulate. Therefore, when showering, be sure to open the labia majora and minora and clean them thoroughly.

Men should play some music and wait for her in bed. After showering, women should get into the habit of applying perfume to their genitals, but avoid using too much or too strong a perfume, as the man's nose is closest to the genitals when he's licking her, and a strong perfume can easily choke him. Also, avoid applying perfume to the labia, as the scent of vaginal fluid isn't created by perfume. Spray perfume on your palms and apply it to the pubic hair and inner thighs; a light application to the anus is also beneficial.

Prepare two towels, one large and one small. Place the large towel on the bed for the woman to lie on, and the small towel for wiping away sweat and moisture. Keep a glass of water by the bedside so she can easily reach it if thirsty, avoiding interrupting her experience.

Secondly, regarding women's sensitive areas:

Men shouldn't assume that licking the genitals means immediately rushing to kiss her clitoris upon entering bed. Don't be so aggressive. Women's bodies react slowly; give them time to adjust. The clitoris is extremely sensitive; stimulating it immediately will be less effective.

Personally, I think the order should be like this: First, hug her and say a few sweet words, like "You're so beautiful," or "You're so sexy," to make her feel comfortable and relaxed. Then, start kissing her lips, earlobes, behind her ears, neck, breasts, lower abdomen, and waist. Pay attention to spending more time on her breasts, as they are a very important erogenous zone.

At this point, she should feel a slight tingling sensation throughout her body, and you should begin to approach her genitals. Start kissing from the inner thighs, gently separating her legs. Usually, women are quite shy at this point because they feel somewhat "resistant" to exposing their genitals to you. So, don't be too hasty or forceful when separating her legs; do it gently, little by little.

Begin to lightly touch and sweep her thighs with your tongue, from the outer labia majora to the inner thigh crease, licking from bottom to top towards her hip bone (the left and right sides of her lower abdomen), repeating this about ten times. She will feel a very itchy and tingling sensation, and a tingling or aching feeling near the vaginal opening. Gently sweep your tongue along the thigh down to the Zusanli acupoint below the knee. Zusanli is a sensitive spot for women. If her skin is delicate, you can kiss this area several times. If her skin is rough, it will feel like rubbing sandpaper with your tongue, so skip it and kiss back down.

Return to the groin and repeat the above steps. This technique is called "assistance" in military terms. In bed, treat the woman as an "enemy, opponent." First, distract the "enemy," take the initiative, and guide her senses to follow your tongue. Engage in guerrilla warfare across any part of her body—the breasts, the lower abdomen, the groin, and the pubic area. Gradually, you'll feel the woman begin to curl up, her legs will move involuntarily, and she may moan. More sensitive women will experience vaginal lubrication.

After about ten minutes of this "assistance," begin your main attack!

By providing support, the man has essentially overcome the woman's shyness and dismantled her psychological defenses. At this point, she will be in a state of feigned resistance, allowing the man to launch his main offensive.

The woman should take the initiative, spreading her legs into a V-shape, ideally arching them backward to expose her entire genitals to the man. There's nothing to be ashamed of; in fact, this slight initiative will provide the man with greater motivation and engagement.

Once the woman has raised and spread her legs, the man should first target several key areas: the perineum, labia, and vaginal opening. The perineum is located at the junction of the vagina and anus; although the skin in this area is taut, it is extremely sensitive. Use a moist tongue to gently lick this area. When you kiss a woman's inner thighs, she'll feel a tingling, numb sensation from top to bottom around the vaginal opening. When you kiss her perineum, she'll feel a comfortable, expanding sensation from bottom to top. You can also try licking or touching her anus with your tongue; this will guarantee she'll scream with excitement.

If you have psychological barriers, you can lick upwards from the perineum to the labia. At this point, most women will be very wet. The vaginal fluid will be clear and thin; if you like, you can drink it (not kidding), it's freshly secreted and not dirty.

