Quick way to keep a mistress

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I know many friends from Hong Kong and Taiwan, most of whom have kept mistresses in Shanghai, Beijing, and Guangdong, and they are very willing to share their experiences with me. First and foremost, everyone must clarify the relationship beforehand. A casual relationship is for fun, but a serious one is serious. Never confuse the two, or you'll be ruined financially, or even lose your life. In any situation, being a mistress is a very professional job. They are very understanding, skilled in bed, and will be affectionate and, when they lose their composure, will definitely develop real feelings. Therefore, the following information and techniques are crucial:
1) Costs: Never buy a house in her name. Once you have the house, your bargaining power will immediately decrease. If you don't want to rent, you can pay a down payment (the less the better), and then put both your names on the deed (of course, only your name is better), and then make regular mortgage payments. This only applies to relationships longer than five years; for shorter relationships, renting is perfectly sufficient. Also, never try to buy any property through her to save money, as she may have a private contract with the seller and try to take advantage of you. Back when Shanghai's housing market was still divided between domestic and export sales, a friend of mine, greedy for a bargain, bought a villa in a domestic market through his mistress. Since he didn't have a Shanghai hukou (household registration), he could only use her name, and the result
was predictable. In terms of price, Shanghai is the most expensive. Besides solving the housing problem, an extra subsidy of about 3,500 RMB per month is required; if the woman is exceptionally beautiful, it's about 5,000 RMB. Anything higher is for concubines, which isn't worthwhile. Guangdong is the cheapest; rent can be under 1,000 RMB per month. It doesn't necessarily have to be in the city center; Jiangmen, Panyu, or the suburbs of Shenzhen are all acceptable. An extra subsidy of about 2,000 RMB is enough. Most of these women come from Hunan and Sichuan. Beijing has the biggest price variation; it can be very expensive or very cheap. The very expensive ones are mostly models still in their early careers, who might become famous one day, so you could say you're playing with women who will become famous in advance. The cheaper ones come from Dalian, Heilongjiang, etc., and are also quite attractive. Another cost to consider is her "father's illness, mother's death, brother's imprisonment." Every mistress will have family problems within the three months you've been keeping her, and then she'll ask you for money. Of course, you can refuse to pay, but the mistress's service will inevitably be less attentive. Therefore, each expense should be under 5,000 yuan; anything over 5,000 yuan means you've been ripped off. This should happen once or twice. If it happens more than that, you have the right to demand all receipts, and she will give up.
2) Application: Mistresses can be very helpful in many situations, especially in social settings. The most important thing is to tolerate such behavior openly. Some mistresses are very familiar with the local situation and are even better at networking than men. However, you must keep your personal and professional life separate. Never let the mistress become arrogant and take over your finances. Remember, the person managing the finances should not be someone you've paid for a physical relationship with, because if someone can sell their body, they can sell anything. Many mistresses are excellent cooks; the nutritional value and taste alone are worth the price. Another point you need to think about clearly from the beginning is whether you want children. Almost every one of my friends has encountered cases of mistresses secretly/intentionally getting pregnant. You need to understand that these women also know their youth is fleeting and hope to quickly find a financially stable partner to settle down with. Sometimes, some unscrupulous mistresses will even threaten you with pregnancy to force you to divorce them, or extort money from you through connections in the police. Most importantly, you don't know if it's your child. It's not widely known, but if you're only away on business in that city, there's an 80% chance your mistress will continue her extramarital affairs to earn extra pocket money. Therefore, my friend's advice is to get a tubal ligation beforehand, since you can correct it later if you want to, but don't tell the mistress. If she gets pregnant, it proves her infidelity and you can get rid of her without spending money—a win-win situation. There
are generally two types of "contractual relationships": long-term and short-term. Neither is legally binding, but there's a dangerous misconception: it's easy for the mistress to use this as leverage to demand property. In Shanghai, common-law marriage is recognized by the government, meaning that after a period of cohabitation (usually two years or more), one party can use the marriage as leverage to blackmail the other for a share of assets. If you've already planned to give the mistress a sum of money, then forget it. However, many shrewd mistresses use this as grounds to extort money from you during a breakup, leaving you with nothing but trouble. So how do you prevent this? First, avoid leaving legally verifiable proof of cohabitation. Alternatively, use the mistress for a period, then move out for a month before returning. Even if you signed a pre-cohabitation contract, such contracts are not recognized in China. So, even if it's troublesome, you must not leave any leverage for the mistress to claim your assets based on a de facto marriage. Those who only intend to use mistresses for short-term stays should be even more cautious.
