Precautions

A significant number of enthusiasts (especially those with high standards, including myself, haha) have safety concerns as their biggest worry. This article details the safety precautions that couples should take when making friends. Please read it carefully!
Five key issues to consider during couples' dating/3P interactions, along with preventative measures and remedies:
What should you do if your wife/husband falls in love with someone else after a long time?
What to do if you have an unplanned pregnancy?
What should I do if I get a sexually transmitted infection?
What if the truth comes out and becomes known to the public (including the issue of legal sanctions)?
How to handle unpleasant issues that may arise during online interactions?
If you are a stable married couple and do not want to ruin your family by playing this game, I suggest you discuss these four issues before starting the game.
There are risks involved in everything you do, and seeking pleasure inevitably involves risks. Consider whether you can bear those risks.
Recommended preventative measures and remedies:
Question 1: What should I do if I get a sexually transmitted infection?
Precaution 1: Always use a condom when interacting with people you are not particularly familiar with.
Preventive measure 2: Both yourself and the people you frequently interact with should have regular medical checkups.
Have a check-up every six months, and also if any abnormalities are found in the genital area. If any problems are found with the STD six-item test, immediately stop using the service and seek treatment.
3. Get the HPV vaccine.
Although the effect of this vaccine is limited for those who have had sexual experience, it is better than nothing. If you want to have sex, it is best for both men and women to get vaccinated. However, don't think that you can be careless about health and hygiene just because you have been vaccinated. The vaccine's effect is very limited.
4. Pay attention to personal hygiene in daily life, and ask the other person to wash and check their hands before interacting with them.
A blood test at the hospital cannot detect all problems, especially some issues on the surface of the genital skin. (Especially when interacting with an unfamiliar partner) The wife should carefully examine the partner's genitals. (It's embarrassing for a man to have another man examine his genitals, so it's best for the wife to go.) Ensure adequate lighting, fully retract the foreskin for a thorough examination, and also check the skin under the pubic hair. If redness, blisters, skin damage, odor, or abnormal color are found, do not continue the interaction. If no problems are found, use a disinfectant wash to thoroughly clean his genitals (including pubic hair) again.
If your wife has a dominant personality, she can bend over and examine you like a queen examining her male concubine. If she has a submissive personality, she can kneel down, make a eating gesture with her mouth, and bring her face close to examine you. Generally, this will not cause any embarrassment.
New couples who haven't been in the industry for long often find that the wife is shy and embarrassed to get checked, which isn't good. It's best to find an experienced couple to teach her (with guidance, she won't be shy anymore), or start with a single man she knows. Newcomers should avoid dating unfamiliar single men.
5. Play with a fixed group of people you interact with more often.
This actually contradicts some of the preventative measures for question 1. While it's easier to develop feelings for someone you interact with over time if you have a fixed group of people, having relationships with too many different people each time can lead to greater health risks. My advice on this is to prioritize health, focus on having a fixed group of people, and use non-fixed groups as a secondary option. I will write about how to prevent and handle the issue of developing feelings over time later.
6. Choose to interact with people you know well.
Actually, it contradicts the preventative measures in question 4.
Remedial measures and timely treatment once a problem is discovered.
Question 2: What should I do if my wife/husband falls in love with someone else over time?
Prevention measure 1: Control the frequency of interaction with individual game objects (except for interactive objects that are convenient to live together).
(For example, if the husband is away for a month and the wife is partying with the same single man every night during that month, the risk of problems is high. But if she only sees him once a week, the risk is much lower.)
Preventive measure 2: During the same period, the wife should have two or more different people to interact with besides her husband. (Have the wife interacting with different people, which can significantly reduce dependence on one person. For example, interacting with the same single man twice a week; or interacting with two different single men twice a week...)
Precaution 3: Women who are older, unmarried/divorced, and without a stable boyfriend are not allowed to participate in the game. (This is mainly to prevent problems with their husbands; older single women might fall in love with someone through sex and try to destroy their current family...)
Precaution 4: Choose couples/partners with stable relationships for your activities. (If their relationship is stable and they are unlikely to separate, there is less chance of one of them being left single due to a divorce/breakup while you are exchanging partners, and thus pursuing the other one. Whether you are exchanging partners/finding a single man/woman, try to find someone with a stable relationship, preferably with your partner's consent. If your partner doesn't agree, and it gets discovered, the relationship may be in trouble...and the risk increases...)