How should you kiss the labia? At this point, don't use your hands. Use your tongue to gently pry open the woman's labia majora (some women have smaller labia majora, or when they are more aroused, the labia may already be separating on their own). Take one labia into your mouth and use your tongue to sweep it around, paying attention to both the inside and outside of the labia. Then switch to the other labia and repeat the process. Finally, turn your body slightly to the side, so that your lips are parallel to the woman's labia. Gently take both labia into your mouth at the same time and suck on them together. Use your tongue to make insertion, withdrawal, and sweeping motions between the two labia. The woman will feel incredibly comfortable. As mentioned above, when kissing a woman's labia, remember to suck on as many of the woman's labia as possible and gently sweep and lick them with your tongue. The woman will feel a special itch in the labia area and want you to kiss more areas and a wider area. Ignore her and just keep kissing. Because very few women will say, "Darling, kiss me there, kiss me there..."

While they're enjoying themselves, you can gently bite her labia. With the flesh in your mouth, whether to bite and how to bite is entirely up to you. But don't bite too hard; just the right amount. You can make her suddenly scream, which will basically destroy the sensation she's just built up.

Why ruin a woman's experience? Male sexual arousal is achieved through eye contact and friction with the genitals. This direct stimulation allows men to reach orgasm quickly, which can be represented graphically as Mount Everest, rising and falling vertically. Female sexual arousal, on the other hand, is built up through the ears (sweet words) and the mind (imagination and sensation). Achieving orgasm requires repeated stimulation and accumulation. This can be represented graphically as the Yunnan-Guizhou Plateau, a trapezoid. After the previous

round of kissing, the woman has reached a certain level of arousal and is a little dazed. Being too dazed isn't good either, because when a woman is dazed, she won't know who is kissing her, haha! Just kidding. A light bite can wake her from her dazed state, allowing her to accept your continued stimulation in a semi-conscious state, making her next sexual arousal faster and more accumulated. This technique should be repeated when licking a woman's vulva, but don't do it too frequently, or you might get kicked off the bed. Hey! Be careful when biting; the labia are very delicate.

When you gently bite a woman's labia, she'll definitely let out a startled "Ah!" and her body will twitch. Before she can speak, quickly press your lips to her vaginal opening. This will make her feel a warm and comfortable sensation throughout her genitals, turning her initial "Ah" into a soft "Oh." This creates a feeling of wanting to curse but being unable to, wanting to scream but not daring to—it's quite fun.

After you've "conquered" the woman's "outer strongholds" (perineum, labia, anus, etc.), you can begin the "Xuzhou-Bengbu Campaign." In sexual terminology, the vagina is sometimes referred to as a "clam (labia)," which is quite descriptive, and indeed, there is a "pearl" (clitoris) inside.

As mentioned above, gently biting a woman's labia and then quickly sealing her vaginal opening with your lips will give her a warm and comfortable sensation. Now it's time to get started. Gently use your thumb to separate her labia, exposing the vaginal opening. Use your tongue to circle around the opening, sometimes lightly, sometimes firmly, and sometimes with your entire lips pressed against it. Remember, don't blow air into the vagina; it's not fun and can easily lead to problems.

At this point, the woman's attention is entirely focused on her vagina, and her clitoris will begin to swell and become visible (some women have very small clitoriss that are not easily visible; if you encounter such a woman, don't bother trying). If you haven't kissed her clitoris yet, she'll only feel a swelling and probably won't feel much sensation. At this point, you can pause briefly from kissing the vaginal opening and instead gently tease her clitoris a few times with the tip of your wet tongue, arousing her sensation from within. The woman will let out a few soft moans. Then you can return to kissing her vaginal opening and labia. At this point, the woman's clitoris has just been stimulated and will be eager for you to kiss it again.

Remember, under no circumstances should you kiss her clitoris at this point. Keep her half-suspended in that feeling. The man should begin by gently licking upwards from the vulva towards the clitoris, slowly and carefully. When the tongue reaches the vaginal opening, move it from side to side, parting the labia while continuing to lick upwards, gradually approaching the clitoris.

At this point, the woman should be telling herself, "Almost there, almost there, hurry, hurry and take it in." No matter what she cries or pulls at you, just avoid kissing the clitoris. When you're almost there, gently, as lightly as possible, just lightly brush and touch her clitoris with the tip of your tongue (your tongue should have a little saliva on it). Then, lick in the opposite direction towards the vaginal opening. This will drive her crazy with anticipation, and her anticipation will naturally arouse her.