Many men who use mistresses long-term do so to have a sense of home in a particular place. If you frequently travel to Beijing for business, it's better to hire one locally. In the long run, hotel costs exceed rent, and if it's your own property, someone can take care of it. Short-term stays are mostly for professional players, lasting from a few months to a year. So why use a mistress for a short-term stay? The reason is that, considering the average number of encounters, a short-term stay is cheaper than calculating per encounter. In Shanghai, a woman with good looks and skills costs at least 400 RMB per encounter. Ten or so encounters can cost as much as a month's worth of service. Some might say, "Isn't this too boring?" That depends on your drinking buddies. Many drinking buddies can pool their resources to temporarily hire several decent mistresses, and everyone can make do. Plus, if the first wife asks, they can cover for each other. Some might say, "If I'm really looking for a bargain and don't want to spend that much, are there other ways?" Yes, but you get what you pay for, though that doesn't mean there aren't good options. For example, in Shanghai, which my friend knows well, there are many resentful mistresses who like to earn extra money when their "husbands" aren't around. If you're based in Shanghai and have the time, you can pay a social fee to keep someone else's mistress long-term. How do you seduce these mistresses? Go to some trendy social venues, like the bars in the Jinmao Tower, where there are quite a few. They're usually alone, and sometimes they might mix in with prostitutes, but experienced people can tell the difference. Remember to bring some popular psychedelic pills as a gift; it'll make things much easier. One-night stands are not widely accepted in China. Chinese women still consider sex a means of life, not something to be taken for granted. If everyone were willing to have one-night stands, would there still be a market for mistresses?
At this point, you might ask, "Won't my mistress also cheat?" This cheating is something you, as the "boss," must accept. I will provide some management methods below, but those who want to cheat will eventually find the knack, especially if you don't live there yourself. When you're considering the cost of a mistress, the factor you should consider isn't your feelings for her, but the average cost of sex, and other objective factors (hotel expenses, expenses for entertaining business friends, etc.). If it's worthwhile, then go for it. Therefore, demanding chastity from a mistress is ridiculous. The only thing to focus on is hygiene. Your body is your own; everything else is external. So even if it's not that pleasurable at the time, condoms are absolutely essential. Here, I can talk about how to manage a mistress. I will also talk about how to manage a third or fourth mistress later, if you have enough energy. First, buy her a portable charger. This ensures good service, so she's always ready to serve you, and also allows you to track her whereabouts. The phone bill should be sent to you, so you can track her calls to see how serious her infidelity is. Secondly, implement a bonus system; don't give her all the money at once. Let her know you're considering buying her a gold chain or something, but make sure you keep your word. This will encourage her to go out of her way to please you in various ways. Also, never let your mistress overcharge you when shopping. They often overcharge you in small ways; for example, if you see a new dress, the price might be only a third of what she tells you. If you're going to give her anything, give her cash directly. Many designer outlet stores in Shanghai are where mistresses launder money. They bring their "husbands" in, buy a bunch of expensive, unsellable items, and within a week, all those clothes and leather goods with the tags still on are sold at a 60% discount. The problem is, you pay ten yuan, but your mistress only gets six yuan, so her gratitude is only six yuan. Therefore, don't give your mistress money to buy expensive things; give her cash instead.
After introducing different methods and tips for keeping mistresses, this article will mainly focus on the different types of women who are kept as mistresses and their characteristics. Some friends who are relatively unfamiliar with this field may ask, just how big is the market for keeping mistresses in China? Let's put it this way: in all the more "upscale" bars and clothing stores, the main customers are mistresses. A drink can easily cost fifty yuan, and a piece of clothing can easily cost thousands of yuan. How many women who live on a monthly salary can afford that? Even professional women sent from overseas to China are not so foolish as to spend money in these places.
Who keeps mistresses? Are they necessarily wealthy? Wrong! In the 1990s, most men in Guangdong who kept mistresses were Hong Kong truck drivers, working-class men, many of whom couldn't even afford women in Hong Kong. Keeping a mistress has nothing to do with wealth, but is very much related to monthly disposable income. Single men with high monthly salaries are the perfect candidates. Many men who kept mistresses hadn't even found a wife yet. When Taiwanese businessmen first arrived in Shanghai and Beijing, they were also major clients of the mistress market; they weren't actually very wealthy, many were just average middle-class white-collar workers in Taiwan. By the late 1990s, the rise of China's upper-middle class, along with various returnees from overseas and government officials, became the main force behind keeping mistresses, and remain the main clients to this day. Now, keeping a mistress in major Chinese cities has become a status symbol, besides cars, and an important aspect of social comparison. If you frequently interact with officials and have reached the point of being able to marry them, it's considered shameful not to have a mistress to manage everything. Where do these mistresses come from? The lowest-level mistresses come from hair salons and massage parlors in rural towns. My advice is, unless you're looking for a cheap deal, it's best not to take them on. A major public health issue in China right now is AIDS. These hair salon girls usually come from impoverished rural areas with poor hygiene awareness, so their rates of carrying AIDS and various STIs are very high. By the time they find out, it's too late. Slightly higher-end options are city nightclubs. Of course, these women are still sex workers, but because of their higher prices, they're less likely to engage in casual sex than the lower-level options. Here's a good source I can introduce: hostesses in upscale restaurants, waitresses in star-rated hotels, and sales clerks in high-end fashion boutiques. The methods and pursuits are similar, but you need to let them know early on that it's a package deal. If they're unwilling, at least you won't waste your time. In fact, the most active in the mistress market are these vain, pretty girls who don't want to take the risk of casual sex. A higher level is models. Many modeling agencies are actually pimps. Most models have a price tag, but don't ask about it rashly. You need connections and to get to know the modeling agents before you can ask about their prices, because they are very conscious of their image. Speaking of models, we must talk about the various beauty pageants that are currently booming in China. Many of these pageant contestants are unaware of their current status as models, making them easy targets. It's actually quite easy to hire these pageant contestants, because some professional pageant girls don't have an income, but the pageant fees are expensive. So if you're willing to become their patron and have them participate in various pageants, most will agree to be hired. However, there's one thing to keep in mind: these contestants are quite ambitious, so the relationship must be kept absolutely secret. If they become famous, unless you're super-rich, they'll definitely dump you.
