A comprehensive summary of one-night stands

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I've been online for several years now. At first, I frequented some pornographic websites, very basic, and even went with my girlfriend. Later, it became chatting, flirting, video chatting, swearing online, telling dirty jokes, and having phone sex with online friends. This year, I had an epiphany and started using Sina.com. Thus began my life of dating "good girls." Because I'm quite busy with work and frequently travel for business, I have relatively little time online. Sometimes, I'm also busy with real-life relationships and can't attend to the "good girls" online. Then there was the SARS outbreak, so the total time I spent dating "good girls" online probably didn't exceed a month.

In this short period, through Sina.com, which I'm still very grateful for, I had one-night stands or multiple-night stands with nearly ten female online friends, greatly enriching my personal sex and private life. But there were also lessons learned. One (a Shandong girl studying in Beijing who treated me like a go-getter) didn't make things clear at the beginning, so it didn't work out. Another (an editor from CCTV who was very interested in me and kept harassing me) wasn't very attractive, and I didn't feel anything for her, so it ended there. And one (a Beijing girl) was dumped by her boyfriend, and out of conscience, I didn't take advantage of her. Brother, I've written down some of my experiences and posted them on the one-night stand section of the selang website,

where they received rave reviews from fellow enthusiasts. This gave me tremendous motivation. During this time, out of boredom, I even tested a prostitute (the infamous, not-so-pretty Chongqing girl; I still have her phone number). Thankfully, I heeded some advice from incredibly grateful fellow enthusiasts and used condoms during sex and oral sex, preventing any adverse consequences. (Thinking back, it's scary). Since I figured out the pattern and started dating respectable women online with ease, I swore I'd never hire prostitutes again:

1. Respectable women are more hygienic and safer; hiring a prostitute and getting pregnant is a lifelong regret;
2. Respectable women won't fake orgasms or speed up your ejaculation; on the contrary, they'll delay it;
3. Respectable women offer intellectual exchange;
4. The entire process of dating a respectable woman will give you far more satisfaction and enjoyment than hiring a prostitute;
5. Respectable women will never haggle with you; 6. Respectable women won't affect your privacy or cause security guards to suspect your character.

Here are some tips for picking up decent girls:

1. Public chat rooms + mobile phones: you're guaranteed to get one within half an hour. I've mentioned in some articles that there are tons of decent, flirtatious women waiting to be slept with on public websites like Sina.com! Don't go there, and don't use sites like Popo or MSN; those are mostly young girls and conservative women with no other intentions—basically no chance. Public chat rooms, on the other hand, are full of unmarried women and middle-aged women dissatisfied with reality and fantasizing about romance. No login required, no identity verification, you can come and go as you please—it's a more ideal place. It's more difficult for guys without mobile phones; people generally don't exchange landlines, they exchange mobile phones. The advantage of mobile phones is that you can contact them in real time. Sending text messages is cheaper, adds mystery, and is very private. It's extremely easy to get a decent girl.

2. Clearly state your intentions online first. If a girl doesn't refuse to meet, you can usually sleep with her after meeting, unless her appearance doesn't appeal to you (I have an example of this, I'll write about it another day). Don't be vague; meeting in person will only waste time and money (I learned this the hard way, I'll write about it next time). After all, we're not here to make friends or develop feelings.

Third, be decisive and quick to leave. You can have intellectual exchanges with respectable women, but don't try to develop feelings for them. I once slept with a computer saleswoman; she was petite, but her vagina was tight and wet, and she moaned loudly. After we finished, she said she liked me and insisted on being close to me. Luckily, I got away quickly, giving her 100 yuan for transportation, and we never contacted each other again.

Fourth, purely in terms of sex, mature women are much more enjoyable than young girls. There was a mature woman, 34, unmarried. I met her on Sina Weibo, and we didn't contact each other for a few months before reconnecting via text message. I initially thought she would be difficult to get, but she was extremely horny. I slept with her on our first meeting, four times in one night, and she still said it wasn't enough. Her vagina was hot, slippery, and tight; she was the most enjoyable woman I've ever slept with, and the one who made me ejaculate the fastest. She's still clinging to me, constantly texting me saying she needs me to fuck her. I once found her a guy online, but she stood him up, saying she only wanted me to fuck her. (Bro, a little self-praise here: I'm under 30, 182cm tall, 75kg, pretty handsome, and have a good range of skills. The Chongqing girl I met last time said, "Do you still need to find a prostitute?" I said, "Yeah, I'll fuck you, and I'm lucky if I don't ask you for money.") So, generally speaking, mature women aren't as innocent and cute as young girls, but they're still very enjoyable to fuck. They're experienced, proactive, and caring, paying attention to your feelings.