When kissing the vaginal opening, men with long tongues can try inserting their tongues into the woman's vagina and stirring them around—stirring them however you like, as long as you can get it moving. Women really enjoy this technique, but men should be careful with their tongues; sticking them out too far can cause injury. Men with thick tongues (like me, poor thing!) can only insert a small portion, but they can curl their tongues to insert it. Even though it's not much, it can make a woman feel very full. The sensation of a thick tongue sweeping upwards from the vaginal opening is something men with thin tongues can't provide. Men with thin tongues can use the tip to gently tease the cleft of the labia, which is also very pleasurable; each has its own merits.

Now you can focus on getting the "pearl" (clitoris). Move your tongue up to the clitoris and concentrate. Many men might think that simply licking the clitoris vigorously is enough to bring a woman to orgasm, but this is a misconception. The clitoris is very sensitive; if you lick too hard, she'll feel more pain than pleasure, which is pointless.

When kissing the clitoris, keep a few things in mind: your tongue must be wet, light, and pointed, and it's essential to keep it moist (the water prepared in Chapter 1 will come in handy now). When licking the clitoris, be gentle and use

only the tip of your tongue. The key to clitoral stimulation is the five-step technique: "point, flick, push, press, stir." "Point" means lightly touching the tip of the clitoris with the tip of your tongue; "flick" means flicking the clitoris upwards from below; "pull" means gently pushing the clitoris from side to side with your tongue; "press" means pressing down on the clitoris occasionally with your tongue; and "stir" means swirling your tongue around the clitoris while it's in your mouth.

At this point, you need to be aware of the woman's reactions, as she will be highly engaged and aroused. You can feel a slight throbbing under her clitoris, which is very noticeable when you're holding it in your mouth. Don't interrupt her sensations abruptly; maintain a steady pace, as sudden, rapid movements can easily lead to orgasm.

Men often prefer longer sex and a later ejaculation for greater comfort. At this point, women, like men, desire to prolong this exceptionally pleasurable sensation. Therefore, it's crucial to understand this feeling. Only resort to a faster pace to help her reach orgasm if she strongly insists you "give" her orgasm, or if your tongue becomes numb from prolonged kissing.

A very effective technique is to avoid the haphazard licking of clitoris seen in adult films, and don't consistently use the methods described above. Once you've mastered these techniques and feel ready to bring her to orgasm, use your entire lip to enclose her clitoris. Place your upper lip on the base of the pubic hair above the clitoris, and use your lower lip to separate her labia, bringing it as close to the vaginal opening as possible (depending on the size of your lips, hehe). Hold her clitoris in your mouth (leaving some space), making her feel as if it's floating inside your mouth.

Using the five-word technique to launch an attack, this is the most meaningful moment for a man to lick a woman's clitoris. You can control her arousal and orgasm through your lips and tongue. Usually, I lick for a while, causing her to convulse violently. Just as she's about to climax, I gently release her clitoris, making her scream in frustration. Or, just as she's about to scream, I immediately put it back in her mouth, and she's too comfortable to scream. How proud you feel when you can control a woman's emotions! But don't go too far, or she'll kick you off the bed.

While licking her clitoris, you can also gently stroke her pubic hair with your hand—it feels very good. You can also lightly tease her anus with your fingers; or gently insert your fingers into her vagina and stir; or you can reach up and grab her breasts—these are all actions that will make her feel even better, what's called "encircling the point to attack the reinforcements" in military terms.

At this point, whatever you ask of her, she will agree. If she doesn't, stop these actions; she'll get anxious and agree, depending on how unreasonable your request is. I usually ask her to "go to the back door" for me, but she never agrees:

You can make her beg you to give her an orgasm, hehe, watching her sweetly beg you to hurry up and give it to her, you'll feel so conquered. Then you sway your head and lick her rapidly with your tongue, the woman's thighs will squeeze tighter and tighter (ladies, pay attention, if your boyfriend tells you his neck hurts the next day, it's because of you squeezing it, hmph), then a strong spasm, and then her body relaxes.