Another type that everyone is eager to pursue are female students from prestigious universities. Actually, their looks aren't necessarily outstanding, and while their speech is relatively refined, they don't possess any extraordinary talent. But people are after the psychological satisfaction of having slept with a top student from a prestigious university. Many naive Taiwanese businessmen have been deceived by these prestige-laden titles by mistresses with forged documents, often lured by more cultured backgrounds. These men, all graduates of top universities, should leave such vanity to the uneducated. If you're still interested, it's easy. They typically frequent Western-related cultural venues, such as French food festivals, Shakespeare readings, or Starbucks. If you're aiming for these prestigious university graduates, keep a few things in mind: they prefer white men and don't charge money. Returning overseas students also offer advantages. Besides money, their primary focus is on elevating their social status, such as getting acquainted with the US Consul General in Shanghai or the president of Coca-Cola China. Therefore, high-ranking foreign agents sent back to Taiwan can easily secure these university graduates as mistresses.
Another point I've repeatedly emphasized is that it's crucial to be clear from the beginning when keeping a mistress. A friend of mine, despite giving his mistress a substantial monthly allowance, gave her the illusion that things would progress once their relationship stabilized. So this mistress provided excellent service and was very obedient, but after two years, she kept pressuring him to get married. This friend was a somewhat influential person, experienced with many women, and this mistress had a criminal record. If he really married her, he might run into one of her former clients on the street one day. So when my friend officially decided to leave her, the mistress couldn't handle it. She destroyed all of my friend's documents and started spreading rumors about him by calling his business associates. Therefore, anyone interested in keeping a mistress should be careful to give her reasonable expectations at the beginning, and the relationship shouldn't be too close. Everyone knows that many corrupt officials who have been exposed have died at the hands of their mistresses. Human emotions are very delicate, and sometimes when caught up in them, it's hard to control the situation. So at the beginning of each period of keeping a mistress, you must draw a line for yourself to avoid making a mistake that leads to complete ruin.
I've talked about different types of mistresses before, and some netizens said that my standards weren't high enough and that I should go to places like "Heaven on Earth" (a notorious brothel). This simply shows that the netizen is inexperienced in the entertainment industry, often gets ripped off, and is still smug about it. What kind of women frequent places like Heaven on Earth, Jinmao Tower, or the old JJ (a euphemism for prostitution)? Those in the prostitution business know these places charge high prices. So what factors would stop an ugly, old woman from getting a makeover and paying a mere few dozen yuan at these bars to lure men? Actually, the truly high-class prostitutes and mistresses don't go to these places; they frequent private clubs like the Red Mansion. But to reach that level, besides money, connections are essential. These so-called high-class prostitutes, when they first started out, all know that under dim lighting, with amber wine in front of them, any amount of makeup can be intoxicating, but the next morning, you're guaranteed to be woken up by the "beauty" beside you. That two thousand yuan for the tryst is a complete waste. So, apart from some adulterous mistresses, the women in these places are absolutely unremarkable. The good ones are already kept under wraps; why would they be there offering themselves up? Don't think these high-class prostitutes are actually graduates of Beijing Foreign Studies University; fake diplomas aren't hard to get. Yes, Beijing Foreign Studies University does have them, but they're all booked up long ago.
Among the various ways people get ripped off, the most ridiculous is looking for virgins. Of the virgins advertised by pimps, 80% are temporary, using various methods to deceive people, and 19% have had hymen reconstruction surgery. In a major Shenzhen hospital's gynecology department, 85% of business comes from hymen reconstruction. Where are all those women needing surgery? Being ripped off like this, the money is a minor issue; the most pitiful thing is that these clients believe virgins are clean, so they don't use any protection, ending up with a host of diseases—that's truly foolish and tragic. Real experienced sleuths value gentleness, the charm of a stay-at-home wife, and a touch of pitifulness, a half-pear blossom, half-shyness. That kind of quality can only be found in wholesale mistress groups; the number of clients they handle is limited, and they can still offer some warmth. Here, I'll introduce you to several types of mistresses from special backgrounds.