Fifth, it's best to have your own place. This makes things very convenient, the girl is more willing to come, and it saves a lot of money. Besides, next time you want a night out, just give a call, and your ex will come over without hesitation. No need to answer, and it avoids the security guard's suspicion. I've had this experience a few times; I'd be horny at night, send a text saying I wanted to fuck her, and she'd take a taxi over late at night to let me fuck her. It was really great.

6. Arrange a late time, no need to invite them to dinner or entertainment, just come straight to bed. I rarely invite people out for dinner or karaoke. Usually, they'll meet at my place. If they don't want to come, I'll pick them up at a designated location. Generally, they're very willing to come with me after we meet because I'm sincere, I don't force them, and I'm not bad-looking. After they arrive, shower, get into bed, and have sex. Don't be a fool who puts in both physical effort and money. Otherwise, you might as well go find a prostitute.

7. Have as many one-night stands as possible. Unless a respectable woman doesn't suit your taste, try to use the same woman multiple times. Winning over a respectable woman actually takes a lot of effort and persuasion. Each time you have to go through the whole process, it's tiring, especially for someone like me who's very busy with work. So after winning one over, try to have as many one-night stands as possible, because you don't need to put in much effort anymore. Just make a phone call or send a text, and the woman will come to you. Why wouldn't you take advantage of such a good thing? Until you're exhausted and have lost interest in her. Then move on to the next one. This also aligns with the economic principle of maximizing efficiency.

Eight, pay attention to personal protection. No matter what, check your girlfriend's genitals before bed. Don't be shy; stop immediately if you find any problems. I was initially too embarrassed, especially when she asked, "Do you suspect I have a disease?" But later I thought about it carefully: is saving face more important than your penis? Don't risk losing everything, everyone. Once you get pregnant, you can never have sex again. Fortunately, I haven't encountered any unhealthy women yet. Whether to use a condom is up to you. But from a safety perspective, use a condom whenever possible. Even if it's not for disease prevention, an unhealthy woman might get you pregnant, or lie and say she's pregnant, or even be pregnant with someone else's child, and then you'll be in trouble.

Nine, don't judge a healthy woman by your girlfriend's standards. Most healthy women you can sleep with aren't particularly pretty or cute. If she were both pretty and cute, would you even have a chance to sleep with her? So, you'll likely be disappointed upon first meeting her. But that doesn't matter; your goal is to satisfy your needs. As long as she has a good figure and a cute penis, that's enough. Moreover, many girls are average-looking but have great figures and are very sexy, making them very enjoyable to sleep with.

10. Be careful to keep your valuables safe. I usually lock up my belongings and put the key away before meeting a girl or bringing her along. You can't see into someone's heart, so don't be careless. If you sleep with a girl and lose 5000 yuan, wouldn't that be a loss? You can't even report it to the police!

Tips for meeting up with online friends:

We modern people want to enjoy the thrill of fast-paced love, and online chatting is a quick way!
After a successful initial contact (usually getting her phone number), the next step is to arrange a meeting. Whether or not you can get a meeting depends on the girl's mindset. If

she's interested in you, she might not go out with you (she might have a boyfriend). If she's not interested, she might still go out with you (just for a meal). Therefore, when arranging a meeting, you must make certain arrangements to filter out those who aren't interested.

