How to pick up women in a bar

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A Step-by-Step Guide to Picking Up Girls: How to Create a Romantic Encounter in a Bar.
Every city has its classic bars. As long as a city has millions of young people struggling with the worries of daily life, experiencing the joys and sorrows of love and heartbreak, feeling lost about the unknown future, and reflecting on past disappointments, then the bars of that city are worth visiting. Bars that are only for indulging in extravagance and pleasure are not worth going to. Guangzhou, Beijing, Shanghai, and Shenzhen are such cities; bars like The Place, Boys & Girls, and Chicago are such places, where countless stories of joy and sorrow unfold every day. Conversely, places like the Heaven on Earth near the Great Wall Hotel are not worth going to, and are unaffordable, even if they are so famous. First, you need to find a buddy to go with you. One reason is for your courage, and the other is to have help in case something happens—this is very important, remember that. Third, unlike in other countries, sitting alone in China looking around will immediately make you look like a pervert. Although the pretty girls in bars may secretly desire a pervert, being so obvious will only make them resentful and ridiculed. However, you can't have too many people; too many will cause trouble, and you might even get overshadowed. Once inside the bar, first observe the situation. Although the lighting is dim, it also creates a sense of ambiguity; without that lighting, there would be no story. Observe where the pretty girls are, or anticipate where they might appear, and then sit down. Sometimes this observation might take several nights. Be patient; think about the huge rewards ahead—it's worth it, haha. Generally speaking, avoid the corner spots; there are usually no pretty girls there, and even if there are, they're likely prostitutes. Pretty girls (PPMM) are always pretty cool and naturally like to be the center of attention in nightclubs. Therefore, if you haven't spotted any pretty girls yet, try to sit at a table closer to the center, away from the other guys, ideally a table or two away. Buy half a dozen beers and quietly wait for pretty girls to come to the tables around you. Don't look around; act like you're discussing important company matters with your buddies, try to appear manly, that will increase your charm. Remember, pretty girls will also observe the situation when they come in; nobody wants to sit next to two lecherous guys. While a mature, handsome guy's appeal in a bar isn't as strong as F4 (a popular Taiwanese boy band), you're obviously not F4 either. If you're sitting at the bar, if you see a pretty girl, rush over and sit next to her decisively. Don't hesitate or be shy; the opportunity is fleeting. If you don't sit there, someone else will definitely take your place within a minute. Don't worry about the silly guy next to the pretty girl; he might have just joined the party. Disregard him, ignore him, pretend he doesn't exist. If a pretty girl arrives when you've finished your half-dozen beers, that's a golden opportunity. Half a dozen beers will basically eliminate most of your nervousness and half of your timidity. At this point, don't hesitate, just go and strike up a conversation. There are many topics you can talk about. "Miss, I'd like to buy you a drink," while a cliché, is definitely timeless. If a few pretty girls are already having a great time when you sit down, just go over and say, "Shall we go together?" Don't worry about what to say; in this environment, any words will work for them. But don't act like a bad guy or a thug from the start; that will only get you female thugs. Pretty girls will usually refuse the first time, but as long as it's not too adamant, treat one or two setbacks as motivation. What do you think they go to bars for? In short, be thick-skinned and bold. Pretty girls will initially say, "We're waiting for someone," but you'll eventually find out they're not, really not waiting for you. Then you can begin. Don't immediately bombard them with questions, and don't start bragging about how handsome or rich you are. Find some fun games; betting on drinks is the best way. Dice games, 789, rock-paper-scissors—anything will do. It's best to act cool and not talk too much. Bars are noisy, so when the girls are talking, pretend you can't hear them. Lean closer to listen; this will ease the atmosphere and see if they dislike you (if they do, they'll immediately back away). Secondly, it will allow you to see if the girl is truly pretty. Because "beauty is in the eye of the beholder," and sometimes dim lighting can make an unattractive girl look like a phoenix. If you're startled, quickly pretend to answer a phone call and leave. Be aware that the girl might ask you to buy her drinks. Depending on the situation, consider whether you stay or leave. Some girls are hired by the owner, while others are just vain and might be assessing your financial situation—remember, this is an expensive place; pure love doesn't apply here. If you feel you can't let her go, then go ahead and pay; don't look stingy, since you've already spent the money. Also, regularly practice your dice, rock-paper-scissors, and drinking skills. If you're not good at them, get some strong liquor beforehand. However, even if you're already good at dice, learn to "play dumb." Lose at the beginning to get the girl excited. Of course, you must ensure you're skilled in this area. In crucial moments, you must win over the pretty girl and not let her look down on you. If you try your best and still can't win, be sensible: you've met your match, retreat! Remember Na Ying's song about pretty girls: "Just like that, I was conquered by you!" With pretty girls, whether they seem delicate or have a trendy style, never judge a book by its cover. Some seemingly delicate girls are fiercer than anyone else when they go