How to find a one-night stand in a bar

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Every city has its classic bars. As long as a city has millions of young people struggling with the worries of daily life, experiencing the joys and sorrows of love and heartbreak, feeling lost about the unknown future, and reflecting on past disappointments, then the bars in that city are worth visiting. Bars that are only for indulging in extravagance and pleasure are not worth going to. Guangzhou, Beijing, Shanghai, and Shenzhen are such cities, and bars like The Place, Boys & Girls, and Chicago are such places, where countless stories of joy and sorrow unfold every day. Conversely, places like the Heaven on Earth near the Great Wall Hotel are not worth going to, and are unaffordable, even if they are so famous. First, you need to find a buddy to go with you. One reason is for courage, and the other is to have help in case something happens—this is very important, remember that. Third, unlike abroad, in China, if you sit there alone looking around, you'll immediately be seen as a pervert. Although the pretty girls in bars may secretly crave a pervert, being too obvious will only make them resentful and ridiculed. However, you can't have too many people; too many will cause trouble, and you might even get overshadowed. Once inside the bar, first assess the situation. Although the lighting is dim, it creates an atmosphere of ambiguity; without this lighting, there would be no story. Observe where the pretty girls (pretty girls) are, or anticipate where they might appear, then settle down. Sometimes this observation might take several nights; be patient, think about the huge rewards to come—it's worth it, haha. Generally speaking, avoid corner spots; there are usually no pretty girls there, and even if there are, they're likely prostitutes. Pretty girls are always quite assertive and naturally like to be the center of attention. Therefore, if you haven't spotted any pretty girls yet, try to sit at a table closer to the center, away from the same guys, ideally a table or two away. Buy half a dozen beers and quietly wait for the pretty girls to sit near you. Don't look around; act like you're discussing important company matters with your buddies, try to appear more manly, that will increase your attractiveness. Remember, pretty girls also assess the situation when they come in; nobody wants to sit next to two perverts. While a mature, handsome guy's appeal in a bar is far less than that of F4 (a popular Chinese boy band), you obviously aren't F4 either. If you're sitting at the bar, and you see a pretty girl (pretty girl), immediately rush over and sit next to her. Don't hesitate or be shy; the opportunity is fleeting. If you don't sit there, someone else will take your place within a minute. Don't worry about the guy next to her; he might have just joined the group. Ignore him, treat him like he doesn't exist. If a pretty girl arrives after you've finished half a dozen beers, that's a golden opportunity. Half a dozen beers will basically eliminate most of your nervousness and half of your timidity. At this point, don't hesitate; just go up and strike up a conversation. There are many topics you can talk about. "Miss, I'd like to buy you a drink," while cliché, is definitely timeless. If several pretty girls are already having a good time when you sit down, just go over and say, "Shall we go together?" Don't worry about what to say; in this environment, any words will work for them. But don't act like a bad guy or a thug from the start; that will only get you female thugs. Pretty girls will usually refuse the first time, but unless it's a firm rejection, treat the first couple of setbacks as motivation. What do you think they go to bars for? In short, be thick-skinned and bold. When pretty girls start by saying, "We're waiting for someone," you'll eventually find out they're not, really not waiting for you. Then you can begin. Don't immediately bombard them with questions, and don't start bragging about how handsome or rich you are. Find some fun games; drinking games are the best way, like dice games, 789, or rock-paper-scissors. It's best to act cool and not talk too much. Bars are noisy, so when pretty girls are talking, pretend you can't hear them. Lean closer to listen; this will ease the atmosphere and see if they dislike you (if they do, they'll immediately back away). Secondly, it will allow you to see if the girl is truly pretty. Because "beauty is in the eye of the beholder," and sometimes dim lighting can make an ugly duckling appear beautiful. If you're startled, quickly pretend to answer a phone call and leave. It's worth noting that the pretty lady might ask you to buy this or that wine. Depending on the situation, consider whether you stay or leave. Some pretty ladies are hired by the owner, while others are just vain and might be considering your financial situation—remember, this is an expensive place, and pure love doesn't apply here. If you feel you can't let her go, then go ahead and spend the money; don't look stingy, since you've already spent it. Also, regularly practice your dice, rock-paper-scissors, and drinking skills; if you're not good at them, prepare some strong liquor beforehand. However, even if you're already very good at dice, learn to "play dumb." Lose at the beginning to get the pretty lady excited. Of course, you must maintain your skill level in these areas; in crucial moments, you must win her over and not let her look down on you. If you try your best and still can't win, be sensible: you've met a master, time to retreat. Remember Na Ying's song about pretty girls: "Just like that, I was conquered by you." When it comes to pretty girls, whether they seem delicate or have a trendy style, never judge a book by its cover. Some seemingly delicate girls are fiercer than