Our Friendship Journey 2

Since taking the first step in dating, I haven't sensed any resistance from my wife. Aside from maintaining contact with the first single man, I introduced her to three or four more single men, which she readily accepted. She even cooperated by taking photos with her ID but not showing her face and posting them online. Most of the time, she went alone, and I occasionally joined her for a threesome. During this time, we also met four couples. When we played with each couple, I never felt any excitement or arousal from my wife, not even a physical reaction, and I didn't feel much stimulation either. Later, I concluded that the reasons might be: There was a lack of contact and understanding, little communication, and interaction; their intentions were all quite clear and direct. Secondly, when both parties were playing together, their attention was focused on the other, and they both wanted to get video stimulation from the other, which is human nature. This made it impossible for them to fully engage. (Personally, I suggest that couples considering swapping consider whether playing separately is more suitable; of course, some couples may prefer recording in a group atmosphere for stimulation.) After a few times, we felt that swapping wasn't suitable for us. After that, we stopped interacting with couples and only accepted single men. After that, we met three or four more single men, but they all seemed rather ordinary and didn't offer much excitement. They were generally quite impatient and direct. My wife complained that the men would disappear after achieving their goal, never to be seen online again on QQ. She said, "Even if we don't hang out together, chatting occasionally is fine. Why be so heartless?" (These single men we met basically only contacted her twice before cutting off all contact.) As a man, I understand them to some extent. Men crave novelty and excitement; once the novelty wears off, they actively seek other targets. Besides, most single men have families and partners, and prolonged contact might be discovered and affect their relationships. This made her very disheartened and insecure. Later, she said she would stop chatting with them and stop "hanging out." Despite multiple attempts to communicate with her, she insisted she would. With the financial burden of the house and the children's school fees, life was stressful, and I didn't have much energy left to discuss dating with her. For over two years, life has been uneventful. I had previously registered accounts on several dating websites for couples. Although the "couples" website was shut down, I still frequently received friend requests from single men on other websites. Even though I hadn't used them anymore, I was still willing to communicate with them. Basically, when a single man heard that we hadn't used them for several years and had no intention of doing so again, he would stop talking to me. But eventually, I met a single man who was willing to chat with me (four years younger than my wife, let's call him A). He said: "It's okay, chatting doesn't necessarily mean we have to play together. We're like-minded people, it's nice to chat as friends in our spare time." He also wanted to persuade his wife to participate in dating, but he was working alone in sales, living apart from his wife, and the nature of his work made him homeless, so he couldn't fulfill his wish. We chatted like this on and off for almost a year. Suddenly one day, I had a sudden urge and brought up dating with my wife again, asking her: "Why don't we continue to find people to play with?" She said: "If we can't find good ones, let's not play anymore." Judging from her tone, she seemed open to it! So I said, "I've been chatting with someone online for almost a year, and we seem pretty good together. Why don't you chat with him? It doesn't have to be romantic; you can just chat to pass the time. It's up to you whether you want to play around or not." She said, "We'll talk about it when I have time." I felt hopeful, so I contacted A and asked if he wanted to chat with my wife. He said yes, he'd love to, he'd had this idea for a long time, but he was too shy to ask for my wife's QQ number. I immediately sent him my wife's QQ number… To be continued…

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