If you're really interested, just hold her clitoris in your mouth and don't move it. Just suck on it, but don't use your tongue to do anything or touch it. At this time, the clitoris is very engorged and swollen, and extremely sensitive during orgasm. Touching it will make her feel "pleasurably" painful. Unless you want to really "punish" her, then keep licking and watch her happily dodge and weave.

Female orgasms can last a long time, from ten to several tens of seconds. They'll lie motionless on the bed, sometimes even convulsing. At this time, go do whatever you need to do, like wiping sweat or drinking water. Because at this point, the woman is practically oblivious to orgasms; her mind is completely focused on extreme excitement, and there's no room for you. When you come back, she'll have just recovered.

After a woman's orgasm from licking her clitoris, she desperately wants something like an eggplant inserted into her vagina. Need I say more? But these days, eggplants are unreliable; you'll have to rely on yourself. If you become "soft" because you're too focused on licking your partner's vulva, you can ask her to give you oral sex for a short while. Once you've regained your erection, you can move on to something else.

Not every girl is suitable for vulvar licking. Some girls may have excessive vaginal discharge and a strong body odor due to hormonal imbalances. Even after washing, their genitals may still have a strong smell, which is difficult for men to accept. I wouldn't like it either. Women with this characteristic should be understanding.

Also, avoid vulvar licking a few days before a woman's period, as vaginal discharge usually increases during menstruation. Licking her vulva at this time, with the discharge mixed in, is not hygienic.

You can play some music while licking her vulva and kiss her in rhythm with the music. Subtly suggest that the rhythm of your licking is inspired by the music, allowing her to feel your kisses while listening to music. This will make her feel romantic and comfortable. Try some music with a strong rhythm to see which one suits your kissing frequency best. Personally, I recommend the guzheng piece "Wild Geese Descending on the Sandbank," the pipa piece "Ambush from Ten Sides," and the guitar piece "Hotel California." Definitely avoid "Moon Reflected in the Second Spring"—that melancholic music will ruin the atmosphere.

Both men and women need practice in clitoral stimulation. Once you're unfamiliar with it, twice you'll get used to it, and three times... well, you'll run out of ideas. All you need is emotional investment. Don't think clitoral

stimulation is shameful; you should know that it can provide a great sense of conquest. On the other hand, men need a sense of conquest, and so do women. This allows them to be more engaged, proactive, and cooperative during sex. Isn't a man's sense of conquest enough? Giving a woman clitoral stimulation not only shows a man's chivalry but also gives her satisfaction and a sense of conquest—why not?

If you want to show your girlfriend more love, respect, and equality, and you can overcome any chauvinistic tendencies, you can change positions—what I call the "enhanced version." Start by having the woman lie on the bed and perform basic genital stimulation. After stimulating various areas, the man lies on the bed with his head elevated using a pillow, allowing the woman to "ride" on his head (hehe, this is truly riding on the man's head and dominating him). The man licks the woman's vulva with his face upwards. This method allows the woman to more actively adjust the stimulated areas, but it can be tiring

