Gentle, shallow penetration technique for women to reach rapid orgasm

For some women and men, a deep anxiety lurks behind their sex lives. They may simply feel uncomfortable with a particular aspect of sex, or they may have no interest in sex at all, or they may avoid sex altogether out of fear.
Although the media continues to suggest that women can have sex twice a night and that most experience multiple orgasms, many issues related to sexual dysfunction are becoming increasingly public. Many of us have long believed that if our sex lives are imperfect, then we ourselves are incomplete. Now we finally know that most couples have experienced low libido; women cannot reach orgasm every time they have sex; and most men experience erectile dysfunction at some point in their lives.
I recently received a letter from a reader named "Melancholy," asking how to help women achieve orgasm and requesting a simple and effective method. Haha! There are countless ways to have sex, but the simplest and most effective method varies from person to person. Why not try giving yourself and your partner some "homework," requiring you to complete some sensory exercises together, such as masturbation, sexual play, or special sexual positions? The simplest and most effective methods can also be found within the enjoyment.
It's not hard to see in other letters that no one dares to admit they or their partner have sexual dysfunction. This almost comical perfection has both personal and cultural reasons. From a personal perspective, we don't want our friends to know about our shortcomings; from a socio-cultural perspective, the mass media only promotes the successful aspects of sex, ignoring the failures.
This anxiety in sexual life is often unconscious and may stem from childhood experiences. Childhood education may have instilled a fear of sex, or certain sudden, intense events may have associated sex with fear. However, this barrier is not insurmountable; it may naturally disappear as you grow and be replaced by positive behaviors. If you understand the cause of the barrier and have the desire to change, then half the problem is solved. Try to eliminate negative thoughts and replace them with positive ones; have your partner teach you new ways of being in bed; or overcome your fear through counseling. Whatever the source of the fear, we should strive to overcome it and learn to enjoy sexual pleasure.
How can you help your woman reach orgasm frequently without having to rack your brains to come up with new techniques? I'll give a brief introduction here. However, if you want to pursue a higher quality of sexual enjoyment, you'll have to research and explore together with your partner.
The first step, foreplay, is very important. You can kiss the woman's entire body, but you need to identify her erogenous zones. For most women, the erogenous zone is the clitoris. You can start by gently stroking the woman's entire vulva with your hands. Remember to stroke lightly and don't do it for too long. Observe the woman's reaction. If the woman responds strongly, continue stroking. If the woman's reaction is not strong, you can stop stroking and move on to the next step, which is also the most crucial step: gently licking the clitoris with your tongue. Note that you must use saliva to lubricate the clitoris, otherwise it will cause pain if it is dry, because the clitoris is very sensitive. Don't lick too hard, just lick lightly. Then lick the entire vulva. At this time, the vagina will secrete a lot of lubrication. Don't worry about it being dirty. As long as the woman doesn't have a serious gynecological disease, you can accept it. At this time, the woman's reaction is already intense. She desperately needs you to enter her body. But don't rush. Please continue licking for another minute or two, and you can judge the situation yourself.
The second step is to lie face down and straddle her, gently stroking your penis around her vulva a few times to coat it with lubricant. Then, slowly insert your penis. Don't rush. Once you've inserted all the way in, hold her and whisper sweet nothings in her ear. Then ask her if she wants to thrust a few times. If she says yes, then you can proceed. Your chance to shine has arrived. Remember not to get too excited, or it will all end there. You must control yourself.
The third step is to have her lift her thighs apart with her own hands. You kneel down. I want to emphasize that posture is very important; otherwise, the woman won't experience an orgasm. Don't insert too deeply; shallow insertion is sufficient. Strike gradually to create a rhythm. Don't thrust violently; it's pointless, and women won't enjoy it.
The fourth and most crucial step: After the initial shallow penetration, the woman will definitely not be satisfied. So, use your hand to touch her clitoris while you're penetrating. Remember to lubricate your fingers with saliva when touching the clitoris. There are two techniques here, and the method differs for each woman:
The first is to gently insert, stroking the clitoris as you go. It's essential to stroke it. Insert slowly, and once you've reached the bottom, hold the position, then touch the clitoris again, and gently and slowly withdraw. Repeat this process. At this point, the woman is at her peak, and you can continue thrusting, controlling the pressure and duration as you see fit. This is also the most difficult part to control because the woman has reached orgasm, and you'll feel vaginal contractions. If you feel these contractions, continue inserting deeply and for a longer duration until ejaculation. The woman will never forget you then. If you can't control yourself, stop and continue, repeating several times. This is the first method.
Secondly, increase the speed. Insert and touch simultaneously, but don't insert deeply until the woman is orgasming. Only insert deeply and forcefully when she is orgasming, because inserting too deeply before she's orgasming will hurt, and you might lose control and ejaculate. Key points include:
1) Spread the woman's thighs wider, arch her upper body upwards, and when she orgasms, she can hook her hands around your neck for a deeper thrust.
2) When touching the clitoris, make sure your fingers are lubricated, and gently touch it in conjunction with the thrusting motion.
3) Ensure sufficient time for the penis to remain inside the vagina, estimating 40 minutes from start to finish. Can you last that long? For women with mild sexual frigidity, building confidence in sex can be helpful.
? Learn to love your body, especially your unique features—hair, hands, eyes, breasts, legs, etc.
? View your sexual characteristics as normal: you were born with sex, it's the most natural thing.
? Be honest with your partner: To improve your relationship, be open about your obstacles, especially those you find difficult to accept.
? Learn to be "sexually selfish": Traditionally, women prioritize the pleasure of others; try to focus on your own feelings during sex.
? Express your feelings: Allow yourself to move, talk, and even moan during sex.
? Trust in the effectiveness of contraception: Choose a method of contraception that you can completely trust and feel comfortable with.
? Communicate fully: Develop a mutually acceptable way of communicating and using the same language as your partner.
? Discover your preferences: Discover your favorite ways of having sex through sexual fantasies, masturbation, and experimentation. Reject what you don't like and accept what you do like.

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