Good article, similar to my experience, single men should take a look.

I started paying attention to the topic of couples dating two or three years ago. I've read many articles both inside and outside the community and participated in various activities. My overall feeling is that there are many fakes and few genuine ones; much wishful thinking and little actual practice. I believe most people with practical experience would agree with me. At least from my own experience, I've encountered many embarrassing situations. I didn't want to talk about them, but seeing so many single men falling into misconceptions about couples dating, I feel I should share my experiences to give genuinely interested individuals a realistic understanding. First, let me answer a few questions from single men: 1. Are there really couples willing to find single men? Yes, but not many. Many couples dating websites seem very active, with many couples, but most are actually just single men fantasizing. The couples who are likely to succeed are mostly lurkers, because current societal norms prevent many from openly discussing these matters. Those who claim to be couples looking for single men with excellent qualities are mostly shills or scammers. In my three years of participating in couples dating activities, I've only succeeded five times, showing how low the odds are. II. What are the most common situations single men encounter when participating in couple-based dating services? This refers to the various situations a single man might encounter after contacting a couple through various means (this is based on my own experience and may not be representative): 1. The man keeps contacting one of the couples online, immediately asking for photos and inquiring about past dating experiences, but disappears when it comes to anything else. This accounts for about 50% of cases and is the largest reason for unsuccessful dating. 2. The man can video chat or meet the other party, but he can't meet the woman for various reasons, and the other party keeps asking you to bring your girlfriend to meet him. This accounts for about 30% of unsuccessful dating. 3. The man meets both the couple, but it's obvious the wife was forced by the husband. The couple argues loudly, and the husband beats and verbally abuses the wife whenever she expresses a complaint. Some are clearly using prostitutes as substitutes. After meeting, he absolutely refuses to proceed without the woman present. I even encountered a prostitute who asked for more money during our chat, haha. This accounts for 10%. 4. You meet a couple you find satisfactory, and you have a lot in common. However, because it's their first time or they lack experience, they don't take things further. As friends, you chat occasionally. In my opinion, this kind of friendship is successful because the main purpose isn't sex. As long as you get along, that's enough. I met a couple I met two years ago who stayed in touch but never took anything further. Now the husband says he's given up on the idea of making friends, and I support them. Life is a choice, and we're still friends, which I think is fine. So, single men, remember, don't make sex the sole purpose of making friends. This situation accounts for about 5%. 5. There's another isolated incident, but I still want to warn single men. Once, I was scammed while trying to meet someone online. I met a couple who seemed nice, but as soon as I entered the hotel, three or four people surrounded me, accusing me of raping his wife and demanding money. Seeing so many of them, I had no choice but to give them my phone and money (luckily, I don't carry much cash or bank cards, just enough for basic needs). They took the money and ran away. Thinking about it now still terrifies me. If you encounter something like this while dating, you're just unlucky. I remind single men to learn self-protection and understand the situation thoroughly before meeting someone. III. The Little Things from Five Successful Experiences Having talked about the unsuccessful ones, let's talk about the successful ones. I don't have much experience, only five times. If someone were writing about these five experiences in a fantasy world, they would definitely describe them as incredibly exciting and erotic, but the real experiences are not like that. Here's a brief overview: 1. The most exciting time—After encountering countless unsuccessful cases, I had many doubts about dating and thought it was all a scam. I had lost faith. Unexpectedly, my first time came so easily. A couple added me on QQ. I don't know how they found me; maybe they read my articles. I got a brief overview: the husband said he was 35 and his wife was 30. They seemed okay, but the husband wouldn't give me a photo, saying it wasn't safe. They were willing to meet me, so I decided to give it a try. I was a little disappointed. The husband was almost 50, and the wife looked to be in her 40s. Frankly, they weren't very attractive. The couple seemed quite satisfied with me, saying I was refined and unlike some of the thugs they'd met. They invited me to a hotel. To be honest, I hesitated, but the thought of my first time was exciting, and it would be impolite to refuse their invitation, so I went with them. I won't go into details, but overall, I was very nervous the first time. This couple seemed quite experienced and kept telling me not to be nervous. I almost had erectile dysfunction; my penis didn't get hard for a long time. I managed to have sex once, and then it was over quickly, and I left. That was the most exciting time, after all, it was my first time. Now, thinking back, there are many things I could have improved. 2. The most heartwarming experience – the second time: After the first time, although not very successful, I felt I had gained experience and was no longer a "virgin" in dating. My confidence had greatly improved, and I hoped the next time would be even better. After many unsuccessful attempts, I finally had a second time, and I felt this time best reflected the bond between my husband and me. I met the second couple; they added me first (now that I think about it, most of the successful ones were the ones who added me first; I rarely succeeded in adding others). The husband and I were both very refined and cultured; we were even college graduates and had a lot in common. They were both very successful in their careers and quite young, so I was curious why they would consider dating couples. Later, the husband confided in me that he had a sexual dysfunction. Although his wife was understanding, he always felt guilty and wanted his wife to enjoy sexual happiness, so he started dating couples. Originally, they wanted to find couples, but the husband realized that couples weren't suitable because of his problem, so he started looking for single men. I was the first one they found. I was deeply moved after hearing this, and from then on, I set a goal for myself: to make friends with genuine sincerity and integrity. I believe in treating others with kindness and understanding, and to be open and honest with them. I believe in treating others with kindness and integrity, and to be sincere and honest with them. I believe in treating others with kindness and integrity, and to be honest ... 3. The most beautiful wife and also the most awkward time - the third time. After two dating experiences, I realized a lot and had many insights. I originally wanted to take a break to think things over, but I didn't expect the third time to come so quickly. This time, I was attracted by the other person's beautiful wife. To be honest, since I started dating, I always thought that the wives of the people I dated were not very good. I never expected to meet such a captivating woman. I don't know what my husband was dissatisfied with. During the activity, he kept swearing, while my wife didn't say a word but moved incredibly fast like a madwoman. I'm usually very sexually active, but with my wife being beautiful and fast, I couldn't last more than ten minutes. When my wife saw I couldn't finish, she quickly got dressed and ran away. My husband seemed very angry and kept cursing at me. I was so embarrassed, my face turned bright red, and I just wanted to disappear. I never contacted them again. 4. The craziest time—the fourth time, I felt like I couldn't succeed, which made me a little afraid of being alone with couples. I thought to myself, I'm not a porn star, I don't have that kind of ability, so I decided to rest. Unexpectedly, the couple I met for the first time contacted me again, saying they had a party with three couples and asked me to bring someone. I said I was only one person, and they said one was fine too. Actually, I really like watching group sex videos and wanted to experience it myself, so I agreed. When we met, I saw two couples and a single man. The single man explained that his wife was supposed to come but had something come up, so there were six of us. To be honest, neither of the wives was particularly impressive, but having more people around definitely made a difference; it was very exciting. They were also very experienced and came up with some games and such, but I won't go into details. I performed reasonably well this time, but only once. After that, I just helped them take pictures and left. 5. The most comfortable time – the fifth time. I feel like I've been able to summarize some characteristics from the previous posts, but this time it didn't seem particularly special. The same interactions, the same activities, nothing special, but it was the most comfortable time for me. Thank you to the fifth couple!

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