First, we filter by time and place.
The time and place of the date are key factors in whether or not you'll end up sleeping together, so these two aspects should be carefully planned.
For time, it's best not to arrange it too late; if it's dinner, try to start around 5:30 or 6:00 PM. Arranging it too late might interfere with post-dinner activities.
For location, it's best to arrange it near a place suitable for casual sex (your home or a hotel). This makes it easier to find an excuse to take her home.
(I personally suggest having afternoon tea, then going home for sex, then having dinner at a restaurant, and then seeing her off. It shouldn't be later than 8:00 PM, allowing you to go back and deal with your wife or girlfriend.)
When asking a girl out, the man must maintain control. For example,
you could ask her out by saying, "I'm free tomorrow afternoon around 3 or 4:00 PM, would you be interested in meeting up for a chat?" If she's interested in you, she'll be willing to accommodate your time and place; if she's not, she won't. You can try with the same girl a few times; if she's unwilling to cooperate, she might not be interested.
Don't be too rigid about time and place; each girl's level of interest and conservative nature will influence the decision. I can only offer the most basic suggestions.

Secondly, after the date, use sexual flirting to filter the girls.
What is sexual flirting? Sexual flirting is physical contact before sexual intercourse. Examples include touching hands, hair, or ears. Sexual flirting is essential during dates with girls. It's a crucial factor in determining whether a girl is willing to sleep with you. Whether it's dinner or tea, sexual flirting should be involved. If you're afraid of being seen as a pervert and hesitant to make a move, or if you want to play the gentleman, then you shouldn't even think about having sex. Since you're paying for a date, you should expect something in return. If she rejects your sexual flirting, it's not a bad thing; at least you know she's not interested and you don't need to spend more money or time asking her out. If you're always hesitant to make a move when you ask a girl out, you're not only wasting money, but you'll also make girls who were initially interested in you lose interest.
Therefore, the earlier you test the waters, the better.
However, sexual flirting shouldn't be too direct or aggressive. It's best to use subtle, gentle methods, employing seemingly innocuous excuses. For example, saying things like, "Oh, don't move, there's something in my hair," or "Your fingers are so long." A girl who's interested in you will cooperate with your actions. You can then test the waters with more exaggerated physical contact.
Never confess your feelings. Saying things like "I really like you, I care about you, be my girlfriend" will scare her away.
(Again, this article is about picking up girls, not dating). These two methods can basically filter out girls you won't have a chance to sleep with—I'm talking about those you won't have a chance to sleep with in a certain timeframe. Once

you've reached this stage, you can start thinking about how to take the girl to a place where you can have sex during the date. Some people have brothels, some don't, but whether you take her home or to a hotel, she needs a reason. The unspoken meaning of this reason is "Let's have sex." However, saying this to a girl will scare her away. We can only persuade her with a reason that isn't a reason. Every girl understands what you mean and is willing to have something with you; any reason will do. If she's not interested in you, nothing you say will work. Here are some silly examples for reference:

"I want to buy water." "I have plenty of water at home, come to my place for a drink." "My house is right next door, come sit for a bit, I'll take you home later." (This is the most common approach.)
"Let's go to my place to watch VCDs."
"I forgot something, come back with me to get it."
"I'm so tired, there's a hotel nearby, let's rest for a while." "I heard the ** Hotel is very beautiful, do you want to go see it?" Sometimes, persuading a girl to go back is already the process of persuading her to sleep with you.

Let's translate another example.
"Come upstairs for a bit" (Let's go to my place for some sex)
"It's too late, isn't that inappropriate?" (Reserved)
"I'll go upstairs to get something and then take you home, it'll be quick" (Come on, let's have sex)
"Then I'll wait for you here" (Still hesitant)
"Just come upstairs, otherwise I'm worried about you waiting alone here" (What are you hesitating for? Let's have sex!)
"What floor do you live on?" (A little wavering)
"Fifth floor, but not high" (Come on, what are you waiting for?) "Then I'll wait for you at the door" (Convinced)
Note: Later, the girl didn't wait at the door; she was only taken home after finger sex (two hours after the first date).
This is a very delicate skill; many situations can change, and you have to judge for yourself.
If you can take the girl home, there's a 50% chance you'll satisfy your needs, but there's still a 50% chance of uncertainty. We still need to handle it carefully. Generally speaking, if she has already accepted your excessive sexual advances outside, we can be sure we can get to the point quickly. If it's more average, then some competition is needed. Now let's talk about a more general situation. Sometimes you'll encounter girls who are too naive; they genuinely believe they're going to your house to listen to music or watch TV. Whether they truly don't understand or are pretending, we need to convince them through action. So what kind of action should we take?

