Open your eyes to welcome the climax

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Traditionally, sex is considered a private and private affair. Many people like to turn off or dim the lights during intimacy and keep their eyes closed most of the time. However, Dr. David Schnacher of the Colorado Marriage and Family Health Center, in his book *Passionate Marriage*, suggests to couples experiencing unsatisfactory sex lives that if they want to rekindle the spark, they should try not to close their eyes, not to turn off the lights, and to have
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, there's a case of Theresa and Philip, a couple married for many years, who both complained about their lack of sexual satisfaction and even felt increasingly distant. Their foreplay kisses were often brief, and their sex was always rushed.

During their consultation, Dr. Schnacher discovered that Theresa kept her eyes closed throughout sex, while Philip would occasionally open them, but only to scan her body and never look at her face. Since accepting Dr. Schnach's advice to "make love with your eyes open," they quickly noticed a change in everything.

Theresa said, "During sex, we no longer feel perfunctory; we can be fully focused and communicate our feelings and care through eye contact. I've never found the smile and light in his eyes so captivating. During sex, I just want to fall into his deep brown eyes." More importantly, shortly after trying sex with their eyes open, Theresa quickly regained a long-lost orgasm, and their marital relationship transformed from distant to intimate.

Eye contact has a provocative effect

. Dr. Schnach's research found that most couples, like Theresa and her husband, make love with their eyes closed; only about 30% of couples have tried making love with their eyes open. This is because many people dislike the feeling of being naked, and being stared at for a long time can feel embarrassing or offensive.

Dr. Schnach specifically points out that opening your eyes doesn't simply mean looking at each other's bodies, but maintaining eye contact so that your partner can see into your eyes, as if they could see into your soul.

Maintaining eye contact allows partners to perceive each other and deepen their intimacy. If this eye contact is maintained from foreplay, the level of intimacy will be even deeper, significantly impacting the quality of subsequent sex. Furthermore, eye contact can be seen as a form of sexual arousal, greatly aiding in sexual arousal. Therefore, Dr. Schnach advises that achieving orgasm doesn't require any special techniques; simply gazing at each other is sufficient.

Keeping your eyes open during orgasm

is also important. Dr. Schnach further points out that among couples who rarely have sex with their eyes open, even fewer—less than half—maintain eye contact during orgasm. Many find this unimaginable, feeling shy and uncomfortable. Additionally, some women feel that only with their eyes closed can they create a romantic atmosphere, or that only then can they concentrate on experiencing the sensations of orgasm.

However, experts point out that closing your eyes actually isolates your partner from your own world, allowing you to simply experience your own orgasm. Opening your eyes to orgasm, on the other hand, allows couples to deeply experience the level of intimacy they can achieve together, discovering that they not only communicate physically but also resonate spiritually, truly becoming one.

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