Regarding whether there is a fee

A friend asked if professional SPA massages are free. Well, from a psychological perspective, most couples who contact SPA massage services are in the early stages of "training" the wife. The stimulation of the massage by a male partner gradually helps the wife relax. The wife might only accept the massage the first time, but after taking this step, anything is possible. In my experience, some wives became aroused after the first massage, and with encouragement from their husbands, they directly accepted a threesome . Others didn't accept a threesome the first time , but through conversation during the massage, they increased familiarity and trust, and accepted it the second time. Getting back to the topic of whether it's free, for couples doing it for the first time, charging makes the wife feel like she's paying for enjoyment. When the masseur tries to undress the wife, they can explain that this is a normal part of an aromatherapy SPA , reducing her resistance. I've encountered husbands trying to undress their wives, and the wives absolutely refused. However, when I gently undress them during a normal massage, or ask them to spread their legs at a certain angle, they cooperated readily, like a male doctor treating a female patient, because the wife understands she's paying for the experience. Conversely, if there is no charge, the wife who is meeting him for the first time may feel that her husband no longer loves her and is just finding any man to share her with. From a psychological perspective, this is often difficult for the wife to accept, and she may even have the thought of giving up at the last minute.
To my shame, this weekend a couple from Yantai, both in their late 60s and early 70s , invited me to a spa . They hadn't specified any fees beforehand. I arrived at the hotel (which they had booked in advance and was quite nice) at the time and place specified by my husband, and waited from 3 pm until 10 pm . In the end, I received news that the wife had backed out at the crucial moment. The planned meeting, such as tea, dinner, and karaoke, didn't happen due to insufficient communication, which may have led the wife to mistakenly believe that her husband was just looking for another man to share her life with. I don't mean to blame the couple, and I believe in my husband's sincerity. I'm just using this example to tell couples preparing to take this step that preparation and communication are extremely important. Also, don't directly say you want a threesome ; instead, hire a professional aromatherapy spa therapist to help your wife relax. Women are emotional creatures; some things don't need to be said too explicitly. Since she accepted her husband's suggestion, she was already mentally prepared for it (I'm sure the husband had instilled this knowledge in her beforehand). Being too explicit is counterproductive. Also, please trust my techniques and skills as a massage therapist. (By the way, the older brother is also a member of 69 ; I apologize for writing this down, but I want to reiterate that I don't mean to blame him.)
As a massage therapist, I prefer to be an aromatherapy SPA therapist. Therefore, based on the above analysis, I still think that charging a certain fee, even if it's just a symbolic fee of a hundred or so yuan for the oil, would make a completely different difference in the experience.
Some friends add me as a friend and immediately ask about my penis size, duration, and potency, or even ask for photos of their penises . I find this rather off-putting, because humans are emotional beings, not sex machines. Perhaps these friends have already been thoroughly "trained" by their wives. However, as I said before, I prefer to position myself as a massage therapist, or a erotic massage therapist. I have all the necessary skills, and I've never felt my technique was lacking. As long as we communicate beforehand and agree on the boundaries, I'll understand. After all, my character and emotional intelligence are quite good. (A little self-praise). Also, those who ask for the phone numbers or contact information of other couples I've worked with, unless the other party agrees or specifically requests such a friend, I will not disclose their information, especially anything involving privacy.
These are my honest thoughts as a massage therapist, and some people may disagree with them. As couples, you may be at different stages on your journey of relationship coaching, and we have different perspectives. I welcome you to write down your thoughts so we can exchange ideas and provide some guidance for couples who are preparing to take this step.
That's all for today. Couples, lovers, or friends who want to enjoy an aromatherapy spa can contact me. I'm located in Qingdao. My contact information is in my profile; feel free to add me if you're interested. Anything is possible if we're meant to be!

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