I believe it's still sexual teasing, but a more advanced form, such as kissing or caressing.
We still need to approach it gently, without strong aggression—otherwise, being accused of rape would be a serious matter. For example, when a girl is looking at your bookshelf, CD rack, or out the window, secretly kiss her from behind, perhaps on her hair, ear, or back of the neck. This approach from behind makes the girl less pressured. It often leaves her unaware that you're going to make this move, leaving her unsure how to react and silently accepting it.
If she doesn't refuse, you can then proceed with a bolder approach until your needs are met. One thing to note when using this method is not to stick to the order of kissing, touching breasts, or genital stimulation. Sometimes, a woman lacks confidence in a particular part of her body and will reject your touch there. At this point, you should take a different approach and target her areas of confidence. For example, if she has small breasts, attack her lower body; if she has large breasts, avoid kissing.
It's important to note that a girl's willingness to accept your advances doesn't necessarily mean she's willing to have sex with you. We're exploiting her uncertainty to arouse her most primal desires. Sometimes, at crucial moments (sometimes during a passionate kiss, sometimes before taking off her underwear), she'll suddenly snap out of it and push you away. This might be because she's thinking about her boyfriend or about morality. In such situations, girls desperately need a reason to convince themselves. This reason might be completely unimportant to us or them, but they absolutely need it. Don't even think about taking off her underwear until you overcome this hurdle.

So what kind of reason does a girl need?

I believe she needs a reason that you "respect her, like her, and love her." Sometimes a girl is afraid of being taken too quickly and acts coy. Sometimes it's reluctance. Sometimes it's about morality. Whatever the situation, just express your affection sincerely. Girls usually ask:
"What are you thinking right now?"
"What do you take me for?"
"Don't you think it's too fast?"
"Do you like me?"
There's only one correct answer:
say what she wants to hear (pay attention to this sentence).
She asks, "Do you love me?" You can only answer "I love you." A wrong answer, and she'll definitely kick you out immediately.

Here are a few correct answers:
1. I don't know why, but I couldn't control myself when I saw you. I think I've fallen in love with you. Otherwise, I wouldn't have done this. You know I'm a highly educated person; I'm not usually like this.
2. I know you're a very good girl, and I'm very serious. It's just that I like you so much that I did this.
3. Of course I like you, is that even a question? From the first moment I saw you, I felt you were special, unique, and maybe that's when I started having feelings for you.

Don't underestimate these few sentences; this is valuable experience accumulated over the years from making many mistakes. In the clever answers to the question of undressing her, one wrong answer and she might put her clothes back on and run away.
Once, a girl asked me, "Do you love me?"
I answered, "Maybe."
She said, "Then it won't work."
Naively, I thought it best not to deceive someone with your feelings, so I couldn't say those three words.
(At that time, she was willing to let me suckle and touch her breasts, but wouldn't let me have sex.) Later, I realized, "Don't you love her body? At least in that moment, you loved her." I regretted it deeply.
Another time, she took off her tight jeans, and we hugged on the bed. I slowly teased her, taking off her underwear. Before penetration, while I was getting a condom, she suddenly pushed me away, cried, and said I wanted to rape her, then immediately put her pants back on and left.
Damn it! She took off her tightly-fitting jeans herself, yet she accused me of rape. This was all because I didn't give the girl the reason she wanted. If you don't give her a reason to convince herself, and she's bound by morality, she'll definitely run away in the end. You must understand, our enemy isn't girls, but thousands of years of traditional Chinese culture. This enormous shackle tightly binds everyone. Before they've figured things out, you can only go along with their wishes and give them a reason to convince themselves. Sometimes, at crucial moments, you can't convince her and let her slip away. You'd better treat her with meticulous care; one day she'll figure it out and come back to you.

You're probably thinking, "Is it really that simple to take her to bed?"
Theoretically, it is. In my own and my friends' experiences, having dinner with a girl is practically the same as going to bed with her. Because we're based on mutual attraction, providing for the girl's needs, or uncovering those needs. We're using the modern pursuit of sensuality to satisfy each other's needs in this way of picking up girls. This method is the same as some people going to clubs or discos for one-night stands. The only difference is that those who go to clubs have already overcome their moral barriers. We, on the other hand, help them remove those barriers, arousing their most primal desires. Then, it's a natural progression to bed.