Identifying a mistress with potential is like buying stocks. Stocks have blue-chip stocks and potential stocks. Blue-chip stocks are expensive, but their quality is guaranteed, much like choosing a mistress from among models or hostesses at upscale hotels. These are very special professions; don't assume models or hostesses have any future—they're in professions where sex is used to gain favor, and they know very well that these jobs are breeding grounds for mistresses. Many wealthy men's mistresses come from these places. Potential stocks are like the beauty pageant contestants I mentioned earlier. How do you find them? Department stores and cosmetic counters are busy holding various beauty pageants, which are free for the public to attend. You might as well go to a few; firstly, to see the beauties, and secondly, to notice that many girls have participated in several, so you'll recognize many faces. If you fancy a girl who didn't win, be attentive and affectionate, and with financial support, she's definitely yours. I have two friends who have managed to keep top-quality mistresses this way, and they're still relatively inexperienced and pure; one of them even won a city exhibition's Miss Pageant title. These truly promising stocks, after undergoing training in dress and demeanor at various beauty pageants, undergo a complete transformation, becoming blue-chip stocks.
Another growing source of mistresses is university students. I want to clarify that I absolutely oppose the practice of keeping underage girls as mistresses. It's not only immoral, because these girls don't yet have the capacity for complete autonomy, but it's also illegal, and getting caught could mean death. So please, never break the law. University girls are much more mature now than our generation. Many girls are kept as mistresses not for tuition fees, although they might give you such a ridiculous reason. They see being kept as an honor, because it proves their lifestyle is superior, that they've seen more of the world than their peers, and that it's beneficial for finding a job later. Besides the places I mentioned before, those with the means can also find these girls through the following methods. Some friends have met their mistresses while interviewing for summer jobs. Of course, these are relatively easy jobs, and often involve a "pretty face" aspect, such as public relations liaisons, secretaries, or receptionists. During the interview, you can learn a lot about a girl and decide whether she's suitable to be a mistress. You might not believe it, but some girls are incredibly ambitious, actively pursuing well-qualified interview hosts without much effort.
In my experience, graduates from prestigious universities aren't worth the price. These women, after a few days of schooling, think they're something special. Their service is poor, and they make frequent demands, far exceeding your budget, while receiving little in return. Tell me, which is more satisfying: hiring an unknown woman like Wei Hui, or hiring a much more attractive and articulate ordinary university student?
Another good source is hotel receptionists in the Suzhou and Hangzhou area. They are incredibly understanding and have low demands. You can also bring them to your city to live permanently. Since they're unfamiliar with the area, their chances of infidelity and misbehavior will be reduced. This method is generally effective for moving mistresses to unfamiliar cities. The relocation costs are higher, and the persuasion process takes longer, but it's worthwhile in the long run. When the contract expires, I suggest you go all the way and arrange for them to return to their hometowns. However, most of them have already adapted to new city life and don't want to go home. Everyone should understand that even keeping a mistress has its principles. Keeping a mistress is a contractual relationship, no different from any other business contract. While we should take various measures to protect our rights, we must also treat mistresses fairly, ensuring they receive compensation commensurate with their investment. Although I am not particularly talented, having frequented many entertainment venues, I still advise those with children against keeping mistresses. Remember, wives can be replaced, but children are your own flesh and blood. I have seen friends divorce because of keeping mistresses, bringing misfortune to their children—it's not worth it. Therefore, before marriage, broaden your horizons, experience different women, and avoid becoming like a bookworm, blindly choosing an unsatisfactory, unattractive, or difficult woman and binding yourself to her for life. In this life, you should afford to enjoy such things; you won't regret it when you get married, knowing what kind of forest you gave up. Even after marriage, as long as there are no children, keeping a mistress is not a big deal; if your wife is not around, you can justify it even more. Those with children should think twice. If you really want to have fun, don't go for the physical method of keeping a mistress; just buy them individually.
Before I knew it, I had written four parts, sharing with everyone the lifestyle of keeping a mistress. Many netizens criticized it, as if introducing this lifestyle was a grave offense. This is a matter of system, economy, and social morality. If all those beautiful young women were determined to uphold chastity, all our attempts to seduce them would be in vain. We are all adults, and if the price is right, let's get back to the point. After identifying a mistress target, what needs to be confirmed? The first thing to do is take her to a gynecologist for a checkup, and this must be done through your own doctor. A little over three months ago, there were several notorious AIDS killers in Guangdong, all of whom were prostitutes infected by their clients. Unwilling to accept their fate, they used their beauty and low prices to attract more customers, becoming human AIDS syringes. Therefore, hygiene is absolutely paramount in any situation. While having the checkup, you also need to confirm her age. Some girls develop early, and it's hard to tell from appearance alone. Moreover, Chinese ID cards and residence permits are often faked, so they can't be trusted. Therefore, going to the hospital is a form of self-protection, at least having someone else (at least a professional doctor) to verify that the girl claims to be a certain age. It's not meant to scare you, but a friend of mine was taken in by a young girl pretending to be 18. After two weeks
, she blackmailed him by threatening to rape her, forcing him to move immediately, otherwise he would have become her long-term ATM. After verifying her identity, you can set up a separate account for her, distinct from your own personal account. The reason is that while you'll automatically or automatically transfer money from your own account to hers each month, unforeseen emergencies might require her to handle some personal finances. However, you absolutely cannot let her control the main account; people's hearts are unpredictable, especially a mistress's. Therefore, you should set up a separate bank account for daily expenses, which she can manage.