for the man, as he often has to look up to kiss her, which can cause neck pain. However, this method of genital stimulation is several times more stimulating and satisfying for the woman than lying on the bed. Imagine from the woman's perspective: a man she loves is lying beneath her, or more broadly, a man is riding on her and licking her vulva—how stimulating, satisfying, and conquest-filled that is!
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the woman enjoy your
creative tongue
techniques. Sexual positions combined with tongue techniques increase the pleasure of sex and make women more joyful. Posture 1, Standing Oral Sex
: Have the woman stand while you half-squat, and teasingly lick her private parts with your tongue from bottom to make her wet.
Most people think that oral sex is for women to serve and men to enjoy, but that's not the case. This kind of oral sex technique is also quite effective on women,
especially for increasing sexual pleasure. It can not only satisfy men's conquering mentality, but also fully reveal women's shy nature.
Isn't that exactly the kind of pleasure you need? First, you need to lower your posture and adopt the posture that you feel most comfortable to twist your waist.
If this is your first time doing this, don't be too nervous. It is recommended that you hold the woman's waist with both hands and relax.
You will be able to do it with ease.
(1) Use your tongue to lick the clitoris from bottom to top :
After the tip of your tongue touches the clitoris, use the force of your tongue to lick from bottom to top.
While licking, don't forget to leave some saliva to moisten the woman's vulva, which will help the woman become excited.
When you get to this point, the woman will have a big reaction because of the pleasure that arises from the sensitive area. Don't worry too much.
(2) Sucking the clitoris and labia together:
When the tongue has reached the clitoris, you can slowly increase the suction force,
holding it in your mouth and sucking it with the force as if you want to suck the clitoris out of the labia majora. However, remember
not to bite the clitoris with your teeth for fun or out of curiosity. Making the woman feel pain during foreplay will not be good for the subsequent sex.
(3) Parting the labia and sucking the clitoris:
The clitoris is usually covered inside the labia. You need to use your lips to gently part the labia and then suck the clitoris.
However, don't use too much force. Slowly and rhythmically suck, as if you want to arouse an orgasm,
so that she becomes wetter.
(4) Licking the lower part of the clitoris with the tip of your tongue:
At the bottom of the clitoris, use the tip of your tongue to lick upwards with a little force. Occasionally, you can use the tip of your tongue to press against it or relax your tongue and gently hold the clitoris in your mouth and lick it.
The effect is very good. The secret of this move is to control the strength of the force.
Posture 2: Oral Sex 1
This action relies on the posture of two bodies united, using skin-to-skin contact to increase mutual sexual desire. If oral sex is performed while standing,
the woman is likely to reach orgasm first due to her physical reaction and cannot bear it. At this time, you, being considerate of the woman,
must show your gentlemanly attitude and change the action to oral sex 1.
So what are the posture and techniques of oral sex 1? Let us explain it to you!
The man lies horizontally, and the woman sits on the man's collarbone. In order not to increase the man's load, the waist should be supported with some strength.
Then the woman needs to move forward to the man's face, support this posture, and expose her vulva. Such a bold action will
increase the woman's excitement due to her shy nature.
(1) Stimulate with the tip of the tongue in a small amplitude
After the woman arches her back and exposes her vulva, stimulate with the tip of the tongue in a small amplitude. At this time, the size of the lick is not important.
What is important is that the speed of the tongue should be fast and not interrupted. This way, the clitoris can be effectively stimulated, allowing the woman to enjoy the pleasure you bring.
(2) Parting the labia and sucking:
Gently part the clitoris hidden deep inside the labia with your hand to expose the clitoral hood.
Gently suck on the clitoris and clitoral hood with your tongue and lips, making a sound like sucking a lollipop. This sound
can also increase arousal.
(3) Licking up and down with your tongue in a wide motion.
The clitoris will react to the up-and-down stimulation, producing a slight licking sound, which can increase excitement and promote pleasure.
The tongue tip can mix saliva and vaginal fluid, and the back-and-forth rubbing on the clitoris will create a lubricating effect, doubling the woman's pleasure.
(4) 360-degree licking:
The tongue is close to the base of the clitoris, and licks around the clitoris in a 360-degree circular motion. The tongue tip can be used to accelerate the rotation and stimulate,
or it can be just licked and sucked to provide stimulation.
(5) Licking the middle part of the tongue tip:
The tongue does not apply any force, but expands the area and licks the clitoris. With the addition of saliva and vaginal fluid, the lubrication effect can be increased.