And after bed? Of course, you get out of bed. However, this topic is too broad, so it's necessary to limit the discussion to a specific scope. In a narrow sense, "getting out of bed" means leaving a woman behind. In a broader sense, it means maintaining a relationship with a girl that doesn't disrupt your existing life.
Generally speaking, male-female relationships can be divided into three types, from short to long: one-night stands, short-term relationships, and long-term relationships. These three types of relationships are derived from a man's feelings for a girl. For most people, the more they like a girl, the more they want to maintain a long-term relationship. Therefore, I believe that "getting out of bed" only happens with a girl who arouses your physical desire but isn't someone you truly like. If you meet someone you truly like, you'll be too busy trying to maintain the relationship to even think about running away.
(Perhaps it might also happen when you get tired of her or meet a better girl?)
Of course, I believe that a man only has a few opportunities in his life to sleep with his perfect woman.
If you do, don't run away. This kind of woman is rare and hard to find. If you miss her, it'll be hard to find her again. Whether you want to maintain a relationship with a girl without disrupting your existing life, or you want to break up with her,

it's best to establish a few principles before going to bed: 1. Take control; 2. Don't give her any hope; 3. Explain your own situation; 4. Never say goodbye.
If you can do these things, getting out of bed will be easier. Below, I will explain these four points.

1. Take control:
I have discussed the steps of dating above.
When dating a girl, the man must take control. Don't underestimate this point, because taking control is closely related to getting out of bed. If the man can take control in the early stages of dating, he can control the time and place of future dates. If the girl asks to meet, even if you are free, you should deliberately refuse and ask the girl to accommodate your schedule. When this pattern becomes a habit between you, the girl will not be able to disrupt your existing life. If she can accommodate, you will not have the urgency to break up immediately; if she cannot accommodate, but you are firm in your attitude and show that you are sincerely asking her to accommodate, she will have no choice but to leave.

2. Don't offer any hope:
Sweet talk is inevitable in relationships. But remember, never give a girl any expectations about the future. Whether a girl's initial purpose in dating you is for love or sex, after spending time together, she will inevitably have expectations for the future. Even if she doesn't need you to give her a future, she might unconsciously talk about what will happen in the future to prove her charm or out of insecurity. At this point, you must resolutely cut off this idea from her. Admittedly, this will definitely make her unhappy in the short term. But to avoid causing her greater pain if she is dumped, you must do this. If you are married, you should especially not give her the hope that you will get a divorce in the future. This will only cause trouble for yourself. The key is to explain your feelings for the girl and your sense of responsibility. The girl will convince herself to be with you by saying, "We won't have any future, but he truly loves me."

3. Explain your situation:
If possible, it's best to let the girl know that you are married and have a girlfriend before sleeping with her. If that's not possible, you must let her know after sleeping with her. Never hide anything from a girl for fear she'll ignore you if she finds out; that will only cause you trouble. However, the timing of bringing this up is crucial. Ideally, it should be done casually when you're sure she has feelings for you. If she likes you, she won't care if you have other women; all she cares about is whether you like her. (If she doesn't like you, being single is useless). If you can do this, you'll feel less guilty when you break up with her. Because the girl knows your situation and still wants to be with you, not because you used deception to maintain the relationship.

4. Never say goodbye:
When you intentionally distance yourself from someone, it's best not to be too explicit with her. Just let your actions speak for themselves.
For example, when a girl asks you out, you deliberately make excuses to avoid her. Or she asks you out three or four times before you finally meet her. Over time, the girl will naturally understand your intentions. If you don't take the initiative to contact her, she won't bother you anymore. Generally speaking, mastering these four principles will prevent major problems when getting out of bed.
In short, it's about protecting yourself without hurting others. For girls you've already dumped, we should still occasionally and sincerely care about them. Genuine care!! That way, in the girl's eyes, you'll be a real man. A man with a conscience. The biggest difference between love and fast-food love is the way to break up. The best way to break up in love is to let the other person feel it and say, "Thank you for loving me." The best way to break up in fast-food love is to let the other person feel it and say, "Thank you for the happiness you gave me."