What should your relationship with your mistress be? Since the abolition of concubines, the marriage system has established monogamy. Therefore, a mistress is neither family nor a ghost; she's just a wholesale sex service. Don't blame me for being so blunt, because many people, especially beginners, don't recognize this basic, naked relationship, and end up getting themselves into big trouble. 99% of mistresses won't fall in love with you, although mistresses in Shanghai are very good at making users believe they're genuinely in love. This is my true story. One of my former mistresses in Shanghai was very "coquettish," and being with her really felt like being in a romantic relationship. Once, I went on a business trip and didn't even tell her my flight number, but she somehow found out and came to Hongqiao Airport to see me off. It was such a surprise! As I was about to enter the gate, she looked at me so shyly, with red eyes and a reluctant expression, it was truly pitiful to see, and my heart fluttered. I thought, this woman is actually in love with me. I couldn't bear to see her waiting there, so I arranged for her to take a taxi home. Unexpectedly, my flight was delayed by several hours, so I decided to rebook a flight for the next day and go home by myself. Back then, mobile phones weren't common, so I couldn't tell her. When I got home, she wasn't there, and she didn't return until the next morning. I didn't get angry, and went to the airport myself the next day at noon, and didn't mention anything after that. So, since your mistress was bought with money, your trust in her can only go as far as money can buy.
However, relationships between people can't be so rigid. You can think of your relationship with your mistress like a subordinate relationship in a company—it has a warm side, but also a clear distinction between merit and demerit. Many men who start keeping mistresses don't understand this, and soon their experienced mistresses take over, turning it into a situation where they're paying money to suffer. It's simple: give your mistress a clear work goal—learn to cook, learn beauty techniques, learn bedroom skills. With expectations, she'll perform. If you don't push her, she'll become lazy and have more free time. When women have free time, they'll find fault with men, becoming a burden on the relationship, causing trouble, and eyeing your money. Besides passing the time, enriching your mistress's life will also make her grateful to you, because she'll feel that being your mistress has elevated her status, enriched her cultural life, and made her live like a wealthy lady, fully satisfying her vanity. Therefore, the tuition fees for these beauty and housework classes are absolutely worth paying; at least you know your mistress isn't cheating on you while you're at work. Moreover, the refined taste your mistress develops will ultimately benefit you. Actually, another selfish reason for sending your mistress to these popular interest classes is that you can also meet other mistresses through this channel. Birds of a feather flock together; some of my friends' mistresses were met through casual encounters with other mistresses. In this mistress market, there's no suspicion of a third party, although some persuasion is still necessary. The most important thing is that your mistress is satisfied with your hourly rate; then you've succeeded.
Sorry, I've been busy with work lately, and only now do I have a little more time to continue sharing my experiences of seeking pleasure in China. With China's economic development, the sex industry has grown even more rapidly. It's easy to understand that China's biggest competitive advantage is its low-cost labor, including in the sex industry. If you have the opportunity to travel back to China and want to experience the uniquely Chinese sex industry, you should take a taxi from Guangzhou to Shenzhen. Along the highways, for miles, are rows of crowded "hair salons" and "restaurants," with female waitresses sitting on stools outside actively soliciting business. It's estimated that there are over ten million sex workers in Guangdong alone. Therefore, I personally believe that establishing red-light districts in China is an effective administrative measure that can increase tax revenue, regulate hygiene, and attract tourism. Regardless of how much the authorities superficially address the issue, China's sex industry has already become internationally renowned, even threatening Thailand, which has always relied on its sex industry to attract tourists. If China's sex industry is regulated, I believe everyone will feel more at ease. First, let me answer a few questions. Many netizens are interested in knowing how to hire university students, and which university students are willing to be hired. This is a very personal matter. For example, if a girl from Beijing Foreign Studies University is willing to be a kept woman, it doesn't mean that all her classmates share the same values, because I don't want you to complain about my lifestyle when you're rejected. But I can tell you about a few universities that, according to unofficial data, have produced a lot of mistresses: Beijing Normal University, University of International Business and Economics, Beijing Foreign Studies University, Renmin University; Shanghai International Studies University, Shanghai University of Finance and Economics, Donghua University; Jinan University, South China Normal University, Shenzhen University. Let me reiterate, don't assume that all the girls in these universities are willing to be kept women; you'll bear the consequences. I'm just providing these university names based on the experiences and word-of-mouth of my friends.
