Analyzing the psychological resilience of cuckolded wives

I have a cuckoldry complex, often fantasizing about the thrill of a threesome. When watching self-shot videos on video websites, I sometimes get excited when I see someone who looks or has a similar figure to my wife, and subconsciously I even hope to actually see her cheating on me. Although I honestly don't know if I could accept it if it actually happened (including a threesome).
Recently, I've been feeling down and have been thinking about why this happens. It's definitely not innate, so I'll analyze it. If other friends agree, perhaps we'll find the reasons that many others share this interest with.
1. I love my wife very much and genuinely want her to fully enjoy more exciting sex while she's still young and beautiful. Everyone knows women have great sexual potential.
2. My wife has a good figure, and I'm confident in her charm. I don't mean any disrespect to anyone, but I personally find it hard to accept men whose wives are older and overweight engaging in threesomes. Can they really feel the charm their wives exude during a threesome, or the excitement of other men?
3. Now, let's analyze what I consider to be the more important reasons. When meeting his wife, although he determined through relevant assessments that she was not a virgin, he wouldn't question her about it, and she would avoid the topic. Many Chinese men have a virginity complex, it's just a matter of degree. While it usually doesn't affect marriage or married life, subconsciously they still explore her past. Over time, they start thinking about the details, a process that deepens gradually. Of course, no one thinks about these things constantly, but they will occasionally recall them over time; it's an accumulation process. Slowly, the sense of loss and the imagining of details will intertwine into a complex emotion. The cuckoldry complex will gradually develop a foundation, and as the wife matures and becomes less naive in sex, and with the impact of videos featuring threesomes, the cuckoldry will intensify.
4. The cuckoldry complex is actually quite complex. It's mixed with the sense of loss from the thought of his wife's past sexual promiscuity, a slight sense of humiliation, long-term fantasies about exploring her past sexual history, the image of his wife's sexy body, and the realistic scenario of one day having a threesome with a stranger, etc. I believe it shouldn't be a simple process of seeking thrills; it must be a process of long-term mental accumulation.
5. If the wife has a very obvious sexual history, and she's quite frank about it, then the husband might not have a cuckoldry complex, or he might have a simple, direct desire to have sex with her. On the contrary, I don't think it's true cuckoldry, but rather a simple pursuit of thrills or a sense of revenge.
6. Finally, let me briefly describe my situation with my wife. My wife and I met in the second semester of our freshman year of college. We weren't in the same department. She has a great figure, with large breasts and a round bottom. When we met, she had recently broken up with her boyfriend, and of course, their relationship was very short, only one semester, not counting the time between enrollment and getting to know each other. After my wife and I developed sexual relations, I could sense her lack of sexual skills (unless she's a good actress, but that doesn't seem likely). For example, she doesn't know how to perform oral sex, doesn't know how to kneel during doggy style, and often falls backward, etc. Of course, maybe I'm just clumsy. However, the first time, she didn't bleed, and thinking back, she didn't seem to experience much pain or any instinctive physical resistance during penetration. After we spent a lot of time together, I would occasionally subtly probe her about her relationship with her ex-boyfriend. Of course, she didn't want to talk much, only saying that she wasn't good to him and wasn't very invested in the relationship, so they broke up. She avoided other topics. I asked if it was our first time, and she would say yes, but not very firmly. Later, when I asked again, she would change the subject. Is it that she doesn't like to talk about this directly, or is there something else she's hiding, or is she afraid I'll have certain thoughts? I feel it's probably a combination of both. I've never met her ex-boyfriend, only heard he was tall and thin. She admitted they kissed when they were together. Haha, I know that in college, guys separate sex and love, and will seize any opportunity for sex. Of course, unless she lost her virginity in high school, but given the situation in her hometown, that's quite difficult, so I won't elaborate further.
These are my analyses and introductions. Of course, as my wife and I have been married, my cuckoldry complex has slowly formed whenever I think about these things. I hope everyone will share their thoughts.

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