Precaution 5: When choosing a "quick fix" single man without a wife or stable girlfriend, try to choose one who is unlikely to reach the point of marriage with a wife, such as someone 8 years younger than a wife. However, there are a few exceptions. It's best to avoid "quick fix" single men. If you must choose one, it's a current undergraduate student. They are young, energetic, and have a short refractory period... various advantages, and generally won't deliberately try to break you up to pursue your wife.
Being a single man is actually quite risky. A few years ago, when I was single, I "stole" someone else's girlfriend... *facepalm*... It really wasn't intentional. They broke up because the girl's family strongly opposed it, not because I deliberately seduced or broke them up. Besides, they still interact frequently, so I didn't completely "steal" her. (Why do I say there can be exceptions? Because some of them are women my wife likes. Since we're playing this game, we should let my wife play with women she likes, otherwise what's the point?)
Precaution 6: When interacting with strangers, avoid giving them personal information after only a short time. Don't leave your usual phone number with them. You can tell them your real name, but "in case the police check the room, as long as it's not a three-person interaction, two people knowing each other's real names will generally not cause trouble. Also, be cautious about engaging in group interactions in hotels; specific issues will be discussed in point 4." Experienced couples can rent a "private room" for their daily activities. This can control the problem of the other person becoming overly clingy after the interaction. (Only when you are very familiar and trust the other person should they reveal your main personal information.)
Of course, the most important thing is that your relationship is stable. If problems arise in your relationship, dating services for couples are not a panacea; they can only enhance your relationship.
The following are some remedial measures:
Remedial solution 1: So what if my wife's new lover falls in love with someone else? Will it definitely destroy the family?
Couples engaging in online dating is not simply about sexual release, especially for women, as sex and love are not always completely separated. It's understandable that developing feelings of attraction or even love after prolonged sexual activity is possible. (Of course, this is my opinion; some couples I know believe that if the wife develops feelings for her online partner, the relationship should be immediately broken up. I think this is wrong; it's like giving the wife a human massage. A wife's attraction to a single man can lead to better pleasure with him, and attraction and love are difficult to distinguish, so don't reject feelings of love/attraction.) As a husband, since you've chosen this activity, don't be hostile towards your wife's new partner. You should encourage her to continue interacting with him, and if both of you have the means, consider having him/her stay at your home. (Someone asked: Didn't you say you wanted to hide personal information? That's for strangers you've just met and don't know well. If your wife has "fallen in love" with him, it's obvious they're already very familiar with each other—perhaps they've gradually become familiar through interaction, or perhaps he/she was already an acquaintance of yours—so there's no need to be wary of personal information.)
Remedy 2: If your wife falls in love with someone else, try to win her back. Does loving someone today mean loving them forever? If your wife has fallen for someone else, you should show her more care and attention, have more sex with her, and also encourage the other men she likes to interact with her more. This will distract her from him, and over time, she won't feel as "in love" with this man anymore, greatly reducing the risk.
Question 3: What should I do if I have an unplanned pregnancy?
Prevention measures 1. Normal contraceptive methods.
Condoms are recommended as they can also prevent sexually transmitted diseases. For close, familiar partners with whom you know each other very well, if your wife prefers unprotected sex, you can also choose oral contraceptives such as Marvelon based on your wife's health condition.
Remedial measures and contingency plans should be prepared.
There is no 100% reliable contraceptive method in the world. If an unplanned pregnancy occurs, it's best to have a contingency plan in place. My advice is: as a husband, if you're going to have fun, you should support your wife in having the baby if she becomes pregnant unplanned, regardless of whose father it is.
The contingency plan includes: 1. Whether to give birth or abort; 2. Whether to deliberately avoid letting the child's "potential father" know; 3. Whether to verify if the child is the husband's. These three questions should ideally be discussed beforehand. As a man, you must be responsible. Since you've chosen to have fun, if something goes wrong, please don't make your wife have an abortion (unless your wife is a staunch DINK and insists on having an abortion). It's best to clearly tell your wife, "Don't abort the child just because it might/is definitely not mine."
As for whether to use DNA testing and whether to avoid letting the person you interact with know, that's a matter of opinion.
My wife now allows me to have unprotected sex with two other men, but I haven't gotten pregnant yet. There was another woman (one of the men's wives) with whom the three of us had sex before, and now she has a child (we've agreed never to find out who the father is). We'll start using contraception from now on.
Question 4: What if the matter is exposed and everyone finds out?
