Masturbation: A Female's Masturbation Experience - A Woman's Confession

Self-formatting of masturbation

: zlyl
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I must admit, it took me a long time and a lot of courage to decide to write this. Although it's a well-known and accepted fact that the vast majority of men masturbate, and some surveys show that female masturbation is not uncommon, very few women are willing to let others, especially their boyfriends, know about their masturbation. Even my boyfriend doesn't know. It seems that men find it difficult to accept that their girlfriends also masturbate. I'm willing to write this here for two reasons: first, the sense of security online; second, to tell other women who are in the same boat that this behavior is not abnormal, and it's not unique to her; and third, because some netizens have asked related questions.

I don't remember why I first masturbated, but later I read an educational article that said women
's masturbation may initially be caused by things like riding a bike or tight jeans stimulating the clitoris, producing
pleasure , which inspires women to engage in behaviors seeking physiological pleasure. Thinking back carefully, my cause was roughly the same.

I can't remember when I first masturbated, only that it was during the summer vacation after the college entrance exam. I had failed (I had only applied to one top university as my sole choice), and I was very upset and couldn't accept the disappointment. My mental state was poor, and my sleep was greatly affected. My past experiences with masturbation made me feel that reaching orgasm through masturbation released a kind of mental pressure, followed by physical fatigue and relaxation, which helped me fall asleep quickly. So, masturbation became a form of hypnosis for me. To this day, stress relief and hypnosis are my main purposes for masturbating. Other reasons, such as being caressed by my boyfriend in the evening and still feeling unsettled before bed, might also lead to masturbation (though I recall this happening very rarely).
My usual method of masturbation is clitoral stimulation. Because I was under a lot of psychological pressure when I first started masturbating, I looked up some information about it online. Some articles mentioned stimulation methods that didn't quite suit my needs. For example, some articles suggested that gradually stimulating the labia is a good way to arouse pleasure, but my labia are very insensitive, much less sensitive than my nipples. Furthermore, it discussed techniques for clitoral stimulation, explaining that because the foreskin covering the clitoris is top-down, a side-to-side flicking motion is generally recommended. However, I usually use up-and-down rubbing; the side-to-side flicking method is too stimulating and uncomfortable.
I'm sharing this to let girls and guys who have this kind of contact with their girlfriends know that methods found online or in books shouldn't be copied blindly. Copying methods may not bring pleasure to yourself or your partner and could even cause harm.

Through masturbation, I've also realized that the ability to reach orgasm, or the ease with which one does, is indeed related to mood, relaxation, and frequency of masturbation. It's easier to reach orgasm when you're in a good mood and in a safe and relaxing environment. For a period, due to a lot of stress, I masturbated almost every night, and later found it increasingly difficult to reach orgasm. Eventually, I even hurt myself, and the pleasure was still very mild. This might indicate that excessive and frequent stimulation can affect sexual sensitivity. I was afraid that this would lead to frigidity, so I stopped, and my sensitivity returned after some time. Additionally, I saw a post on a forum that highlighted a significant indicator of orgasm: nipples remain erect even without external stimulation during orgasm, a fact I've verified myself. While stimulating my genitals, I tried touching my nipples; they were soft. However, immediately after reaching orgasm, they became erect. (It was unbearable! I tried this several times, and I even suspected I was experimenting on myself for sex research!) Men and women unsure if their partners have reached orgasm can use this as a reference.

I also saw diagrams illustrating the changes in female reproductive organs at different stages of sexual activity in the "best of
" section of an educational forum, along with discussions about female ejaculation during orgasm, which piqued my curiosity. Perhaps out of a sense of recklessness, I decided to masturbate in front of a mirror, just like I would when observing the hymen, to verify what I had learned. I won't describe the changes in reproductive organs under manual stimulation, but I'll say they are essentially identical to what most textbooks and popular science articles describe. When I finally reached orgasm, I sat up and looked in the mirror. I noticed that with the rhythmic contractions of my vagina during orgasm, a fluid similar to leukorrhea was squeezed out. The amount wasn't large, and it wasn't a jet, but the volume expelled in a short time was still more than the initial vestibular gland fluid. So I guessed this was probably the legendary female orgasm ejaculation. (However, I saw online that orgasm ejaculation is from the urethra, so it seems what I observed wasn't correct. :p) I have

some other feelings, which I think I can discuss in the caressing section I want to write about. After all, writing about masturbation, whether from my own psychological perspective or in terms of how helpful it would be to others, doesn't allow me to write anything more detailed. Sorry.

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