Mistresses from these universities don't call themselves mistresses; they're usually called girlfriends. Keeping a mistress from a university is called "paid boyfriend," which is equivalent to compensated dating. These graduates generally earn two to three thousand yuan a month. Why are they willing to be kept women? Their thinking is that since they'll have boyfriends anyway, they might as well find a rich one; whether they'll get married is secondary. Moreover, while in school, they can earn about four to five thousand yuan a month, which adds up to fifty thousand yuan a year, and two hundred thousand yuan in four years. Luxury apartments in Shanghai cost only around a million yuan; after four years of university, the down payment is covered. Even more surprisingly, it's now common for female college graduates in big cities to immediately seek marriage, mainly to find a financially well-off man while they're young and enjoy life. So, when I've had my fill of fun and settled down, I definitely won't be looking for a wife in China. Those girls are fine for a bit of fun, but
I'd rather not share my assets. Okay. How do you identify a girl waiting to be kept? Anyone working in entertainment venues can be kept, but those with a sense of propriety usually won't consider her. Go to the restaurants, hotels, and other places I've mentioned before and observe your target. The first question to ask, of course, is whether she's married. There are definitely married women who are mistresses, but I haven't encountered any yet, so I won't presume. Then observe her behavior. If she's flirtatious and likes to laugh provocatively in public to attract attention, she's a good sign. See if her belongings match her income. If she's a waitress but wearing a diamond ring, she's a good sign. College girls who like to use fake designer brands are especially likely to be mistresses. Seeing a girl who cares about her appearance, constantly admiring herself in the mirror, or whose posture and attitude make her seem like every man in the world is staring at her, adds to her allure. If these conditions are met, and assuming her looks are pleasing to your eye, you can approach her. Introduce yourself, mentioning that you own a car, are wealthy, and have a certain status—basically, be yourself. If she shows delight upon hearing your objective qualities, you've already gained four points of favor. Next, ask if she has any boyfriends. If her tone softens, you're halfway there. The next step is to find out if she's willing to be your mistress, since she clearly meets your expectations as a boyfriend. You can further inquire about her standards of living, including her current lifestyle and her ideal life. Don't be afraid to boldly ask her if she thinks being supported by a man aligns with the traditional gender model of men being the breadwinners and women staying at home. At this point, it's quite clear: if she can specifically state her living requirements and strongly agrees with a man supporting her, she's pretty much ready to be kept—six points of favor. Then you can continue to describe what life would be like after being "taken care of," and see how she reacts. If she acts sophisticated and offers suggestions for improvement, you can be sure she's already been taken care of—seven-tenths done. At this point, it's just a matter of price. You might as well tell her how infatuated you are with her. Remember, all women love to hear nice things, and saying more never hurts. You hope she can be your friend and take things further. However, you already have a girlfriend/wife/lover, so this relationship can only develop discreetly for now, and you'll bear all the expenses as it develops. This foreshadowing of a wife is extremely important, regardless of whether you already have a wife or not, because this is a very clear "taken care of" suggestion. You don't intend for her to be your wife; a harmonious relationship must begin with appropriate expectations. If she agrees, then you're eight-tenths done. Then you can ask her to propose a reasonable amount for household expenses, and bargaining brings you to nine-tenths done. Why not ten-tenths done? Because before this verbal agreement is fulfilled, there might be other variables, such as someone else getting there first, or you changing your mind at the last minute. I'm a cautious person, so I don't make any promises I can't keep—there's no way back. Such a scouting process is actually quite short, usually only about a week. I missed one point: the act of having sex. That depends on the time, place, mood, and atmosphere, and it usually happens around six or seven minutes into the night. So, as a savvy customer, a trial run is essential; otherwise, it's a waste if it looks good but doesn't work.
My experience in seduction is actually quite limited. I only really started engaging in the lifestyle of keeping mistresses five years ago when I was sent to East China to negotiate investment. At that time, I was still a novice, very innocent. The first time I returned to China in an official capacity, representing the foreign side to negotiate investment terms with the Chinese side, after the day's agenda was completed, the Chinese side hosted a dinner that evening, and surprisingly, there were many beautiful women at the table. Before long, the lights were dim, and everyone was embracing a beautiful woman; the enchanting aftermath is self-evident, and in the end, the Chinese side paid the bill. If you have the opportunity to return to China as an investor and negotiate with the Chinese side, this kind of reception is now commonplace at meetings. Since being corrupted, I, in my humble opinion, have made many like-minded friends. Initially, life abroad was stifling, and mistresses were the perfect diversion. Later, as the standard of living in East China gradually improved, the supply of mistresses also increased, and their quality improved. I, however, was captivated by their beauty and couldn't break my bad habits, which I deeply regret.