In particular, the uneven part of the tongue can provide appropriate stimulation to the clitoris.
Position 3: Oral sex 2
makes the woman arch her body due to the increase in pleasure. Before reaching the highest orgasm, use superb tongue tip techniques to enhance the stimulation and
bring the woman to orgasm.
Oral sex 1 brings the woman's sexual behavior to a completely open state. Now we will introduce another technique.
First, have the woman lean up, like in the first position, but not on the man. In this position, the man does not need to deliberately support the woman's body.
He can just place his hands on both sides of her waist.
(1) Teasing the clitoris with the vibration of the lips
First, bring the mouth close to the vulva. Then, you can gently hold the clitoris with your lips, or close your lips tightly and touch the clitoris back and forth.
Keep either of the above states, and vibrate the head slightly, sometimes close to the vulva and sometimes away. You can also rub your face against the vulva and the inner thighs.
This can stimulate the pleasure between the woman's legs and arouse greater desire.
(2) Lick the base of the clitoris from side to side.
Insert the tip of your tongue into the base of the clitoris and lick it back and forth with a little force, using only the tip of your tongue to tease it.
This will easily arouse the base of the clitoris. Then bring your whole face close and lick it with your whole tongue. This will make it much easier for your tongue tip, which can produce a pleasurable response in the clitoris.
Mucous membranes and vaginal fluid will also flow out. During the process, you can also use your mouth and saliva to make some sounds to increase the fun.
(3) Stimulate the clitoris by rolling the tip of your tongue and rubbing it from
side to side. First, put the tip of your tongue against the clitoris, and then put your whole tongue on top, covering most of the clitoris. Roll the tip of your tongue up and down and press it tightly.
You can also shake the tip of your tongue from side to side to stimulate the clitoris with vibration. You can also use your lips and hands to rub it to increase the stimulation.
During the process, don't forget to pay attention to her reaction and adjust the force and position accordingly.
(4) Lick up and down near the clitoris.
Place your tongue near the tip of the clitoris and lick it up and down quickly. This will increase friction and provide stimulation. You can also press your tongue firmly against the clitoris and
move your entire head up and down for easier stimulation.
(5) Lick the vaginal opening with your tongue.
First, press the tip of your tongue against the clitoris and lick it slowly from top to bottom. Then, tease and stroke around the vaginal opening with the tip of your tongue.
When licking the vaginal opening, bring the tip of your nose close to the clitoris to increase stimulation and double the woman's pleasure.
Position Four: Arch Bridge Oral Sex
. The last move is to use your tongue to attack from all sides. The man first leaves the woman's lower body,
making the woman's body an arch bridge position. He spreads the labia to expose the vulva. At this time, the clitoris will be more prominent.
Then the man can lick or suck with his tongue. Although the woman is in a still position and simply enjoys the man's pleasure,
she should also straighten her waist. This will make the pleasure more concentrated, and the woman can thus reach orgasm or become wet.
(1) Lick from the anus upwards:
Use your tongue to move from side to side and lick upwards from the anus. After thoroughly licking the anus, vaginal opening, and labia minora,
slowly suck on the clitoris. This step should not be rushed; lick and suck slowly,
while making sucking sounds to increase arousal.
(2) Lick repeatedly with your face close to the vaginal opening: Bring your
face close to the vaginal opening and use your nose, tongue, and lips to lick,
explore, and rub the vaginal opening repeatedly. When your tongue touches the clitoris, turn your face down so that your nose and upper lip lightly touch the clitoris,
and slowly stroke it with the tip of your tongue.
(3) Stimulate with large up-and-down rubbing of the
side of your face: Turn your face to one side and, between your legs, shake your head while quickly
stimulating the clitoris, labia minora, vaginal opening, and anus repeatedly.
In particular, while shaking your head, the tip of your tongue must also quickly and forcefully stimulate the vulva.
(4) Licking the anus with the tongue and stimulating the clitoris
with fingers: Rub the anus or perineum with the tip of your tongue while simultaneously using your fingers to wander over the vulva,
stimulating the clitoris to arouse pleasure. You can also explore the vagina filled with vaginal lubrication, leaving your fingers sticky with vaginal fluid and saliva
as you caress the vulva.
Oral sex is the most comfortable and absolutely indispensable foreplay for women.
For men, oral sex is a major sensory stimulation, and many men enjoy it, but they may not necessarily be willing to perform oral sex on women.
However, physiologically speaking, both men and women can achieve orgasm through oral sex.
While men enjoy oral sex, they should not forget that oral sex can also excite and please women.
During embryonic development, the formation of sex organs begins with a rudimentary form resembling female sex organs, and the same applies to males.
