How to train your wife (girlfriend)

A perennial challenge: how to train the right person in the right way.

I'm not an expert, but I do have some pretty good insights into how to "train" women. Here's my analysis. If you like it, please follow me; if not, please don't be sarcastic.

After writing several posts and adding a lot of single men, many people ask me how I "train" my wife, why my wife can't do certain things, and why I have a lover who is open to everything but can't do certain things.

Sometimes it's not that I don't want to talk to you about it, it's just that explaining this is too tiring. But since so many people have asked, I feel I should just say something about it.

Let me analyze this based on my own experience.

A sound and stable emotional foundation.

The correct development direction: Indoor posture changes ---- Outdoor sex (sparsely populated areas) ---- Outdoor sex (with some people) ---- Outdoor exposure ---- Outdoor exposure (in front of people) ---- 3P or swapping.

The key to successful training lies in timing the process correctly: three to six months is what we call the golden period of passion.

Why are the two correct things mentioned above? The two correct things correspond to the roles of women. We need to understand this. A woman who has just become a wife may eventually become a slut. This process may be quick or it may last a lifetime.

I've met many couples who seem to enjoy more daring activities, while older couples tend to be less so. There's actually a lot to it.

Here's an example: if you have a mistress outside the marriage, you'll find that the level of intimacy between you and her is often much higher than the level between her and her husband at home. Your encounters are incredibly passionate.

The reason is simple: people go out to have fun because they're looking for excitement. And excitement has a time limit. A month or two, or even half a year or a year, can be considered the passion period. After that time, it becomes routine and mundane.

When two people are together, the more passionate they are, the more they like to try exciting new things and methods. Because they both enjoy them.

This example shows that passion is important, whether you're looking for a girlfriend or a lover.

So let's go back to the points we discussed earlier. First, a stable emotional foundation. What constitutes a stable emotional foundation? This includes time and accumulation. You know, a one-night stand, right? It's very simple, everyone understands—one night of sex, goodbye the next day.

No matter how passionate things get, how many different things can you do in one night? It's unlikely your partner will go too far. Everyone can understand that. So, if you're looking for excitement, remember, you need a stable emotional foundation. One-night stands exist, but they're not for you.

When two people are together, they'll naturally become more familiar with each other and explore new possibilities. Therefore, firstly, whether you want something exciting or something more daring, you must have a stable emotional foundation. This is very important.

Regarding the second correct point: the development direction of a scale: indoor posture changes ---- outdoor field battle (few people) ---- outdoor field battle (some people) ---- outdoor exposure ---- outdoor exposure (in front of people) ---- 3P or exchange.

I've had some experience with married couples. The husbands would sometimes bring up during sex at home, asking, "Hey, do you want to find a single man to fuck you?" The wives would easily say they liked it, but afterwards, when the topic came up again, they would immediately refuse.

The scale is gradually settled and accumulated; it cannot erupt all at once at one point.

Therefore, it's important to maintain a proper level of development. Regarding indoor position variations, if you're a couple or lovers indoors and want the lights off, and you're asking for a single position, I think you shouldn't think about any future variations; just enjoy the sex at home.

When you're doing it at home, you start using profanity and diversifying your positions, then you move on to the next level, pushing the boundaries. Outdoor sex, why the distinction between large and small groups? This is crucial to understand. Outdoors, the excitement is definitely doubled compared to indoors, but the risk also increases. The important point is that whenever you try a new position or method, safety must be your top priority. Don't neglect this most important thing. A good, exciting experience lays a solid foundation for everything to come, but a bad experience can easily send you back to square one, making it impossible to change. And your partner will absolutely not agree to try it again.

Therefore, when outdoors, try to start in less crowded areas. However, it's important to note that you shouldn't look for extremely sparsely populated places; that's completely unnecessary. It's best to scout out the location beforehand; this is crucial. Once you arrive, you can learn about the surrounding area and discover things you might have overlooked, such as security cameras and passersby. Gradually, you can move towards more populated areas. This is how I describe choosing your activity location each time. Another point to consider is that women are emotional creatures. Don't try to achieve every woman's orgasm by rushing in and out outdoors. Just ejaculate when she's aroused; often, she won't be satisfied. Having sex again at home will definitely be more exciting. Here's a little trick: when having sex at home, you can test her limits. For example, you can reminisce about having sex outside. You can even add fictional characters. You could say that while you were having sex outside, someone was watching you from a short distance away. You could go into more detail, saying that someone saw your breasts and your buttocks. If the woman becomes aroused and wet, it means she's ready for some "training." If you're extremely averse to it, then just maintain the existing boundaries. Don't push the boundaries. Actually, this person doesn't really have any boundaries; each time, let her know that she enjoys the feeling of being lewd, each time let her know that she's promiscuous. She's capable of pushing the boundaries, she just hasn't tried it before.

The choice of location is ultimately up to you. The basic approach is this: a process. Actually, whenever you try outdoor activities, you can use an hindsight strategy. Since no one is watching, you can say afterwards that someone will come out. As long as the woman agrees, that's fine; there doesn't necessarily have to be anyone present. So, this principle must be clear.

Once you can accept the above-mentioned points, you can try threesomes and sex swapping. Personally, I suggest trying threesomes first, as sex swapping takes more time and depends on the other person's boundaries. It's actually quite difficult to gauge. Often, the wife is more reserved during the first time they engage in marital relations and may feel embarrassed seeing her husband having sex with another woman. Therefore, for those without experience, it's better to try threesomes first. After all, for single men, the wife's enjoyment is paramount.

Next, let's discuss the golden time for proper "training": 3 to 6 months, which is what we call the golden passion period. Why mention the passion period? Couples, think back carefully. Many of the things you do now are things you did when you first started dating. After a few years of marriage, you rarely introduce new tricks. At the beginning of a relationship, people are often most passionate about each other. It's easy to suggest more adventurous activities then, and your partner will readily cooperate. But after that, in the later stages of the relationship, there might not be as many new things to do. So, please cherish the passion period. Just like when you have a lover, the lover's activities are often more adventurous than your wife's, or even more adventurous than her relationship with her husband. That's the point. Therefore, understanding and managing the passion period is crucial.
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The points mentioned above are just a brief explanation; please think about how to apply them in your daily life.

For those long-married couples, the challenges will definitely be greater. In short, you can't rush things; you can only try slowly. Here's some advice: couples who have been married for many years have long established boundaries, so please don't force things, as this often hurts each other.

A couple can try different things during sex, like using vulgar language or role-playing. If the wife is always satisfied, she'll naturally want to explore new boundaries. For example, when it's hot and she's out shopping in a short skirt, you can tell her during sex, "There was a guy following us while we were shopping. I saw him staring at your skirt several times. He seemed really creepy. But you're so beautiful and alluring; even men get aroused when they see you." Just say sweet, flattering things, like how beautiful and seductive she is. Women love to hear that. These characters are fictional, but they're definitely effective. If your wife responds positively, she might start wearing even shorter skirts! You know what I mean. There are many ways to do this; it's all about how you manage it.

Every time we go out, I buy my wife some clothes, we go out for a romantic candlelight dinner, and after a good day, we might indulge in a little frivolity at night—that's normal. So there's no use rushing things; take it slow. The key principle is to get a woman to accept that she's naturally promiscuous, that she's a very sensual woman. Men like her; she's incredibly attractive.

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