A Brief Discussion on Couples' Friendships

A few years ago, when we saw the phrase "couples exchanging partners," we would understand the two terms separately: "couple" was one word, and "exchanging partners" was another. Now, these four words have acquired their own independent and complete meaning, which everyone knows.
"Couples exchanging partners" includes two aspects: one is couples finding other couples to swap partners for sex, and the other is couples finding single men for threesomes. "Couples exchanging partners" is very popular now; a search for these four words on Baidu yields 100,000 results. Why
is "couples exchanging partners" so popular? What is it about them that attracts people?
After couples achieve a stable life and career, a situation arises where their sex life becomes bland, lacking passion and excitement. This situation can make a couple's life lose its color and become dull, and may even lead to marital problems; many infidelity cases stem from this. "Couples exchanging partners" is precisely the best way to solve this problem and rekindle passion between couples. I can't quite explain why "couples exchanging partners" has this effect. However, couples I know who have engaged in swapping or threesomes have all confirmed this. After such a passionate experience, the couple became closer and more enthusiastic.
One couple in the group, after a threesome, had the wife tell me afterwards that their relationship used to be lukewarm, and her husband showed signs of wanting to cheat. But after that experience, their relationship became very passionate, and her husband started to feel more "affected" by her.
Many couples in the group asked me whether it's better to choose swapping or threesomes in "couples' dating." Based on my conversations with many couples who have had this experience, I think it depends on individual circumstances. Everyone knows that couples often face this conflict as they age: the wife's libido increases, while the husband's gradually declines. When choosing a way to be passionate, it's important to consider this. If the husband's sexual ability is still relatively strong, and the wife is new to this and not very open, then swapping might be a good option. However, it's important to choose a partner whose situation is similar to yours. If the husband is starting to feel less capable, but the wife still has a high libido, then swapping is not the best choice.

A couple I know shared their experience: they were a middle-aged couple, the husband over forty, and they swapped partners. The husband's penis wasn't very erect anymore, and due to nervousness, neither man could get an erection after a short while, leaving them both embarrassed.
Based on my observations of couples in our group who have had similar experiences, I think a threesome is best for middle-aged couples, though this isn't absolute. In middle age, most wives aren't fully satisfied by their husbands, and finding a sexually capable single man can provide greater satisfaction. In sex, the effect of 1+1 is far greater than 2.
Many couples have also asked me how to get their wives to accept "couples swapping" as a reality. It's fair to say that wives who are more modern are more likely to accept it, provided the passion in the relationship is rekindled. Of course, if you have a wife who's a bit old-fashioned, there's nothing you can do; the point is to have fun, don't force it and hurt the relationship. Generally, the husband
is the one who proposes "couples swapping." First, the husband needs to determine whether it's couples swapping or a threesome; once the goal is clear, there's a direction to take. Generally, persuading a wife to accept swapping is relatively easy. You can start by finding a couple willing to swap, then chat with them together, encouraging your wife to participate in conversations to get to know them. Once trust is established, you can engage in more passionate chats, video chats, and even video sex – there are many options. Once the communication is sufficient and your wife is more open, real-life swapping will naturally follow.

Convincing a wife to accept a threesome is more difficult, as most wives today are still influenced by 1980s-era education and are not very open-minded. Even after the husband has made the initial push, the wife still needs to put in some effort, as there's a gap between reality and expectations. First, the husband should find a high-quality man with prior experience to discuss the topic with his wife. Whether or not they actually engage in the sexual activity is secondary; the main focus is on preparing her psychologically. At an appropriate time, the wife should try having her body viewed by the other man during a video chat, ideally with the husband present. This forms the beginning of a threesome online. Finally, the husband should engage in intimate acts with his wife, having sex and asking the other man to watch and participate as well. Initially, it's best not to ask the other person to video chat. Instead, stimulate your wife with text or voice messages; this makes her more receptive. Once your wife is more open, you can video chat with the other person, for example, the other person showing off their penis—the method is up to you. At this point, the husband should verbally stimulate his wife, such as, "Want another penis?" or "How about we have sex together?" You can probably guess what that means. Using this approach, it won't take long for your wife to open up. Finally, a reminder: be careful when choosing this single man. He should be of high quality, have threesome experience, and be someone your wife likes and trusts. Whether you sleep with him later is not important.
These are some experiences I've shared in response to your questions; take them as a reference, whether they're correct or not!

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