This rudimentary form then develops into the male sex organs. The clitoris is similar to the glans penis, and the labia majora
are analogous to the scrotum. Like the glans penis, the clitoris is densely packed with nerve endings in a small area, making both the glans and clitoris highly sensitive.
Therefore, stimulating these two areas can also bring pleasure.
Simply put, it's the same pleasure men experience when performing oral sex; women can also experience this through friction or stimulation of the clitoris.
Therefore, you can verify this using the aforementioned oral sex techniques.
First, standing oral sex involves the woman rubbing her genitals against the man's face, generating active sexual desire. While
men experience the dominant, conquering feeling of having their penis sucked, standing oral sex for women
can simultaneously achieve both dominant and submissive pleasure.
When a woman reaches orgasm during standing oral sex, she may lose her balance. At this point, you can switch to the position described in position 1 (oral sex with hands closed).
In this position, the woman, fully liberated and aroused, will arch her body due to the renewed pleasure of oral sex, resulting in a different posture.
After arousal, the woman's genitals become red and swollen, and the stimulation from oral sex techniques is even stronger.
The woman's pleasure can be seen in her arched body reaction. At this time, the man should satisfy the woman's needs even more.
Even positions that are quite strenuous for men require some sacrifice to help their partners reach orgasm.
Oral sex, combined with the movement of the tongue and caresses, can achieve considerable pleasure. When performing oral sex, the first target should be the most sensitive clitoris.
Starting with the labia minora and perineum is unlikely to achieve pleasure and may even be counterproductive. In short, carefully targeting the clitoris
to increase female pleasure and heighten arousal is crucial. However, it's important to remember that haphazard sucking is a big no-no. The clitoris is extremely sensitive,
so even slightly intense pleasure can cause immediate pain. Therefore, if a woman says "it hurts," it means she's about to experience pleasure.
In oral sex and even intercourse in general, it's important for the woman to take the initiative. If there's no response after prolonged use of the same position,
she should explain to her partner where her sensitive areas are. If both partners are in agreement, the resulting pleasure will be significantly different. Similarly,
if her clitoris is too sensitive, she should tell her partner to be gentler. A considerate man should also observe his partner's reactions during oral sex
and adjust his technique, position, and pressure accordingly.
The most important aspect of oral sex is skillfully using the tongue, the tip of the tongue, and the lips to guide the woman to the peak of arousal. As she reaches pleasure,
you will also feel increasingly excited. Continuous oral sex will cause the woman to arch her back in excitement, eventually reaching the bridge position,
at which point you can boldly and unrestrainedly suck and lick.
The clitoris is surrounded by the labia minora. If you part the labia, you can see the clitoris.
If you perform oral sex without parting the labia, you cannot directly stimulate the clitoris. Therefore, to achieve arousal more quickly,
try to part the labia as much as possible and directly suck the clitoris.
Compared to direct penetration, clitoral orgasms are easier to achieve and more sustained.
Using the aforementioned clitoral stimulation techniques, you can also help her reach orgasm repeatedly through oral sex. Oral sex not only leads to orgasm but
also makes her wet and produces vaginal lubrication, enhancing the enjoyment of subsequent sex. Even
women who are usually difficult to orgasm or have low libido will experience intense pleasure and moaning during penetration. Oral sex during foreplay can make sex much more effective, so why not?
Creative ways to let women enjoy your tongue (for the prosperity of the sexual health section):
Position 1: Standing Oral Sex. Have the woman stand while you half-squat, teasingly licking her genitals from below, making her wet. Most people think oral sex is for women to serve and men to enjoy, but this isn't true. This technique works well with women, especially for increasing sexual pleasure. It satisfies a man's desire to conquer and also reveals a woman's shy nature—
which is exactly the kind of control and pleasure you need. First, you need to lower your posture and twist your waist in the most comfortable position.
If this is your first time doing this, don't be too nervous. It is recommended that you hold the woman's waist with both hands and relax. You will be able to do it with ease. (1) Use your tongue to lick the clitoris from bottom to top. After the tip of your tongue touches the clitoris, use the strength of your tongue to lick from bottom to top. While licking, don't forget to leave some saliva to moisten the woman's vulva, which will help the woman become aroused. When the woman has a strong reaction due to the pleasure that arises from the sensitive area, you don't need to be too nervous.

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