out, while others may appear trendy and outgoing but are actually traditional, conservative, and gentle at heart. Appearance is sometimes just a means to complement one's inner self. So, when you're unsure which girl to pursue, don't hesitate, don't overthink, don't be insecure, go for the prettiest one, don't be intimidated by her cool demeanor. Look at Wang Shuo, that little rascal, he can't read much, but all the girls he dated were high-class—high-class men were actually intimidated by their elegant appearances. Every relationship is a game of strategy. Like war, negotiation, blind dates, and also, relationships with superiors and colleagues, and communication with clients. Of course, this includes picking up girls. Now, at the bar, you've begun a game of strategy, neither of you knowing your hand, and neither of you knowing what the other will do. Whether the girl across from you has feelings for you, she certainly won't say so quickly. It requires that lyric from the song above: "Conquer." Most girls who go to bars, except for virgins, have been there more than once or twice, haha. So they'll definitely have some bar-going hobby, otherwise, why not stay home? Some girls have a high alcohol tolerance, some are good at 789 (a card game), some are masters at dice, some are bad at everything but persistent. If you try to be gentle and considerate, she might look down on you. In short, never let a girl look down on you. You either need to be good at dice, or good at drinking, or at least be bold and drink heavily if you lose. In short, don't act like a Shanghai man in a bar. Personally, I feel you shouldn't rush to ask for her contact number; at least wait until the end of the night to get it. Otherwise, your intentions will be obvious, and things won't continue. Even if you don't get her number in the end, at least you'll have had a good night's entertainment, so don't spoil the mood. It's not a good time to talk about work or life in too much detail on the first time. If the atmosphere is good, you can ask: "What do you do for work?" or "Where do you go to school?" If she smiles but doesn't answer or even glares at you, don't be discouraged; that's called playing hard to get. If a girl seems particularly dissatisfied or disdainful towards you, hey, your chance has come! Target her and deliberately be confrontational. There's no such thing as love or hate without a reason.
Oh right, I haven't mentioned clothing yet. Personally, I feel you shouldn't try too hard to dress up. Definitely don't wear a suit and tie; that looks like a gigolo. I've seen some seemingly impressive men, dressed in suits, typing on their laptops at the bar, looking around aimlessly, not only failing to achieve anything but also getting ridiculed. Just wear whatever you normally wear. Since different women have different tastes—some like designer men, some like easygoing ones—since you can't know beforehand, just go with your own style. However, your hair shouldn't be messy; it should look neat and clean, no matter how rural your dorm is. Hehe, generally, women don't dislike neat people. Of course, there are tomboy types too. Also, avoid wearing glasses if possible; if you can't, get contact lenses. "Nine out of ten glasses are bad, and the tenth is a pervert"—times have changed; that doesn't represent refinement. Besides, from a technical standpoint, if things actually go smoothly that night, glasses will be a huge obstacle to kissing, potentially ruining everything. You need to be good at capturing the subtle hints of affection in a woman's eyes and then amplifying them. This principle also applies to the girls at other tables. If you're having a great time with one of the girls here, but then you catch a glimpse of another girl at the next table looking at you with a resentful expression, well, there's an 80% chance that the other girl will be easier to approach. Weigh your options and decide whether to switch targets. If you do, pass the buck to your friend who came with you (now you see the advantage of going with someone, right?). Of course, unless it's really worth it, it's best to stick with one girl. Women are very sensitive; the girl's eyes are already gleaming, having looked past your glass and noticed the girl next door. If the girl is already slightly tipsy, don't stop. "Mercy to the enemy is cruelty to yourself." Of course, you should always appear very generous and very manly. If the girl loses and drinks a glass, you should drink half a glass for her, and indirectly kiss her—by that point, no one will care about personal hygiene anymore. Of course, don't be timid; remember, the girl is taking a much greater risk of AIDS than you are. In this situation, you'll encounter two types of girls. One type is very close to being conquered—you see her rosy cheeks and radiant smile. The other type might pull out her phone to make a call. Heh, she's basically already interested in you, but bound by morality and tradition. This call is hinting, "We can do it again, but not tonight." The wise thing to do is give up. Then things get sensitive. It's late at night. Who else can keep you awake counting your wounds? If not, weigh the options carefully. Men always want what they can get for free. The pain after passion can't be erased in one night. Personally, I think it's better to be reserved. If you have a car, consider whether you can still drive. If you think you can, you're basically drunk. Find someone else; your life is more important. Or take a taxi. Ending 1: In the night breeze, that pretty girl softly falls into your arms. Give her a kiss and take her home. Ending 2: After the passion, you look at the messy sheets and the beauty beside you, only one question echoing in your ears: How do I get her away? Of course, there's also a third ending, where this night leads to a happy marriage. Love in this world is actually very simple, very simple indeed.

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