Actually, I have great respect for women, except for those who are vain, but unfortunately, they make up the majority in today's China. There are two kinds of women: those to sleep with and those to marry. The latter can also satisfy the former's requirements, but when choosing a wife, one should seek a virtuous woman, primarily one with a good character and a certain level of intelligence; a little ugliness is actually a blessing. For the former, one should pay attention to appearance, temperament, conversation, and taste—after all, one has lived through life and should enjoy it to the fullest. Many friends who returned to China to develop their careers haven't settled down, often confusing these two types of women, ultimately losing both their money and their relationships. To distinguish the latter, one cannot rely on education, family background, or income; one must conduct various tests. For example, you could lie and say you've lost your job, your foreign residency, or your business failed, then observe her reaction for two or three months. I've tried this before, but unfortunately, mistresses are easy to find, genuine love is hard to come by, and I always manage to figure things out eventually. Once, I tried to develop a long-term relationship with a capable senior white-collar worker, and everything went well at first. One day, slightly drunk, she half-jokingly asked me about my net worth and salary. I was still somewhat sober at the time, so I narrowed down all the figures to a believable level. As soon as I finished speaking, the disappointment on her face was unmistakable, and I sobered up completely. Although I'm not a tycoon, I've worked hard and saved up some money, and I have no interest in being easily fooled by any gold-digging woman. A fair and transparent transaction suits a calculating and cautious person like me better.
Getting back to the main point, I'm going to share some more detailed tips on finding mistresses. If you frequently travel for work, flight attendants are the best candidates. To be honest, flight attendants are often called "flying chickens" (a derogatory term for women who travel for work). Furthermore, the flight attendant system in China differs from that abroad. Abroad, the most qualified, older, and often heavier flight attendants usually serve first class. In China, the most beautiful flight attendants serve first class. And, in my experience, first-class flight attendants often have ambitions to climb the social ladder. How to choose? If you observe closely and compare them to female passengers, you'll notice that some flight attendants are particularly attentive to male first-class passengers, proactively showing concern and being very lively, while being more perfunctory when serving female passengers. Many of my friends have made similar observations. When you see this type of flight attendant, take the initiative. strike up a conversation while she's in the restroom, mentioning that you frequently travel for work, and then request dinner together, preferably at a well-known hotel, so she, being a single woman, will feel more at ease. With this method, it's rare to fail. Flight attendants' fees aren't expensive, but their main goal is to find a rich
husband, so they're only willing to offer short- to medium-term arrangements. Be careful not to fall into a marriage trap if you're looking for long-term arrangements. The selection process for models can start with the contestants. Many beauty pageant managers charge for "dinner company," essentially a "viewing" event, but these are women who have been in the wholesale market for a long time. If you prefer quick fixes and are willing to pay, you can privately inquire with the organizers about hiring these candidates for a fee to appear at private dinners. Of course, in these situations, you can only feast your eyes and shouldn't be inappropriate, but once you get their phone numbers, no one can control what happens next. I prefer fresh faces, so I'd rather spend more time finding new sources of mistresses. My friends and I often spend our free time at beauty pageants, paying special attention to contestants who participate all day but always lose. After the pageant, we visit them backstage and try to build a relationship. The success rate of this method? In our limited research, it's 100%. These beauties have the lowest "package deal" fees; all that's needed is accommodation and various beauty pageant training costs, totaling no more than three thousand per pageant. Their goal is fame, so they can sell themselves at a high price or snag a rich husband. If you generously sponsor a few, one of them will surely become a sensation. What kind of man is most popular with mistresses? Those who don't know the insane would say the richest. Wrong. While women are greedy for money, they also value face. Being with a educated, knowledgeable man who can "help out" is far more appealing than a nouveau riche with a bad temper. Moreover, most mistresses have a denial mentality; they believe they're not being kept, but rather hooking a boyfriend who has the means and is willing to pay. Money is important, of course, but for some college student mistresses, having such a worldly boyfriend is far more respectable than being a mistress of a prostitute or a Hong Kong tycoon. My college student mistresses are happy to take me out and show me off, making their girlfriends jealous and envious. Of course, model mistresses simply focus on monetary rewards; the more the better. Talent is far less important to them than money. Almost forgot to mention, being a mistress is one of the few high-paying, tax-free professions in China.
Tips for keeping a mistress (7) In the previous sections, I gave a general overview of mistresses in China. Here, I would like to continue sharing my experience in choosing a mistress.