Precaution 1: When interacting with multiple friends, conceal your marital/romantic relationship. Minimize interaction with friends who know both of you, and focus on interacting with close friends who only know one of you (but these are long-term, highly reliable friends with whom you can disclose your relationship; it's safer and more exciting). For example, I have a classmate who doesn't know my wife, and I could tell him a girl wants to meet up… then my wife goes to meet him… later we have a threesome, and he doesn't even know the girl is my wife. When interacting with multiple of your wife's friends, it's not necessary for them to know I'm her husband.
Preventive measure 2: When interacting with friends and acquaintances, minimize interactions with multiple friends who know both spouses.
If he knew the couple before interacting with them, it would be impossible for him to hide their marital relationship. Generally, the risk of such an acquaintance being exposed is very high, so be cautious about interacting with multiple people! However, it is not that you can't interact with such a friend at all; your wife can go on a date with him alone.
Precaution 3: Avoid interacting with people who may have serious conflicts of interest (regardless of whether it's a group interaction or a two-person interaction). (This doesn't mean just anyone with a conflict of interest, but rather someone with a serious conflict of interest. For example, if your wife works in a private company, her direct supervisor is often not someone with a serious conflict of interest, because it's just a job, and you can easily change jobs. It's also unlikely that you'll offend your supervisor and become their enemy. However, your wife's direct subordinates, peers, and suppliers in the company are more dangerous. These are people who often have interests that they need from your wife, and your wife can't always satisfy their needs. In rare cases, this can lead to a complete falling out and the person threatening to speak ill of you...)
Prevention measure 4: Focus on two-person interactions rather than group interactions, but the husband shouldn't be too far away. The wife can have one-on-one dates with her partner, and can call her husband during these dates or recount the experience upon returning home. This is already quite exciting; group interactions don't need to be deliberately pursued.
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As the saying goes, you can know a person's face but not their heart. A very small number of people are usually very polite, but when their sexual impulses rise, they can be extremely barbaric and violent, and disrespect women's wishes (such as forcing women to have anal sex against their will). Therefore, when having a first date with a new person you have never interacted with before, it is best to do so in a hotel or your own private room rather than at the other person's home. If you are going to a hotel, it is best for the husband to follow you to the hotel and book another room there as well. The wife should send the room number to her husband and keep her phone on throughout the entire interaction (with the husband remaining silent).
If you're in your own love nest, and your husband wants to take this, or if you're waiting outside, keep the phone on the line the whole time.
5. When engaging in multi-person interactions, be mindful of the venue you choose!
Group activities are best conducted in brothels, entire groups of guests renting rooms for a day, or entire groups of guesthouses near tourist attractions. If these options are not available, hotel suites can be considered with caution, but regular hotel rooms should be avoided. Group activities are illegal in China!
Question 1: How to handle unpleasant issues that may arise during the process of making friends?
Preventive measure 1: Before engaging in any activity, clearly communicate your (and your spouse's) sexual orientation and the types of interaction you are comfortable with (e.g., whether penetration is allowed, whether a condom is necessary, whether anal sex is permitted, whether kissing (or French kissing) is acceptable, etc.). Also, understand your partner's sexual orientation and the types of interaction they are comfortable with. Ask your partner to respect your rules, and also respect theirs.
Precaution 2: Choose people to interact with who are similar to your social circle (or who are well-mannered).
Preventive measure 3: When the wife first meets a new person, the husband should be nearby (if in a hotel, it is best to book a separate room and keep the phone on throughout the interaction) so that he can stop any compulsive behavior in time.
Countermeasure 1: If the person you are interacting with does something that you find very unacceptable, never interact with that person again.
Issues with same-sex contact during interactions: Same-sex contact (non-intimate, non-sexual) is often unavoidable in group activities, and those who cannot accept it are not suited for group interactions. However, there is a limit to this same-sex contact, and the specific limit needs to be discussed beforehand. If one or both parties are firmly straight, for example, my preferred approach is "when a single man and his wife are having sex, I lick their genitals," but I won't suck the single man's penis, nor do I want a single man to suck my penis. Some single men don't want men to lick their genitals when they are having sex with women; this should be agreed upon beforehand to avoid misunderstandings.
Couples may encounter various problems when making friends. From persuading the wife (please ignore this step if you have a wife who is sexually active) to the actual operation, I believe that many of you have strong communication skills in both work and life. Thinking things through before taking the first step will definitely lay a solid foundation for a happy sex life in the future. I wish you all the best in finding your own happiness!
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