The complete guide to picking up girls

: The so-called guide, of course, emphasizes speed, little work, high efficiency, and high income. If someone tells you that you can sleep with a girl by talking to her every day for a year or two, that's not a strategy. The

key is finding a girl you can easily meet. As the saying goes, "Those near the water get the moon first." If you find a girl from Xinjiang or Tibet, but you have no chance of going there, you've not only failed halfway, you've completely failed. The most important thing when looking for a girl is finding places where it's easy to meet. For example, if you live in Hong Kong, Shenzhen is the main option; or if you live in Taiwan but frequently visit Zhuhai, then naturally look for girls in Zhuhai; or if you're planning a trip to Beijing, then focus on girls in Beijing. Of course, if you can travel anytime and go anywhere, then finding girls from any location is fine.

I. The Importance of Personal Profile Settings:

User Nickname
Changing to a unique name is very important because girls usually use the search function to find people to chat with. If your name is interesting and attractive, your chances will increase. If you change to something like "I want to be a woman" or "I am transgender," then goodbye forever. Age This is very

simple

(too simple, sometimes naive). If you're in your forties, fill in 35. If you're in your early twenties, you might as well fill in a few years older. It's simple; girls like to find guys who are a little older than them. If you fill in a few years older, you'll have more options. As for those in their early thirties, if you want to find girls in their twenties, you might as well try filling in 29; it might help a little.

Region
If you're from Hong Kong, fill in Hong Kong as your country, region, and province. If you're from Taiwan, fill in Taiwan. If you leave it blank, or fill in something like "heaven, hell, or Palestine," then good luck, and see you next year.

Detailed Information:
Include your alma mater, occupation, etc. If they're good, feel free to fill them in. Exaggerating a little is sometimes okay, but don't go so far as to claim you drive a Boeing 747 instead of a taxi driver – that will easily give you away. For your personal statement, ask a friend who's good at writing to compose a love poem for you; that will increase your chances.

Actively seeking out girls, or passively waiting for them to seek you out?

Research shows both have their advantages. Of course, if you're going to Beijing next week and urgently need to find a girl, you should definitely take the initiative and use the search function yourself. If you're not in a rush, it's up to your personal preference. Being proactive might lead to rejections and you might encounter girls who don't want to talk to you. However, if you're persistent, you'll likely attract more girls passively, and you can choose their province or region. If you're passive, just keep going online and wait for girls to add you; you'll probably get a few a day, but you can't control the province or region—they'll be from all over the world, from Heilongjiang, Xinjiang, the Arctic, to Mars.　 Regarding

the girls' age

: those under 20 are often virgins or more conservative about sex. If you're older, try targeting those over 25; they're more experienced and open-minded. Of course, if you're younger, exaggerating your age can also be effective. Of course, thirty is like a wolf, forty is like a tiger, haha. If you don't recommend older girls, that's a good choice too.

What to talk about?
Some girls you don't need to think of topics; they'll talk non-stop on their own. That's great, saves a lot of effort.
If you don't meet these girls, you really need to think of topics. If you often only say things like "Hello," "Is the weather nice?" or "The moon is beautiful today," don't worry, the monks of Shaolin Temple are waiting for you to have a meal with them. Actually, it's very simple. Just as you like to meet a girl who speaks automatically, girls also like to meet someone who constantly has interesting topics to talk about with them. If you have a good sense of humor, can tell stories, and have plenty of gossip, and the girl isn't a block of wood, then you'll definitely have a great time chatting with her. What? You don't have anything to say to the girl? Then you need to go and learn some new things.

For example, when discussing why men are unfaithful, if you can analyze it from the perspective of Darwin's theory of evolution, ultimately concluding that men's infidelity is actually carrying the heavy responsibility of the evolution and survival of all humanity, the girl will definitely admire you immensely and decide to work with you for the future of mankind.

If you have any personal love stories (from the past), feel free to tell her; girls always love to hear love stories, the more tragic the better. Don't have any? Then just find one that's yours. Larry's "Remembering Friends" is good; you can adapt it and use it, guaranteed to make her feel sorry for you.