I usually take my mistress to trendy places to observe how she spends her money. For example, if she orders seafood at market prices that are not marked up and picks out two bottles of unknown brand red wine at a high-end seafood restaurant, I will keep my distance from her. The kind of mistress I like knows how to save me money in inconspicuous places while still making me look good. For example, she should order a few of the restaurant's famous dishes, avoid expensive and unremarkable seafood, and then flirt with the manager and bring out a few bottles of fine red wine that she has picked out in advance to entertain the guests. Or, at the beginning, I take her to some fashion stores to see how she rips me off. If she tries to rip me off, I will let someone else be the sucker. Of course, this doesn't guarantee she won't spend extravagantly later, but it gives you grounds to say, "Honey, you used to be so frugal, why are you spending so much lately? Are you keeping a gigolo?" The ideal age for a mistress is 20-25. I'm not being ageist; there's a reason for this. Women under 20 are too naive and arrogant; they haven't learned to control their temper, lack patience, and don't know how to serve others—you'd be the one serving them. Women over 25 are looking for long-term financial support and aren't interested in casual flings. Women over 28 fall into two categories: either they've given up on marriage and are determined to make a living off their bodies, indulging themselves excessively, or they're desperate and clinging to someone like a drowning man grasping at straws. If the latter, you might find it difficult to get rid of her, and even if you do, it will be a huge struggle. Women aged 20-25 believe they're still young and emotionally mature, understanding how to be considerate, but not yet very sophisticated, with limited cunning. Ideally, the mistress should be from the city. Why this consideration? This calculation is crucial for our brothers in the less safe south. Many young women from border regions are forced into prostitution in cities due to poverty. They often meet ruthless criminals from the same areas, who sometimes kidnap, extort, or threaten their mistresses for a few thousand to tens of thousands of yuan. I believe a woman's willingness is what makes a relationship interesting. Taking advantage of a young woman forced into prostitution to survive is even more heartless and uninteresting. Mistresses with urban residency are willing to be kept for better living conditions, and because they are urban residents, even if they associate with all sorts of people, they are less likely to commit serious crimes for small sums. This is not an exaggeration; cases of mistresses colluding with outsiders to kidnap their "husbands" have occurred in Guangdong and the north, and these mistresses were not from urban backgrounds.
Ideally, a mistress's job should have low mobility, making it easier to trace her if something goes wrong. Some mistresses, after receiving their payment, might abscond with everything. Of course, there are many ways to protect yourself, such as paying her monthly household expenses every two weeks, knowing her family's address, and befriending her. However, it's impossible to guard against a mistress who intends to abscond with the money. Therefore, I strongly advise everyone not to look for mistresses in brothels; the women there will be nowhere to find them if they run away. Beauty pageant contestants are eager to climb the social ladder and won't be concerned about small sums of money; flight attendants have very low job mobility; university students won't drop out of school rashly; and sales clerks in designer fashion stores are in high demand, so applicants are definitely traceable. These are all good candidates for mistresses who rarely go astray. Another method is to rent a house in the mistress's name. If she runs away, the landlord will help you find her, and you won't be burdened with any debts.
Never take a mistress who likes to gamble, no matter how well she can satisfy you in other ways. If you're not careful, she might take possession of your documents and make you unknowingly become a guarantor for her gambling debts. Some mistresses are addicted to drugs, perhaps due to life's hardships or societal pressures. It's best to avoid such mistresses; how can someone who's constantly incoherent take care of you? Whether she has a drug addiction should be detectable during a medical examination, although intermittent drug use is harder to detect. However, if you pay close attention during your interactions, you might notice significant mood swings—she's either extremely excited or extremely tired.
Another thing to be careful about is never revealing your net worth to your mistress or anyone else. Some Chinese people are just foolish, chasing after empty fame and vanity, only to suffer the consequences in the end. Think about it this way: if you boast to your mistress that you're a million dollars, but you only give her 5,000 RMB a month, she'll definitely be restless and even more eager for the 5,000 dollars in household expenses commensurate with your wealth. Even if you break up, she'll definitely try to squeeze some money out of you as a parting gesture. But if you tell her you only have 500,000 RMB, she'll feel comfortable receiving that 5,000 RMB a month and will even think you treat her well. She might even leave you to find someone who flaunts their wealth more, saving you the breakup fee. Those sent back to China by their companies can simply claim all property ownership as belonging to the company. The house belongs to the company, the car belongs to the company, the appliances belong to the company—only the body itself is their own. Those who go back to start their own businesses can claim ownership from their business partners: the house belongs to Mr. Chen, the car belongs to Mr. Li, and I'm just a high-level employee, a low-level boss. Aside from maintaining a presentable image when doing business, it's best to be as discreet as possible in your private life. The wealth gap in China is huge, so caution is necessary. Some netizens have asked me to provide locations for one-night stands. Having lived in China for so long, I haven't heard of any of my friends experiencing one-night stands. Women in China are very materialistic; why would they let you sleep with them without any benefits? Even if they did, their character would definitely be questionable. Good-looking women in China are highly sought after and sold at inflated prices; they would never sell below market value. Brothers who genuinely believe in one-night stands should be careful. Many unscrupulous individuals exploit men's lustful and stingy nature, colluding with prostitutes to stage one-night stands, hoping to extort a large sum of money. Many victims are left exhausted before even experiencing any pleasure. Therefore, don't be greedy for cheap deals; it's better to pay to ensure the quality of service.

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