anyone else when they go out, while others may appear trendy and outgoing, but are actually traditional, conservative, and gentle at heart. Appearance is sometimes just a means to complement one's inner self. So, when you're unsure which girl to pursue, don't hesitate, don't overthink, don't be insecure, just go for the prettiest one. Don't be intimidated by her cool demeanor. Look at Wang Shuo, that scoundrel, he can't read much, but all the girls he dated were high-class—high-class men were actually intimidated by their elegant appearances. Every relationship is a game of strategy. Like war, negotiation, blind dates, and relationships with superiors, colleagues, and clients. Of course, that includes dating. Now, on the bar counter, you've already begun this game, neither of you knowing your hand, and neither of you knowing what the other will do. Whether the girl across from you has feelings for you or not, she certainly won't say it so quickly. It requires that lyric from the song above: "Conquer." Most girls who go to bars, except for virgins, have been there more than once or twice, haha. So they must have some interest in bars, otherwise, why not stay home? Some girls have a high alcohol tolerance, some are good at 789 (a card game), some are masters at dice, some are bad at everything but persistent. If you try to be gentle and considerate, she might look down on you. In short, never let a girl look down on you. You either need to be good at dice, or good at drinking, or at least be bold and drink heavily if you lose. Don't act like a Shanghai man in a bar. Personally, I feel you shouldn't rush to ask for her phone number; at least wait until the party is over to get it. Otherwise, your intentions will be obvious, and things won't continue. Even if you don't get her number in the end, at least you'll have had a good night, so don't spoil the mood. It's not a good time to talk about work or life in too much detail on the first time. If the atmosphere is good, you can ask: What do you do for work? Where do you go to school? Hmm. If someone smiles but doesn't answer, or even glares at you, don't be discouraged; that's called playing hard to get. If a pretty girl seems particularly dissatisfied or disdainful of you, hehe, your chance has come! Target her, deliberately be confrontational. There's no such thing as love or hate without a reason.
Oh right, I haven't mentioned clothing yet. Personally, I feel you shouldn't try too hard to dress up. Definitely don't wear a suit and tie; that looks like a gigolo. I've seen some seemingly impressive men, dressed in suits, typing on their laptops at the bar, looking around aimlessly, not only failing to achieve anything but also getting ridiculed. Just wear whatever you normally wear. Since different women have different tastes—some like designer men, some like easygoing ones—since you can't know beforehand, just go with your own style. However, your hair shouldn't be messy; it should look neat and clean, no matter how rural your dorm is. Hehe, generally, women don't dislike neat people. Of course, there are tomboy types too. Also, avoid wearing glasses if possible; if you can't, get contact lenses. "Nine out of ten glasses are bad, and the tenth is a pervert"—times have changed; that doesn't represent refinement. Besides, from a technical standpoint, if things actually go smoothly that night, glasses will be a huge obstacle to kissing, potentially ruining everything. You need to be good at capturing the subtle hints of affection in a woman's eyes and then amplifying them. This principle also applies to the girls at other tables. If you're having a great time with one of the girls here, but then you catch a glimpse of another girl at the next table looking at you with a resentful expression, well, there's an 80% chance that the other girl will be easier to approach. Weigh your options and decide whether to switch targets. If you do, pass the buck to your friend who came with you (now you see the advantage of going with someone, right?). Of course, unless it's really worth it, it's best to stick with one girl. Women are very sensitive; the girl's eyes are already gleaming, having looked past your glass and noticed the girl next door. If the girl is already slightly tipsy, don't stop. "Mercy to the enemy is cruelty to yourself." Of course, you should always appear very generous and very manly. If the girl loses and drinks a glass, you should drink half a glass for her, and indirectly kiss her—by that point, no one will care about personal hygiene anymore. Of course, don't be timid; remember, the girl is taking a much greater risk of AIDS than you are. In this situation, you'll encounter two types of girls. One type is very close to being conquered—you see her rosy cheeks and radiant smile. The other type might pull out her phone to make a call. Heh, she's basically already interested in you, but bound by morality and tradition. This call is hinting, "We can do it again, but not tonight." The wise thing to do is give up. Then things get sensitive. It's late at night. Who else can keep you awake counting your wounds? If not, weigh the options carefully. Men always want what they can get for free. The pain after passion can't be erased in one night. Personally, I think it's better to be reserved. If you have a car, consider whether you can still drive. If you think you can, you're basically drunk. Find someone else; your life is more important. Or take a taxi. Ending 1: In the night breeze, that pretty girl softly falls into your arms. Give her a kiss and take her home. Ending 2: After the passion, you look at the messy sheets and the beauty beside you, only one question echoing in your ears: How do I get her away? Of course, there is also a third ending, where they become a couple because of this night.

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