It's important not to miss any opportunity to bring the girl into conversations about passion. Girls are generally a bit reserved. Even if they're burning with desire, they'll pretend to be innocent. So, finding a girl who'll initiate a conversation about sex is really difficult. This important task falls on your shoulders. Actually, there are plenty of opportunities, so keep going! As long as you've talked about sex with her, or even had a little banter, your chances of sleeping with her will skyrocket.

Should you tell a girl you have a girlfriend or wife?
I honestly don't know. I have a girlfriend, but I always tell girls I don't. Logically, if a girl thinks you're single, your chances should be higher. Those of you who have wives or girlfriends and have been honest with girls, please share your experiences and see how it went. Did you sleep with her? If you're handsome, you might want to show her a picture. It's said that over 80% of a person's initial impression of another person comes from their appearance.

If you're a handsome guy, why not show her some photos? Men

love beautiful women, and women love handsome men—it's human nature. If the girl agrees with your assessment (i.e., you don't just think you're handsome), her interest in meeting you will increase significantly. Seeing your photos will make her feelings about you more real, increasing her interest in chatting with you and making her more friendly. Also, without that feeling of uncertainty, the chances of her standing you up on a date will be greatly reduced.
If you're not handsome, remember how artistic a girl's photos can work wonders?
Haha, you could consider that, or maybe use computer special effects. Of course, if you travel the world, show her more photos you took while traveling; that will definitely help increase her interest.

How to ask a girl for photos?

If you've shown the girl your photos, and she has photos of herself, then getting them shouldn't be too difficult. Don't ask her to exchange photos; that seems a bit stingy. I often say to girls when we're having a good chat, "It's a pleasure chatting with you. I really hope I'll have the chance to see you someday." If she replies that she will, I ask her if she has any photos, or I say, "You've seen me before (I've sent her photos), so you have a real connection with me now, but my impression of you is still a bit vague." Then I ask her if she has any photos.

Be ruthless and add girls you don't click with to
your blacklist. There are more girls than sperm. Add those you don't click with, or even those without photos, to your blacklist. Don't waste your time on them. Remember, chatting with them is a waste of your opportunity cost. If you save that time, you can develop relationships with many other girls who offer better opportunities.

Should you meet a girl without a photo? The
fact that you're asking this question proves you haven't followed the rule above of blacklisting anyone without a photo, which is why you're in this situation. The answer is actually quite simple: if you're going specifically to meet her, definitely don't; if you don't click but it's just a coincidence, don't either; if you really do click, well, just consider it making friends. You know, meeting a "dinosaur girl" is truly unpleasant; even once is too much.

Never get involved in online dating
. Yes, flirting with girls is normal, but never take it to the point of an online relationship. You'll suffer terribly. Anyone with a girlfriend or wife knows this; taking care of a woman is really not easy. If you get involved in an online relationship, you'll have to chat with her online every day, even call her every day, and send gifts, flowers, and chocolates during holidays. Although online dating might increase the chances of having sex, the workload is disproportionate. And if you don't want her afterward, there's a lot of follow-up work to do. It's better not to get involved in online dating.

Talk to a girl on the phone or use voice chat.
Text is always inanimate, but voice is alive. Talking to a girl on the phone can increase her sense of intimacy with you. Of course, if you have a nice voice, the effect will be greatly enhanced. But never judge a step-sister's appearance by her voice; you'll be wrong. Those with good voices are mostly dinosaurs, and those with bad voices are also mostly dinosaurs. But many beautiful women don't have good voices. Why is this?

It's simple: suppose one in ten is beautiful, and one in four has a good voice. Beautiful woman = 10% Good voice = 25% Both beautiful woman and good voice = 0.1 * 0.25 * 100% = 2.5%
Beautiful woman but bad voice = 0.1 * 0.75 * 100% = 7.5%
Dinosaur with a good voice = 0.9 * 0.25 * 100% = 22.5%
Dinosaur with a bad voice = 0.9 * 0.75 * 100% = 67.5%

Therefore, you should be happy when you hear a girl with a bad voice, because the chance of her being beautiful is three times higher than the chance of her having a good voice.

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