A smart woman doesn't become a mistress, she becomes a fourth-generation lover. (Repost)

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Mistress: Outdated. Fourth Mistress: Sneaking onto the market...
A smart woman: doesn't become the third party, but becomes the fourth-generation lover.
What is the fourth party?
It's essentially an upgraded version of the third party. To sum it up in a quote from someone else's article, the fourth party's motto is: Your family must be perfect, my family must be perfect, and the two of us must be perfect too.
Their rules of the game: not to break up either family.

The term for a fourth party:
It evolved from the concept of a third party. It means a feeling that is on a higher level than that of a third party.
The term "third party" has become synonymous with a villain who destroys other people's families. The term "fourth party," however, carries a connotation that is a mixture of "confidante" and "lover." They are mutually attracted and understand each other, yet they only talk about feelings, not love.

Because love is not about possession, but about responsibility, commitment, and giving.
Fourthly: Focusing solely on feelings while remaining far removed from the other person's family, disregarding so-called responsibilities, promises, and sacrifices. This seems to evoke a sense of "fulfilling the other person's complete happiness," a sense of "if I don't go to hell, who will?" a sense of heroic sacrifice, or a sense of detachment like "I leave quietly, without taking a single cloud with me." Or perhaps it's simply a game attitude where they don't care about anything and don't take it to heart at all... Of course, these are all purely personal speculations. Only the parties involved truly know what they are thinking.
Anyway, the fourth party on the internet often boasts about being selfless, kind, and carefree.
The era of fast-food love:
Compared to those who engage in one-night stands, they are still considered more loyal. For example, their truest and purest first love often doesn't succeed. But they don't reject new relationships just because true love only happens once in a lifetime. Instead, as time heals the wounds of past relationships, their longing for love gradually builds, allowing them to accept the arrival of another new love. The same applies to subsequent relationships.

fate:
Love always arrives unexpectedly. People fall in love: some have already entered into marriage, but new love will still come. However, those in marriages should understand their responsibilities, know what is right and wrong, and rationally restrain and discipline themselves to avoid harming themselves and others. Because you can accept fate and give your partner warm love, but you cannot give them a warm future.

When love:
Ultimately, it cannot transform into kinship, nor can it be relied upon or depended on like kinship. Sooner or later, it will fade away, like ashes remaining after a raging fire. You may find the best way out for the loneliness deep in your heart, but you have destroyed the peace and happiness of your own family, hurt the heart of your lover who stood by you through thick and thin, and betrayed your vow to love only one person. You may find excitement and pleasure for yourself, but you will also feel guilty for destroying the peace and happiness of other people's families, and bear a heavy psychological burden.
Don't assume that it's just one thing:
The secrets you two know—there are no secrets that last forever in this world. Don't deceive yourselves and bury your heads in the sand.
Extramarital affair:
It's a dangerous, tempting, and irreversible path, best avoided. Once you step onto it, you must be prepared to endure immense heartbreak. However, no one can judge whether love is right or wrong; even God makes mistakes because of love, let alone mortals. If this love comes too late, too untimely; if you're already hopelessly in love; if you've embarked on a path of no return, then becoming a "fourth party" might be the best choice in times of helplessness. Love lightly, experience lightly what it means to experience both pain and joy. No longer letting things take their course, but loving that person, for the sake of their world's completeness, to avoid making things difficult for them or yourself, to respect yourself, respect the other person, respect all your loved ones, for the kindness and beauty of the world, to fulfill the happiness of everyone else, to thank God for this extra blessing, and thus placing yourself outside the boundaries, never crossing the line. You can love passionately, you can love intensely and drastically.

Can be loved:
Heartbroken and devastated, one must always maintain that final half-step distance from the one they love. Only then, in the final moment of separation, can they leave unharmed, hurting no one but themselves, and gracefully withdrawing unscathed. Sometimes, happiness comes not from receiving more, but from caring less. This is especially true in matters of the heart. By not expecting anything, by not trying to completely possess what you love, you will find more freedom and happiness. Everyone yearns to love and be loved; only those who understand and know how to love will find joy, not suffering. Otherwise, it is undoubtedly playing with fire, burying themselves in a cocoon.
The current trend is: build, don't destroy. They need a complete and balanced state: if you love someone, love them bravely, just be careful to maintain a certain distance. Instead of suffering for love, they choose to reject everything, including the love they deeply yearn for, rather than embracing all the beautiful things in the world with a tolerant and magnanimous heart. They all love themselves: their families, their wives or husbands. But they also love each other so deeply.

Modern relationships are no longer clearly defined; the boundaries are blurred. In the realm of extramarital affairs, there is familial affection and friendship, but above all, there is romantic love. Those extramarital loves that once caused so much pain are, in their cases, portrayed as a transcendent joy and freedom.

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